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Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by landmark86: 11:21pm On May 01, 2020 |
I graduated from Osun State Polytechnic, Iree. She also graduated from Babcock University. We both met in 2015 during our NYSC at River State. We serve in the same PPA. She is good, lovely and caring. And to crown it all she is beautiful. I mean so beautiful. It all started with friendship which later led to relationship. We share so many things together during our time in River State as per what the future holds. After our NYSC, we both went back to our various base. She is based in Lagos while I reside in Osun. Immediate I finished my NYSC, I got a job with a private organisation as a factory supervisor. But she went further for her Masters in Covenant University, Otta. Despite the distance we still communicate from time to time and at times I do find time to check on her in Otta, while she also do check on me in Osogbo. After her M.sc, her dad got her a job with a big company in Lagos. Last year December she came to Osogbo as usual to check on me but fortunately she met my parents and my siblings at my place. They all love and accept her. When she was leaving the next day she told me that her parents told her that they want to meet her fiancé. 12th January, 2020 I travelled down to Lagos to meet her parents. When getting there I met her parents with her only sister. Her dad ask of my parents, state, my qualification and what I do for a living. I told him and immediately he stood up and told me he will never allow his daughter to marry an HND holder. He said he can't send his daughter to a university & end up marry an HND holder. Never!!! Though my gal is not in support of that, even ever since that time till now she's not her self in that house. I truly love her and I know she truly love me too. But her parents is the major concern. Should I call it quit? Please your advise is needed, what should I do? 152 Likes 16 Shares
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ningen(m): 11:27pm On May 01, 2020 |
Are you implying he rather gives his blessings to a poor and jobless degree holder than to a rich and successful school dropout? You are totally naive to believe it's all about your educational background, its your Bank Account! Please your advise is needed, what should I do? Your options — 1. She can find her voice and convince her dad that you are success and marriage material. 2. You can go back to school for a degree. 3. Elope together without his blessing. 4. Get rich quick, google 'Robbin Banks' for tips. 5. Quit and move on. ( Preferred option!!) 610 Likes 30 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 11:28pm On May 01, 2020 |
My little advice don’t marry a girl if at least one of the parent is not in support of the marriage... Thank me later 791 Likes 40 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by silento(m): 11:30pm On May 01, 2020 |
Wetin happen to ur dick give her belle and relax they will call u to sort out things 930 Likes 71 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by vibbb: 11:31pm On May 01, 2020 |
The lady in question is the determinant, if she rilli loves you no one can stop her. Though her parents may influence her decision but then she has the final say. Be confident and be a man, don't allow anyone to make you feel less a man. #Goodluck. 260 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by tidalstorm(m): 11:33pm On May 01, 2020 |
I can see where her parents are coming from. Every parent wants a better life for his/her kid. The expenses they spent on school sef no go be small money. With your qualifications, you might never be good enough for there daughter. Just leave the girl, work harder and try to further your education to avoid family wahala. I think it is a social class problem, them dey feel say you no reach their class based on money. 801 Likes 55 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by bigpriik: 11:36pm On May 01, 2020 |
All I can say is Bleep love it doesn't exist material things comes first before it. 71 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by DontBullshitMe: 11:39pm On May 01, 2020 |
Another sponsored post. How much do they pay you guys? 177 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 11:43pm On May 01, 2020 |
OP. even you have discriminated against polytechnics people because I'm very sure you have met countless poly girls but chose to go for a university graduate with masters sef. No poly guy or girl wants to marry a polytechnic leaver yet you guys are the first people who complain about discrimination. Same discrimination you poly leavers are guilty of My advice to the OP is to look for a fellow polytechnic girl and date as that girl he is chasing is way beyond his level in all ramifications. 182 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by samozi: 11:45pm On May 01, 2020 |
Iffinu good for health quit (4x) Iffi good for your health smoke (4x) What can I say?? 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by yungz: 11:49pm On May 01, 2020 |
he's looking for a suitor that will worth the money he spent on his girl's head and op you are certainly not the person. At op assume say na range or benz you pull up with for in house the man no go fit talk that rubbish wey in tell you. Seems like the man has measured you already and it happens to b u came with only leggedis benz na why in throw you format. Op i will advise you to hustle hard, make money and visit the man again, i'm sure this time around he will accept you as his son-inlaw before you even propose marriage. 297 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by menix(m): 11:50pm On May 01, 2020 |
Which one concern the school wey son of Man attend with blissful marriage Some of this our end time parent dey even surprise d devil.. 110 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by padi94(m): 11:52pm On May 01, 2020 |
Okay |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by BRAINTORMS(m): 11:55pm On May 01, 2020 |
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by PureGoldh(m): 11:56pm On May 01, 2020 |
