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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by fasbat(m): 12:18am On May 01, 2020
QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.
honestly,6/8 weeks after birth is my practice with my wife and I have four (4) children

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by whitemand4(m): 12:19am On May 01, 2020
ufondunenye:
6 MONTHS Oga shocked shocked shocked

Wow ! You're so pretty �
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by taven(m): 12:19am On May 01, 2020
QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.
You nor go leave her!!!! Shu!!
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Arewa1408: 12:21am On May 01, 2020
zeuss:


up to the parties involved.....if the woman feels like and the man doe not mind the flows following childbirth it can be happen 1 minute after child birth not Cesarean birth

Haa bros, did you actually think it through before commenting? I doubt it.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:21am On May 01, 2020
As soon as she feels ready.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by babalonimi: 12:22am On May 01, 2020
Tpave:

While there's no required waiting period before you can have sex again, many health care providers recommend waiting to have sex until four to six weeks after delivery, regardless of the delivery method. The risk of having a complication after delivery is highest during the first two weeks after delivery.
I stayed 9months cos I don't want to give my wife stress unnecesarily. Note she even delivered naturally. The joy of my baby self make m not to even think of sex walahi. Pls women need a lot care after birth so sex shld nt b an issue immediately after birth.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by olabrinks(f): 12:24am On May 01, 2020
Darling why I’m triggered is because some women after reading your post may start unnecessarily abstaining from sex because they believe your comment is factual. If you’re going to state your silly opinions on this thread, please make it very clear that it is your opinion, because from the looks of it, you’re typing as if you’re a medical professional who knows what they’re talking about. You probably just made all of that up in your head.
Eulalia:


Buahahahahaaaa. Please can somebody advise this uncivil fellow to stop getting herself worked up over a harmless opinion I made since morning and almost forgot I did? Like seriously, what's the hullabaloo all about?

Look, the last time I checked, opinions are like behinds and every body's got one.
If its for the likes you're clamoring, sorry you're ain't getting any with the way you're going about it.

Be civil.
Peace.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by MTAIYEM: 12:25am On May 01, 2020
Atleast after the pueperium, I.e, about six weeks after labour. Every physiological changes would have return to normal.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:25am On May 01, 2020
eni4real:
You are very active on this topic grin

My brother, I was dragged in o. Didn't know it was going to make front page. Anyways, I still maintain my stand on 6 months. Let everyone contribute Thiers in peace.

You too, what are you doing here? grin
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 12:26am On May 01, 2020
Minimum of 10 years.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Olaniyi2001: 12:26am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:



Ok. but Like I said in my other comment, sex is not all about penetrating a woman. There are other ways to relieve yourself!!!!

Hey sis, i think you need to take a chill pill on this "sex is not all about penetrating a woman, there are other ways to relieve yourself." connotations, i suppose you talking about hand job nd blowjobs here. Obviously not all guys love this shits, i know alot of well to do guys who doesn't allow anything that pertains to hand job or head why making out, cause dont like it..hence alot of guys attain their sexual ectasy through penetration.. truth b told i dont really think the decision to stick to 1 year of celibacy after child birth is attainable because the decision is not yours, its a consentual one.
The opinion you gave is a little misleading to females on this forum nd highly detrimental to the well-being of a family ..obviously 98percent of guys would certainly reject this one year celibacy..there is no personal decision in marriage my dear..its should be a mutual one.
I think the doctor is in the right position to give the verdict in this situation.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Ikpongiton: 12:28am On May 01, 2020
[quote author=missimelda01 post=89002247]I assume it would hurt down there for a while after childbirth, why not wait until the pain is gone and it's a bit tight [/quote a bit tight for what? give me the one that is loose and see , whether i will not wire it wella and appreciate you.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Zeeknow3245(m): 12:32am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
I don't know if i should say this, vagina doesn't slack what you see is the appearance of the vulva which constitute the opening and the slacked thing that looks loose is the labial. It is not like an elastic pant which slack hope my medics will admit with me or better still do your findings. What i know of is that it expands

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:33am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:


My brother, I was dragged in o. Didn't know it was going to make front page. Anyways, I still maintain my stand on 6 months. Let everyone contribute Thiers in peace.

