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The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Undissputed(m): 8:43pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
I've heard of guys here trying to shame women by asking what women offer in relationships. But the truth is, same questions should be asked of we male folks. In the midst of the growing moral decadence, we are as guilty as every other gender, and that leads me to my hypothesis: Most Nigerian guys have nothing to offer in a relationship. Now, apart from money and sexx, what do most Nigerian guys bring to relationships? Most of the time, nothing else. We are guilty of constantly sitting on our high pedestal, expecting the women we meet in our everyday life to come in a box with all the qualities we desire, yet we have done next to nothing to improve our own self. So, again, apart from money and sexx, what do guys bring in a relationship? A relationship cannot be built on just money and sex. We have set the standard so low that a man with money and a working dickk feels he is a god and can do and undo in any relationship he finds himself. Because of this lackadaisical attitude, we see these men laying up women like eggs in a crate and paying their way through their many immoral fantasies. These are the men intentionally fuelling the current moral decadence and indignity among women, yet they are the first to shamelessly come out with their big mouth asking questions of the women whose decay they've been fundng all the while. Today, try to have meaningful conversations with guys and you'll be surprised at the emptiness oozing out of their skull. Apart from boozing, smoking weed, and womanizing, what else do we offer? God gave man a woman to nurture her, to teach her, to build her, to protect her, to encourage her in all things. But before a man can do such, he must first develop himself. How many guys today invest in self-development? Very few. Yet they want women to come to the table flawless, in their best attitude, and having developed into the woman of their dreams. Men, keep dreaming. The truth is, a woman is work. The woman was made for the man, and not the other way around. That woman you are currently dating, God gave her to you. She is your responsibility. You must work to fulfill your responsibility to her and to God. Her only assignment is just to help and comfort you. The bulk of the work is on we the male folks. So, if you cannot handle a woman in a relationship, please stay away instead of asking stupid questions and trying to ridicule the responsibilities (women) you are making a mess of. PS: I am a man and this hypothesis applies to me as well. 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by EscobarSnipes(m): 8:47pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
SIMPing is truly an art 21 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Undissputed(m): 8:53pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
EscobarSnipes: Whatever you call it, this is for the SIMPs and the PIMPs. Kiss the truth. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Juell(m): 8:56pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Guess you're speaking for yourself or you're just trying to get the ladies attention. Weldone ladies' man. Why do you think women from other regions like Nigerian men? You think it's just for money and sex? 15 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Ningen(m): 8:57pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
We've nothing to offer yet they keep lining up to get married to us. Ask the evening newspapers. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Friend22(m): 9:10pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Undissputed: Op, I support you.hundred percent on this. Just go through most Nairaland sections you will see how loud this moral decadence has gain grounds. It's such a shame men don't know they are the real pace setters when it comes to taking care of the affaira of women. Men need to rise up and do better. 3 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by donbachi(m): 9:11pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Marry urself o 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by FROGMAN101(m): 9:29pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
You find topics like this in a NIgerian forum. Title says Guys have nothing to offer but OP brings up “Money and S*x”. Funny that OP is a NIgerian, with some of the poorest people in the World, yet he disdains the importance of money in a relationship. It’s a hard job to make money in your country. Both sexes should work hard. Self development is not limited to only men. You can’t build a Working society with this sort of cave-like mentality. 25 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by pizzzy(m): 9:40pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
make no body give dis guy(op) weed again #simp 2 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Ruudy: 9:45pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
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Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Nigeriabiafra80: 10:48pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Apart from money? Are u sure u know what you want,cos you are now saying apart from money, Ok let's remove that money part, We can offer Advice Finance Emotional stability Comfort Jeez Money More money Anoda money 1 Like |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by IAmSkinny: 11:09pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
B 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Nobody: 11:19pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Lol Another Mangina They won't fucck you 1 Like |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Sixfeetbelle: 1:58am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Ningen: And yet they keep cheating on you after marrying you. Doesn't that tell you enough? 1 Like |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Sixfeetbelle: 2:05am On Apr 24, 2020 |
