OP my honest advice? Tell your mother this story so she can give you one of those brain resetting slaps. Those kind slap wey Dey turn pikin to doctor and lawyer.

Don’t face your book you hear? 100 level you are already derailing your future over woman.

Kids everywhere,kids in the house..line one will not marry her,line two was on lust lane.. both line are ruining there tomorrow race.. Nothing is sweet for you now..your sweetness is not from her.. Focus on your education and stop creating unnecessary distortion for yourself..

Lots of comments already. I doubt if the op will read this but if you are fortunate to read this, then I can assure you that you are already unfortunate with this girl. First of all, I will like you to know that this girl will surely weigh her options. Does she stand a better chance with you or her ex?
Secondly, some guys (like you) are too selfish. Deep down, you know that you are just flexing the girl because she is sweet and loyal but you don't have a mapped out plans for her. If you have a mapped out plan, she won't ever go back to her ex if your description of her is accurate.

Thirdly, when you get a very rare kind of girlfriend, do everything possible to keep her. Marry her at once, visit her guardians, get very serious and jealous. Activate your alpha mode, protect her, treat her gently. Spike her brain with rare kind of love.

If all the above does not work and you notice her ex gaining more ground, impregnate her. Desperate times calls for desperate measures. Fight for what you think is yours.

once debe, is forever debe....forgerrit OP ....that babe will definitely go back to her ex I can bet my middle finger on it

maxist2020:
if you must keep your girl from going back to her ex then you must give her close marking. I had similar experience during my university days but with close marking I was able to win her over and we will be getting married soon.
when I met my girl, it took us one full year before we started dating reason been that she was still in love with an ex who disvirgined her and was waiting for him to come around but because I was given her close marking she couldn't do some certain thing with the guy. eg chart, calls and message and so as a player the guy got frustrated and left.

you dont know anything, your babe might be seeing her ex without chatting with him,no calling except when they want to meet for some rounds and if you married her, it doesn't guarantee that her ex wont be screwing her, don't detach a lady from her ex by force.

Please create a thread to share your story so that others can learn, you can mention me so that i can know when you post it thanks

denuga01:

My brother I concur, i disvirgined a lady last year and she claimed she was pregnant for me. like u said she usually showed me chats of toasters and i believed her more. she stays with her sister that we usually spoke and chats unknown she was her friend. she told me her delivery date from scan was 25th of this month, so i told my parents briefly. So i was worried as 25th has passed now including my people. I discovered yesterday she has given birth 2 weeks ago after which she was still collecting money from me after naming ceremony in another mans house that the baby resembled. I gave her money for house rent, hospital, baby things among others. i even gave her money last week during corona o wey people dey lament. i will save the details for later when things have calmed down. This is between yesterday and today issue o. i know some go say na lie, make God deal with me if lie here. all the scam was possible because i spend most of my time on island UNKNOWN SAY WE 2 ON HER

my guy go make money she go forget about her ex guy

Olamide - Track 5 (999 album)

He don talk everything there already

bitter tears ahead

Gadafii:
She's sweet and loyal indeed, baba every girl got a price tag on her head, not every girl might be for sale tho

That ex done pull up with a whip and u expect her not to shake like tiger generator, after all na him burst her cherry, that feeling will still be there, there is everything possibility she will fall back to her ex.

My advice sit her down and have a deep conversation with her, ask her what she wants, you or her ex, make her realize her that choosing her ex won't hurt u(we know it will sha).
If she chooses you, she will have to cut ties with her ex(this one go hard her) but she have to, if she chooses her ex, bro na inside life..if she says she doesn't know what she wants, bro u already lost her, collect enough points from her before you call it quit

Life isn't fair after all

demon.....wicked good adviser.....not in do u bro....any girl still in contact with the RX is a gunner and more pains to the elbow of his new supposed mumu

I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

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New car and audio promises.

You cannot beat that. For ladies, fantasy matters more than reality.

Once you make up your mind that anyone is expendable, no lady can break your heart.

