I've heard of guys here trying to shame women by asking what women offer in relationships. But the truth is, same questions should be asked of we male folks.

In the midst of the growing moral decadence, we are as guilty as every other gender, and that leads me to my hypothesis:

Most Nigerian guys have nothing to offer in a relationship.

Now, apart from money and sexx, what do most Nigerian guys bring to relationships? Most of the time, nothing else.

We are guilty of constantly sitting on our high pedestal, expecting the women we meet in our everyday life to come in a box with all the qualities we desire, yet we have done next to nothing to improve our own self.

So, again, apart from money and sexx, what do guys bring in a relationship?

A relationship cannot be built on just money and sex. We have set the standard so low that a man with money and a working dickk feels he is a god and can do and undo in any relationship he finds himself.

Because of this lackadaisical attitude, we see these men laying up women like eggs in a crate and paying their way through their many immoral fantasies. These are the men intentionally fuelling the current moral decadence and indignity among women, yet they are the first to shamelessly come out with their big mouth asking questions of the women whose decay they've been fundng all the while.

Today, try to have meaningful conversations with guys and you'll be surprised at the emptiness oozing out of their skull. Apart from boozing, smoking weed, and womanizing, what else do we offer?

God gave man a woman to nurture her, to teach her, to build her, to protect her, to encourage her in all things. But before a man can do such, he must first develop himself.

How many guys today invest in self-development? Very few.

Yet they want women to come to the table flawless, in their best attitude, and having developed into the woman of their dreams.

Men, keep dreaming.

The truth is, a woman is work. The woman was made for the man, and not the other way around.

That woman you are currently dating, God gave her to you. She is your responsibility. You must work to fulfill your responsibility to her and to God. Her only assignment is just to help and comfort you.

The bulk of the work is on we the male folks. So, if you cannot handle a woman in a relationship, please stay away instead of asking stupid questions and trying to ridicule the responsibilities (women) you are making a mess of.




PS: I am a man and this hypothesis applies to me as well.

EscobarSnipes:
SIMPing is truly an art

Whatever you call it, this is for the SIMPs and the PIMPs. Kiss the truth.

Guess you're speaking for yourself or you're just trying to get the ladies attention. Weldone ladies' man. Why do you think women from other regions like Nigerian men? You think it's just for money and sex?

We've nothing to offer yet they keep lining up to get married to us. Ask the evening newspapers.

Undissputed:
I've heard of guys here trying to shame women by asking what women offer in relationships. But the truth is, same questions should be asked of we male folks.

In the midst of the growing moral decadence, we are as guilty as every other gender, and that leads me to my hypothesis:

Most Nigerian guys have nothing to offer in a relationship.

Now, apart from money and sexx, what do most Nigerian guys bring to relationships? Most of the time, nothing else.

We are guilty of constantly sitting on our high pedestal, expecting the women we meet in our everyday life to come in a box with all the qualities we desire, yet we have done next to nothing to improve our own self.

So, again, apart from money and sexx, what do guys bring in a relationship?

A relationship cannot be built on just money and sex. We have set the standard so low that a man with money and a working dickk feels he is a god and can do and undo in any relationship he finds himself.

Because of this lackadaisical attitude, we see these men laying up women like eggs in a crate and paying their way through their many immoral fantasies. These are the men intentionally fuelling the current moral decadence and indignity among women, yet they are the first to shamelessly come out with their big mouth asking questions of the women whose decay they've been fundng all the while.

Today, try to have meaningful conversations with guys and you'll be surprised at the emptiness oozing out of their skull. Apart from boozing, smoking weed, and womanizing, what else do we offer?

God gave man a woman to nurture her, to teach her, to build her, to protect her, to encourage her in all things. But before a man can do such, he must first develop himself.

How many guys today invest in self-development? Very few.

Yet they want women to come to the table flawless, in their best attitude, and having developed into the woman of their dreams.

Men, keep dreaming.

The truth is, a woman is work. The woman was made for the man, and not the other way around.

That woman you are currently dating, God gave her to you. She is your responsibility. You must work to fulfill your responsibility to her and to God. Her only assignment is just to help and comfort you.

