Married women in the house,how did you cope or how are you coping with your cheating husbands and still leaving with him,what is making you stay? or is cheating not enough reason to leave? when and if I get married,i don't think I will be able to stay with a cheating man(whats nature).I can't imagine my husband still coming close to me with the same body he's laying with other ladies,i will feel so dirty.I will marry a man of God so that I can have peace.

This cheating has become a problem in the society. My worry is that people now see it as a 'normal' thing, especially when the man is the one cheating.

I wont advise any woman whose husband is cheating to leave the marriage. Let her stay and fight for her marriage on her knees. Testimonies abound of women who fought prayerfully and won.

Mind your business

obi4eze:
This cheating has become a problem in the society

big problem mostly associated with the men.Women are really trying

Email me, I'll show you how they cope

Trueigbo:
Mind your business

i will not, why are you cheating

Rozz:
big problem mostly associated with the men.Women are really trying

Yea. You're right but both parties are involved. Even some so called men of God are cheating on their wives. Some have been caught while some haven't so cheating is a matter if personal spiritual discipline and decision. Sometimes I do wonder if the men know how much danger they put themselves and their families through when they cheat.

So men of God cannot cheat. You're funny. Many pastors cheat in case you don't know. Maybe you don't have prominent features enough to have been asked for sex by some of them before. You're talking about Godliness and you're talking about divorce at d same time. You're confused. Once you're in no matter how irritated you have to stay unless you're ready to renounce your faith. You're just religious then, you have not counted the cost of your faith.

The best u can do is..

-Pray that God gives you your own. If He does, you won't go thru it.

-you shd ask God to break you enough to be able to have the humility need for such even if it doesn't happen.

obi4eze:


Yea. You're right but both parties are involved. Even some so called men of God are cheating on their wives. Some have been caught while some haven't so cheating is a matter if personal spiritual discipline and decision. Sometimes I do wonder if the men know how much danger they put themselves and their families through when they cheat.

These men are the ones bringing troubles to the home and still want their wives to accept and be cool with their dirty lifestyle,most divorce cases are the fault of the men.Men of God are still better,no true man of God will indulge in such act.A man of God doesn't necessarily mean to be a pastor,the fear of God should be truly from our hearts and anyone blessed with such is a man of God

Rozz:
Married women in the house,how did you cope or how are you coping with your cheating husbands and still leaving with him,what is making you stay? or is cheating not enough reason to leave? when and if I get married,i don't think I will be able to stay with a cheating man(whats nature).I can't imagine my husband still coming close to me with the same body he's laying with other ladies,i will feel so dirty.I will marry a man of God so that I can have peace.

Man of god worse. Man of god my foot

Rozz:
These men are the ones bringing troubles to the home and still want their wives to accept and be cool with their dirty lifestyle,most divorce cases are the fault of the men.Men of God are still better,no true man of God will indulge in such act.A man of God doesn't necessarily mean to be a pastor,the fear of God should be truly from our hearts and anyone blessed with such is a man of God

True, very true.

Oluromantic:
So men of God cannot cheat. You're funny

No true man of God cheats

Kdon2:


Man of god worse. Man of god my foot

How many have you witnessed cheating on their wives or you just believe what you read online,most of those stories are fake and no true man of God will be caught in such act

Rozz:
Married women in the house,how did you cope or how are you coping with your cheating husbands and still leaving with him,what is making you stay? or is cheating not enough reason to leave? when and if I get married,i don't think I will be able to stay with a cheating man(whats nature).I can't imagine my husband still coming close to me with the same body he's laying with other ladies,i will feel so dirty.I will marry a man of God so that I can have peace.

men of God are also cheating na. Pastor iginla has a second wife in South africa. Suleman sleeps with actresses like daniela okeke. Some have raped minors. So wetin u dey yarn. Why do u think anita left oyakilome too

Many women wont leave because it is not easy to remarry and courts wont award then alimony more than 20k. So they stay put. Most of our mothers looked the oda way. Lofe ain't fair

Kekereekun123:
men of God are also cheating na. Pastor iginla has a second wife in South africa. Suleman sleeps with actresses like daniela okeke. Some have raped minors. So wetin u dey yarn. Why do u think anita left oyakilome too

unfounded rumors,dont always believe everything you read but I'm not saying all are lies.There are real men of God

