HOW TO ATTRACT QUALITY MEN

1. INTENTIONALLY AND CONSCIOUSLY LOOK BEAUTIFUL.

It is no news Men are moved by what they see.

1 Samuel 16:7 But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for MAN LOOKETH on the OUTWARD APPEARANCE, but the LORD looketh on the heart.

I know you have inner beauty and we are going to come to that in a moment, how then can he know what is inside if what is outside does not attract him. Outward appearance attracts him, inward beauty keeps him. Inner beauty with outer ugly will scarcely attract the attention of quality men.

Make your hair, even your skin tone, paint your nails, wear your gold, Babe, just look beautiful ALWAYS!

2. CHARACTER.

Quality men have strong affinity for moral qualities. Its almost as though they are spelled by them. Apparently, it was not just the beauty of Hadassah that attracted the King to her. And although he was seeing her for the first time, character has this distinctive atmosphere that surrounds its carrier.

Esther 2:7 And he BROUGHT UP Hadassah, that is, Esther, his uncle's daughter: for she had neither father nor mother, and the maid was fair and beautiful; whom Mordecai, when her father and mother were dead, took for his own daughter.

A man of character like Mordecai (Esther 6:2) has BROUGHT UP Esther and inculcated in the special traits that would help her stand out! If you have come across a beautiful woman with Zero upbringing you will discover that beauty stinks without moral quality!

3. AVOID BEING LOUD

Esther 2:15 Now when the turn of Esther, the daughter of Abihail the uncle of Mordecai, who had taken her for his daughter, was come to go in unto the king, SHE REQUIRED NOTHING but what Hegai the king's chamberlain, the keeper of the women, appointed. And Esther obtained favour in the sight of all them that looked upon her.

Quality men detaste loud women and Esther understood that. Avoid Those things that make you appear loud...Shouty and heavy makeup, posting too many pictures of too many places (esp hotels) on social media, exposing private parts, illicit statements, posts and comments etc. If you knew the number of high Caliber people watching you daily. They never tell you but they are watching you!

4. BUILD YOUR SELF ESTEEM.

No one will believe in you if you don't believe in yourself! Most of what your Exes did to you were self-esteem assassination. They made you look unwanted, ugly, unlovable and undesirable. You must consciously build back your self worth, self love and self-esteem. Quality men are attracted to Quality women and what makes you a quality woman is how much you believe that you are a quality woman!

5. VALUE. Quality men are value hunters. Your value is the arrow in your hand and beauty brings you close enough to fire it!

Did you know that Jesus LOVED Martha? Yes, He LOVED Martha! (John11:5). Martha figured out something she could offer Him- a place to sleep, thereby attracting Agape to her self. Figure out the value they need and give it, it is the cheapest way to win their hearts!

So, Take a course, learn new skills, just add value to your life so that you can give value when opportunity presents.

6. GET RID OF EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE.

I know you may have been disappointed, heartbroken, wounded in the past but to face the future, you have to get rid of those loads you're carrying. No man wants to spend half of his lifetime trying to rid you of your past.

I know you have passed through unavoidable mess but hey, you have got to reinvent your self and reappear BRAND NEW! EVERY BODY LOVES NEW! Just make sure you're in tip-top form as quality men pass by.

7. SPIRITUAL GARMENTS.

The bible recognizes that there is such thing as spiritual garments Zechariah 3:1-5. How you are dressed is how you are addressed and this is also true spiritually!

There are young ladies that never attract responsible and reasonable men. Some only attract and are attracted by married men, sadly. What you might just need is a proper spiritual dressing! You don't dine with kings dressed like a lunatic.
Pray this prayer gently, OH LORD, DRESS ME PROPERLY AND SET ME BEFORE GREATNESS. Amen

By Pastor Douglas Jonathan


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Nice one op.

But 99.9% of ladies are attracted to what a man has. No lady, will never never date a guy that's still hustling despite possessing those things you mentioned.

I thank God for giving me the love of my life who has been so supportive despite all odds. Even her family members have been so wonderful.

That self esteem is an issue many of them have and it obscures their emotional maturity. It's low self esteem that will make a girl not know when d hard-to-get behavior has reached threshold till they overplay it whether they have a suitor already or not. It becomes funny even to the toaster at times how insensitively they behave in the name of hard-to-get.

People attract their type!

If you want to attract quality men then make sure you're also a quality lady!

brainfordetails:
Nice one op.

But 99.9% of ladies are attracted to what a man has. No lady, will never never date a guy that's still hustling despite possessing those things you mentioned.

I thank God for giving me the love of my life who has been so supportive despite all odds. Even her family members have been so wonderful.

You are an amazing man bro. The way you talked about her! Congratulations

Oluromantic:
That self esteem is an issue many of them have and it obscures their emotional maturity. It's low self esteem that will make a girl not know when d hard-to-get behavior has reached threshold till they over play it whether they have a suitor already or not. It becomes funny even to the toaster at times how insensitively they behave in the name of hard-to-get.

This is wisdom! Thank you for analysing from this angle...you're amazing

Kobicove:
People attract their type!

If you want to attract quality men then make sure you're also a quality lady!

I believe I mentioned that too sire. You have judged correctly

In addition

Seek ye first the kingdom of God and it's righteousness even other thing shall be added on to you.

tweakdude1:
In addition

Seek ye first the kingdom of God and it's righteousness even other thing shall be added on to you.

That's right!

PasD:


You are an amazing man bro. The way you talked about her! Congratulations

Thanks sir.

What of 'how to attract quality women'? Instead of attracting coded olosho every time in your life..

Ogilinsaka:
What of 'how to attract quality women'? Instead of attracting coded olosho every time in your life..

Maybe u should just hustle hahahahhahaha

PasD:


Maybe u should just hustle hahahahhahaha

Hustle for what exactly

Nice one!
"Quality men are VALUE HUNTERS".

Karlifate:
Nice one!
"Quality men are VALUE HUNTERS".

Thanks friend mi

Ogilinsaka:


Hustle for what exactly

Ego na...lolz