Gracealone:



Dis one na hate speech, I go report una for elrufai.

laugh wan tear my belly, no be small hate speech

flokii:
@OP you want to eat your cake and still have it.. does that make any sense?
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this was my initial thought

instinct57vm:
Bros na the guy Fup, he suppose don straff this gal.. Its clear she isn’t fit for a gf and he would have seen it, instead he kept gisting like mumu.
Some boys no jus dey street smart. I trust myself when I dey street lols no wonder I don lose count��
PS: He will still straff this gal if he wishes to, no need to vex make he jus dey straff the idiot! Since she no get sense ���

So who ever no dey think with him prick like you don turn mumu. Na wa for guys like you sha. Yoi need to learn from Joe.

Joe actually has his reason for making friend with you in the first place, he believe been intimate with you will help him having you when tell you about his intentions but he was disappointed at the end of the whole scene.

The guy is in love to someone that does not love and the only help he can do for himself is to try everything possible to make him forget him.

Joe want to get his pieces of his heart back and I think he deserves to be happy.

Leave the bros nah
Focus on your new bae
Abi nah by force to do that kind painful bestie[b][/b]to dey receive unnecessary and avoidable relationship stories.

Eberechi24:

Hmmm false. Well, it depends on the definition of friendship. I have a male bestie but we haven't bleeped and never will. He has a hot gf.

lol, so u think only guys that have ugly girlfriend cheat or explore other ladies Eh yaah lol



In fact, its even guys with the hottest girlfriends that cheat the most, and mostly with ugly girls or ladies below their girlfriend or wife lol, u really don't know men

hopexter:


So who ever no dey think with him prick like you don turn mumu. Na wa for guys like you sha. Yoi need to learn from Joe.

learn from which Joe Joes that will still chop the girl silly

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

Wrong advise

Suzzi23:
Hi guys. Please I need advice.

There is this guy in my department. Let's call him Joe. He is good looking and very intelligent. He also has this very nice voice and good vocabulary. Initially we were just normal casual classmates, we greet, exchange notes and all that, nothing serious. I've always found him attractive but have not found him special in any way because I've met lots of guys like him in my University.

But few months ago he started becoming more friendly towards me. We got talking and we realized we shared a lot in common. He asked me if I was single and I told him I was. This was the truth because I wasn't dating anyone then.

Few days after another guy I was very close to asked me to be his girlfriend and I agreed. I'm in love with this guy. He is very jovial, intelligent and he knows how to treat me well. I know he loves me because I've known him for a while and he has treated me with love, affection and respect. It's always fun being around him and I enjoy his company.

Despite now being in a relationship, I still continued spending time with Joe. We shared a lot of deep intimate info about ourselves with each other. I have never felt more comfortable talking to someone before. Talking to him always made me feel good. I felt I could be vulnerable with him. He was very honest and didn't hide the dark aspects of himself. He wasn't the type to pretend he was a good person. And he wasn't. He had done a lot of bad things in the past and he wasn't afraid to talk to me about them. And although this might sound weird I liked the fact that he wasn't the typical "moral individual" I was used to meeting. I liked the fact that he had a dark personality that only me knew about. He said things to me that made me begin to explore myself and my sexuality in ways I didn't even imagine that I could. He was always fond of teasing me and never hesitated to correct me if I did anything wrong. I loved that kind of honesty.

As we talked more Joe opened up to me that he was attracted to me and had feelings for me. He would flirt with me and I'd try my best not to flirt back but I enjoyed his flirting and I enjoyed his company. He asked me if I felt the same way about him and I was honest and I said I had feelings for him, because I did. He is an attractive guy and even though I have a boyfriend I can't help being attracted to him..

He then asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I was already dating someone. He was surprised by my response. He told me he was under the impression that I was single and that's why he had gotten so close and intimate with me. But he didn't appear angry or sad. He even told me my bf was lucky to have me.

The problem now is that since that day he hasn't talked to me. When I see him in class, he doesn't even act like I exist. He doesn't reply my messages, doesn't pick up my calls and doesn't check up on me. Throughout this lockdown he hasn't even texted me once. This is unlike him. I feel very bad about the whole thing. It's almost like our relationship didn't mean anything to him and I didn't mean anything to him. I want to still be friends with him.

What advice do you still want ?you can't eat your cake and have it. He was hoping to have you as his girlfriend since you told him you are single when you got close to each other since that cannot happen he has to jappa.
I think you are looking for someone you want to friendzone, pls leave the guy alone and concentrate on your relationship . Cheers.

1. Mr Joe did the right thing, I like people that doesn't pretend.

2. He knew it will be dangerous for him to continue because he is not ready to share, cheat or be assistant..

3. Your mistake was not to inform him about your new relationship since you said you were close.

4. The guy will come around but he needs to shut down a lot of windows or files and redefine the friendship.

5. You also need to redefine your friendship with him as well otherwise you will loose both guys. Becareful because na from clap den dey enter dance.

HARDDON:


Second emphasized. Arrrrrrrrhhhhhh.

Can't we just flow without this boring, annoying tautology?

He is really living out his name. Average Joe!

Here is a free meal, and uncle went to just soil it with stupid questions.

Boss

What else do you want from Joe?

You already have your own boyfriend. Leave Joe to look for his own boyfriend too. Because he might not get any other girl he wants if you keep hanging around him all the time in the name of "friends".

And lastly, will you be Happy if u notice your current boyfriend has a very close female friend like you want to be with Joe?

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

Na wa oh
Sense is scarce these days

From your explanation, its obvious what you feel for JOE is strong. You should be grateful he left......if that nigga had stayed, honestly, he will smash hell outta ya punni. He also knows hanging around will dent his chances of dating another girl.

