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I Am Tired Of My Marriage / I Am Tired Of My Wife / "I Am Tired Of Seeing My Husband's Hard Joystick Every Morning!" - Nigerian Lady (2) (3) (4)
I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Eni333(f): 5:54pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
I am really tired of my marriage, my husband rarely stay at home, he just comes back to sleep and take his bath. He leaves as early as 6 to 7am and comes back by 12 or 1 in the night. Even in this lockdown, I see other men spending time with their families but my husband would leave as early as 6am and come back late. Any time I complain he would beat me up, he barely keeps money for me and my 2 kids. My elder brother is the one sending me money for my upkeep. My mother is telling me to endure it would get better one day. My husband even carry girls around, there is one bar near our street my husband takes his girlfriends there. He doesn't care about my feelings. I am thinking of leaving after this lockdown, my elder brother is asking me to come back that he would start a business for me, I am tired of enduring. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by dingbang(m): 5:56pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Ndo |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by ShenTeh(m): 5:57pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
This is your own side of the story. Things didn't just jump out the roof now. What were you doing wrong? 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Olawale118(m): 5:59pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
One sided story. Are you sure you are not the reason the man is running away from home? Just maybe you need to check yourself and make some corrections. But what do I know? 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Ningen(m): 5:59pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Isn't the ring on your finger worth it? While you're still thinking of leaving him — Buy condoms and present it to your husband. Let him have your blessing as he cheats. Buy better leather belt for him too. Now you get to decide what he beat you with. Listen to your mother, she knows it all. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Eni333(f): 6:01pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
ShenTeh:I didn't do anything wrong, maybe I should have kept quiet while he keeps on cheating and beating me 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Eni333(f): 6:03pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Olawale118:Certainly not, he wasn't like this before till he started having friends who spends all their time in the bar, that's when he started coming home late, the beating and cheating started. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Ndukings92(m): 6:03pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Will you still ask me why am not yet married? fear the fear local man abeg,hanty go home instead of you to die there abeg 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by GraGra247(m): 6:04pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Eni333: If you're story is even true, you'll have to be really dumb and empty upstairs to agree to continue living with such a man. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by ednut1(m): 6:08pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
This shit will continue to happen until people and the society stop seeing marriage as an achievement. This man does not send you. But your mum too is there saying rubbish. If he kills you with blows and punch now her eye go clear. Ur man has been cheating even before you got married so he won't change. The option is yours stay and endure(like our mothers generation) or go. 14 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Kdon2: 6:08pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Eni333: You better do that before you die like fowl. But I wonder what kind of wife you are too. Nothing happens without a reason behind it. Have you sincerely checked yourself too? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by fullofgrace(m): 6:09pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
That's the case, for how long did you guys courted before marriage |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Kdon2: 6:09pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Olawale118: Hmmmm |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by dominique(f): 6:11pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
You have a supportive family ready to take you back, why are you still contemplating? Don't let anybody emotionally blackmail you into staying for the kids, leave once the restriction is lifted. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by JasonJidenna(m): 6:15pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Eni333:You're still thinking of leaving a Man that is taking you for granted? Young lady, I will advise you to leave while you still have your body parts intact. You might be thinking how some of your friends will mock you if you leave, furck them!!! Take this advice and don't open another account to tell us stories again. 13 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by ShenTeh(m): 6:16pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Eni333: I 'see' your sarcasm. Marriage takes mutual respect. The traditional approach is that our women are often told to stoop to conquer, while the husband often came around. But I guess this message may not only be late for a sarcastic and bitter wife but for the redemption of a lost home with two innocent kids. You can redeem your marriage if you humble yourself - see, people will tell you to not take sh!t, that be a woman, etc, but hey, it's your life. Report his misbehaviour to people he respects. They will call him to his senses. Help him by not rubbing it in. Compliment that by being humble and putting in an effort to salvage what is left of your home. Check tour bitterness and angst. While I strongly kick against domestic violence, I suspect your acoustic tongue and disrespect is most probably the reason for the beating. Redeem yourself. Everyone responds to love. Good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by crackkhaus: 6:17pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
You divorce him na... I can't talk too much please, food dey my mouth. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Bigflamie(m): 6:17pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
. All these nairaland new accounts that pops out with Zeeworld stories 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Iffffffy(f): 6:20pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
dominique:you said it all, she has a supportive family, nothing justifies beating, I wish I have someone like your brother in my life, I wouldn't be where I am to day, pls, OP, leave as soon as you can. Yours isn't marriage anymore. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by CsRockefeller(m): 6:24pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Ire Ire Ire Ire Ire Ayo O Npe Mioo Oni Kin Ma Bo Oni Kin Ma Bo Nile. My dear, go back home. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by SweetCunt97(f): 6:26pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Eni333:You deserve better. Do not let anyone treat you less. Your mom is of a different generation so don't take her advice. Go with your brother so he can establish you and you can fend for yourself. Marriage is never a do or die affair. 11 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by SweetCunt97(f): 6:28pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Bigflamie:Doesn't mean shit like that don't happen. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Biancah(f): 6:28pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
ShenTeh:Na wa o, see advise. Let her be humble till he kills her, when he comes back after cheating she should tell him sweet words and pamper him. If it was your wife that is cheating, would you also take your advice ? You would remain humble right? 21 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 6:32pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Eni333: Someone will say it is the consequence of the wrong decision you made, so you either find a way to make that man happy or you live with it! "It is your duty as a woman to make your husband happy" bukatyne 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by SweetCunt97(f): 6:32pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
ShenTeh:Mr Man read her story and try to reason. You simply painted d man like a baby that needs worshipping and pacifying. So if my husband is cheating with girls I should smile and probably cheer him on huh? If he comes back past midnight, I should not ask where he went? Offcourse they'll say I ain't a caring wife, won't they? Let us call what's bad, bad. Will you give this advice if it were the woman doing such? 16 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by SweetCunt97(f): 6:34pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Mariangeles:What about her happiness Maria? So a wife in a bad marriage does not deserve to be happy huh? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by SweetCunt97(f): 6:36pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
fullofgrace:Doesn't matter. The man got corrupted along the way. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 6:37pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Nne, go back to my post, you'd understand the sarcasm better. This one pass Musa 12 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by JasonJidenna(m): 6:37pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Mariangeles:Throwing side jabs is not your thing. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Mariangeles(f): 6:38pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
JasonJidenna: I had to. It hurts me to see women suffer and get blamed for it. For the record, it is not a jab. Let's call it a reminder. 14 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by bukatyne(f): 6:38pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Bigflamie: Extraordinary everyday. |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by bukatyne(f): 6:41pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
Eni333: Can you walk us through the history of your marriage? |
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