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Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 10:21pm On Apr 21, 2020
lefulefu:
one thing i just like about SA girls is their azz.i heard they have the biggest azz in africa after kenya


Hahaha. Yes, many do. Monstrous.
Re: Confused Mind by Nobody: 10:22pm On Apr 21, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Hahaha. Yes, many do. Monstrous.
my spec cheesy cheesy
Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:24pm On Apr 21, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Then you have both an Aquarius & a Sagittarius stellium because your personal planets are involved. You must like your freedom very, very much since both signs are free-spirited smiley Noone can tie you down, missy

So I was spot on about your moon sign cheesy
shocked shocked
Just read the emboldened very well.
That's very true I ended a relationship because of that I hate being tied down and I was bored. grin

You are a genius kiss

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Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 10:27pm On Apr 21, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:

Is it possible to have both.
I just checked my charts carefully 4 planets are in Aquarius while 3 are in sagittarius.
Thanks for the insight.I get it now.

Yes you were I was suprised when you mentioned sagittarius it is my moon sign.

You have to be an astrologer the analysis are really spot on.

Thank you dear kiss


Yes, it's possible to have two stelliums. I'm guessing you also have a bundle chart because it seems your planets are closer to each other by house/sign.

Lol, I've been studying astrology for a while.

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Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 10:31pm On Apr 21, 2020
lefulefu:
my spec cheesy cheesy


Hehehe. Right.
Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 10:34pm On Apr 21, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:

shocked shocked
Just read the emboldened very well.
That's very true I ended a relationship because of that I hate being tied down and I was bored. grin

You are a genius kiss


Hahaha. I can sort of relate because my venus is in Sagittarius & I get bored easily in relationships. I try though because I don't wanna be a cat lady lol. At some point you're just gonna have to go against your own instincts in order to have a somewhat normal existence smiley

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Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:35pm On Apr 21, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Yes, it's possible to have two stelliums. I'm guessing you also have a bundle chart because it seems your planets are closer to each other by house/sign.

Lol, I've been studying astrology for a while.
What do you call this one
This is my chart

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Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:39pm On Apr 21, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Hahaha. I can sort of relate because my venus is in Sagittarius & I get bored easily in relationships. I try though because I don't wanna be a cat lady lol. At some point you're just gonna have to go against your own instincts in order to have a somewhat normal existence smiley
Right though.I will try
Not just in relationships in many other things I just get bored.It fails to tickle my fancy grin grin after sometime
He was a scorpio(bad combo) I tried but everything was not just in our favour. grin grin
The fault wasn't his it was completely mine cry

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Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 10:50pm On Apr 21, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:

What do you call this one
This is my chart


Looks like a bowl chart to me.

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Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 10:54pm On Apr 21, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:

Right though.I will try
Not just in relationships in many other things I just get bored.It fails to tickle my fancy grin grin after sometime
He was a scorpio(bad combo) I tried but everything was not just in our favour. grin grin
The fault wasn't his it was completely mine cry


I understand you completely lol. Hopefully, you'll center the energies over time & become more grounded so to speak.

Scorpios are the worst lol.

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Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:05pm On Apr 21, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Looks like a bowl chart to me.
Thanks for the info cool I will look into it
XhosaNostra:



I understand you completely lol. Hopefully, you'll center the energies over time & become more grounded so to speak.

Scorpios are the worst lol.
Now I understand why they say water and air signs don't flow.But I won't lie he was an amazing dude we are still friends.He was all in.The problem was me including the distance I just didn't feel the spark.I was just tired I had to let go.I will never date a scorpio again.
They can be pretty emotional(I hate it) and can drain someone down.I witnessed that one and I hate to be tied down.

Thanks dear for the insight.

Astrology is amazing

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Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 11:26pm On Apr 21, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:

Thanks for the info cool
Now I understand why they say water and air signs don't flow.But I won't lie he was an amazing dude we are still friends.He was all in.The problem was me including the distance I just didn't feel the spark.I was just tired I had to let go.I will never date a scorpio again.
They can be pretty emotional(I hate it) and can drain someone down.I witnessed that one and I hate to be tied down.

Thanks dear for the insight.