SOMETIMES THEY TELL YOU THEY HAVE A BOYFRIEND TO KNOW YOUR REACTION BUT THEY DONT.

chigo5:
i prefer friends with benefits no emotional attachment e dey sweet pass bestie, who bestie help.

nothingn sweet pass this Bro, I have been in a friend with benefits since almost 8 months nah and I must says it’s the best relationship so far.. me that I don’t like relationship before.

This is my submission to this subject matter, "u can't eat Ur cake and still have it "[/b] u have wounded the heart of that young man [b]Joe, cos in the first place u knew what his advances to u where all about n u greedily and myopically had to fall to the other guy"s advances..............The worst thing about it, is that u still continued seeing Joe even while u had agreed a relationship with that new guy, is that not an act of perfidiousness n infidelity?......later now ladies would be complaining that guys cheat more than ladies where as it's a unisex thing or more worst in ladies self..............And another thing u ladies don't understand is that some guys are shy to say such things as "i love you" in a haste it is logically thought before been said while some do say it as quick as electricity velocity, so if u re relating with some one try and understand the kind of personality the person is first before u take any action.......So in conclusion to this subject matter i advice, u leave the poor boy alone to nurse his scar n u focus on Ur new found love rather than cheating except u would quit Ur relationship with that second guy and face Joe alone if u seriously love him and not infatuating (subject to whether Joe agrees to u again) cos from Ur story "Joe" is a jealous lover and not those "ekwuke" type of guys that can date more than 2 ladies at a time.

Please leave the guy to sort himself out, I know what he's going through. The best thing you can do for yourself (ie. If you really love your current boyfriend )is to respect Joe's decision

Eberechi24:

Hmmm false. Well, it depends on the definition of friendship. I have a male bestie but we haven't bleeped and never will. He has a hot gf.

besties na scam, it favor girls shaa because it’s only gullible guys do the shiit call besties.. if I meet a girl and she tell me she has male besties, i will take a walk.

May we never be involved in an unprofitable business. You can't eat your cake and still have it. Pls free the young man. He has moved on with his life.

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

you think that's smart enh, that is how you greedy girls get yourselves in to see trouble.

Millenniumlady:
Use the both guys to your advantage


Keep joe guy for assignments and handout test and other class stuff



While use the new guy for your finances phones,clothes,eateries wigs


And please stay in school hostle that way non of them can bother you with sex cause they can't gain access to girls hostel and you ever visit any of them reduce your sexual conversation with joe guy and learn to keep your phone private.....Hope it helps

Pathetic.

Jeweltz:


Dangle sex infront of joe but don't give him. Manipulate him and have him your way. Men are meant to worship us

Wow...

�����lolsss I said what I said. Why is the guy pained and stopped keeping in touch since he isn’t thinking with his prick like me lolss����Ppl like you no kuku dey like hear truth no vez����lolssss

Hi... I'll go through it.

Renida:
Hi. Did you see this thread? NekkyCee

chigo5:
happened to me bck in school, gal had to confront me and ask why I stop caring bout am I tell am say no need of me flocking around other people's babe say me too wan my own babe

I'm impressed, I didn't know there were guys that still have this old fashioned self honour and respect for boundaries.



I pray God will reward you with a faithful lady.

CsRockefeller:
Recently, I posted on FB that I have found a new babe.

The following day, my very close female muslim friend told me that I shouldn't I have posted such that I should have kept it private. Since then, she dissappearred from my life. This is someone that we talk at least every day on Watsapp and on phone at least every week. The funny thing is that she is in a relationship and I have been telling her that I am seriously searching.

It didnt end there, like 3 days after, a girl I knew tru a family friend and was planning on seeing b4 d lockdown told me she saw my post and that she is happy for me, I told her its nothing serious but she insisted that I have found someone already. Till date we havent said a word to each other.

That was how I lost 2 friends not to even talk about family and friends that kept on talking about d post, I just had to delete it.

Modified
This is getting strange, I have noticed that 80% of my comments on any relationship or family thread gets to make front page. Initially, I waved it off being it may just a mere coincedence but with this thread hitting F.P I am now curious. Is any Mod following me?

Wow, I had similar experience late last year, I met this beauty personified lady in UI, for postgraduate class. Before we say jack she don dey close to me, unknown to her I'm also eyeing one of our coursemate which she met twice through me. We chat and she informed she has a guy, but funny enough I have access to classified information from her without even asking. Initially I try to make moves to ask her out but not serious but one day she told me I will make a good boyfriend, by this time my formula don catch the other course mate, me just bone, the next day I mistakenly said to her love you and she responded back love you too. I was shock but I just overlooked. Some days later my babe birthday was just few days so I just post her picture on WhatsApp status in anticipation oh, if you see the response this girl give, clearly shows that I have hurt her emotional, thought we are still friends but boundaries has been drawn since it is clear she can have me. So the behavior of your friends show that they have feeling for you despite being in a relationship.

So all the while, you were chatting with this Joe dude, you never for once told him you got a bf till he asked you out.? Wow! You're one dangerous lady and I'd have avoided you as well.

All I got to say is that you're one pf those unstable minded chics.

obviously the besthe guy likes u and had always wanted u to be his girlfrnd from the unset but probably he was waitin for the 'right time' . he should hav made his intentions knwn early enough. whch kind of delay is dat?

Op you just lost a loyal person.

You ended the relationship with deceit, because you think you are smart. Someone who confided in you by telling you darkest of secret.

Just one question What will it cost you to tell your bestie that you ve gotten yourself a boyfriend.

Now he has expressed his feelings to you before you know that you will tell him about your boyfriend.

Dude did the right thing because only God knows how many secret you are still keeping from him.

There is this saying (you cannot hold me like a pitch of salt and expect me to carry you like a bag of rice)