Easybela:
All men are not the same dear,lend him as that will enable you know him more. One huge risk I took while dating was to give my bfs account number to my company and my salary was being paid there. I later had close to 800k in his account, dude went to open a separate account with my name and also got ATM card,the money was safe with him till I needed it,(don't try that though), just to let you know that some guys are angels. Lend him but keep close eye on him

XhosaNostra:
Then simply buy him the groceries he needs as a kind gesture. No payback. He's your BF after all.

Trayceey:
thanks. Is it your money?

Jaqenhghar:

Nice. Very sensible

SweetCunt97:
Hope you married the Angel?

DonBenny77:

Attention seeker, I pity your boyfriend.
Seeking public opinion from a faceless forum to apply in your relationship, do you know what other people are going through you'll get opinions depending on their current mood and state of mind.
You that's in the relationship have the ability to make the right decision

Easybela:
All men are not the same dear,lend him as that will enable you know him more. One huge risk I took while dating was to give my bfs account number to my company and my salary was being paid there. I later had close to 800k in his account, dude went to open a separate account with my name and also got ATM card,the money was safe with him till I needed it,(don't try that though), just to let you know that some guys are angels. Lend him but keep close eye on him

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever. In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again. When I met my man,he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because if this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband. Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me , what do you think? Should I borrow him?

Fidelismaria:


No don't borrow him

Let him die of hunger then clap for yourself for keeping to your vow




Eminado

Fidelismaria:


No don't borrow him

Let him die of hunger then clap for yourself for keeping to your vow

Kobicove:


The fact that he has borrowed before and repaid suggest that he will not default this time.

The fact remains however that an average Nigeria does not like repaying loans.

As a general rule when lending money that is not secured do not part with an amount you cannot afford to loose especially when lending to family and friends.

Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him nah that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borrowers

Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him nah that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borrowers

Easybela:
All men are not the same dear,lend him as that will enable you know him more. One huge risk I took while dating was to give my bfs account number to my company and my salary was being paid there. I later had close to 800k in his account, dude went to open a separate account with my name and also got ATM card,the money was safe with him till I needed it,(don't try that though), just to let you know that some guys are angels. Lend him but keep close eye on him

Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him nah that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borrowers

dukeprince50:
see the rubbish u are saying.
If u are in his shoes will u be happy if a guy did this to u?
U Av been by his side, surpass every other gf he had in the past, u av been supportive and wen things get bad for u and u ask him for cash, he refused and rather tell u he will buy u d foodstuff instead of giving u the money, won't u dump him.
Nonsense and millenniumlady

Liliantalks:
there is difference between boyfriend and girlfriend, get that

Liliantalks:
If he asked you for 20k borrow , give him 10k as dash . Don’t let him feel he can come up borrowing from you everytime , set boundaries to everything , cause na so e take Dey start !! Forget love n caring . Every useless asshole was ones nice n caring . If u do this he would think twice b4 saying anything about borrow again .

Modified :Learn to say No too . If u were not in his life would he die ,, guys like looking for independent women so they can start borrowing from them, then when u refuse it would look like u both r hving an iss. Set the boundaries early and fast

dukeprince50:
so a boyfriend should loan his gf money but a gf shouldn't?
True love doesn't know gender, assisting ur partner is a great arsenal that makes relationship works irrespective of gender

XhosaNostra:
Then simply buy him the groceries he needs as a kind gesture. No payback. He's your BF after all.

lefulefu:
she will still come and ask question if its ok to buy groceries for him

lefulefu:
she will still come and ask question if its ok to buy groceries for him

Jaqenhghar:

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You no well aswear

Liliantalks:
yes sir