Give it a try. Act like you don't give a crap and mean it.
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FREEDOM COMES WHEN YOU LEARN TO LET GO.

hideraoluwa:
She’s gone bro

It's like you are the sweet and loyal type

ityP:



You're clearly deceiving yourself. That babe has ONLY one mumu button: HER EX

: ..I won't perceive ur assertion to be obnoxiously scurrilous because its just your opinion.. You said "that babe has only one mumu button:her ex." Which means her EX is her mumu button. Which means by implication, if u want to press her mumu button, you should press her EX. Which means if that guy wants to press her mumu button,he shld go and press the EX? Gentleman does that sound commonsensical to you? Gentleman don't u think that this your narrative is chronically disequilibrated ,hypoperfused and nonsensical?

What will be will surely be ,bro

My advice sit her down Make your love confessions to her and have a deep conversation with her, ask her what she wants, you or her ex, make her realize her that choosing her ex won't hurt u(we know it will sha).
If she chooses you, she will have to cut ties with her ex(this one go hard her) but she have to, if she chooses her ex, bro na inside life..if she says she doesn't know what she wants, bro u already lost her, collect enough points from her before you call it quit

DrEbubeagunaech:

: ..I won't perceive ur assertion to be obnoxiously scurrilous because its just your opinion.. You said "that babe has only one mumu button:her ex." Which means her EX is her mumu button. Which means by implication, if u want to press her mumu button, you should press her EX. Which means if that guy wants to press her mumu button,he shld go and press the EX? Gentleman does that sound commonsensical to you? Gentleman don't u think that this your narrative is chronically disequilibrated ,hypoperfused and nonsensical?

It means: THERE'S NO NEED FOR HIM TO WANT TO PRESS ANY BUTTON. Na her ex hold am

I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

she is telling you that you don't have money. Just downgrade her to ordinary sexmate so you won't have a heart break

Sparro:
Lots of comments already. I doubt if the op will read this but if you are fortunate to read this, then I can assure you that you are already unfortunate with this girl. First of all, I will like you to know that this girl will surely weigh her options. Does she stand a better chance with you or her ex?
Secondly, some guys (like you) are too selfish. Deep down, you know that you are just flexing the girl because she is sweet and loyal but you don't have a mapped out plans for her. If you have a mapped out plan, she won't ever go back to her ex if your description of her is accurate.

Thirdly, when you get a very rare kind of girlfriend, do everything possible to keep her. Marry her at once, visit her guardians, get very serious and jealous. Activate your alpha mode, protect her, treat her gently. Spike her brain with rare kind of love.

If all the above does not work and you notice her ex gaining more ground, impregnate her. Desperate times calls for desperate measures. Fight for what you think is yours.

You think it's about mapping plans abi? You dunno whats going on. If you like, map out world plans for babe, babe wey wan cheat go cheat. She hasn't weighed anything. if she has, she suppose know say going to her ex isn't sensible. The ex go still hurt her. And your advice of marrying babe at once no get head. No sensible man should RUSH to marry any woman. Don't deceive yourself into thinking marriage would lock the babe, it won't. In fact, na inside your house she go dey knack man. Rushing to impregnate her is even more unwise. See,you can't keep who doesn't want to be kept. Let things flow as it should. No kill yourself ontop woman matter. There are too many women in this world. If she leaves, you go still find better one later. Until you find the one wey love you and only you die, no think to marry any other one. If not, OYO is your case. A word, they say is enough for the wise

internationalman:
I pity who's bold enough to date my else while I'm still a bachelor...

Nah u Dem put for 1000?

I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

You're afraid? Nuisance!
You and your types should spare us these incessant relationship nonsense. If that's what your life depends on, keep it up. No go grab beautiful life for yourself. Nonsensical

Sarang:



She showed you the shots herself.
She’s as honest as Bleep mahn.
You’re lucky

Lmao. Are you really a lady? Cos if you are, you should know how these things work. Showing him her chats with the guy isn't honesty for all i know. Shebi you know say person fit dey delete certain chats abi? See eh, any babe wey dey show you her chats with a particular guy (worse still her ex), just wants you to trust her so much. So, it's easier for the guy to suspect nothing when she eventually starts to cheat on him. No be today this one start na.