Astrology is amazing

@bolded, that's why I can't deal with them. Too moody & touchy. They take everything to heart, you can't even joke with them without touching one of their many raw nerves. Yet they're also one of the most insensitive people you'll ever meet. I dated one very briefly. We'd argue for hours because he took offence to almost everything I said & did, in return I'd get annoyed because having to explain your intentions all the time IS annoying. I find them a little too emotionally high maintenance & fussy, like they have full body burns...everything is hurting them lol. Who got time for that? undecided
Surprisingly, I can't do Air signs either. They're way too unreliable & kind of lack the emotional intensity I require to keep remain invested. Earth signs I find too boring & staid. Fire I get along with better but they bring out the worst in me because they're provocative & selfish. Slim pickings, I tell you grin

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Re: Confused Mind by Nobody: 11:58pm On Apr 21, 2020
Jaqenhghar:

Oga. She is the queen of astrology. Una go gist star signs today tire. You don enter one chance grin
Xhosanostra tongue
I don jump that one pass today. The thing dey always confuse me like wetin. As if human personalities can't evolve with time, and context. So, I'm always like what is this one saying?!, but I sha try to be nice by following up and playing cool.

Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 12:01am On Apr 22, 2020
XhosaNostra:


@bolded, that's why I can't deal with them. Too moody & touchy. They take everything to heart, you can't even joke with them without touching one of their many raw nerves. Yet they're also one of the most insensitive people you'll ever meet. I dated one very briefly. We'd argue for hours because he took offence to almost everything I said & did, in return I'd get annoyed because having to explain your intentions all the time IS annoying. I find them a little too emotionally high maintenance & fussy, like they have full body burns...everything is hurting them lol. Who got time for that? undecided
Surprisingly, I can't do Air signs either. They're way too unreliable & kind of lack the emotional intensity I require to keep remain invested. Earth signs I find too boring & staid. Fire I get along with better but they bring out the worst in me because they're provocative & selfish. Slim pickings, I tell you grin
I won't mind an air sign though.
I will prefer Fire or Air signs any of those two elements will do.
But funny enough for me I meet earth and water and mostly water that sign keeps coming my way.I have had cancer,scorpio,pisces and capricorn guys.Boring for me hence I find it hard to keep relationships with those two elements grin grin(I will try to avoid them) cry

I wonder when I will meet Fire and air signs though sad sad

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Re: Confused Mind by Nobody: 12:20am On Apr 22, 2020
I no dey understand the kind bread of men we dey get now are days.. very soon you will come up here to tell us how big and long her clitoris is..see you mr iQ judge abegi get OUT!
Re: Confused Mind by Jaqenhghar: 4:11am On Apr 22, 2020
Ricchcream:
I don jump that one pass today. The thing dey always confuse me like wetin. As if human personalities can't evolve with time, and context. So, I'm always like what is this one saying?!, but I sha try to be nice by following up and playing cool.
Hahahaha. Like I explain to her see me for example. Me, my wife, my mum, 2 brothers -in law, and my best friend are all under the same star sign. But we are so different in character. I think the only thing we share in common is we are nice and that one sef cuts across every star sign. But my pal will not agree she will say there is one other formula. The thing come be like calculus. grin
Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 6:35am On Apr 22, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:

I won't mind an air sign though.
I will prefer Fire or Air signs any of those two elements will do.
But funny enough for me I meet earth and water and mostly water that sign keeps coming my way.I have had cancer,scorpio,pisces and capricorn guys.Boring for me hence I find it hard to keep relationships with those two elements grin grin(I will try to avoid them) cry

I wonder when I will meet Fire and air signs though sad sad


Lol, so you really have never met them? Referring to fire & air. With air signs, the attraction/understanding will be there, instantaneously. Great conversations. The best, in fact. You will like them from the word go. But depending on what you like in your relationships, the pairing can be passionless or it may wane over time due to instability etc. Other than that, they're great conversationalists but not longterm material imo. Stay away from Libra though, they're terrible grin Fire is fantastic. They have the smarts & the wit to make conversations interesting. Us Aquarius we'd die without amazing & fairly constant communication, so imo, they do deliver in that area. I actually think fire compliments air better than the other elements. I've dated only one fire sign though & we were together for years lol. Wouldn't mind dating a Leo or Sagittarius next just to keep the good vibes going wink

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Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:45am On Apr 22, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Lol, so you really have never met them? Referring to fire & air. With air signs, the attraction/understanding will be there, instantaneously. Great conversations. The best, in fact. You will like them from the word go. But depending on what you like in your relationships, the pairing can be passionless or it may wane over time due to instability etc.
Yes,I have not met any that we both feel attracted to each other.And one thing about me is that I will feel attracted today and get tired tomorrow.I enjoy intelligent conversations so I won't mind if it is an air sign.
Other than that, they're great conversationalists but not longterm material imo. Stay away from Libra though, they're terrible grin Fire is fantastic. They have the smarts & the wit to make conversations interesting. Us Aquarius we'd die without amazing & fairly constant communication, so imo, they do deliver in that area. I actually think fire compliments air better than the other elements. I've dated only one fire sign though & we were together for years lol. Wouldn't mind dating a Leo or Sagittarius next just to keep the good vibes going wink
cheesy you remember the other thread where I told you about a guy I asked out grin and was kinda attracted to grin he was a sagittarian intelligent and interesting dude when he made it known that it was not gonna work since he wasn't attracted to me immediately I stopped day dreaming and got tired and moved on.That is the closest I have gone to a fire sign.Air sign none sad
Good morning dear

