Good evening house , I need ur help

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for more than a year now and our relationship seems perfect , but the only problem I have is that she has a serious boyfriend, I really love her and I know she loves me too but this her boyfriend has been our obstruction. I don’t want to leave her , that’s not an option, She doesn’t want to leave me too , She’s so perfect for me and I think I am done searching.
I am thinking of plotting a way to make the guy know we have been dating , without it coming from me , so they can break up . My sister is discouraging me but it’s my happiness.

What else can I do ? leaving her isn’t an option, I have tried dating other ladies but non of them seem to meet up .

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lol .... she has a boyfriend who is serious and from no where u became number 2. you then want number1 out for ur self

bro woman don finish ne ? i bet most of you are destiny killers, you wont marry her but deceive her out of her future parter

na wa o

Fidelismaria:

scatter their relationship without remorse

thank You jor

Na insult dem go insult you for here o.

obumsway:
lol .... she has a boyfriend who is serious and from no where u became number 2. you then want number1 out for ur self

bro woman don finish ne ? i bet most of you are destiny killers, you wont marry her but deceive her out of her future parter

na wa o

The Guy is the only reason I hvnt proposed

Descorts:
Na insult dem go insult you for here o.

I will pick from the reasonable comments

Theundertaker:
Good evening house , I need ur help

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for more than a year now and our relationship seems perfect , but the only problem I have is that she has a serious boyfriend, I really love her and I know she loves me too but this her boyfriend has been our obstruction. I don’t want to leave her , that’s not an option, She doesn’t want to leave me too , She’s so perfect for me and I think I am done searching.
I am thinking of plotting a way to make the guy know we have been dating , without it coming from me , so they can break up . My sister is discouraging me but it’s my happiness.

What else can I do ? leaving her isn’t an option, I have tried dating other ladies but non of them seem to meet up .

Just look at what u wrote 'I have a girlfriend, but the only problem I have is that she has a serious boyfriend, I really love her and I know she loves me too'. U have a girlfriend that has a serious boyfriend and at same time both of u love each other very well; are u sure u are ok? My dear, u don't have a girlfriend but u and the other guy are shareholders in same girl and perhaps the other guy has a larger share (according to u cos he is the serious boyfriend). U go talk whether them betroth the girl give the guy.

Ha! Your "girlfriend" and she is having another boyfriend. Ayam not understanding biko

Theundertaker:
I will pick from the reasonable comments

since you said she likes you tell her to end things with the guy.
if she hesitates, move on.

in other news.... anyone saw my left sock?! i cant find it!

Theundertaker:
I will pick from the reasonable comments

If you want reasonable comments, make reasonable post!

Descorts:
since you said she likes you tell her to end things with the guy.
if she hesitates, move on.

telling her to leave the guy will be very hard for me cause I knew they were dating b4 we started dating , we were supposed to be FWB , but we really like ourselves. The other guy hasn’t done anything to her for her to leave him . She’s such a compassionate person she will refuse, and I don’t want us to start having issues , she just left my house , I can’t imagine my life without her.

Davash222:

If you want reasonable comments, make reasonable post!

it might not be reasonable to you but it is to me .

Keep deceiving yourself. If she loves you as she claims, why can't she leave the first guy? I pity you oo.

Theundertaker:
telling her to leave the guy will be very hard for me cause I knew they were dating b4 we started dating , we were supposed to be FWB , but we really like ourselves. The other guy hasn’t done anything to her for her to leave him . She’s such a passionate person she will refuse, and I don’t want us to start having issues , she just left my house , I can’t imagine my life without her.

so are you saying she loves both of you equally?
If she was in a situation whereby she'd have to choose between the both of you will she choose you?

reubenobi:
Keep deceiving yourself. If she loves you as she claims, why can't she leave the first guy? I pity you oo.

