Please naira landers, I seriously need advice from you guys. There's this girl I have been trying to date for the past one month,she keeps giving me a No for an answer, though we live in the same compound and she shared so much secret about herself to me,even if other guys asked her out she turned them down, she seems not to hide anything from me and became so close. But I let her know that the feelings am having for her is beyond been just a mere friend. I told her I love her and I can't just pretend to be playing this game of just a friend when others are already seeing it that am the one banging her, I persuaded her so much to me where I stand with her and she promised to give me an answer yesterday been Saturday. So yesterday came and I called her for the answer and she told me her words are final and is a big No. Though I got angry and upset inside me but I didn't let it out, I just told her to go that I won't be getting any closer to her anymore so that I can get her out of my head, she took some time to ask me to explain to her what did I mean by those comments I made, I told her that with or without her I can still live my life and nothing change so I don't need her close to me again and she walked out of my house silently. Three hours later she came knocking on my door when I opened the door it was her with tears on her eyes and she was sweating heavily and she asked me why am I doing that to her and I asked her what? At this point I was confused I don't know what to say again, I just ask her to go that I will get back to her, please that's why I write this article, please I need you guys advice.

U dey hustle for canadian visa since..visa don reach ur hand,u sey make dem go..2moro dem go issue dat visa to anoda person and u go vex..how e dey do u?

my bro is your time to pretend if only you truly love her,i repeat if only you truly love her..that's do like say you nor know her again that for now na work you wan face..Buh really you just Wana pretend,then when you are finally in control ,you ask her out for the second time i tell you she will rush to accept you..try it and thank me later

donbachi:
U dey hustle for canadian visa since..visa don reach ur hand,u sey make dem go..2moro dem go issue dat visa to anoda person and u go vex..how e dey do u?

honestly you won't understand how this girl making difficult for my feelings, she can't allow me to touch or even kiss her, she said she is a virgin.

osaro6:
my bro is your time to pretend if only you truly love her,i repeat if only you truly love her..that's do like say you nor know her again that for now na work you wan face..Buh really you just Wana pretend,then when you are finally in control ,you ask her out for the second time i tell you she will rush to accept you..try it and thank me later

OK, I will try to give this your idea a shot.

uwuana:
Please naira landers, I seriously need advice from you guys. There's this girl I have been trying to date for the past one month,she keeps giving me a No for an answer, though we live in the same compound and she shared so much secret about herself to me,even if other guys asked her out she turned them down, she seems not to hide anything from me and became so close. But I let her know that the feelings am having for her is beyond been just a mere friend. I told her I love her and I can't just pretend to be playing this game of just a friend when others are already seeing it that am the one banging her, I persuaded her so much to me where I stand with her and she promised to give me an answer yesterday been Saturday. So yesterday came and I called her for the answer and she told me her words are final and is a big No. Though I got angry and upset inside me but I didn't let it out, I just told her to go that I won't be getting any closer to her anymore so that I can get her out of my head, she took some time to ask me to explain to her what did I mean by those comments I made, I told her that with or without her I can still live my life and nothing change so I don't need her close to me again and she walked out of my house silently. Three hours later she came knocking on my door when I opened the door it was her with tears on her eyes and she was sweating heavily and she asked me why am I doing that to her and I asked her what? At this point I was confused I don't know what to say again, I just ask her to go that I will get back to her, please that's why I write this article, please I need you guys advice.

Op well giving her the distance was good cos you already told her how you felt and she said no to you at that point there's no need been close to her.....but since she came back with tears in her eyes try and talk things over and see if she's back to say yes to your request. But I will strongly advise you to guard your emotions so she doesn't rob you off it, if she says yes to your request accept her but if she still insist on a NO then I will advise you to move ahead maybe with another girl around your neighborhood. OP u strong sha wanting to date a girl in your compound I can't try that shit.

uwuana:
honestly you won't understand how this girl making difficult for my feelings, she can't allow me to touch or even kiss her, she said she is a virgin.

so if u enter canada today,does it mean u go start work immediately?atleas u go know ur environs,do some window shopping and observations..which one u wan enter "wororo".

Papertrails:


Op well giving her the distance was good cos you already told her how you felt and she said no to you at that point there's no need been close to her.....but since she came back with tears in her eyes try and talk things over and see if she's back to say yes to your request. But I will strongly advise you to guard your emotions so she doesn't rob you off it, if she says yes to your request accept her but if she still insist on a NO then I will advise you to move ahead maybe with another girl around your neighborhood. OP u strong sha wanting to date a girl in your compound I can't try that shit.

honestly we are just three tenants occupying the compound and the way she also assisted with some house chores made me to have interest in her.

