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The answer to your question is in your post.

Them no born my jnr sis well to put on my Polo or visit me at my home as a lonely bachelor and sleep over

That kin thing never happened to me , but if it happens the gf is right , sometimes they feel if they tell u , u will tell them not to come .

Nonso92:
The answer to your question is in your post.

relationship should be base on trust

Yenvex:


relationship should be base on trust

Tell that to the girl coming to see your friend without calling.

Personally, this is one of the reasons why I don't do neighborhood girls.

Any girl I'm running with should be able to spend at least 1k as TP to come see me.

For a lovely romantic surprise, no strings attached

majamajic:
Them no born my jnr sis well to put on my Polo or visit me at my home as a lonely bachelor and sleep over

That kin thing never happened to me , but if it happens the gf is right , sometimes they feel if they tell u , u will tell them not to come .

but as a bachelor you also need your privacy which she should learn to respect that

lasheez:
For a lovely romantic surprise, no strings attached

it shouldn't be everytime nah

MrBrownJay1:
LACK OF TRUST

will you trust her either?

majamajic:
Them no born my jnr sis well to put on my Polo or visit me at my home as a lonely bachelor and sleep over

That kin thing never happened to me , but if it happens the gf is right , sometimes they feel if they tell u , u will tell them not to come .

Are you listening to yourself?

Dem no born your younger sister well to come to your house sleep over or wear your polo?

But it's okay for your gf to visit you unexpected.

Oga better get your priorities set well,

majamajic:
Them no born my jnr sis well to put on my Polo or visit me at my home as a lonely bachelor and sleep over

That kin thing never happened to me , but if it happens the gf is right , sometimes they feel if they tell u , u will tell them not to come .

Bruh, i go with ur point.

The girl have every right to react that way because even me my sister cannot come to my house and carry my polo and wear Jux like that.

Then were is the respect now!! Even if she comes to spend weekend in my place she will prepare her self we'll.

So that babe is correct for her action.

Nonso92:


Tell that to the girl coming to see your friend without calling.

Personally, this is one of the reasons why I don't do neighborhood girls.

Any girl I'm running with should be able to spend at least 1k as TP to come see me.

woman where get motives go still pay am even if nah 2k, so no reason if she dey far nor close by

tell me if J nor lure C will such thing happen..ofcourse no,my advice is that if she loves you she will never tell you because is bad telling you before her ariver.
I have this girl on facebook who always tell me to send her a message first whenever I want to call her because she doesn't want her mum to get mad at her when she find out.
So there is no true love without jealousy, alless you just have that girl as fucking mate then you will be angry why she didn't call you before she comes.
Allow her to friend you with free mind and not with fear

Nonso92:


Are you listening to yourself?

Dem no born your younger sister well to come to your house sleep over or wear your polo?

But it's okay for your gf to visit you unexpected.

Oga better get your priorities set well,

In my family we don't do such , my sis can't visit me and sleep over if am living alone , besides my jnr sis can't wear my shirt , unless I bought or give it to her as gift

Talk about your self , my mum won't allow her pay me visit and sleep for days if am not fully married with kids , me too I can't invite her sef

Yenvex:
will you trust her either?

why wouldnt you trust a woman who does not trust you?! there is a reason why she acts this way, so just put her at ease and give her plenty of reasons to trust you, and basta.

- some women are damaged due to their ex and have difficulties trusting men
- some have been brainwashed so much that they have difficulties trusting men
- some listen to the BS stranger tell them and have difficulties trusting men
- some dont trust you because you didnt give her a reason to trust you
- if you are never honest and always sneaky then no wonder your woman dont trust you

Nonso92:


Are you listening to yourself?

Dem no born your younger sister well to come to your house sleep over or wear your polo?

But it's okay for your gf to visit you unexpected.

