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uu by Godoverevery: 7:41pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
gf 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: uu by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:45pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
if having a baby is that important to you then make sure she gives birth before marrying her. 3 Likes |
Re: uu by Godoverevery: 7:48pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:is very important to me sir...na only three my mama born and am the first child. 2 Likes |
Re: uu by Romanoff(f): 7:52pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
A fiancé who is pregnant now can lose the pregnancy and a wife who gives birth can lose the child a few years later. The first reason for marriage is companionship. If you can't stay faithful and loyal to that person with or without a child, please, don't marry the person. If all you need is a child, go to fertility clinics, they can give you egg so your sperm can fertilize and you can pay a surrogate to carry the child to term. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: uu by Godoverevery: 7:54pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Romanoff:hmmm...and what is the fruit of every marriage ma ![]() this isn't a matter of faithfulness ....is just a matter of not falling victim of someone whom due to her mistake can't give birth please. |
Re: uu by Romanoff(f): 7:58pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Godoverevery: There are couples in this world who are happy without children, there are also some who adopted kids when they found out they couldn't have kids. I've seen couples whom the wife married as a virgin and for 13years now, they don't have children. Guess what? Their marriage is the best marriage I've seen, so much that they've mentored a lot of younger couples. Guess what? They are also marriage counsellors. I pray that God will answer them. If you marry your best friend, you both can weather any storm. 4 Likes |
Re: uu by Jullima(f): 8:02pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Romanoff:That’s Nigerian culture for you. We’re obsessed with having kids, we’re not the most populous Black Country by magic. Marriage is not for love or companionship is mainly for reproduction. Saw news recently that a 68y/old woman gave birth. Even a 68 y/old woman that will not be around to see the child grow up still did not give up having her own child. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: uu by antidisestablis: 8:03pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Godoverevery:I just want to implore you to do the right thing, don't impregnate her before the wedding. whether you impregnate her before the wedding challenge can still come in any form. I have heard case of couple which the lady got pregnant before marriage and the baby later died it took them several years before they gave birth to another baby. I can only advise you to be prayerful and do proper investigation on your fiancee before you tie the knot. Happy marriage life in advance. 1 Like |
Re: uu by DanseMacabre(m): 8:04pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
So you're extremely sure the problem is gonna come from the lady ![]() What if you're sterile ![]() ![]() |
Re: uu by Romanoff(f): 8:07pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Jullima: Why didn't the man leave her earlier? It could be because he married her first for companionship. They stayed together till they could have their own. That is not looking like the case of @Op. |
Re: uu by Samakus(m): 8:10pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Godoverevery: Guyman, just know that no lady here on Nairaland will support you. They know why. To the point, guyman, shoot in and get her pregnant. Especially if she's over 27. E get why! I for one, will marry to 1. Have children, 2. Have company, 3. Have societal relevance. Every other opinion is inconsequential to me. Na my opinion be this. Laslas, na you know wetin you want!!! 1 Like |
Re: uu by Godoverevery: 8:12pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
DanseMacabre:that why I want to try it out.....if am the one she will know what she is up against... infact I want to know if am totally ok myself bro... 1 Like |
Re: uu by Ogilinsaka: 8:23pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
YES.... Impregnate her, before you put your fellow MAN for house. Thank you |
Re: uu by Jullima(f): 8:25pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Romanoff:True. |
Re: uu by Godoverevery: 8:26pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Romanoff:I know many aswell that jump from one prayer mountain, church, mosque, herbalist to another just to have a child. have anyone be mocked in presence for not having a child ![]() my uncle wife married her best friend but my sista she is facing alot of heat from her in-law that even the husband is totally powerless. We are in Africa forget that marriage counselor BS and do u think my grandma will smile over adopting a child...no woman in Africa can ever be happy been barren .A fact u can never dispute 1 Like |
Re: uu by Kobicove(m): 8:28pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Godoverevery: Yes! |
Re: uu by Romanoff(f): 8:30pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Godoverevery: You think marriage is a bed of roses? Or you haven't seen couples who lost all children in one day? If kids are all it takes for a marriage to be happy, that marriage will end the day the kids are lost. If you proceed that woman, be ready to stick with your decision with or without a child. Be ready to defend and stand up to anyone who will treat her badly, with or without a child. See that person as your sister. The most I'll suggest you should do is tell her you'd like her to go for fertility check up due to her abortion history. If you claim to be a Christian, it is only death that can end your marriage, not childlessness. 3 Likes |
Re: uu by Godoverevery: 8:35pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Romanoff:i hear you |
Re: uu by missimelda01(f): 9:49pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
If your sole reason for getting married is having children, why not opt for a baby mama(AKA baby factory)? When you finally understand the reason why the institution 'MARRIAGE' was created, you'd be able to answer your own question. 1 Like |
Re: uu by Lamanii22(f): 10:12pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Away from spirituality, I'd rather I give birth to all my children(just 3) and then do my wedding afterwards... Just do what you think is right OP... |
Re: uu by Psady(m): 10:47pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
@ Op, please do as it pleases you, sincerely that's what is trending in our present generation.Just as they say "don't marry because of pity".There's will always be a result to every action, I pray that things turns out good for you. |
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