Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

To me, I feel this story is staged!

Johnbull my son, I sent u to school to know how to spell Johnbull..

the Joe is a redpiller,,,student of ubunja.
he has moved on ,just forget about him.

Joe is a good guy. Face ur boyfriend and give him all the luv and attention u have got. Thats the message he is trying to pass!

I think somebody posted this story yesterday na

is very obvious becos i tink he love u and at d same time he open up 2u by telin u all his bad secret dat is why he ask u are u single?den u chase him away by answerin no dont u kno dat dis broda heart as been broken in pieces no wonder he dont wanna talk 2u or look at yo face anymore,one of d amazin fact about handsom and atractive guy as u said he was is dat we dont love 2be rejected by girls we want by all means just put dat 2 yo skull simple.

You are in love with 2 guys...just ask.."how do i go about it".

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Poster, you are evil,seductress,anything problem,you want attention, benefits of relationship from two guys?
For being in a relationship before meeting and agreeing to roll with Joe is deception, its serpentine, its scamming,other guys should be careful around you.People like you will stir hatred btw guys,mislead one to think the other wants to unduely take advantage of you.

Gerrara here!

This story is fake but I can relate to this.

I had one girl I used to fVck but she was spending time with some other guy but she never denied me sex. She has never.

But I was jealous because I needed love too not sex.
I was confused, but I can remember back then a girl use to spend time with me but claimed to have a boyfriend and the guy was fvcking her steady.

My friends told me to avoid her, but I couldn't. But she never gave me sex.

Charleys:
This story is fake but I can relate to this.

I had one girl I used to fVck but she was spending time with some other guy but she never denied me sex. She has never.

But I was jealous because I needed love too not sex.
I was confused, but I can remember back then a girl use to spend time with me but claimed to have a boyfriend and the guy was fvcking her steady.

My friends told me to avoid her, but I couldn't. But she never gave me sex.

The story isn't fake. It's my story and I created a thread yesterday to seek advice. This person just plagiarized my write-up to push traffic to his blog

Lalasticlala Dominique Ishilove please delete this thread. My write-up is being plagiarized.

This is the link to my own thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/5812385/male-friend-stopped-talking-me

This issue is noted down.....


My reply is coming up soon.let me go and subscribe and come back in two weeks later to give u an advice

you want friendzone am

So you expect me to read that story book of yours

Abegforum, why do you like being unfortunate? See you plagiarising with someone's story with shameless alacrity