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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by adams345(m): 7:38am On May 01, 2020
Dont mind that boy jawe
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by missimelda01(f): 7:38am On May 01, 2020
cray91:
Very Right Hence, The woman Should be The Determinant
Exactly, I don't understand these people asking me for a specific time, it varies for different women.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by adams345(m): 7:39am On May 01, 2020
zeuss:

U must respect her wishes as she is on tune with and understands her body motions at this point.
Yeah na true
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Eldrago(m): 7:41am On May 01, 2020
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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by fbiokechukwu: 7:41am On May 01, 2020
atleast 3months is enuogh
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by shehuAO: 7:42am On May 01, 2020
Very stupid and foolish talk.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by cray91(m): 7:43am On May 01, 2020
Yea right about That too Cuz The wearing Off Of The Child birth Pain And stress Down There Depends On The Body Of The Woman which Also Varies from Woman to Woman So You On Point
missimelda01:

Exactly, I don't understand these people asking me for a specific time, it varies for different women.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Moji12(f): 7:44am On May 01, 2020
yassinattah:

Oh my dear it is Ramadan or else I would have bought you Star Radler,But let me buy you I bowl of Fura da nono instead.
cheesy no problem fura is ok
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by des4ella(m): 7:44am On May 01, 2020
0KNM:
6 months? So the husband will be wánking or sleeping with PAYG girls? Smh

She for kuku go celibate after she born na
I stayed more than six months and trust me it's wasn't funny.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by michoim(m): 7:46am On May 01, 2020
If she gives birth to a Male child, 40 days; if it is female child 80 days. See Leviticus 12:1-5
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nettybrown(m): 7:51am On May 01, 2020
What about CESAREAN BIRTH?
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by caprini1: 7:51am On May 01, 2020
QueeenKKfire:
I need an urgent answer please.
When the wife is ready , sex can start.All the men shouting ,i bet you,ve not been inside a theatre during your wife,s delivery? You will pity every vagina after that experience.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by dotedote: 7:52am On May 01, 2020
[quote author=Eulalia post=89004270]

A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.[/q



"A disciplined man would wait"
A year !!!
I'd rather wait in the lord.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Kalashnikov102(m): 7:56am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.





Chai!!! This babe toto go tight oogrin

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by des4ella(m): 7:59am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:


A disciplined man will wait. Besides penetration is not the only way of relieving/satisfying sextual desires. The woman can help with other methods to relieve the hubby. So many ways.
Las las the sex thing is overrated abegi� Nobody has been given an award as the best fucker in the world. If you marry your friend as a wife there're other things you can do besides sex.
Gist with her, understand what she has undergone through during and after the pregnancy, help her with house chores while she takes good care of your baby. Sex sex sex sex after wetin u get

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by chubby98: 7:59am On May 01, 2020
MJBOLT:
24 hours grin
Fear God
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 8:01am On May 01, 2020
Jetland:

How I go fit marry you like this? cry


Look, the way people reason sex like its a life support machine from all the attacking comments is so alarming. One you thing you fail to realize is during that postnatal period, most times it may not even occur to both to start engaging in sex even with normal delivery and after weeks/months because so many changes occur prenatal which tend to affect some women psychologically. Then the mood swings in between; with that who thinks about sex? Your mind will be on getting well first. Also trying to give full attention to the new member comes with its own strain as well and only an insensitive man seeing all that will want to jump on her and penetrate her. Before you even know it, 6 months have rolled by. And to think this is only for that period and not forever. Like seriously... Don't people have self control any longer? So why is everyone making it look like a Herculean task.

Well, to each his own. Different strokes for different folks. You don't have to do what people suggest and this doesn't call for all the insults here and there.
Like every other person, I gave my opinion. And I've not gone to attack anyone on the suggestions they made. Lets act mature and civil.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by toask111: 8:01am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.