The bulk of the work is on we the male folks. So, if you cannot handle a woman in a relationship, please stay away instead of asking stupid questions and trying to ridicule the responsibilities (women) you are making a mess of.




PS: I am a man and this hypothesis applies to me as well.

Op, I support you.hundred percent on this.
Just go through most Nairaland sections you will see how loud this moral decadence has gain grounds.
It's such a shame men don't know they are the real pace setters when it comes to taking care of the affaira of women.

Men need to rise up and do better.

Marry urself o

You find topics like this in a NIgerian forum.

Title says Guys have nothing to offer but OP brings up “Money and S*x”.

Funny that OP is a NIgerian, with some of the poorest people in the World, yet he disdains the importance of money in a relationship.

It’s a hard job to make money in your country. Both sexes should work hard. Self development is not limited to only men. You can’t build a Working society with this sort of cave-like mentality.

make no body give dis guy(op) weed again #simp

attention seaker.... To much of weed is bad

Apart from money?
Are u sure u know what you want,cos you are now saying apart from money,
Ok let's remove that money part,
We can offer
Advice
Finance
Emotional stability
Comfort
Jeez
Money
More money
Anoda money

B

Lol
Another Mangina
They won't fucck you

Ningen:
We've nothing to offer yet they keep lining up to get married to us. Ask the evening newspapers.

And yet they keep cheating on you after marrying you. Doesn't that tell you enough?

IAmSkinny:


First, it ain't my responsibility to take care of the beings with boobs and pvssy. Posts from sissies like you is just about the evidence these lazy girls need to carry on with their "relationship is a hustle" mentality.

.
I am guy and here is what I can offer:
*I can teach her how to become a pro photographer in less than a month
*I can show her how to reach more clients (if she has a hustle o) with SM. Basically show her how to take her biz online
*I can teach her how to do graphics design with photoshop
*Can show her how to build a WordPress site and host it (part of taking her biz online)
*Show how to do beauty retouching and photo color correction
*Easily introduce her to videography
*Show her how to edit and color grade videos and some sweet Adobe premiere Pro tricks
*Provide access to tonnes of e-learning resources
*Teach her to be independent because only worthless girls depend on guys financially. Cus Cus That's what I am about baby!
There are a couple of other stuffs I can still actually do but I rather not mention.
.
Noticed I didn't mention love, care, attention bla bla. I am getting a load of that from family and I don't need any from some silly pvssy owner, whose definition of relationship is financial freedom.


Question is, I can all these things, but what the fvck can she do for me apart from the fvck we both enjoy? Answer is nothing nothing nothing. Most Nigerian girls have nothing.

In trying to invalidate his point, you actually agreed with him.

A man is supposed to teach a woman and you already have a lot of things you have lined up to teach her. I bet you'll make a wonderful husband if you tow this path. On the other hand, some of your male counterparts can't teach the female anything because they aren't bothered. All they have to give and want from her is sex, and babies because well, nature said so. Unfortunately, sex from one person without other stimulating ideas and actions can get a tad bit boring with time.

Undissputed:
I've heard of guys here trying to shame women by asking what women offer in relationships. But the truth is, same questions should be asked of we male folks.

In the midst of the growing moral decadence, we are as guilty as every other gender, and that leads me to my hypothesis:

Most Nigerian guys have nothing to offer in a relationship.

Now, apart from money and sexx, what do most Nigerian guys bring to relationships? Most of the time, nothing else.

We are guilty of constantly sitting on our high pedestal, expecting the women we meet in our everyday life to come in a box with all the qualities we desire, yet we have done next to nothing to improve our own self.

So, again, apart from money and sexx, what do guys bring in a relationship?

A relationship cannot be built on just money and sex. We have set the standard so low that a man with money and a working dickk feels he is a god and can do and undo in any relationship he finds himself.

Because of this lackadaisical attitude, we see these men laying up women like eggs in a crate and paying their way through their many immoral fantasies. These are the men intentionally fuelling the current moral decadence and indignity among women, yet they are the first to shamelessly come out with their big mouth asking questions of the women whose decay they've been fundng all the while.

Today, try to have meaningful conversations with guys and you'll be surprised at the emptiness oozing out of their skull. Apart from boozing, smoking weed, and womanizing, what else do we offer?