I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

ITS HONESTLY PAINFUL TO FIND ONESELF IN SUCH A SITUATION! SORRY BRO!

PLEASE NOTE, "THE BEAUTIFUL ONES ARE NOT YET BORN".. THIS SHOULD BE A MOTIVATION FOR YOU TO BE MORE FOCUS, MAKE MONEY, AND MAKE MORE MONEY (LEGALLY), AND YOU'LL BE SURPRISED THAT EVEN IF YOU LOSE HER NOW, YOU WILL GET A BETTER REPLACEMENT FOR!

DON'T GET DISTRACTED, DON'T LOSE YOUR MIND, DON'T FIGHT FOR WHAT IS NOT FIGHTING FOR YOU! SOMETIMES, LETTING GO CAN BE THE OPTION!!!

ityP:



It means: THERE'S NO NEED FOR HIM TO WANT TO PRESS ANY BUTTON. Na her ex hold am

Its OK bro...let,s just pretend we didn't perceive the nonsynchrousness,,dysrythmicity and inconsistencies in ur assertions.....but.its OK...greet everybody for me...tell them I,ll come back after lockdown.

SangoOlukosoOba:


If you have money, I will suggest you assasinate the Ex.

My personal opinion.

To what end? He go dey assassinate many guys be that. Why will i like for a lady? If i wan kill, better make i kill to get money, not to keep a babe. Very unwise

Money above all
Don’t be surprise the girl you called been sweet and loyal
Would run away any moment
Cos ex is back with another car
Woman and money are bread and butter

Study

Work hard

Make money

More money...

Pls follow this instructions.

ityP:



Lmao. Are you really a lady? Cos if you are, you should know how these things work. Showing him her chats with the guy isn't honesty for all i know. Shebi you know say person fit dey delete certain chats abi? See eh, any babe wey dey show you her chats with a particular guy (worse still her ex), just wants you to trust her so much. So, it's easier for the guy to suspect nothing when she eventually starts to cheat on him. No be today this one start na.

Leave them,them never sabiii women

My friend focus on your studies. You can not keep any girl.

mimimile93:
Loan money and buy yourself a G5 airplane. That way, she won't go back excpt the ex buys yatch. If he buys yatch. Buy airbus A308. Always be ontop

Like, are u for real?

Well, I'm induced to comment on this.
First, u Ave to understand what you want. There's 85% that she would go back to the ex giving their history and biology. But no worries. Just converse with her. Let her know how you feel about her and that you know that her ex is trying to get her back. Clear her mind that you can't play second fiddle. So, she has a decision to make. It's either you or him. Also be mentally prepared to lose her. Remember that whatever her decision, life goes on. I happened to have experienced something worse than this but today, I'm married to her.

I met her in my 100L days... But she said she got a boyfriend in Lag. But she made it known to me how really bad her boyfriend is treating her.
She is very loyal type of girl that she told me she can't cheat on her boyfriend despite all my trial and effort to win her heart to me!

Fast forward to 100L second semester, she called me on phone and asked if I was around that she has something to tell me. She came to me sobbing really bad and crying. She explained to me her boyfriend called her on phone and asked for a breakup.

I felt sorry for her because she narrated how she was dis-virgin by the guy.

So she slept over that night ... And eventually we started dating......

It's been over a year we have been dating now... She is so sweet and loyal ...

Not until she called me last month, her ex came with his new car to see her at home.

I was very surprised about this... But she said nothing attached, he just came to apologise...

But after few days... Her ex began to chat her up on insta... And promising her heaven and Earth that she should give her another chance....

She screenshoted everything to me herself.....


Plz I deeply need advice... What should I do to keep this girl from going back to her ex... Cuz her ex is financially okay than me....�...


Am afraid... Plz what should I do guys?

Better start straffing the girl frm now mercilessly til wen d ex wil take bak his thing and straff,that's y e came bak so u beta start ur own sharps so u dnt hav anything to lose wen u lose her
Better start straffing the girl frm now mercilessly til wen d ex wil take bak his thing and straff,that's y e came bak so u beta start ur own sharps so u dnt hav anything to lose wen u lose her