This is possible because our fathers have up 3-5 wives they can sex. That is, there was options to pick from back then not nowadays.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nickymezor(f): 8:04am On May 01, 2020
Hmmm
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 8:06am On May 01, 2020
6-8 weeks but preferably 12 weeks so that everything heals up nicely.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Galactico4ever(m): 8:07am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia your comments always remind me of a pastor's wife
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by BlackFlamefromP: 8:11am On May 01, 2020
Men with sex. Allow the woman to rest abeg! She just finished giving birth and with all the pains and injuries of childbirth all you could think about
so suddenly is sex?

To me the husband should wait till the wife is fully ready for sex, which ideally, should be from 6 months upward.

We should learn to dominate the animal side of our nature and not let it dominate us. We can discpline our sexual urge if we really want to

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 8:11am On May 01, 2020
des4ella:
Las las the sex thing is overrated abegi� Nobody has been given an award as the best fucker in the world. If you marry your friend as a wife there're other things you can do besides sex.
Gist with her, understand what she has undergone through during and after the pregnancy, help her with house chores while she takes good care of your baby. Sex sex sex sex after wetin u get And


Exactly my point!!!!!! Sex is just being overrated here. Gosh! Something that will only happen once in a blue Moon and some people are behaving like they don't have self control.

Bless your soul o.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by TheSimiloluwa(m): 8:12am On May 01, 2020
Individual choices... Max of 6 months is okay to tighten any loose tissue(s)
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by AngryNigerian(m): 8:13am On May 01, 2020
missimelda01:
I assume it would hurt down there for a while after childbirth, why not wait until the pain is gone and it's a bit tight

I love the ...and it's a bit tight part grin
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 8:15am On May 01, 2020
Galactico4ever:
Eulalia your comments always remind me of a pastor's wife

Maybe I'll end up with a pastor after all. grin cos I deal with ordinary men. So while I'm on six months break, hell be on the mountain scabbashing for baby and I. tongue
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Greatfullheart: 8:15am On May 01, 2020
donbachi:
Dont know of others...i dey resume knacking 3weeks after child birth.
nawa oh oga boss

Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Nobody: 8:18am On May 01, 2020
BlackFlamefromP:
Men with sex. Allow the woman to rest abeg! She just finished giving birth and with all the pains and injuries of childbirth all you could think about
so suddenly is sex?

To me the husband should wait till the wife is fully ready for sex, which ideally, should be from 6 months upward.

We should learn to dominate the animal side of our nature and not let it dominate us. We can discpline our sexual urge if we really want to

God bless you. Some people are naturally wired to sex round the clock and round the calendar from what I've seen on this thread so far.

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Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Greatfullheart: 8:19am On May 01, 2020
Samfloxin:
Two months or thereabout...
2months is too much i cant wait

Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Chochovini: 8:19am On May 01, 2020
UNTILL Both parties are ready to have another baby simple.
Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Greatfullheart: 8:21am On May 01, 2020
Eulalia:
At least, six months. So that the vaginal walls that expanded during delivery can can contract back to normal. My mum taught me this and during their time, it was 1 year before they resume. Resuming almost immediately weakens the walls and getting them back together is usually difficult cos it was not given enough time to heal. And that is why mother's of today after one or two children have slack VJ and Begin to run to us for vagina tightening. That was why during our mothers time you hardly find women looking for vagina tightening remedy.

So 6 months to 1 year is fine. It will also help mother and child to stay healthy.
i dey even say 2months far u dey say 6months to 1year haba i cant fit.

Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by jaxxy(m): 8:21am On May 01, 2020
Chartey:


I'm saying the CS has little to do with when the woman can resume sex.
Surgical wound would have healed even before the six weeks max recommended.

Isn't it with her body which had surgery that wud hv sex so it has alot even more than natural birth. There can be complication from an unhealed CS. What u as a man cant take, because of impatience u want a woman to resume vigorous sex In 6weeks. Lol

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