I hv decided to find a way of informing the guy we r dating without it coming from me . That might work . Atleast if it doesn’t I would know I tried

Theundertaker:
Good evening house , I need ur help

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for more than a year now and our relationship seems perfect , but the only problem I have is that she has a serious boyfriend, I really love her and I know she loves me too but this her boyfriend has been our obstruction. I don’t want to leave her , that’s not an option, She doesn’t want to leave me too , She’s so perfect for me and I think I am done searching.
I am thinking of plotting a way to make the guy know we have been dating , without it coming from me , so they can break up . My sister is discouraging me but it’s my happiness.

What else can I do ? leaving her isn’t an option, I have tried dating other ladies but non of them seem to meet up .

Op is it that you and her serious boyfriend have been dating her together for 1year or he came recently? hmmm hmm hmm

Descorts:
so are you saying she loves both of you equally?
If she was in a situation whereby she'd have to choose between the both of you will she choose you?

I don’t know , but atleast I have to fight for what I want , so I should leave her like that ? The thought of it is heartbreaking seriously

Theundertaker:
I don’t know , but atleast I have to fight for what I want , so I should leave her like that ? The thought of it is heartbreaking seriously

if it's that guy she truly loves( which I believe), bros you are fighting for a lost cause.
You are just plan B. You're her side boy

if am ur papa i go disown u...

ovcwality:

Op is it that you and her serious boyfriend have been dating her together for 1year or he came recently? hmmm hmm hmm

she has been dating the guy before me, I saw her in school when I went for my masters , I think the guy have been dating her for even a year plus b4 we met , it was suppose to be a sex thing, I don’t even know what he does but I hv seen his pictures tho. 100% sure I am financially better

Serious issue!! Expose her urself . If she chooses him over you ? then face the heartbreak and move on biko

this is so funny

Theundertaker:
she has been dating the guy before me, I saw her in school when I went for my masters , I think the guy have been dating her for even a year plus b4 we met , it was suppose to be a sex thing, I don’t even know what he does but I hv seen his pictures tho. 100% sure I am financially better

"I am financially better".... It's the reason why she's with you nothing more... You better know what you're doing before your heart gets shattered...

Theundertaker:
I hv decided to find a way of informing the guy we r dating without it coming from me . That might work . Atleast if it doesn’t I would know I tried

Ehen, let me stop here, o.p I can not take your nonsense again. Please, is the girl in question gold plated? or does she belong to Saudi royal family? look at how a girl is mesmerizing and vandalizing your self esteem and you are happy, a girl that can comfortably date 2 guys at the same time is worse than a virus and you that you can consciously take part in a polyandrous relationship deserve to be castrated or sent to a jail in north Korea, in this love triangle, you are the biggest loser for knowingly entering a relationship with a girl that has a stable partner, you are now trying to cause friction between the girl and her original boyfriend, you want to pull an orubebe on them, you are not serious, better leave that girl and face the army of single ladies in the country, you will definitely see one that will tick all your boxes.....do not be a joy killer, it is not worth it.

Lamanii22:



"I am financially better".... It's the reason why she's with you nothing more... You better know what you're doing before your heart gets shattered...

whatever the case make I try my luck na , I can’t just leave her like that . My sister has begged me to leave her , given me many girls to date but na she I like I wonder why no one gets it

jagorinho:

Ehen, let me stop here, o.p I can not take your nonsense again. Please, is the girl in question gold plated? or does she belong to Saudi royal family? look at how a girl is mesmerizing and vandalizing your self esteem and you are happy, a girl that can comfortably date 2 guys at the same time is worse than a virus and you that you can consciously take part in a polyandrous relationship deserve to be castrated or sent to a jail in north Korea, in this love triangle, you are the biggest loser for knowingly entering a relationship with a girl that has a stable partner, you are now trying to cause friction between the girl and her original boyfriend, you want to pull an orubebe on them, you are not serious, better leave that girl and face the army of single ladies in the country, you will definitely see one that will tick all your boxes.....do not be a joy killer, it is not worth it.

I can make her happy , if I can’t she won’t be with me would she ?