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Nne have heard of iguedo goko cleanser?

Atleast he was able to get you pregnant, that's a good start. He's probably stressed.

I'm sure there are herbs that will do the job though. .

Those against pre-marital sex during courtship are in better position and needed here to advice her.

Have an honest talk with him

I think he's still trying to get used to having sex with a pregnant woman.
Like me that is not yet married, sometimes I find it disgusting when trying to imagine how sex with a pregnant woman would be. Maybe it comes with some physical and emotional stress.
Since he's able to get you pregnant less than 1 year after marriage, I'm counting out medical problems. Maybe he's taking those drugs to try to force himself against his emotions.
If you can, I suggest you leave him for now until your baby is born and see if there will be changes.

Go buy abere gbigbe from traditional medicine. I don't know were you stay .if u reside in southwest, yoruba sellers knows d medicine. Tell them you want the powdered form. One of the causes is masturbating

Olalan:
Have an honest talk with him

You got nothing to say. What is honest talk in this situation now?

Smiles, give am Adonko bitters before knack and pre-intimacy is so key, make sure your pussy is fresh suck and stroke his diick and make sure as he's sucking your pussy you squeezing his diick that man go Bleep you like an Hungry lion.

You need to know his fetish, like me I don't even need head just massage the diick while I chew the clitoris after my ADONKO its over. The key is knowing his turn on

Nwodosis:
Those against pre-marital sex during courtship will have a better advice to give here.

So because of one case of mishaps which could have been easily avoidable if the hubby just made himself honest to his partner, we should now embrace premarital sex and fornication abi?

#SayNoToFornication

And OP, you should know that some men have a thing against banging pregnant ladies.
Especially if its the first pregnancy

aaking:
Go buy abere gbigbe from traditional medicine. I don't know were you stay .if is southwest, yoruba sellers knows d medicine. Tell them you want the powdered form. One of the causes is masturbating

She said he's a medical doctor.
So convincing him to take this medicine you are recommending will rank among the most difficult jobs in the world

do not give him any aphrodisiac.
your husband got you pregnant means that he does not have any erectile dysfunction.
rather he is not or he is holding back since you are pregnant. if so,it is his mind set as it surrounds having intercourse with a pregnant wife.
just relax

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Madam,if u no sey u go cheat on am.if no solution is found.walk out now..cos una wey be women,no dey use fvck play..i know wetin i dey talk...e come be dis period wey couples use sex dey baff.

You must be aware that not all men are sexually attracted to pregnant women. Your pregnancy might be a mental block for him. So don't over react. He is fine.

YxCEc2kUDRp2RWy:

So because of one case of mishaps which could have been easily avoidable if the hubby just made himself honest to his partner, we should now embrace premarital sex and fornication abi?

#SayNoToFornication

Advice her please

Daisy101:
I'm not pleased with what has been happening at home and I have been in a dilemma. My husband has lost sex drive and it's affecting me and our relationship. We're a young couple(1 year) and I'm pregnant. I've tried to seduce him. No change. It's been getting me sad and irritable lately.

Yesterday, I tried discussing the issue with him. I asked what I have done wrong and he said nothing. I noticed that he's been taking a drug called vigomax forte. He keeps d card in the car. I searched and found that it's for erectile dysfunction which got me shaking.

I'm afraid that he has this problem and has been hiding it from me. How do I confront him about the drug and his attitude? To even imagine that he's a doctor and acting up this way is disheartening.

Help give her advice esp medical professionals.

It's psychological, he will get over it with some food supplements. Ask if he masturbates,that could be a factor too.

sometimes knowledge interferes with emotion, communication is key, sex is good but put in mood learn his love language.

SweetCunt97:
Atleast he was able to get you pregnant, that's a good start. He's probably stressed.

I'm sure there are herbs that will do the job though. .

Lobatan! What else does she want

It feels kind of weird seeing women complaining of not getting sex. They don't seem like they need it, or even have sexual needs, unless pressured and pressed into it.

The husband is expected to be the worried one here.

I would have follow what many people up there wrote. but seeing that he has been using that drugs which I believe has started failing him. it mean the problem has probably been there before you even knew him. try and ask him more to tell you what the problem really is.

Patience Madam. Patience. He's the doctor and should know the right way to treat his problem.

aaking:
Go buy abere gbigbe from traditional medicine. I don't know were you stay .if u reside in southwest, yoruba sellers knows d medicine. Tell them you want the powdered form. One of the causes is masturbating

Stop attaching masturbation to his misdemeanour......masturbation doesn't cause erectile dysfunction.....dude, might be an artificial sugar consumption expert and that alone could knock his dick out....so what are you saying?....too much of everything we eat or do always have negative impact be it masturbation or excess sugar intake..

Shormiey:

Stop attaching masturbation to his misdemeanour......masturbation doesn't cause erectile dysfunction.....dude, might be an artificial sugar consumption expert and that alone could knock his dick out....so what are you saying?....too much of everything we eat or do always have negative impact be it masturbation or excess sugar intake..

Guy you de console yourself . If you are doing it continue don't stop but don't come and be writing history for us ooo

Daisy101:
I'm not pleased with what has been happening at home and I have been in a dilemma. My husband has lost sex drive and it's affecting me and our relationship. We're a young couple(1 year) and I'm pregnant. I've tried to seduce him. No change. It's been getting me sad and irritable lately.

Yesterday, I tried discussing the issue with him. I asked what I have done wrong and he said nothing. I noticed that he's been taking a drug called vigomax forte. He keeps d card in the car. I searched and found that it's for erectile dysfunction which got me shaking.

I'm afraid that he has this problem and has been hiding it from me. How do I confront him about the drug and his attitude? To even imagine that he's a doctor and acting up this way is disheartening.

Help give her advice esp medical professionals.

he might not like banging a pregnant woman

Nwodosis:
Those against pre-marital sex during courtship are in better position and needed here to advice her.

Exactly my brother. Let's hear what they have to say

baralatie:
do not give him any aphrodisiac.
your husband got you pregnant means that he does not have any erectile dysfunction.
rather he is not or he is holding back since you are pregnant. if so,it is his mind set as it surrounds having intercourse with a pregnant wife.
just relax

Oga it seems u don't understand the difference between "erectile dysfunction" and "low sperm count". Erectile dysfunction is the inability to achieve a hard erection for sexual intercourse, it has noting to do with fertility.

The best thing to do is talk to him about it. Sit down and talk like two mature people, I don’t think he has erectile dysfunction cos if he does you won’t be pregnant. Prolly cook a nice dish, serve him well and just make him happy, after the food he will ask you what’s up and what the treat is for then you tell him you want both of you to discuss . That moment, ask him if he still feels attracted to you cos some men have the issue of having sex with their wives when they are pregnant while some don’t , some can have sex with their wives during pregnancy but detest having sex with their wives after she put to birth. It is something that can be discussed and sorted out without coming on Nairaland to degrade your husband. How do you think he will feel if he sees this post?

Stewart883:


Oga it seems u don't understand the difference between "erectile dysfunction" and "low sperm count". Erectile dysfunction is the inability to achieve a hard erection for sexual intercourse, it has noting to do with fertility.

are you insinuating that she got pregnant from another man other than her husband?

baralatie:

are you insinuating that she got pregnant from another man other than her husband?

What I am saying is that he isn't impotent but has erection problems which occur in older men from time to time.