IAmSkinny: In trying to invalidate his point, you actually agreed with him. A man is supposed to teach a woman and you already have a lot of things you have lined up to teach her. I bet you'll make a wonderful husband if you tow this path. On the other hand, some of your male counterparts can't teach the female anything because they aren't bothered. All they have to give and want from her is sex, and babies because well, nature said so. Unfortunately, sex from one person without other stimulating ideas and actions can get a tad bit boring with time. |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Funkyswagzz(m): 2:13am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Undissputed: I am really ashamed of what u wrote here. For u to say money is not important I pity u. Please go marry a lady that support u financially.. wash her cloths and do all the domestic work then u come back here and tell us how it feels like to be a man. U don't have any point bro. 3 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Nobody: 2:19am On Apr 24, 2020 |
FROGMAN101:You're on point 11 Likes
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Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by IAmSkinny: 9:39am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Well, I don't know know about the other guys. I only spoke for myself. Funny enough, the beings with pvssy have little or no interest in learning shit. They just want to secure the bag by offering the only thing they have to offer. At least you agreed your kind have got nothing to offer. 3 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Genset: 11:55am On Apr 24, 2020 |
IAmSkinny: Please can u teach me video editing? I will appreciate a reply 1 Like |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by IAmSkinny: 11:59am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Genset:For sure, if you can pay |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Nobody: 12:35pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Op You are making So much sense Cos I do wonder too Apart from constant sex and meager amount of money I honestly don't know what else they offer Infact I'll pay you a visit after this lockdown for this ![]() |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by LeRabbite: 1:00pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
If Nigerian women even offered only money in relationships, Nigerian men would worship them. But they bring only their weather-beaten, angering-nacked pûssies and still expect us to worship them despite the imbalance in value contributed. OP, it is established today, you are a simp of the highest order. For you to discount the importance of funds in a romantic relationship, you were either raised by an entitled single mother or a weak father. Tueh 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Nobody: 1:05pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Preshieben:what do you girls have to offer apart from sex? 3 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Nobody: 1:07pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
This OP is definitely a lady |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Premiumwriter: 1:26pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Preshieben:why the visit? It's not like you have anything to offer the op Oops you can give him pussy 4 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Telvin7(m): 2:33pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
IAmSkinny:bro I need your assistance please |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by IAmSkinny: 2:43pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Telvin7:Silver nor Gold I have not. How can I help you sir. 1 Like |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Nobody: 2:52pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Most Nigerian relationships are useless, baseless and lifeless. Most men behave like sex starved babies while most women behave like hungry vultures.In Nigerian relationships, helping one another to grow does not exist but they are very quick to outsmart one another for selfish benefits. You will hardly see them encourage one another to read books, try new hobbies, engage in brain stimulating conversations, help one another to overcome fears, start up projects , help innovate ideas, watch natures or have each other's back. All they know is Sex and money. "Will you come to my place? When will you visit me? Baby my subscription and hair has expired, I need money. " Are the common questions you see in Nigerians conversations. ![]() However, I think both Nigerian Men and Women fit each other perfectly, So none should complain about the other. Let them continue to "ko'molubo" until they have sense. ![]() 17 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Telvin7(m): 3:06pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
IAmSkinny:I need to learn one of those skills you mentioned above. 08124076377( my WhatsApp number sir) |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by IAmSkinny: 3:07pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Ariza: I think you are right. I have been in a couple of short relationships before and I have concluded it ain't worth it anymore. Personally I have a lot to offer in the area of self development and digital skill acquisition but I discover I would be getting nothing in return. Even the sex ain't great. In the end, it just ain't worth it: making sacrifices and spending time with a human being that have nothing to add to your life. 3 Likes |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by IAmSkinny: 3:23pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Telvin7:I am currently unavailable on WhatsApp. If you want to learn any of those skills (from me), then it has to be the traditional way (physically). |
Re: The Truth: Most Guys Have Nothing To Offer In Relationships by Sixfeetbelle: 3:31pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
IAmSkinny: I noticed this in your initial post but I decided to bypass it cause your abilities overshadowed your irrationality. Now you've brought me back to it so I'll address it. Mr, since our kind has nothing to offer, we'd very much appreciate it if you left our kind alone. Don't befriend us, don't date us, don't nack us and definitely, don't marry us. Thank you. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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