Bro....see eeh,just be urself....No dey worry urself over dx issue. If the girl in question was designed for you by God.... something extraordinaire wey pass Zeeworld go happen between the two of una...even her family go turn up for you. There is a man for every woman and there is a woman for every man. I wish you all the best 155 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 12:02am On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86: Some parents sef Na Ogun go locate them, leave him to marry her Na, but Sir you caught your coat beyond your size, a girl with MSc, you must admit she has class, and her parents will be ready to see some one above thier daughter. Well I will advice, if her dad really meant what he said tell her it her dad that is making you leave her As for me I can't and will never marry a lady above me, in school, I can't kawai 45 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by chisani(m): 12:05am On May 02, 2020 |
This is complicated. Once parents are against any relationship, the hurdles becoming too dangerous to cross. However, you can have heart to heart discussion with her and work things out. Perhaps, that can help both you. Good luck... 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by adexpa(m): 12:06am On May 02, 2020 |
It seems the man get some money(babcok n covenant) n he has evaluated you and sees that you did not measure up, you knew where your gal is from n you did not buckle up by upgrading yourself too while she went for her masters. He sees that you are going to draw the girl back n rubbish everything he invested on her. You should know Iron sharpen iron. Leave the girl once the papa disagree n I do not think the man can ever agree. 232 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by NobleSeed(m): 12:38am On May 02, 2020 |
silento:hahaha this one loud ooh. 8 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by NobleSeed(m): 12:45am On May 02, 2020 |
Oga stop that crap.I can bet you if the op stand and the girl stand and both are asked to defend the so called result, baba forget institution op fit beat her hands down... stuffs4me: 90 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Robisky001(m): 5:53am On May 02, 2020 |
Her dad wasn't even concerned if you can actually cater for daughter but your Educational level. Smh 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 5:55am On May 02, 2020 |
NobleSeed: Keep deceiving yourself.. The Op even failed to defend himself in front of the girl's dad. The hypocrite and lazy OP should find his level and look for a fellow diploma lady like him to go and marry. Masters no be beans.. 128 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stuffs4me(m): 6:02am On May 02, 2020 |
Robisky001: Read what the OP typed in his story and you'll find out that he is just a factory worker with HND while the girl has first degree and a masters and works in a big organisation in Lagos. Habba! The two of them no be mate na. If not for NYSC, they would never have met at that kind of social level. The OP sounds to me like a gold digger. that wants to use the girl to escape poverty and the lady's dad was wise to his conny tricks 206 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Zombiekiller010: 6:17am On May 02, 2020 |
Nonsense, Op make money on time 5 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Midex88(m): 6:22am On May 02, 2020 |
It is well. �. Just pray to God for direction. If it’s the will of God, the man’s mind will be suppressed and soften and he will finally accept you as in law 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Midex88(m): 6:23am On May 02, 2020 |
stuffs4me: Nairalanders. I hail o 146 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Robisky001(m): 6:39am On May 02, 2020 |
stuffs4me:LOL.. Op, the house has harmoniously agreed you settle for your likes to avoid being called a gold digger or an opportunist. 145 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Kobicove(m): 6:45am On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86: OP, answer this question honestly... If you marry this lady will you be able to provide her with the level of comfort she is already used to since she was born? Love alone is not enough to sustain a marriage these days, money is the main ingredient required! 245 Likes 19 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by duduade: 7:25am On May 02, 2020 |
Be shouting you truly love her upandan Gold digger oshi... Third mainland bridge is in Lagos... Whey you will come to Lagos and jump inside Don't go and look for someone or your status So that no one/inlaw will be looking down on you 41 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by FinallyFamous: 7:39am On May 02, 2020 |
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by meetme01: 7:41am On May 02, 2020 |
Op, to be sincere, if you don't upgrade before you get married to that lady if eventually things is sorted. You would have issues in your home. See, it's not a curse. Married folks can attest to this. Her standard is much higher academically, financially etc than yours. You have been seen as a gold digger. She would want to reside in Lagos due to her job. Not mainland Lagos but on the island. Can you afford accommodation in Lekki or or VI.? She would have much say in the home because her income is much higher and her parents would be supportive. If you're not careful, your home would be dictated by her parents. Before you know, you would turn to their houseboy. At the long run, a hit or foul language on the lady will end the marriage. Please, yoruba would say, ile ola niyonu. Another says, iyawo burku se fe, ano buruku o se ni (You can mange a bad wife but the in-law should not be harboured). If you like yourself, make her your best friend and remain best of friends. She would love it that way and any request for support or assistance, she would be glad. Marriage is not only about love o. 394 Likes 29 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by chubinwa(m): 7:57am On May 02, 2020 |
This is purely a social class rift. considering the circumstances around poly graduates, it is certain that the man will not accept you. the only thing that can suit his pride now is money. make more money. I don't mean saving your little salary to accumulate it. I mean make money on bases, this is the only solution. 29 Likes 4 Shares |
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