Sixfeetbelle:


I believe I know who you're referring to but I don't have strength this afternoon so I'll just continue to move.

Nwodosis:
It is obvious you are not the talking type but the writing type, we have read your version, how do we get your husband's version? There is no smoke without fire!

Alawaxbimbex:
With the kind of stories I read daily on nairaland about marriage...I'm so scared of marriage ooo...God pls bless me with a good husband when it's time for me to marry

Nwodosis:
It is obvious you are not the talking type but the writing type, we have read your version, how do we get your husband's version? There is no smoke without fire!

Ishilove:
Your husband sounds like my ex. If not that he is married to you, I would have sworn that he is the same person. Nasty creature.

I dealt with the situation by simply exing him, but your case is not so simple. My advice will be to endure until you can endure no more. When you get pushed to the wall, you will fight back. The outcome of that fight is what I don't know.

crackkhaus:

Who told you it's not simple? It's really very simple...

All is she needs is to save money, and she'll be gone.

Iffffffy:
At some point, I thought I was the one doing this narration, it is well sis.

budaatum:

You need to open your eyes too. Op shut her's and fell for "I want to be a pastor" instead of seeing what he actually was.

Other blinding things some fall for are "he fine", "he get good job, money, car, etc".

Some hardly focus on character and manner until he's baked buns in your oven and it is too late.

Ishilove:
Your husband sounds like my ex. If not that he is married to you, I would have sworn that he is the same person. Nasty creature.

I dealt with the situation by simply exing him, but your case is not so simple. My advice will be to endure until you can endure no more. When you get pushed to the wall, you will fight back. The outcome of that fight is what I don't know.

Ishilove:

It isn't very simple my dear. This is marriage, kids are involved, families are involved and a whole lot of ramifications as well.

crackkhaus:

In 2020, it's very easy please.

nahzyla:


It's like we are many in this WhatsApp group.

My own is similar to hers but no beating, just ungratefulness and entitlement and overbloated ego.
I made the mistake of marrying when he had nothing thinking I can support until he finds his feet but na so so ungratefulness and seeing disrespect where there is none. Na him dey even disrespect me sef but you dare not say anything remotely offensive to him. He will even start gossiping me and picking my faults to his friends when I am right there with them.

The plans he used to tell me he had to establish himself, these days if you remind him he will get angry and make excuses for why he cannot get a lucrative job. It's the small business that hardly earns anything he has been doing since.

Me self still dey take BP medicine every day, right now my mind is divided between leaving him or staying and working on things.

I wish young girls of nowadays will learn that you should NEVER ever for any reason marry a man that is economically inferior to you.

eyinjuege:


Some are born pretenders.
It is in their DNA.
It is their sole reason for existing.
It is their work.
To pretend for years in order to deceive others until they feel they have what they want and there is nobody they respect enough to put them back in line

CAPSLOCKED:


I AM THE HUSBAND IN QUESTION AND I'VE COME TO DEBUNK ALL OF THIS WOMAN'S CLAIMS AS FALSE.

Ishilove:

Are you married?

crackkhaus:
Wow, so many stories of unhappy women in their marriages.

What must be responsible for this

Is it that the men involved have always been like that, but as expected, they are very good at gaming these women with love and excellent sex... OR is it that the women never really paid attention, got carried away easily, and were quite easy to deceive?

It really has to be one or the other, because I don't believe an adult already set in his/her ways can suddenly change.
They may pretend, adapt, or be able to project a false personality but to change? NEVER.

crackkhaus:

Yes.

You that is asking, are you married?

The woman herself has admitted that it's money that's holding her back from leaving, and you're still preaching your own.

Drizzy5001:
My mum went through all this things too, my dad turned her to a punching bag, when I was still a little boy , [/b]but I'm over 20 now , Dem no born am to beat my mum[b]... Rather he will just be shouting that's all. My mum on there other hand dey try her best to avoid his wahala ... marriage is for better for worst.

Ishilove:
Your husband sounds like my ex. If not that he is married to you, I would have sworn that he is the same person. Nasty creature.

I dealt with the situation by simply exing him, but your case is not so simple. My advice will be to endure until you can endure no more. When you get pushed to the wall, you will fight back. The outcome of that fight is what I don't know.

nnamdibig:
You are the man dear marrying him as your wife.
sorry about that.

But one thing I will assure you is that if you don't leave this man, you will most likely die before your time.