Eulalia:
A big fat lie. Doesn't always work. I can never and will never do such a thing. In fact it can never happen except one is loose. I remember the day my ex came around thinking the "okafors theory" would work for him, but no way! The feelings no longer there. It just felt like I was with a blood brother. He too was surprised that I turned him down. So They are ex's for a reason.

lefulefu:
the good bye sex thing except maybe if the man is being forced to marry someone he is not attracted to then he might still be going to his ex.But a situation where a guy breaks up from his girfriend and has a new catch what does he need from his ex again? .he has had all the sex he had with her so wetin im want from ex?
Most men prefer getting married to who they are sexually attracted to but for ladies it is not always so.she might love a guy but because the guy is not ready she now marries a man who is ready but who she is not attracted to.hence she goes back to her ex to have one last hot goodbye sex with him.Unfortunately she still keeps coming back for the hot sex .

Riele:


Yeah . I drop it for you .

Since yours is missing . Hope you make good use of it .

Banigoprecious:
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Banigoprecious:



You're not women. But rather just a woman so relax because it didn't happen to you doesn't mean it won't happen to others and they'll Fall for it

Banigoprecious:


Most men who go back to do such is either a case of that was the first girl they ever loved and probably they both took there virginity for the first time.

Magnoliaa:


I got a bit of what you're saying, but here's where I'm most interested in:

The lady keeps coming back for the hot sex, and the guy is still 'remaining,' giving her the hot sex. Obviously, he's enjoying the sex, too, if he hasn't cut her off.

But then, didn't you just say it's easier for a guy to cut off his ex and move on?? If guys really do move on to 'fresh' girls, then Okafor's law wouldn't be.

And don't we all know there are married men who sleep with their married women ex-gfs?

lefulefu:
the guy might still be single or not in a serious relationship so he might just be using her to pass away time.as soon as he is now in serious relationship and gets a girl he really likes such guys most times cut off from their exs

Let's quit it here then lol. Okafor's law sha played out in his (and the girl's) life.

P.s -- It is possible for the woman to get into a serious relationship too, while having a mindblowing sex that is x5 of the previous.

P.p.s -- men are not the only ones capable of being logical and in control of their emotions.

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I wonder though why you're seriously trying to rationalize this Law for guys . You've given me over twenty explanations now for why a man might be sleeping with his ex. Oh, it's not what it seems like. It's a man, these reasons are valid and so on. Why.

Riele:


Trash !!! .

And to think a "NIGERIAN MAN" spent his time to write down this epistle just to ridicule the opposite sex is funny .

Useless specie with no brain . Channel this energy to something productive and watch your life change

SMH

Riele:

Great ! .
So the card was used on you now you're desperately looking for your kind .
Well , you and you alone is the dumb.ass

Riele:


Trash !!! .

And to think a "NIGERIAN MAN" spent his time to write down this epistle just to ridicule the opposite sex is funny .

Useless specie with no brain . Channel this energy to something productive and watch your life change

SMH

Magnoliaa:
I am learning.

So, you asked, in total, three people... and that's suddenly a conclusive research?

You mentioned that it's safe to say it's not a myth.

And I don't understand how your deliberations, opinions, interviews and statistics are suddenly wanting in men's cases.

I mean: you came up with a lot for women, but for men you've found no answers?

Magnoliaa:


I'll agree. But prior to the man getting married, he's been having sex with the same side chicks over and over again? Even if they came after his marriage, the fact that he kept having sex with them is not the law being proven for men?

The law holds true for BOTH at the same time. You're sleeping with your ex; are you not an ex?



So who is the lady ex? If the lady ex no come back, how will they fűck, so that okafor's law will happen?



Oya, remove marriage, weight and stress from the ex-gf life. Are those the only thing that'll prevent a man from going back?

Magnoliaa:


researcher my foot. mtcheew

Banigoprecious:
Okafor's Law states that if you have mindblowing sex with a woman once, you get a free pass to always have sex with her.

Whether you agree or disagree with stereotypes, they exist, guide and shape the way people think and how they relate with one another.

For example, there is the widespread belief that wives are better at managing family funds than men, it is also believed that women are terrible at apologizing for their mistakes and f--k ups in relationships and marriages.

And then there is the belief that if you sleep with a girl once and you do it properly, she somehow becomes too weak to say no to you from that moment onwards.

This phenomenon is better known as Okafor’s Law.

The term has been made more popular in recent times by Omoni Oboli and all the drama that surrounded its release.

If Okafor’s Law is to be believed, then it means that there is a kind of magical power in the penis, and if you stir that power well enough during sex with a woman, her brain will become reconfigured to always say yes to sex with you.

Could this be true? Does this actually make sense?