God gave man a woman to nurture her, to teach her, to build her, to protect her, to encourage her in all things. But before a man can do such, he must first develop himself.

How many guys today invest in self-development? Very few.

Yet they want women to come to the table flawless, in their best attitude, and having developed into the woman of their dreams.

Men, keep dreaming.

The truth is, a woman is work. The woman was made for the man, and not the other way around.

That woman you are currently dating, God gave her to you. She is your responsibility. You must work to fulfill your responsibility to her and to God. Her only assignment is just to help and comfort you.

The bulk of the work is on we the male folks. So, if you cannot handle a woman in a relationship, please stay away instead of asking stupid questions and trying to ridicule the responsibilities (women) you are making a mess of.




PS: I am a man and this hypothesis applies to me as well.

I am really ashamed of what u wrote here. For u to say money is not important I pity u. Please go marry a lady that support u financially.. wash her cloths and do all the domestic work then u come back here and tell us how it feels like to be a man. U don't have any point bro.

FROGMAN101:
You find topics like this in a NIgerian forum.

Title says Guys have nothing to offer but OP brings up “Money and S*x”.

Funny that OP is a NIgerian, with some of the poorest people in the World, yet he disdains the importance of money in a relationship.

It’s a hard job to make money in your country. Both sexes should work hard. Self development is not limited to only men. You can’t build a Working society with this sort of cave-like mentality.

You're on point

Sixfeetbelle:


In trying to invalidate his point, you actually agreed with him.

A man is supposed to teach a woman and you already have a lot of things you have lined up to teach her. I bet you'll make a wonderful husband if you tow this path. On the other hand, some of your male counterparts can't teach the female anything because they aren't bothered. All they have to give and want from her is sex, and babies because well, nature said so. Unfortunately, sex from one person without other stimulating ideas and actions can get a tad bit boring with time.

Well, I don't know know about the other guys. I only spoke for myself. Funny enough, the beings with pvssy have little or no interest in learning shit. They just want to secure the bag by offering the only thing they have to offer. At least you agreed your kind have got nothing to offer.

IAmSkinny:


First, it ain't my responsibility to take care of the beings with boobs and pvssy. Posts from sissies like you is just about the evidence these lazy girls need to carry on with their "relationship is a hustle" mentality.

.
I am guy and here is what I can offer:
*I can teach her how to become a pro photographer in less than a month
*I can show her how to reach more clients (if she has a hustle o) with SM. Basically show her how to take her biz online
*I can teach her how to do graphics design with photoshop
*Can show her how to build a WordPress site and host it (part of taking her biz online)
*Show how to do beauty retouching and photo color correction
*Easily introduce her to videography
*Show her how to edit and color grade videos and some sweet Adobe premiere Pro tricks
*Provide access to tonnes of e-learning resources
*Teach her to be independent because only worthless girls depend on guys financially. Cus Cus That's what I am about baby!
There are a couple of other stuffs I can still actually do but I rather not mention.
.
Noticed I didn't mention love, care, attention bla bla. I am getting a load of that from family and I don't need any from some silly pvssy owner, whose definition of relationship is financial freedom.


Question is, I can all these things, but what the fvck can she do for me apart from the fvck we both enjoy? Answer is nothing nothing nothing. Most Nigerian girls have nothing.

Please can u teach me video editing? I will appreciate a reply

Genset:



Please can u teach me video editing? I will appreciate a reply

For sure, if you can pay

Op
You are making So much sense
Cos I do wonder too
Apart from constant sex and meager amount of money
I honestly don't know what else they offer


Infact I'll pay you a visit after this lockdown for this

If Nigerian women even offered only money in relationships, Nigerian men would worship them. But they bring only their weather-beaten, angering-nacked pûssies and still expect us to worship them despite the imbalance in value contributed.

OP, it is established today, you are a simp of the highest order. For you to discount the importance of funds in a romantic relationship, you were either raised by an entitled single mother or a weak father. Tueh

Preshieben:
Op
You are making So much sense
Cos I do wonder too
Apart from constant sex and meager amount of money
I honestly don't know what else they offer


Infact I'll pay you a visit after this lockdown for this

what do you girls have to offer apart from sex?