You too, what are you doing here? grin
I am following you up and down. You know now grin
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by mandate12: 12:36am On May 01, 2020
MrEazi223:


I'm not an indigen and if you read my post I'm a Yoruba guy that live alone and working its circumstances that made me to beg

BTW, what do u mean by ''... I'm a telecom engineer, *a rigger* ..'' ? Really need to understand who u r and what u want. Thanks
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Ikpongiton: 12:36am On May 01, 2020
Samfloxin:
Two months or thereabout...
Be honest with your self o . Will you faithfully and sincerely wait for her for two months
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by danuzochukwu: 12:36am On May 01, 2020
I think if your wife's delivery was through natural birth two months should be ok, but if it was through surgery I think you should give her space for six months to allow the wound to heal properly.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Janosky: 12:39am On May 01, 2020
QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

1 Cor 13:4
"LOVE is Patient...."

75 days is ok.. my personal experience...
Your spouse has to focus his mind and emotions on helping wifey to cope with fresh challenges of parenthood...

It's not a life sentence for your spouse to exercise patience...

Your wife just born her body still dey heal coupled with stress of adjustments to motherhood, some men are only interested in thinking with them 3rd leg, Haba !!!!!
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by moshino(m): 12:39am On May 01, 2020
Karleb:


Why can't the woman channel her own energy towards becoming the next Alakija?

Did she marry to be celibate?

Waiting 6 months after child delivery to have sex with ones wife is too long! That's half a year!

Arrant nonsense.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by ekevwe(m): 12:43am On May 01, 2020
QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.

You can make love with her from the first day. But the question is can you enjoy it? Obviously no.

Hold on, when she is ready she will notify you.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Ikpongiton: 12:44am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
1 year for men that have 3 to 4 wives ?face of a libr
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by melviniyke2002(m): 12:44am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
nice analysis,but if during child birth no complication 6 weeks to 8 weeks is ideal..me personally i prefer 4 months.....

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:47am On May 01, 2020
donbachi:
Dont know of others...i dey resume knacking 3weeks after child birth.

Does it mean you don't have better things to do in life ? No irritation at all grin grin grin

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:48am On May 01, 2020
donbachi:
Dont know of others...i dey resume knacking 3weeks after child birth.

Does it mean you don't have better things to do in life? No irritation at all grin grin grin

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Coolgent(m): 12:49am On May 01, 2020
Team polygamy!
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Janosky: 12:49am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:

At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.

For one year their men (Papa Nnamdi) go dey sample outside nau... (hear no evil,see no evil..).

At least one month Kegels exercises can take care of the Vj tightening bit., Also there are effective home made remedies for slack Vj...
JT no be borehole.

Most women in this clime are either feeling too lazy to do Kegels ( after 2 kids many of them done turn Orobo because them done reach pinnacle of their lifetime achievement..) or they are not well informed about how to handle the issue to make it a non issue in their marital life.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Omopinky(f): 12:49am On May 01, 2020
Doctor told me 6weeks for normal delivery oo.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by olamilekan72(m): 12:49am On May 01, 2020
Tpave:

While there's no required waiting period before you can have sex again, many health care providers recommend waiting to have sex until four to six weeks after delivery, regardless of the delivery method. The risk of having a complication after delivery is highest during the first two weeks after delivery.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Ikpongiton: 12:50am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.
Name one and shame the devil
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 12:50am On May 01, 2020
Olaniyi2001:


Hey sis, i think you need to take a chill pill on this "sex is not all about penetrating a woman, there are other ways to relieve yourself." connotations, i suppose you talking about hand job nd blowjobs here. Obviously not all guys love this shits, i know alot of well to do guys who doesn't allow anything that pertains to hand job or head why making out, cause dont like it..hence alot of guys attain their sexual ectasy through penetration.. truth b told i dont really think the decision to stick to 1 year of celibacy after child birth is attainable because the decision is not yours, its a consentual one.
The opinion you gave is a little misleading to females on this forum nd highly detrimental to the well-being of a family ..obviously 98percent of guys would certainly reject this one year celibacy..there is no personal decision in marriage my dear..its should be a mutual one.
I think the doctor is in the right position to give the verdict in this situation.

Did you read the whole of my post or you only read the part you want to counter me on? I can't start repeating it all over again. Go back and read it again. OK...I said 6months, you can chose to do 1 day. Your choice. There's nothing like misleading anyone here cos we all are adults and know what is best for us.

As for the other ways of relieving yourselves, its not a must you buy my idea on that. Its just a suggestion and I don't remember forcing it on anyone.

Do you, let me do me.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 1:02am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.
Do they know that one? Small thing and they're looking for means to chook eye outside. Selfish humans. undecided

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Sagay212: 1:08am On May 01, 2020
You should allow your wife to rest for as long as she wants...even if it's one year. That's why you need to have enough money so that you can be phucking clean and high class oloshos till your wife is ready.

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