donbachi:
Dont know of others...i dey resume knacking 3weeks after child birth.

Lets waith for the elders

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zeuss:


up to the parties involved.....if the woman feels like and the man doe not mind the flows following childbirth it can be happen 1 minute after child birth not Cesarean birth

You are not serious are you? Aside the blood, what about pains as a result of tear the woman might have? Even if there is no tear, don't you know bleeding can occur? Pls this your answer is a capital No

Ask your Gynecologist not Nairaland.

ridbell01:
my sis don't try that now because before that 6 months your husband is a gooner

3month is the best by then the woman is completely healed especially if there was Stitches

olabrinks:
I don’t know why you’re spreading lies here please. Who is going to be tight will be tight regardless of how long you wait. It all depends on the individual, age, elasticity and hiw much the vagina expanded during delivery. Same way some women go right back into shape after delivery, some women remain fat for years. If you like stay away from sex for a year, if your elasticity is poor and your vagina expanded significantly with tears, it will leave some permanent damage that only surgery can treat.

And what causes the VJ to lose elasticity? Let's stop deceiving ourselves. No woman's VJ goes back 100% to normal after delivery but it can still be corrected and maintained by allowing it time to heal during which you'll do hot sits baths and use other herbs to quicken healing.
Not allowing it go through these processes will make a woman to start farting and leaking uncontrollably through the VJ.
I have seen so many cases in the my years of practice. This is life not what I read somewhere. But many are ashamed to admit it out there.

There's nothing like "poor elasticity" something causes it to lose elasticity. Poor maintenance, which is one of the things we are talking about.

missimelda01:
I assume it would hurt down there for a while after childbirth, why not wait until the pain is gone and it's a bit tight

Thanks jare

Michelle55:


1 full year you say? that's a very loooooonnnnggg time oh.. Even me sef no fit wait for 6months before I attack my husband not to talk of 1yr.. Las las we go find way do the thing before all these girls wey dia eyes no clear go dey eye my husband
I no dey like rough play

Your type is rare.

I'll wait to forever if it's the type of sex I had today. Girl smelt of fish

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

This is bad.
Four to six weeks is ok as she's almost out of pueperium.
The main reason they used to wait that long back then was because they were ignorant about different contraceptive methods coupled with the poor access to reproductive health services.
Abstinence was their major form of family planning. Even at that, a woman may not see her period for up to six months if she breastfeeds exclusively and so she's not at risk of pregnancy.

Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa.. this your meme eh? I don laugh taya.
Well, like I said, there are other ways you can help relieve ogar without him necessarily penetrating. I mean ... It for your own good. As for me, that's what I'll do when I get married. Because after listening to complains of Young mothers who after child birth could not get their hooha back to size, I resolved within me to observe the full waiting period. Our mothers know better.

Hubby will have to chilax o because if anything goes wrong, they'll jump on the next available mhm.. Lol

Better discuss it before marriage.

7 days

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

Your idea is good...
But is it practicable?? Some wives will presumably ask for sex before 6month...

If the lady do not undergo any surgery or complications, two months is okay to resume bleeping. But if there complications I can wait whole year bfore knacking my wife. I will find solace elsewhere bfore then.

QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

3months

Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.

Good idea

Auladimeji1:
Honestly, two years is okay
I hate the smell of blood or new born baby stuffs

Bros are u ok? U wan de chest na abi

Six months without shaving your public hair. Medically advised

Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa.. this your meme eh? I don laugh taya.
Well, like I said, there are other ways you can help relieve ogar without him necessarily penetrating. I mean ... It for your own good. As for me, that's what I'll do when I get married. Because after listening to complains of Young mothers who after child birth could not get their hooha back to size, I resolved within me to observe the full waiting period. Our mothers know better.

Hubby will have to chilax o because if anything goes wrong, they'll jump on the next available mhm.. Lol

You are very active on this topic

yvelchstores:
it is your opinion that is absolutely baseless, ridiculous and outrageous. All a woman who gave birth needs is to breastfeed her child to fasten the shrinkage of the womb and when she feels up to it incorporate Kegel exercises to help her pelvic walls.
You say our mothers didn't have issues with loose pelvic walls, well did our fathers confirm that with you

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QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

Allow her to finish nursing the child pls... Impatience creature

buzorcharles:



U for kuku say u hate sex. Abeg think abt ur husband for once. 6 month without sex= unstable marriage

Lol... This generation is sex starved. Like I said in my other comment, sex is not all about penetrating a woman. There are other ways to relieve yourself!!!!

jaxxy:


A cs delivery can't have it that quick. Men shud have control over themselves. It's not that hard espciaily when u understand the reason for it.

Lol
CS doesn't affect the vagina.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:


You can start banging her anything from 3 to 5 weeks after childbirth if there were no complications

Don't objectify women. It's really not about when you can start banging her. It's about when she feels ready to resume. She's the one with the sores not the man.

ridbell01:
my sis don't try that now because before that 6 months your husband is a gooner

God forbid!. Like I said in my other comment, sex is not all about penetrating a woman. There are other ways to relieve yourself!!!!

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

fvck! See a lot of people liked your fvcking post out of ignorance. Wating that long doesn't guarantee that your vj will go back to normal, vj normally regain its fvcking size in few weeks. Stop spreading lies to a fvcking field you don't fvcking belong. Face your fvcking field.
As for you QueenKKfire, your doctor will give you best fvcking advice.

Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

Don't for that during our mothers time, our fathers have plenty wives or side chicks to go for. Six months is ok, if the man can endure

QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

Please wait for 8 weeks except you have a small langa langa.

pek:
Either this is false or your mum was one of many wives. So your mum told you that the ideal time was one year and you believed her? A man who is not impotent will wait one year? Don't try this with your husband (when you get married).

God gave us wisdom. Let use it. I'm not saying you're going to be staring at each other like statues for that 6 months. Think!

Some of you are just crazy. You have a mother, go and ask what women go through. Ask her about vaginal tear during childbirth and post partum depression.

thesicilian:

You're right.
All those modern ladies forming 'I am not ready' even after 3 to 6 months do so at the risk of losing their husbands temporarily to sidechicks.

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