This OP is definitely a lady

Preshieben:
Op
You are making So much sense
Cos I do wonder too
Apart from constant sex and meager amount of money
I honestly don't know what else they offer


Infact I'll pay you a visit after this lockdown for this

why the visit?

It's not like you have anything to offer the op

Oops you can give him pussy

IAmSkinny:


First, it ain't my responsibility to take care of the beings with boobs and pvssy. Posts from sissies like you is just about the evidence these lazy girls need to carry on with their "relationship is a hustle" mentality.

.
I am guy and here is what I can offer:
*I can teach her how to become a pro photographer in less than a month
*I can show her how to reach more clients (if she has a hustle o) with SM. Basically show her how to take her biz online
*I can teach her how to do graphics design with photoshop
*Can show her how to build a WordPress site and host it (part of taking her biz online)
*Show how to do beauty retouching and photo color correction
*Easily introduce her to videography
*Show her how to edit and color grade videos and some sweet Adobe premiere Pro tricks
*Provide access to tonnes of e-learning resources
*Teach her to be independent because only worthless girls depend on guys financially. Cus Cus That's what I am about baby!
There are a couple of other stuffs I can still actually do but I rather not mention.
.
Noticed I didn't mention love, care, attention bla bla. I am getting a load of that from family and I don't need any from some silly pvssy owner, whose definition of relationship is financial freedom.


Question is, I can all these things, but what the fvck can she do for me apart from the fvck we both enjoy? Answer is nothing nothing nothing. Most Nigerian girls have nothing.

bro I need your assistance please

Telvin7:
bro I need your assistance please

Silver nor Gold I have not. How can I help you sir.

Most Nigerian relationships are useless, baseless and lifeless. Most men behave like sex starved babies while most women behave like hungry vultures.In Nigerian relationships, helping one another to grow does not exist but they are very quick to outsmart one another for selfish benefits. You will hardly see them encourage one another to read books, try new hobbies, engage in brain stimulating conversations, help one another to overcome fears, start up projects , help innovate ideas, watch natures or have each other's back. All they know is Sex and money. "Will you come to my place? When will you visit me? Baby my subscription and hair has expired, I need money. " Are the common questions you see in Nigerians conversations. Sex Sex Sex Money Money Money! Nothing else dey their skulls!

However, I think both Nigerian Men and Women fit each other perfectly, So none should complain about the other. Let them continue to "ko'molubo" until they have sense.

IAmSkinny:

Silver nor Gold I have not. How can I help you sir.

I need to learn one of those skills you mentioned above.
08124076377( my WhatsApp number sir)

Ariza:
Most Nigerian relationships are useless, baseless and lifeless. Most men behave like sex starved babies while most women behave like hungry vultures.In Nigerian relationships, helping one another to grow does not exist but they are very quick to outsmart one another for selfish benefits. You will hardly see them encourage one another to read books, try new hobbies, overcome fears, start up projects , help innovative ideas, watch natures or have each other's back. All they know is Sex and money.

However, I think both Nigerian Men and Women fit each other perfectly, So none should complain about the other. Let them continue to "ko'molubo" until they have sense.

I think you are right. I have been in a couple of short relationships before and I have concluded it ain't worth it anymore. Personally I have a lot to offer in the area of self development and digital skill acquisition but I discover I would be getting nothing in return. Even the sex ain't great. In the end, it just ain't worth it: making sacrifices and spending time with a human being that have nothing to add to your life.

Telvin7:
I need to learn one of those skills you mentioned above.
08124076377( my WhatsApp number sir)

I am currently unavailable on WhatsApp. If you want to learn any of those skills (from me), then it has to be the traditional way (physically).

IAmSkinny:


Well, I don't know know about the other guys. I only spoke for myself. Funny enough, the beings with pvssy have little or no interest in learning shit. They just want to secure the bag by offering the only thing they have to offer. At least you agreed your kind have got nothing to offer.

I noticed this in your initial post but I decided to bypass it cause your abilities overshadowed your irrationality. Now you've brought me back to it so I'll address it.

Mr, since our kind has nothing to offer, we'd very much appreciate it if you left our kind alone. Don't befriend us, don't date us, don't nack us and definitely, don't marry us. Thank you.