Rozz:
unfounded rumors,dont always believe everything you read but I'm not saying all are lies.There are real men of God

this ia iginla using his own mouth to confess
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGJIjuFE0Ds. Its fake too abi

Kekereekun123:
Many women wont leave because it is not easy to remarry and courts wont award then alimony more than 20k. So they stay put. Most of our mothers looked the oda way. Lofe ain't fair

These are part of the the reasons men behave and treat their wives badly. A working class woman will take a walk,this is why it's good for a woman to have her own money before going into a marriage as it helps keep the husband in check

Kekereekun123:
this ia iginla using his own mouth to confess
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGJIjuFE0Ds. Its fake too abi

lol

Rozz:
These are part of the the reasons men behave and treat their wives badly. A working class woman will take a walk,this is why it's good for a woman to have her own money before going into a marriage as it helps keep the husband in check

take a walk to go sleeping with younger guys ba. So divorced and are lonely wishing they never left. A man can marry 10 women in a year if money dey a woman cant. So last last it is not easy to leave. Ex first lady of oyo state was on instagram life of recent she did not leave when oga cheated

Kekereekun123:
take a walk to go sleeping with younger guys ba. So divorced and are lonely wishing they never left. A man can marry 10 women in a year if money dey a woman cant. So last last it is not easy to leave. Ex first lady of oyo state was on instagram life of recent she did not leave when oga cheated

So no woman should leave a man for cheating reasons?

Marry first na!I thought you had experience.

Rozz:
So no woman should leave a man for cheating reasons?

its your choice to make.life aint that easy. The next husband umeet if lucky may even be a beater. Ideally no man should cheat. Most women too dont like it. But when they weigh the pros and cons most of them stay put

Rozz:
Married women in the house,how did you cope or how are you coping with your cheating husbands and still leaving with him,what is making you stay? or is cheating not enough reason to leave? when and if I get married,i don't think I will be able to stay with a cheating man(whats nature).I can't imagine my husband still coming close to me with the same body he's laying with other ladies,i will feel so dirty.I will marry a man of God so that I can have peace.

thats because you A) aint desperate for marriage and B) you have respect for your own damn self enough to not want to be with a deceitful/untrustworthy/unfaithful/disrespectful animal... sadly, many women out there aint got that luxury, and to them marriage is a do or die issue, and they would stay married to that animal, even if they catch him sleeping with their own father in some homo nonsense.

He'd better not try hide it from me. I'd definitely would love to watch afterall it's for better or worse.

I hope you will maintain this stance when a cheating wife is involved

Oluromantic:
So men of God cannot cheat. You're funny. Many pastors cheat in case you don't know. Maybe you don't have prominent features enough to have been asked for sex by some of them before. You're talking about Godliness and you're talking about divorce at d same time. You're confused. Once you're in no matter how irritated you have to stay unless you're ready to renounce your faith. You're just religious then, you have not counted the cost of your faith.

The best u can do is..

-Pray that God gives you your own. If He does, you won't go thru it.

-you shd ask God to break you enough to be able to have the humility need for such even if it doesn't happen.

I will simply cheat back


It's not a hard thing to do in this social media quick hook up age.

When we're done fooling around, we'll both ask each other's forgiveness and move on

God knows my frame, so He wont even yoke me with a cheating spouse cos I'll just faint. God forbid but if..... I can't even imagine it. So, let me just shut my mind to such cos it will never happen. In Jesus name.

Amanee:
I hope you will maintain this stance when a cheating wife is involved

Men cheating and women cheating sound same but are different. A man would cheat and still love his wife. When a woman cheats, there's always no love in there anymore. I'm not trying to be a chauvinist but it's true. So reactions can't be same.

SweetCunt97:
He'd better not try hide it from me. I'd definitely would love to watch afterall it's for better or worse.

My dear, don't pray for such cos its easier said than done. God help you, if the woman hes cheating on you with is more pretty. Chaiii...you'll nearly run mad. Just fast and pray for a God fearing man.not a church goer but a spirit filled man, as in..... Fire brand.

Oluromantic:

Men cheating and women cheating sound same but are different. A man would cheat and still love his wife. When a woman cheats, there's always no love in there anymore. I'm not trying to be a chauvinist but it's true. So reactions can't be same.

Stop whining with this overused line already. Bia, haven't you met oloshos or nymphomaniacs? Do you really believe women can't cheat on the very same partner they love?

See, that I want better preeq action doesn't mean I don't love how understanding and tolerating my husband is.