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Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 7:01am On Apr 22, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:
Yes,I have not met any that we both feel attracted to each other.And one thing about me is that I will feel attracted today and get tired tomorrow.I enjoy intelligent conversations so I won't mind if it is an air sign. cheesy you remember the other thread where I told you about a guy I asked out grin and was kinda attracted to grin he was a sagittarian intelligent and interesting dude when he made it known that it was not gonna work since he wasn't attracted to me immediately I stopped day dreaming and got tired and moved on.That is the closest I have gone to a fire sign.Air sign none sad
Good morning dear


@bolded, where's your venus sign? I find that a little concerning. Girl, you don't wanna come home to a 100 cats, you better work on that grin I think you'll probably do better with air & fire signs because they'll give you the space to just be. The reason why my relationship with the Aries lasted for so long is, he had a life! He'd do his own thing, which gave me enough breathing room to focus on myself. However, there is such a thing as, "Too much freedom". You don't wanna know how that one ended cheesy But anyway, I'm not bitter because here I am still an advocate for the pairing because it truly had many highlights.

That's my girl! That's what I like about our sign, we move the eff on as if nothing happened kiss

Morning to you too, sweetheart. I hope you had a fantastic night rest.

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Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:15am On Apr 22, 2020
XhosaNostra:



@bolded, where's your venus sign?
Aries
I find that a little concerning. Girl, you don't wanna come home to a 100 cats, you better work on that grin
I am trying hopefully in the next relationship I enter it won't be a problem grin
I think you'll probably do better with air & fire signs because they'll give you the space to just be
Maybe but they just have to come my way first.I will try the elements since water and earth are a no no for me this time around.
The reason why my relationship with the Aries lasted for so long is, he had a life! He'd do his own thing, which gave me enough breathing room to focus on myself
cheesy lol
However, there is such a thing as, "Too much freedom". You don't wanna know how that one ended cheesy But anyway, I'm not bitter because here I am still an advocate for the pairing because it truly had many highlights
Hahaha how did it go @bold,I read that their sex life is maaad grin and amazing cheesy

That's my girl! That's what I like about our sign, we move the eff on as if nothing happened kiss

Morning to you too, sweetheart. I hope you had a fantastic night rest.
Exactly I move on very easily cheesy.My night was good thank you

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Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:23am On Apr 22, 2020
XhosaNostra:



@bolded, where's your venus sign? I find that a little concerning. Girl, you don't wanna come home to a 100 cats, you better work on that grin I think you'll probably do better with air & fire signs because they'll give you the space to just be. The reason why my relationship with the Aries lasted for so long is, he had a life! He'd do his own thing, which gave me enough breathing room to focus on myself. However, there is such a thing as, "Too much freedom". You don't wanna know how that one ended cheesy But anyway, I'm not bitter because here I am still an advocate for the pairing because it truly had many highlights.

That's my girl! That's what I like about our sign, we move the eff on as if nothing happened kiss

Morning to you too, sweetheart. I hope you had a fantastic night rest.
Dear,I can't access my mails with this monicker anymore so can I email you with another monicker?I want to send an email.

I have just sent you an email with my 'kim' monicker.I can access the mails from that monicker
Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 7:28am On Apr 22, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:
Aries I am trying hopefully in the next relationship I enter it won't be a problem ;DMaybe but they just have to come my way first.I will try the elements since water and earth are a no no for me this time around. cheesy lol Hahaha how did it go @bold,I read that their sex life is maaad grin and amazing cheesy


Exactly I move on very easily cheesy.My night was good thank you


Oh ok, I see. I hope you meet that awesome boy soon wink

No, the sex wasn't amazing lol. Aries men are known for being one minute men in the astrology world & there's a grain of truth in that grin I can do without earth-shattering sex if it means emotionally I'm not disturbed. A peaceful home means everything to me, so yeah, we were good for a while.
Re: Confused Mind by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:34am On Apr 22, 2020
XhosaNostra:



Oh ok, I see. I hope you meet that awesome boy soon wink

No, the sex wasn't amazing lol. Aries men are known for being one minute men in the astrology world & there's a grain of truth in that grin
shocked chisos shocked
I can do without earth-shattering sex if it means emotionally I'm not disturbed. A peaceful home means everything to me, so yeah, we were good for a while.
Ok nice smiley

