Lamanii22:
You broke his heart... He has no reason to continue the friendship... Having you in his life is like having a chicken, the chicken he was suppose to eat and now somebody else has eaten it....

lefulefu:
besties know when to strike .when the girl get issue with her guy and goes over the home of her bestie to cry thats when the bestie strikes .any bestie wey tell u say the girl no dey give am level chop is not a real bestie but just a male aquataince .

Eberechi24:

Bestie don't have emotional attachments, just someone that flows with your vibes.

chigo5:
na if the gal gree gv u nah, u go dey wait mk issue come bfr u chop Nna Nawa

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

lefulefu:
male bestie is the same thing as fukmate or wat u call friend of benefit

GeneralPula:
You, self.. Wetin you dey find? You don sign contract with Chelsea, you wan cum Dey do training with Manu.

You had better face your contract.



PS: And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about.

No, it’s not weird. Girls loves bad boys. Nah reality.

GeneralPula:
You, self.. Wetin you dey find? You don sign contract with Chelsea, you wan cum Dey do training with Manu.

You had better face your contract.



PS: And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about.

No, it’s not weird. Girls loves bad boys. Nah reality.

heartofcity12:


I feel Male bestie is nothing more than being friend zoned, nothing more..

chigo5:
bestie na friendzone dem dey, there are ordinary friends way go first chop bfr bestie sef

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

heartofcity12:


I feel Male bestie is nothing more than being friend zoned, nothing more..

CsRockefeller:
Recently, I posted on FB that I have found a new babe.

The following day, my very close female muslim friend told me that I shouldn't I have posted such that I should have kept it private. Since then, she dissappearred from my life. This is someone that we talk at least every day on Watsapp and on phone at least every week. The funny thing is that she is in a relationship and I have been telling her that I am seriously searching.

It didnt end there, like 3 days after, a girl I knew tru a family friend and was planning on seeing b4 d lockdown told me she saw my post and that she is happy for me, I told her its nothing serious but she insisted that I have found someone already. Till date we havent said a word to each other.

That was how I lost 2 friends not to even talk about family and friends that kept on talking about d post, I just had to delete it.

lefulefu:
bestie is still better than friendzone cos in bestie zone there is hope in the nigga having sex with the girl but in friendzone no hope of seeing her colour of pant

heartofcity12:


That one self dey

lefulefu:
the only time u can announce on facebook on having a partner is when u are getting married to the girl.if u now had a new relationship and u announced on facebook and u two broke up under one week and u had a new gf will u now announce u have broken up with the other girl? .Its only when u are getting married u can announce on facebook if u the social media type.

CsRockefeller:


I guess I was too excited because I am not even d social media type but loosing those 2 friends especially d 1st one still pains till date.

We have been friends since 2011 and its not like we can date since she is in a relationship and shes a muslim.

lefulefu:
since 2011? why did u not date her? is she not ur type?

CsRockefeller:


Lol. She's a muslim.

lefulefu:
see its religion that will make u to lose a good girl.u can date her and make her convert.there are some muslim girls who convert to christianity cos of the love they have for the man..except if she is very strict type of muslim.for her to even make friends with u shows she likes u.u fall ur hand o .

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

lefulefu:
thats not a bestie.thats just an ordinary male colleague