This is not a joking matter at all, I'm in love with my babe and she love me too.

But early this week, we had a misunderstanding of which I said if she cant agree to what I want we should quit the relationship, but instead she started crying alone in the room and did a WhatsApp video call showing me a bottle of snipper, she bought in the morning, which she was threatening to drink it and poison herself because I told her am quitting the relationship.

This is the issue that do happen


Bro, the issue that happened between us doesn't worth quitting a relationship, but I just decided..

What is happened is she like making Male friends of which am not comfortable with, of which I use to tell her but she wont listen, she just see it as normal stuff but I dont like it..

And I told her, if she cant do away with those male friend or making male friends, she should go and date them, I can date or keep a girl with many male friends.


I love her too, but she is doing what I hate most in relationship. She is keeping too much of male friends, which I warned her, but she refuse to change.


But after much begging and assurance she didn't drink the snipper, but she said she will keep it till the day I might say am not interested in the relationship anymore and she will kill herself and leave a note.

But she swear her life that any day I call off the relationship she will poisoned herself with the snipper she want to keep for other time.

She is a C&S girl she said, she love me and ready to marry me and she can do or undo to marry me, if truly I would marry her and she will stop making male friends or close male friends.

Pls what can I do about this?

Kindly advice me on this ooo

The girl parent know we're dating and my parents too and they both agreed on our relationship.

I never see the woman who go cry because she claims to love me. So I can't help you. Maybe someone else will have something better to say

Need una advices elders in the house

Is there any valid reason why you want to leave the girl?


But, the girl is taking it too far naa by threatening to drink sniper on top love matter

Confusion every were

michlins:
I never see the woman who go cry because she claims to love me. So I can't help you. Maybe someone else will have something better to say

Bro, although most girls are pretenders, liars and deceives, but when you see a girl that truly love you, even you yourself will know the meaning of a girl madly in love.

Let me ask you dis question
Are you sure you will marry her in the future?

shes just been obsessed with you...if you truly love her marry her nah....that's if she has all the attributes you're looking for in a woman

you should get one for yourself too, since two of you are psycho

yinkaOdutuyo:


Bro, although most girls are pretenders, liars and deceives, but when you see a girl that truly love you, even you yourself will know the meaning of a girl madly in love.

we're talking about life and death. Me I can't handle such a girl

Brunicekid:
Is there any valid reason why you want to leave the girl?


But, the girl is taking it too far naa by threatening to drink sniper on top love matter

Bro, the issue that happened between us doesn't worth quitting a relationship, but I just decided..

What is happened is she like making Male friends of which am not comfortable with, of which I use to tell her but she wont listen, she just see it as normal stuff but I dont like it..

And I told her, if she cant do away with those male friend or making male friends, she should go and date them, I can date or keep a girl with many male friends.

Just marry her

yinkaOdutuyo:
This is not a joking matter at all, I'm in love with my babe and she love me too.

But early this week, we had a misunderstanding of which I said if she cant agree to what I want we should quit the relationship, but instead she started crying alone in the room and did a WhatsApp video call showing me a bottle of snipper, she bought in the morning, which she was threatening to drink it and poison herself because I told her am quitting the relationship.

But after much begging and assurance she didn't drink the snipper, but she said she will keep it till the day I might say am not interested in the relationship anymore and she will kill herself and leave a note.

But she swear her life that any day I call off the relationship she will poisoned herself with the snipper she want to keep for other time.

She is a C&S girl she said, she love me and ready to marry me and she can do or undo to marry me, if truly I would marry her.

Pls what can I do about this?

She is saving that sniper for you....... Nobody wants to date or marry a psychopath..........

Call her bluff..... Nah u be her papa.......

Aboks:
Confusion every were

Am just lost bro

You shouldn't marry or date her out of pity or fear. You can't destroy your own life just to please another. If you really wanna breakup talk to anyone close to her about her plans, so they can talk sense into her.
It might just be a threat tho.

ojun50:
Let me ask you dis question
Are you sure you will marry her in the future?

Yes I want to marry her and I pray God will give us a bright future and happy home.


