Sususy:


My mate are in their husbands house,bearing children already and you're here telling me that I'm a kid, I'm just 20 , that I know nothing about love jeez! I'm a woman!
Yes! I know something!

Sususy:
I'm feeling that he is deeply inlove with me but he hasn't asked me out!

Have known him for five years,(...Just as friends).
We chat frequently on Facebook, virtually everyday.
He smiles alot to my silly jokes.He likes staring at me alot.
Always in the habit of giving me compliment about my dressess.
Always playing soft and funny towards me, so kind and caring towards me.
But he hasn't told me he loves me,
Or are those not the signs that a guy is Inlove? Cuz I'm sure those are the signs.
Why didn't he ask me out? He is 24! and I'm 20!
I'm very sure is a single virgin guy (churchy guy),cuz he told me.
But why hasn't he confess to me that he loves me?
Is just so annoying! I love him so much,but I just want him to confess his feelings first to me before I confess mine.
I need the reason why he's doing that to me.What could possibly be the reason? Please help. I'm loving to know the reason.

Sususy:
I'm feeling that he is deeply inlove with me but he hasn't asked me out!

Have known him for five years,(...Just as friends).
We chat frequently on Facebook, virtually everyday.
He smiles alot to my silly jokes.He likes staring at me alot.
Always in the habit of giving me compliment about my dressess.
Always playing soft and funny towards me, so kind and caring towards me.
But he hasn't told me he loves me,
Or are those not the signs that a guy is Inlove? Cuz I'm sure those are the signs.
Why didn't he ask me out? He is 24! and I'm 20!
I'm very sure is a single virgin guy (churchy guy),cuz he told me.
But why hasn't he confess to me that he loves me?
Is just so annoying! I love him so much,but I just want him to confess his feelings first to me before I confess mine.
I need the reason why he's doing that to me.What could possibly be the reason? Please help. I'm loving to know the reason.

Bluntintrovert1:
Do not be deceived, if a guy likes you, he would do everything possible to be with you. Don't take his friendliness for attraction sister.

Bluntintrovert1:
Do not be deceived, if a guy likes you, he would do everything possible to be with you. Don't take his friendliness for attraction sister.

CANTICLES:


Keep shut ... You dont know what is going on . I understand that Guy. He was able to make her feel that love because he wasn't too quick to ask her out. The wise men know this. How many of those asking you have you been able to have much feelings for ? Let me stop there

Bluntintrovert1:


Okay...... One of those that hides behind the keyboard to spew trash.

CANTICLES:


Keep shut ... You dont know what is going on . I understand that Guy. He was able to make her feel that love because he wasn't too quick to ask her out. The wise men know this. How many of those asking you have you been able to have much feelings for ? Let me stop there

Sususy:


I have done that already!
Why hasn't he responded?

BigJoe19:
You never Sabi, everything na game, when the guy starts e go shock you

Lightangel65:


Shut up the fact it happened to you doesn't mean everyone chew gums a lady like a creep all in loves name.
He doesn't love her if he did it would be obvious, he is just being nice.

Bluntintrovert1:


Okay...... One of those that hides behind the keyboard to spew trash.

machiavelli95:


It is simple.
You said he is a churchy guy and a virgin (likely no sex before marriage crew).
He likes you and has feelings for you no doubt, but he is faced with the dilemma of dating you and maintaining his convictions (no sex before marriage). Maybe he knows or thinks that you don't share that same conviction and if you must date a guy, you must likely sleep with that guy (most girls rarely have a strong love connection to someone there are not erotically intimate with) or you might get it elsewhere.
Thus the guy would not want to be heartbroken by dating you and having you collect cookies outside (if he is to maintain his convictions), but at the same time wouldn't just let you go because he feels something strong for you.
So the thing is he definitely has feelings for you, but if you must date, one of you must bend to the others convictions, either you join the no sex before marriage crew, or you begin to knack life out of him, (abeg no come corrupt person annointing o).
I have been in that shoe several times since I reconsecrated myself towards sexual purity, I used to be a campus husband before and knacked sotay I lost weight (an virtue too ), I have quite a number of attractive girls show serious interest in me (some of them over years now and with banging bodies too ). Sometimes they make a move and I will just purposely act dumb just to diffuse tension. I actually love one deeply,but I cannot date her because I don't plan get married in the next 3years, and I cannot date a girl that long without touching her, even if I do manage to,she might not share my convictions and be collecting lamba outside( making me a pathetic fool) or "see finish" might set in.
So what I do is to carry myself in such a way that I earn utmost respect from the girl, her friends and family so that when I am finally ready to settle, I will just swoop in and have no problems.
Its a difficult situation to be in especially when she flashes those succulent mounds of flesh expecting you to make a move.
God will EPP us o

Lightangel65:


Shut up the fact it happened to you doesn't mean everyone chew gums a lady like a creep all in loves name.
He doesn't love her if he did it would be obvious, he is just being nice.

Sususy:


My mate are in their husbands house,bearing children already and you're here telling me that I'm a kid, I'm just 20, that I know nothing about love jeez! I'm a woman!
Yes! I know something!

Lol, you're a child. Yeah I know, your mates are in their husband house as dropouts from school with children.

Really though, all I see is a naive Lady with stuck up societal values and it's seemingly perfect moral behaviour. So what do you yet know about love anyway?

AdmissionGetEas:
He may like you as a friend and not for relationship..

Move on

Sususy:

No!
I will look cheap , and it's a huge turn off to men
I need him to want me first
Kiss me first
hold my hands first..
I can't do that,I will loose my self dignity, hurt my pride...

Lightangel65:


What feeling? girls give themselves too much credit, so if a boy is friendly with you he loves you abi?.
Like one idiot in my department cause I talk with her she told her friends I like her, na there I finish her with insults.

He does not love you he is just friendly don't think you are some gold that everyone loves it's annoying

Sususy:


I was thinking it's a huge turn off to men.
I'm too proud to confess my feeling first sef
Na men suppose confess feeling to women first,not the other way around...

Sususy:


I was thinking it's a huge turn off to men.
I'm too proud to confess my feeling first sef
Na men suppose confess feeling to women first,not the other way around...

Sususy:


I was thinking it's a huge turn off to men.
I'm too proud to confess my feeling first sef
Na men suppose confess feeling to women first,not the other way around...

Lamanii22:



Based on Nigerian mentality.... Maybe that's all you need to do for him to finally confess his love for you... He is not gonna say anything, he'd kiss you back... It's a good way to confess your feelings too...

Kingsteve:


Why don't you take the lead, since your greenlight isn't green enough for him to make a move?
I'll make it easier for you.

Why don't you playfully whisper into his ears: 'I like you so much', then sit back and watch his reaction and response.

I'm shy to do that first
I don't have the confidence
Maybe I should wait for him till when he's ready...





Life could be easy.

Bluntintrovert1:
Do not be deceived, if a guy likes you, he would do everything possible to be with you. Don't take his friendliness for attraction sister.

JoshRocs:
He's Scared of you saying NO!, i've been down this lane before. you can't tell what's on a girl's mind if she like you as casual friends or she's into you. he's scared of making that mistake