Papertrails:


Op well giving her the distance was good cos you already told her how you felt and she said no to you at that point there's no need been close to her.....but since she came back with tears in her eyes try and talk things over and see if she's back to say yes to your request. But I will strongly advise you to guard your emotions so she doesn't rob you off it, if she says yes to your request accept her but if she still insist on a NO then I will advise you to move ahead maybe with another girl around your neighborhood. OP u strong sha wanting to date a girl in your compound I can't try that shit.

Dont follow this oooo
Unless you will lose her at a supersonic speed
Lock up for her big time like say she be your enemy no even give her chance to talk to you for like a month and even so you can even get close to another girl in your hood and rub it on her face dont be scared not to lose her she aint a goddess

Mods why did you remove my topic, hahahahaha BUH OP . . . . . LET ME BERRA SHUT UP B4 FRUSTRATED PIPS COME FOR ME

You are on track boy, you are doing the reverse emotional blackmail right
She is just finding it difficult to Kickstart a relationship. In compound stuff, you don't ask out, you just start touching and stuff, she will be the one to be asking you what's your plan.
You mess up initially but you can still get through with what you are doing.

So next, don't be too aggressive towards her, instead give her the impression that someone else is coming to occupied your attention.
If you can, get romantically close to her close friend if you cannot, any other girl that can visit you will do, if you still cannot, whenever you see her, fake a call and be saying romantic things to the air, keep smiling.

Lastly, I hope one of you will be leaving the compound in the next 1 or 2 years because compound stuff gets ugly after 2 years max

If she's truly an innocent virgin, she's saying 'NO' because she's scared. The thoughts and fear of you ramming her tight hole to shreds and probably dumping her afterwards, doesn't go well with her mind. I feel you should make her trust you more, she really likes you but she needs your assurance.

ITbomb:
You are on track boy, you are doing the reverse emotional blackmail right
She is just finding it difficult to Kickstart a relationship. In compound stuff, you don't ask out, you just start touching and stuff, she will be the one to be asking you what's your plan.
You mess up initially but you can still get through with what you are doing.

So next, don't be too aggressive towards her, instead give her the impression that someone else is coming to occupied your attention.
If you can, get romantically close to her close friend if you cannot, any other girl that can visit you will do, if you still cannot, whenever you see her, fake a call and be saying romantic things to the air, keep smiling.

Lastly, I hope one of you will be leaving the compound in the next 1 or 2 years because compound stuff gets ugly after 2 years max

Thanks for your advice, but in the touching aspect of a thing, she no give me chance in the first place ooh, she say she be virgin.

uwuana:
honestly we are just three tenants occupying the compound and the way she also assisted with some house chores made me to have interest in her.

Guy that idea of dating your neighbors is a no no cos u will automatically have a monitoring spirit and u no go fit bring another girl come house.

Don't date a neighbour, it wouldn't end well. To make matters worse, all your concern is about having sex with her. You are sitting on a loaded keg of gunpowder.

Semperty:
If she's truly an innocent virgin, she's saying no because she's scared. The thoughts and fear of you ramming her tight hole to shreds and probably dumping her afterwards doesn't go well with her mind. I feel you should make her trust you more, she really likes you but she needs your assurance.

I have try all my best to make her understand, I have given her all the assurance but I still don't know what's causing her fear for saying no

Papertrails:


Guy that idea of dating your neighbors it a no no cos u will automatically have a monitoring spirit and u no go fit bring another girl come house.

honestly I don't normally flirt with girls, since 2016 I broke up with my ex girlfriend I haven't dated another girl

uwuana:
I have try all my best to make her understand, I have given her all the assurance but I still don't know what's causing her fear for saying no

stop giving her your attention. Tell her you can't live with the fact that someone who you love so much(she) keeps on rejecting you and it's better you both stay off eachother. See her reactions.

op,,.
hw old are u?..hw old is she?...
dating ur neighbor is a vry bad idea. d close marking will be too much. its only a matter of time b4 u start cohabiting.
..beta use ur head o. me no dey trust woman tears..be logical n less emotional

halogate:
op,,.
hw old are u?..hw old is she?...
dating ur neighbor is a vry bad idea. d close marking will be too much. its only a matter of time b4 u start cohabiting.
..beta use ur head o. me no dey trust woman tears..be logical n less emotional

am 25 and she will be clocking 18 by May 12th

uwuana:
am 25 and she will be clocking 18 by May 12th

ah..i tot as much..
..she's quite young.prolly jst finished sec sch.
im assuming she's inexperinced, hence d fear.
@op..neighbor biznes is neva a gud biznes, especially 4 her age.
bt if u intend date n disvirgin her (in d lng run),,,gt ready 4d drama u wil witness.