Oga better get your priorities set well,

It's a very popular Yoruba saying, I don't know why they use that sentence, I wrote about it in this thread here.
It should be an Embarrassment to any Yoruba man.

https://www.nairaland.com/5612900/yoruba-curse-born-well

MrBrownJay1:


why wouldnt you trust a woman who does not trust you?! there is a reason why she acts this way, so just put her at ease and give her plenty of reasons to trust you, and basta.

- some women are damaged due to their ex and have difficulties trusting men
- some have been brainwashed so much that they have difficulties trusting men
- some listen to the BS stranger tell them and have difficulties trusting men
- some dont trust you because you didnt give her a reason to trust you
- if you are never honest and always sneaky then no wonder your woman dont trust you

on point!

osaro6:
tell me if J nor lure C will such thing happen..ofcourse no,my advice is that if she loves you she will never tell you because is bad telling you before her ariver.
I have this girl on facebook who always tell me to send her a message first whenever I want to call her because she doesn't want her mum to get mad at her when she find out.
So there is no true love without jealousy, alless you just have that girl as fucking mate then you will be angry why she didn't call you before she comes.
Allow her to friend you with free mind and not with fear

are you really sure it's just her mum it might be something else who knows!

majamajic:


In my family we don't do such , my sis can't visit me and sleep over if am living alone , besides my jnr sis can't wear my shirt , unless I bought or give it to her as gift

Talk about your self , my mum won't allow her pay me visit and sleep for days if am not fully married with kids , me too I can't invite her sef

What will happen if your sister comes to your house and sleeps over?

You would bleep her?

I can't count how many times my sister has come to borrow my T-shirt to wear. Also she has come to stay with me times without number, what's there?

The respect you'd give your girlfriend is to tell her that your sister is coming over and would spend a few days with you.

If she doesn't believe you, oooiiiinn she's on her own.

Dem get something for mind....Dem wan cross-check the dude

Nonso92:


What will happen if your sister comes to your house and sleeps over?

You would bleep her?

I can't count how many times my sister has come to borrow my T-shirt to wear. Also she has come to stay with me times without number, what's there?

The respect you'd give your girlfriend is to tell her that your sister is coming over and would spend a few days with you.

If she doesn't believe you, oooiiiinn she's on her own.

Maybe me , but I can't sleep in same bed with my matured jnr sis

It irritates me , not about bleep

I rather sleep comfortably on the floor

Anyway , it's one of few things I never witnessed in life , that's gone now

Only insecure girlfriends do that.

Respect the privacy of your boyfriend. Wait till you are invited or inform him at least 2 working days before intended visit. How difficult is that?

She probably thinks she will surprise me. I laugh. She might just end up surprising herself. Nonsense.

Who even get time to visit self? I don't go where I'm not invited.


If I don't trust you enough to behave well in my absence, it simply means I don't trust your actions when I'm with you. Guess what? I don't have time or emotions to waste either

MrBrownJay1:
LACK OF TRUST

Exactly.. or surprises

na konji dae cos am


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Yenvex:
A friend of mine once complain of how is girlfriend like surprising him most of the time when he never invited her to come over and most of the time she does it on purpose hoping to catch him with another girl, so one day his younger sister came to visit him and she decided to spend the weekend with him so unfortunately for him or rather his beloved gf decided to surprised him as usual with a romantic weekend and met the younger sister in the house wearing the boyfriend's polo without any explanation she started harassing her for trying to steal her man!

To my question why do ladies keep doing it when relationship should be build on trust.

It is a feeling of entitlement....After all visitors are usually told to feel at home, not to talk of your woman.

If u don't like it, let her know, she will respect you for that...

Again, If you trust yourself, you wont bother.

Only ladies who are insecure do that!

she suppose happy say em nah better guy ah trust niggas nah

AfroKnight:
Only insecure girlfriends do that.

Respect the privacy of your boyfriend. Wait till you are invited or inform him at 2 working days before intended visit. How difficult is that?

She probably thinks she will surprise me. I laugh. She might just end up surprising herself. Nonsense.

cloud7000:
na konji dae cos am

See my signature for important info

with that kind konji she fit rape person someday