Bro, the issue that happened between us doesn't worth quitting a relationship, but I just decided..

What is happened is she like making Male friends of which am not comfortable with, of which I use to tell her but she wont listen, she just see it as normal stuff but I dont like it..

And I told her, if she cant do away with those male friend or making male friends, she should go and date them, I can date or keep a girl with many male friends.

But she had promise to change, so am watching over her.

Go. To. Police Station and drop your statement and evident.
But really, I don't know how to handle this shit you are facing op.

yinkaOdutuyo:


Am just lost bro

If truly you love her why do you want to abandon her

So basically you're dating a nut What was the thing you wanted her to agree with? Did she end up agreeing? Because it sounds like she's emotionally blackmailing you, perhaps to avoid doing what you were asking her to do. Shrugs.

yinkaOdutuyo:


Yes I want to marry her and I pray God will give us a bright future and happy home.


Bro, the issue that happened between us doesn't worth quitting a relationship, but I just decided..

What is happened is she like making Male friends of which am not comfortable with, of which I use to tell her but she wont listen, she just see it as normal stuff but I dont like it..

And I told her, if she cant do away with those male friend or making male friends, she should go and date them, I can date or keep a girl with many male friends.

But she had promise to change, so am watching over her.

Just take tins easy and let people know wht she did before putting you in trouble

if she is not willing to agree to your terms, and you are not willing to agree to hers... then you guys are just wasting y'all lives and need to go your separate ways. but whatever happens, you certainly shouldnt use PITY to stay with someone. if she says she doesnt want to change and will kill herself, then move away from that unstable woman and watch out that she doesnt try to harm you too. whatever she does to her own body is between her and her god!

tolijascro:
shes just been obsessed with you...if you truly love her marry her nah....that's if she has all the attributes you're looking for in a woman

Bro, I truly accepted your point, if there is any other word than obsession, I would have used it.

The love she had for me is just even too much for me to contain and she use to do even the undo for our relationship to keep working.

She had even more attributes I want in a woman in her. But she keep many male friends, which I don't like at all, but she had promise to change hopefully she did.

She's a smart girl.
She can't stop being so close to her Male friends(probably with benefit ) whom she has a strong bond with, not even for your sake. She knows you so well, she knows you're a sympathetic and compassionate person so she will cleverly uses this tactic (suicide threat) to cling to you probably because of what you have (financial security) until you eventually marry her in fear + the love you have for her combined .
My opinion though.

Tell her to drink d sniper n die.Nobody will miss her.Is marriage her own achievement??useme

yinkaOdutuyo:
Kindly advice me on this ooo

Omo if she wan kill herself, make she kill herself.

kizwid:
you should get one for yourself too, since two of you are psycho

Bro, I expect more from you, because this is a matter of life and death.

Under 12 using free hotspot, by their fruit you shall know them.

Just make yourself undesirable and she would end up dumping you herself

Olunmercy56:
Just marry her

I love her too, but she is doing what I hate most in relationship. She is keeping too much of male friends, which I warned her, but she refuse to change. During the snipper issue, she promise to change if I give her second chance, but if she doesn't have second chance, she will drink the snipper.

dulux07:
You shouldn't marry or date her out of pity or fear. You can't destroy your own life just to please another. If you really wanna breakup talk to anyone close to her about her plans, so they can talk sense into her.
It might just be a threat tho.

Ok thanks bro. I really and truly love her and am ready to marry. But if she didn't stop keeping many or close male friends, I will quit the relationship of which I sounded it to her ears.

I was once in your shoes, back then I had a girlfriend who told me she will commit suicide if I break her hrt, whenever we have misunderstanding she will cry & rush for sniper, I will beg her and ask for forgiveness even when she was wrong. One day we had issues and out of anger I told her am done with the relationship, you won't believe that this girl took that sniper. I was lucky I discovered it on time and I rushed her to the hospital.. I spent almost all my savings on her
When she recovered I apologized to her &, cared for her like never before!
We are happily married today with 3 kids!!!
If you don't love her enough pls just gradually withdraw from her but don't make that mistake of telling her you are done with the relationship. Not everyone can handle it