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Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 8:03am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Mindsets Once you start building up a set of traits and changing your life to one of a ladies man you will also have the same success they have. The mindset is the core of all. The reason is that the way that you believe yourself to be is reflected in a non-verbal way threw your body without you even noticing. So ifyou think you are shy or unattractive that's how you will show off. Wonder How? You would bury your hands inside your pocket, do stiff body movements due to all the tension you have accumulated, look down all the time, avoid direct eye contact with others, when you speak it's in a low tone of voice nearly unhearable etc... You will act boring, dress boring, use boring and predictable lines with women, talk about boring things, and as a result women are turned off. Most guys also are nervous and fearful around women. They’re scared of approaching, talking to, connecting to, and dealing with women. Scared of rejection, being laughed at, or just fearful in general. And guess what? Women can spot a nervous guy a mile away. He telegraphs fear in everything he does, and then women are forced to reject him. He talks too fast, uses nervous movements when he talks, and he looks scared. Whatever happens on the outside is a reflection of what happens in the inside. If you see yourself as confident you will act confident, you won't to be scared of approaching, talking to or connecting with women. When you are shy or have low self esteem. Others will easily get this message subconsciously, and very probably many will take advantage from you and treat you like sh*t. So by improving the way you view yourself you will automatically better your life because others will see you differently. You will also start doing things which previously you wouldn't and little by little attract more girls into your life. You will go out and start having more fun, you stop noticing less tension in your body, you have stronger opinions, you feel like meeting more people and so on... Eventually you will believe that you are the prize and not the other way around. In the end it will be much more than meeting women. It will be about changing your whole life. 21 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Surfondsystems: 8:03am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Bro these your keys won’t work if you don’t have some certain basic things in place like a good job or means of livelihood, your Accomodation, sometimes with some ladies a good car. Your dress sense must be up to date e.t.c. A lot of ladies look at these things especially the beautiful ones who have lots of suitors approaching them. When you have these things in place then you automatically make the top of their list of potential suitors but if you’re lacking in one or any of these, your chances might be slimmer. Talking about the beautiful ones who have guys coming at them in droves. 15 Likes |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 8:05am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Surfondsystems: We are getting there. That is what i refer to as LMS 5 Likes |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 8:09am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Having a flexible mindset Are you ready to set aside all the beliefs you currently have about dating and relationships, and are willing to try something new to get you the results you desire? Because if you aren’t, then I’m afraid you’re wasting your time reading this write up. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, its that people who are stuck in their ways are people who never advance. They never break new ground. They just keep getting the same results they’ve always gotten. It’s the people who are willing to take risks, try something new, and do things everyone called them “crazy” for, who get the phenomenal results. So before you read any further, I want you to ask yourself these questions: 1. Are you currently getting the results with women you want? 2. Do you recognize that what you’ve been doing up to this point has not been getting you those results? 3. Are you willing to try something new, even if it might feel uncomfortable or unnatural at first? 4. Are you unwilling to give up until you get what it is you desire? These are the four most important questions you’ll ever be asked. And if you can answer them honestly, then you’ll be ready to proceed. 11 Likes |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 8:29am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Quick dose: To successfully get the woman you want you have to first understand yourself, know your strengths and improve on your weakness. When you are able to achieve this you will find it easier to get them. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Glamzwizard(m): 11:05am On Apr 23, 2020 |
Dpsychologist:i am ready 3 Likes |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 2:32pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
First impression The fastest way to get a girl attention is by giving a good first impression. Most guys think that relationship starts from the day you ask her out or have sex with her but i tell you this, relationship actually starts the first day you meet. She will categorize you into a potential mate, just a friend or a nuisance. If she don't like you the first time you meet you will have a very difficult time changing that impression. She will be giving you confusing signals and may end up frustrating you. Attraction starts from the first time she sets eyes on you. Quick story : Attraction at first sight I have a friend back then during my undergraduate days. When we were in 100L, his dressing was exceptional, he is always neat and was confident. A very pretty girl from another department saw him the first time and prompted her bestie who was also our coursemate to introduce him to her. She said she just love the way he dress and how he behaves just meeting him the first time before we know they were already dating. This guy was just getting laid with the girl whenever he likes. One day we came to see his roommate unfortunately he was not at home but told us to wait for him there. On opening the door i saw the guy banging this babe left and right i just rushed outside and closed the door. After they finished dressing them we came inside. The girl did anything to please him. They even did campus marriage lol. Quick Dose Remember people will always judge a book by its cover, use that to your advantage by creating a good first impression. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 2:35pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Question : How to you give a lasting good first impression? Answer: Through your LMS 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Millennialaku(m): 2:42pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: your ideas are similar to that of David de angelo 2 Likes |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by duality(m): 3:45pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Problem is, after going through all these stress, You discover the lady adds no value to your Life. Nothing whatsoever. Only debit alerts, for the Randy ones, it's sex. It's just that you now claim to have a woman in your life, just to align with stupid social construct. Anyway, we are reading, keep posting. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Lekan239(m): 4:21pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
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Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 5:23pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
duality: There is a truth in what you said. You can discover she doesn't add value to your life. But we can’t do away with them. We live in the world with them. They are our sisters, our cousins, our niece, our wives and our mothers 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 10:28am On Apr 25, 2020 |