I asked a guy, Chris [not his real name], a lagos-based photographer and he says “Guy, that stuff works o. Really, I think the only time women get to really break away from that enchantment is when they become born again, and even at that, omo the thing still dey hard them o .”


I asked a couple of other people including two married persons and the responses were quite mixed but majority of them say the theory is real to a very large extent.

One of them, a lady, backed up her statement with the following interesting words; ”old firewood na hin dey catch pass.”


Actually, Okafor’s Law has some merit and there might be some logic to back it up.

You’ll agree that it often takes women some time to warm up to a guy, and they usually do not let down their guard easily but once they become comfortable to the point of having sex with you, it can be said that their guard has well and truly fallen like Olympus.

This, coupled with the fact that the sex you had with her was actually mind-blowing and toe-curling, might make it pretty difficult for a woman/girl to resist you no matter how long it’s been since that spine-tingling sex.

It has to be one of the reasons why married women meet their exes and are somehow too weak to say no extra-marital affairs with them.

But is Okafor’s Law applicable to women alone? Is it just women who become too weak to say no to old sex partners? Are men are also quick to return to the warmth of old flames?

I’ve always pondered these and still I have no answers.

Also, if we are agreeing that Okafor’s Law is real, how real is it?

Out of every 10 women who have once been properly straffed, how many of them become too weak to resist that partner from that moment onwards?

Especially when it has become wrong to still be having sex with him because of their marital/relationship commitments, how many of these women fall prey to the need to feel that primal sexual satisfaction again?

In my opinion, I think seven women in this category would seriously consider engaging in that sex, and four of them will outrightly fall into the trap, especially if all the partners they've had after that experience have never been able to replicate that feeling for them, including their present husbands/boyfriends

Based on this, it is pretty safe to say that Okafor’s Law is not entirely a myth.

It might not be as conclusive as it is usually made to appear, but it is surely as real as the air you're breathing as you read these words, and as active as a clock with new batteries.

The above is my opinion. Make yours known by leaving a comment.

Skmoda360:

An ex of mine called me at exactly at 0058hrs early this month and I didn't even know it was her until she mentioned her name and I was like why calling at this odd hour and you won't believe that she said it's because she just remember us and memories just made her to call to hear from me but I warned her not to call me again, I don't do married women.....the law is fvcking real.

Banigoprecious:


People seem to forget women do have a lot of needs when it comes to sex. They can even show up at your place at the oddest hour. Just for you to bleep them

Skmoda360:

Tell those who only believe in marriage of procreation nothing else.....na em full this country ..men of nowadays can't satisfy women lately, they only think about procreation and money but as man you have to balance everything including sexual satisfaction.

Banigoprecious:


People seem to forget it's women who makes the men to go after sex enhancing drug just to satisfy them and at the end they'll still dump them that's why it's advisable to go for a permanent fix to last long. And do avoid letting them know you had taken in the past so as to not bring up silly thoughts in the future

Lostz:
men cheating is not frown at in the society.

secondly, women hardly initiate sex...... most of the time it is the man who wants the sex

Lostz:


most of the time ladies get married first so the lady ex is not really cheating......Okafor's law does not really apply in this case

Banigoprecious:


People seem to forget women do have a lot of needs when it comes to sex. They can even show up at your place at the oddest hour. Just for you to bleep them

dairykidd:

There's this girl i have been trying to get off my D all to no avail so i decided to start doing things to piss her off. She complained and complained but i kept at it. And she had enough of it sat me down to discuss where this thing we have is going. Out of frustration she left telling me she no do again. Even though she is very caring i don't trust her. So yesterday i was going to the store to get some alomo to chill at home when i saw her in the front seat of another guys car. Pretended i didn't see her. As i was coming back home guess what? She was right in front of my entrance. I didn't say a word just opened the door to get ice and tie some smoke to chill. Na so babe jump enter begin holla my name to come inside. I know she wants make up fvcking but i had my mind made up no going back. I lost a good girl because of her and i am tired of the whole shiit. After a little drink n smoke she i went in and reminded her to stick to her dirty words she used on me never to have anything to do with me again. Out of shame she left i guess to fvck the other guy cos he kept disturbing her phone.. Around 10pm at night this babe dey call me i no pick & thank God my gate was locked because i know she's still in the estate. As early as 7 am this babe done enter compound dey knock my door i didnt open but told her to get out back to her new fvck inside the pouring rain. She said all sorts of nonsense and left. I was thinking to myself so this babe after saying all that rubbish still wants to come and fvck me Now she's sending WhatsApp messages that she did what she did to test my love for her

She got one thing right tho that i have been looking for an escape route out of it all which she unknowingly provided. Girls... As for Okafor's Law its very valid and works 9.5 out of 10 times

Banigoprecious:




Even with all this said some women will still argue rubbish with you.