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Re: Confused Mind by Nat404: 7:37am On Apr 22, 2020
donuchris007:
There is this girl anytime she is around,I get things done easily,I mean she come with special Grace I mean if I am dead broke, the moment she come around I just have one silly favor,she has a nice shape and very tall,average IQ, but very stubborn not willing to learn or adapt, argue on everything,can cook very well and her bedroom skills is above average.She wants a future with me

I recently met a girl so homely, have future prospect, well read,very respectful, Very high IQ, excellent in bed, but not so beautiful. Agreed both are good for marriage and they love me.I am so confused,I don't who to settle with. Help a brother.
OP, you already took both of them to bed? shocked

Pick the second. Tall women are somewhat stubborn. My girlfriend is stubborn also.
Re: Confused Mind by XhosaNostra(f): 7:38am On Apr 22, 2020
Ladyhippolyta88:

Dear,I can't access my mails with this monicker anymore so can I email you with another monicker?I want to send an email.

I have just sent you an email with my 'kim' monicker.I can access the mails from that monicker


Ok. Let me go & check again.
Re: Confused Mind by Nobody: 5:23pm On Apr 22, 2020
Jaqenhghar:

Hahahaha. Like I explain to her see me for example. Me, my wife, my mum, 2 brothers -in law, and my best friend are all under the same star sign. But we are so different in character. I think the only thing we share in common is we are nice and that one sef cuts across every star sign. But my pal will not agree she will say there is one other formula. The thing come be like calculus. grin
cheesy That one, she will never budge. How are you holding up man, this jailer that took the world by surprise...
Re: Confused Mind by Jaqenhghar: 5:38pm On Apr 22, 2020
Ricchcream:
cheesy That one, she will never budge. How are you holding up man, this jailer that took the world by surprise...
Hehehe. Yeah she never does. O boy. This jailer .... what can I say. I pray we see the end of this real quick cos I'm losing my fúcking mind here. How are you holding Up?
Re: Confused Mind by Nobody: 5:55pm On Apr 22, 2020
Jaqenhghar:

Hehehe. Yeah she never does. O boy. This jailer .... what can I say. I pray we see the end of this real quick cos I'm losing my fúcking mind here. How are you holding Up?
I'm alright. I still go out when need be (for work), and I like the less traffic. You don't stay in Nigeria, do you? People still step out.

Re: Confused Mind by Jaqenhghar: 6:00pm On Apr 22, 2020
Ricchcream:
I'm alright. I still go out when need be (for work), and I like the less traffic. You don't stay in Nigeria, do you? People still step out.
Naaah I don't. Peolle still step out ... for groceries and little else. Public places are closed so there is nowhere to go... except the parks maybe. Everywhere you go sha everyone is keeping his distance. Almost like you have a bomb on you grin
Re: Confused Mind by Nobody: 6:07pm On Apr 22, 2020
Jaqenhghar:

Naaah I don't. Peolle still step out ... for groceries and little else. Public places are closed so there is nowhere to go... except the parks maybe. Everywhere you go sha everyone is keeping his distance. Almost like you have a bomb on you grin
Did you see the attached image? I clipped it out of a video showing touts located in Mushin (Lagos) , trooping out in response to a threat from 'One million boys' (a robbery gang), recently. COVID-19 is like the wind blowing to reveal the hen's anus in Nigeria. Too many wrongs to right.
Re: Confused Mind by Jaqenhghar: 6:36pm On Apr 22, 2020
Ricchcream:
Did you see the attached image? I clipped it out of a video showing touts located in Mushin (Lagos) , trooping out in response to a threat from 'One million boys' (a robbery gang), recently. COVID-19 is like the wind blowing to reveal the hen's anus in Nigeria. Too many wrongs to right.
I saw that shít man. Do you live close to that area? You are right. Too many wrongs and it starts with the small things. Even before the COVID I knew we were on a long thing. We dont have a functional health system, no infrastructure to support the health system. The health personnel sef...... My guy the solution will not be achieved in this lifetime
Re: Confused Mind by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 22, 2020
Jaqenhghar:

I saw that shít man. Do you live close to that area? You are right. Too many wrongs and it starts with the small things. Even before the COVID I knew we were on a long thing. We dont have a functional health system, no infrastructure to support the health system. The health personnel sef...... My guy the solution will not be achieved in this lifetime
Not at all. I saw it online.

@bolded, I agree, if things continue to be dealt with in a business as usual way. However, if we get a tough, no-nonsense President, like Putin or that one from Taiwan, a succession of those kinds perhaps, things will improve magically, in a 20 years space.

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