uwuana:
Please naira landers, I seriously need advice from you guys. There's this girl I have been trying to date for the past one month,she keeps giving me a No for an answer, though we live in the same compound and she shared so much secret about herself to me,even if other guys asked her out she turned them down, she seems not to hide anything from me and became so close. But I let her know that the feelings am having for her is beyond been just a mere friend. I told her I love her and I can't just pretend to be playing this game of just a friend when others are already seeing it that am the one banging her, I persuaded her so much to me where I stand with her and she promised to give me an answer yesterday been Saturday. So yesterday came and I called her for the answer and she told me her words are final and is a big No. [/b]Though I got angry and upset inside me but I didn't let it out, I just told her to go that I won't be getting any closer to her anymore so that I can get her out of my head, she took some time to ask me to explain to her what did I mean by those comments I made, I told her that with or without her I can still live my life and nothing change so I don't need her close to me again and she walked out of my house silently[b]. Three hours later she came knocking on my door when I opened the door it was her with tears on her eyes and she was sweating heavily and she asked me why am I doing that to her and I asked her what? At this point I was confused I don't know what to say again, I just ask her to go that I will get back to her, please that's why I write this article, please I need you guys advice.

This is not the best answer to her. You made it seem like she pointed a gun to your head and forced you to live your life revolving around hers and so you got fed up and was ready to take bullet .

The best thing would have been to just quietly walk out or gently ask her to leave your house and then you start bringing girls home or do whatever the fück you was doing before her.

Dating your Neighbour is like doing a Ponzi scheme . It will later end up in tear//fight .

Freelane33:
Dating your Neighbour is like doing a Ponzi scheme . It will later end up in tear//fight .

this your meme got me laughing very hard

Can you imagine
Now who else agree with me that women are the most confused human being on Earth
I personally don't understand why she's crying

uwuana:
Please naira landers, I seriously need advice from you guys. There's this girl I have been trying to date for the past one month,she keeps giving me a No for an answer, though we live in the same compound and she shared so much secret about herself to me,even if other guys asked her out she turned them down, she seems not to hide anything from me and became so close. But I let her know that the feelings am having for her is beyond been just a mere friend. I told her I love her and I can't just pretend to be playing this game of just a friend when others are already seeing it that am the one banging her, I persuaded her so much to me where I stand with her and she promised to give me an answer yesterday been Saturday. So yesterday came and I called her for the answer and she told me her words are final and is a big No. Though I got angry and upset inside me but I didn't let it out, I just told her to go that I won't be getting any closer to her anymore so that I can get her out of my head, she took some time to ask me to explain to her what did I mean by those comments I made, I told her that with or without her I can still live my life and nothing change so I don't need her close to me again and she walked out of my house silently. Three hours later she came knocking on my door when I opened the door it was her with tears on her eyes and she was sweating heavily and she asked me why am I doing that to her and I asked her what? At this point I was confused I don't know what to say again, I just ask her to go that I will get back to her, please that's why I write this article, please I need you guys advice.

I wanted to ask how old u are but I wouldn't.
The truth is that there are relationships that thrive and weather storms than dis trashy bf/gf tin.
Must u be her love? Because she is close to u because she confides in u means u should have affections for her.
If u happen to be a pastor, u'll be friend all d female members that comes for counselling.

Let me advise you from experience, don't press to be her bf, if you date her, you will loose her.

Just be her bestie and get the best out of the relationship that way.

The key here is to put ur emotions under control and don't let it control you

ZINIBANKS:
Can you imagine
Now who else agree with me that women are the most confused human being on Earth
I personally don't understand why she's crying

honestly the thing taya me and I get confused, I just ask her to leave that I will get back to her.

Abort mission.... I repeat Abort mission

Dating a neighbor is the worse decision you might ever make and always end woefully. It might seem sweet and a easy catch, but it always turn sour at the end.
Why not accept this said lady as a friend and go out to get a girlfriend that will come from outside your area. Your respect will hence be enhanced and intact if you do this.

halogate:
op,,.
hw old are u?..hw old is she?...
dating ur neighbor is a vry bad idea. d close marking will be too much. its only a matter of time b4 u start cohabiting.
..beta use ur head o. me no dey trust woman tears..be logical n less emotional

U sef ask aw old the girl...I'm so sure that girl just wrote jamb exams this yr

harrwix:
Abort mission.... I repeat Abort mission

Dating a neighbor is the worse decision you might ever make and always end woefully. It might seem sweet and a easy catch, but it always turn sour at the end.
Why not accept this said lady as a friend and go out to get a girlfriend that will come from outside your area. Your respect will hence be enhanced and intact if you do this.

I try to abort the mission earlier but the more we get close the more the feelings grow stronger.