No matter how you look you will always have women feeling attracted to you, for the simple pure fact that you are a man. But the problem is that you may not like the kind of girls attracted to you. As an average guy you might see a fat girl attracted to you but thats not the kind of girl you like. But in life you don't get what you want but what you deserve. If you want a hot girl then you have to upgrade your lifestyle. This is what we will discuss in LMS 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 10:30am On Apr 25, 2020 |
SELF IMPROVEMENT Looks money and status(LMS) There is a conundrum in dating advice where men suggest that your looks money or status does not matter only your personality. I won't lie to you, it matters and not only does it matter but it makes things easier. Looks — especially your grooming and how you dress— are an important factor on the mating market, and so is your access to financial resources or popularity. If you have no idea how to dress but think you can still get “more girls than you can handle”, you will get disappointed. Which would you rather drive a Ferrari or a volkswagen? Most of you would pick the Ferrari. Why? Because the Ferrari looks amazing and the volkswagen not that great. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 10:39am On Apr 25, 2020 |
Looks Listen, not everyone is naturally good-looking. A lot of that is genetics. But everybody can work on this aspect of their life and increase their chances of looking good . Most guys are not that handsome and Unlike ladies that wear makeup to cover up their imperfection, most of we guys cannot change our face. However, we can improve our dressing, grooming, hairstyle etc. This is how you improve your looks. If you improve your looks you improve your chances of getting ladies. I shouldn’t have to say this, but I will continue to reiterate it for the purposes of this writeup. You are addressed the way you dress Your looks absolutely matter… and they matter a lot. People want to talk about how “you shouldn’t judge a book by its cover.” But that’s exactly how the world works. If you are around people, you are being judged every day. No one cares about you or your story. They want the Cliff notes. They get that by seeing how you look, getting a sense of your vibe, and seeing how you interact with others. 9 Likes |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 10:40am On Apr 25, 2020 |
How does this relate to women? Well, if you’re honest with yourself you will realize that women prefer to have sex with/date dudes who they find physically attractive. Just like guys prefer having sex with physically attractive women. Women prefer having sex with physically attractive men. I really can’t make it much simpler than that. What you need to also realize is that people, especially women, can look at you and have a pretty good idea of who you are. They know. They know what your deal is. They see a guy dressed like an old man. He’s quiet, walks with uncertainty, and doesn’t make strong eye contact. They assume that he is timid, socially awkward, weird, and probably not on their level. There’s nothing sexual about the guy other than the fact that he probably watches a lot of porn. In many cases, they would be right. Then they may see a Physically fitted guy dressed like a man. He walks with confidence, has a firm voice, displays strong eye contact and people seem to gravitate toward him. Women think he is handsome, sure of himself, and probably has no problem getting a girlfriend. Most of the time, they would be right. Quick Dose You need to wear cool clothes, stop dressing like an uncle, when you are just 23years old. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 2:46pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
How to look good 1. Your body 2. Your hairstyle 3. Your dressing ..... 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by cfree14(m): 2:58pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Keep "em" coming. We can't say we are not learning 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 4:47pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
2020 views coinciding with the year 2020 Lol 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 4:57pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Your body Exercise is very essential for your body 1. It attract ladies 2. It keeps you fit 3. Keeps you healthy 4. It increases your stamina and helps you last long in bed There are various exercise to keep you in shape but take note that your Target is to have a body of a model like chris brown not a bodybuilder like the rock. 13 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 5:03pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
The above pictures are examples of strenthening exercises. You also need cardiovascular exercise like running, jogging etc it increases your endurance. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Wokamest: 5:08pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: True exercise is very essential 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 6:48pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Grooming Hygiene means a lot to women. Any man with a poor hygiene is a no to them. Your nails must be well manicured and cut short. Keep your hair clean and apply hairgel regularly. Always Apply deodorants and perfume after taking bath to smell nice and good. Body odour is a turn off. Brush your teeth again when you take things like fish, it gives a fishy odour. Your Toothpaste (mouthwash) and brush do not always keep your mouth fresh. Take mint from time to time to keep it fresh. Mouth odour is a turn off You must go for teeth/mouthwash if you have bad breadth or mouth odour. Also; Eat healthy food and get enough sleep 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 7:02pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Your hairstyle Get a good hairstyle/haircut that fits the shape of your head. Having low cut as a haircut is not that cool anymore. What is popular now is round punk, two step, mohawk etc 5 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 7:19pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
For those with beards. Keep it trimmed and clean ladies love it, you look mature even if you are very young. If your beards don't come out well, or are coming out very small make sure you remove them its better for you to be without beards. 8 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Brunicekid(m): 7:30pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Empawa:That's what he is doing. |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by cfree14(m): 7:43pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
OP pls continue. Ur biggest fan is following 1 Like |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 7:54pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Quick dose When you dress well you look better, more confident, you look rich and like someone with social status. Remember you are addressed the way you dress. Do everything you can to look better. Your dressing 1. Clothes 2. Shoes and 3. Accessories. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 8:00pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
Clothes Young and pretty women don't like plain trousers and plain shirt or plain long sleeves on men — it make men look swagless. Such a dress code is for pastors and people who are already made. If you're a young man, dress with swag not like an uncle, if not you will be unclezoned lol. Dressing responsibly is good when you're more mature and made in life, but as a youth, there should be alot of swag in your outfit. Criteria Your clothes should b fitted Your clothes should match 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist: 8:59pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
cfree14:Glad to hear/see |
Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by TITOBIGZ(m): 9:02pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
@Dpsychologist
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Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Oluphemy04(m): 9:08pm On Apr 25, 2020 |
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