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Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by James4bright(m): 1:52pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: Some guys are just very weird naturally. I hate girls who play hard to get, I very much do. This guy probably didn't care in the first place, but you got attracted rather. And he decided to play around, I really can't tell. Ignore the mofo. And focus on something better. 13 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by frankkydee(m): 1:54pm On May 01, 2020 |
Zoie: I don't totally agree to this your assumptions becos i think you are talking the other way round 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Nobody: 1:57pm On May 01, 2020 |
frankkydee:Your cup of gravel, my dear. I don't give a fvck whether you agree or not. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 1:57pm On May 01, 2020 |
Zoie: This exactly how it is in all honesty 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 1:58pm On May 01, 2020 |
Thanks love James4bright: |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 2:00pm On May 01, 2020 |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 2:01pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: That's why I kept pointing at 1. State of maturity 2. Mental psyche of the other party If a person isn't relaxed in loving or mature, they won't make good partners. Forget it. Always check the psyche of your love interest to now if it's a good deal or just chap. While I say I haven't found one I liked, last year close to ten ladies within a social circle wanted me. But damn it, many Nigerians have bad psyche which is going to turn one into a therapist or mental care giver in the long run, so it's better to be single than be with people with psychological issues. 18 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by frankkydee(m): 2:03pm On May 01, 2020 |
Zoie: Has it gotten to this already? Am sorry if I touched a nerve! 11 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 2:03pm On May 01, 2020 |
Damn true !! Renida: |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 2:04pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: Don't be unhappy if you're still single. Forgive yourself for not being hooked. And who knows when we stop searching, it just could come looking for us. ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 2:06pm On May 01, 2020 |
Lol Yeah Renida: |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by frankkydee(m): 2:06pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: I can relate with this your story very well, Its physiological but I can't really explain now 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Mcslize: 2:09pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: Playing hard to get don't work for all guys. Mature guys will see it as immaturity. You can do that to young guys who just want to bleep and move on but if you try such with a guy who is truly serious with you, he will simply move on. Like me, there is a limit I can tolerate a girl that play hard to get. Once a lady exhausts her life line or exceeds that limit, I don yakpa no time. I will simply see you as the not serious type who doesn't know what she wants. Be yourself. And if you must play hard to get with a guy you like, do it with sense. Don't over do it so that it won't make the guy back off. Humans are different. 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 2:13pm On May 01, 2020 |
You sound like an introvert Renida: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by James4bright(m): 2:13pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: It's just immaturity and nothing else. I met a girl some weeks ago, starting wooing her immediately I saw her walking in her building, this girl made me talk for too long without saying anything back, but I could catch those little grins and smiles she tried to hide, I knew she liked me but was playing hard to get. Lastly she gave me her number but I didn't even think of calling. Am I mad ni? I hate pretentious and fake people. 24 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 2:13pm On May 01, 2020 |
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Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 2:14pm On May 01, 2020 |
Can you share please ? frankkydee: |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 2:15pm On May 01, 2020 |
Can’t explain I just feel it Like you’re an introvert but people around you think you’re extroverted Renida: |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 2:17pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: Mental tinkering, I'm a deep thinker that spends lots of time thinking abi? . I live in my head cause I'm somewhat complex right? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Mcslize: 2:22pm On May 01, 2020 |
Jflex07: Exactly. |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Muzikluva(m): 2:23pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily:I don't know whoever brought up this thwarted view and some men too pride in it. Some women use it to act really defiant and emotionless even though they like the guy. Now dear op, I think it's just immature and silly for a guy to act as such. I feel it's only a guy that has had his way(sex or money or whatever) with a lady that wld do such. If you love a lady and she shows interest keep going.. Never stop even after marriage. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Hed0nist: 2:25pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily: One reason can be that he doesn't like the girl in question that much and that's it. Another reason is that girls sometimes overload guys that they like with attention and expect to receive the same or even more attention in return. This gets to irritate and/or suffocate the guy most times causing him to withdraw. Cos sensible people don't like to start what they can't continue. Another common reason is simple human nature. If you make a person feel like a star, it's only a matter of time before they start treating you like a fan. Humans usually can't help it. Except the person is self aware and genuinely good. That's why they say that we should go into love/ relationships with our head 31 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by tweakdude1: 2:25pm On May 01, 2020 |
In my own standards once I approach a lady I like and you start acting and playing hard to get. Then it's a no no for me. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Liliantalks: 2:25pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily:Dey tell you to go for a guy u like , don’t try it o 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by LordKO(m): 2:27pm On May 01, 2020 |
Two major reasons I know of are: 1. He values the girl a lot that he wouldn't want to waste her time or falsely raise her hope to enable her focus on others; maybe because (a) he observed differences between them that would prevent them from having a mutually healthy and happy relationship - and it's not a case of him being better than her, and vice versa. (b) He's in a committed relationship with another woman and holds the bond of the relationship sacred to the extent that he wouldn't like to desecrate it - so he has to withdraw attention from you (the girl) for the mutual good of all. 2. It could be that the girl did not meet the standard he held her from afar, this depends on what usually makes him fall in love - of course, this doesn't automatically mean that the girl is evil, in fact, it could even mean that it takes an evil girl to make him fall in love. 35 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Liliantalks: 2:34pm On May 01, 2020 |
Hed0nist:I feel the first case is very annoying , if u hv someone , there is no need being close to a girl. Let’s respect ourselves 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Liliantalks: 2:37pm On May 01, 2020 |
Lalasticlala Farano Let’s hear from a larger audience 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Renida: 2:40pm On May 01, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Let me help you by adding one or two more names Dominique 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by MikeofKd(m): 2:42pm On May 01, 2020 |
Ok the truth is the guy is scared ,yes he Approached you first and all and you Didn't give him a tough time ,you didn't Even do your normal naija girl shakara, dat where the problem lies ,he knows You love him and he is scared of losing u Cause he doesn't want to get heart broken ,he didn't believe u could just Accept like dat ,but since he knows u Are attracted to him ,he wouldn't want To get heart broken because he now feels like he has some kinda power over u and that's where His ego comes in ,so my advice is give him Space plenty of space and he's gonna Crawl back to you ,and when he does Create that I'm too busy for u kinda style Dat going to make it more fun and adventures For him . 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 2:58pm On May 01, 2020 |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by piamily(f): 3:03pm On May 01, 2020 |
Wow MikeofKd: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Lose Interest When A Lady Acts Interested In Them? by Liliantalks: 3:06pm On May 01, 2020 |
piamily:from experience, guys loose interest on ladies that r into them , it’s like a competition, allow him do the calling , set the dates , make all the efforts . U should be accepting him for he’s efforts not cause u like him , ofcourse u must find him attractive to accept him 2 Likes |
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