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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Triplerg: 10:36pm On May 02, 2020 |
nwadiuko1:May be illiterate parents |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Macon1212: 10:36pm On May 02, 2020 |
You better cut your coat according to your size, how will you be feeling in the house married to a Post graduate holder, inferiority complex will hurt you in the relationship. Bro look for your mate. 6 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by larrypourl(m): 10:36pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86: If you have the money and time, look for a university that can convert your HND to Degree certificate for you. Crescent Uni in Abeokuta is doing this well because I met someone who did same during my Masters class and its just 2 years program, or better still go apply for MBA or Professional Masters. But let's be factual. You're not in the same Financial and Social Class with her. Talk to your lady and promise her you'll further your education, even if her father sees your seriousness by doing what I stated above ( furthering your education) and his daughter unconditional love, he might support you and connect you also. Same thing happened to someone I know and the father in-law later supported the guy when the guy proved serious, got him a better job and later relocated them to Canada. Her father probably attend polytechnic too and subjected to those ridicule at work place, especially private organisations and vowed never to allow such happen to his children. My dad experienced it also, and this pushed him for PGD and MSc respectively, he vowed never to allow any of his children attend poly and non of us did and I really appreciates the decision he made. So it's your choice. If you can fight for it. God will help you. 7 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by RTSC: 10:37pm On May 02, 2020 |
Ybaby:I don't even think the poly is the problem. If the guy has used that his certificate to secure a management job at Deloitte or even in govt, the father would accept him. He has done nothing worthwhile with his certificate. 5 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by SexytorresE(f): 10:39pm On May 02, 2020 |
Lol... university fire and wound him there . It’s not by university but by who u knw in the society. This days those with HND easily get work to BSC holder . That’s the mentality of the sectors here in Nigeria. If not for anything, education is useless in this country . Getting a job they will even ask if u are below 20 ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:40pm On May 02, 2020 |
RTSC: Poly Ede you mean It is painful.... Nikka said I love her..... before? Fresh girl |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by RTSC: 10:40pm On May 02, 2020 |
Megadixh:QED. The whole truth. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by teejoyz: 10:40pm On May 02, 2020 |
Her father didn't reject you because of your certificate but he rejected you because you can't match his daughter financialy. my advice for you is to go and hustle and make enough money.i have a friend who is a chartered accountant and he is currently working under an SSCE holder who is a billionaire in real estate in Nigeria. Dangote is not a prof or PhD holder and he is employing PhD holders as a truck driver. Bubu with NEPA bill cert is controlling a prof of law like a boy.some parents will rather allow their daughter to marry yahoo yahoo boys, armed robbers than to marry an hustler 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Oloribaba01(m): 10:41pm On May 02, 2020 |
My guy, sharply give her belle |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by jaxxy(m): 10:41pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86: Trust me he is not exactly offended that ure a HND holder. The Major problem is were u work and what ure currently doing. He feels his daughter is ahead of u academically and money wise bt that shud not be the only criteria to judge a Man. There are many HND holders working in shell and chevron. Big boys. Tell me if u were working with Chevron he will open his mouth and say I can't allow my daughter marry a HND holder? Hell NO!!!!! While introducing urself if u were a sharp guy u would have sensed his type of person and expectation and told him ur future prospects. He might have calm down to say ok he has sm Ambition I will wait and see. The question here op is do u have Ambition to take on his daughter? U sounded very low maybe its ur kind of person. That is the solution. Do u masters or seek a better job then come back and talk to him and see if he won't say yes. Lol 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:41pm On May 02, 2020 |
RTSC: Exactly.... all he has is the Poly certificate. He is gunning for her father's pension to pay his kids chrisland fees. 6 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by manbello(m): 10:42pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86:My broda don't quit if the gyal truly love you she will definitely fight for you, you're so damn lucky we only have few of those ladies out there 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by IamOrei(m): 10:43pm On May 02, 2020 |
Oga u sef pass ur boundary. Leave the girl alone and find ur set |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 10:43pm On May 02, 2020 |
Silly, go back to school and come out swinging with a PhD. It is the Universe telling you to upgrade. How else will you improve on yourself if not for the love of a beautiful pusssy. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Dessy96: 10:43pm On May 02, 2020 |
Sorry |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by openmine(m): 10:43pm On May 02, 2020 |
Chai some naija parents sha ![]() ![]() I guess being a graduate of a university is now a prerequisite for a happy home! Smh |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Yoighaman(m): 10:43pm On May 02, 2020 |
@OP: Let go of that girl. The best is always yet to come, the beautiful ones are yet unborn. You will be blessed with a better person. It's obvious the family's acceptance is conditional and even if you go for a PGD and Masters, the feeling and hurt will never go away. Develop yourself and move on, life is too short to be trying to please or prove a point to anyone. The best form of revenge is success, go and be successful, so much that they'd regret they let you go and didn't allow their daughter stay with you. Wish you all the best bro. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:44pm On May 02, 2020 |
jaxxy: The father cannot tell him he has nothing going o for him.....father gave him an abbreviated portion of the whole gist. Sat in Oshogbo while she did her masters and you love her abeg Jesus loves her more. E ko radarada da nu 7 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by ihejirika: 10:46pm On May 02, 2020 |
Guy I also found myself in thesame situation when i met my wife. We fell in love and was planning for the future. But her father was a proff in the university and she is a BSc holder. As usual her father rejected me on the fact that am a HND holder. But my wife then insisted that i must be me and she moved out of the fathers house and move into mine and told the family that when they are ready they know where to find her. The father had no choice that to give his blessing. But one good thing then was that everyone in her house was in support except the father and also i had a very solid job paying in 7 figures. My dear after that experience i vowed to equal the father in academic level. Today i have 2 Masters. About starting PhD. And today the father doesn't joke with me. So my dear....it all depends on 2 things. Ur girl and the weight of your bank account. 15 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by monaPhilz: 10:46pm On May 02, 2020 |
PureGoldh:Abi o. Life na jeje. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:47pm On May 02, 2020 |
Vortex369: This!!!! Nature made women hypergamous to encourage men to do away with laziness 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by AmazingELixir: 10:47pm On May 02, 2020 |
She attended Babcock for her first degree and Convenant for her masters degree both private universities with heavy tuition fees and you passed through Osun state polytechnic, a state school for that matter ...you no even fear to carry yaself to the geh papa hous ....you get luck the man no even shoot you.. To compound issue I bet your job no fit pay pass N60k, Mr man you better go find Basira near una village there marry 13 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by tomdon(m): 10:47pm On May 02, 2020 |
Shey na oshogbo you want make she come de live ni when she has a job with a big corporation in lagos? 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by highbee02: 10:47pm On May 02, 2020 |
[quote author=meetme01 post=89090015]Op, to be sincere, if you don't upgrade before you get married to that lady if eventually things is sorted. You would have issues in your home. See, it's not a curse. Married folks can attest to this. Her standard is much higher academically, financially etc than yours. You have been seen as a gold digger. She would want to reside in Lagos due to her job. Not mainland Lagos but on the island. Can you afford accommodation in Lekki or or VI.? She would have much say in the home because her income is much higher and her parents would be supportive. If you're not careful, your home would be dictated by her parents. Before you know, you would turn to their houseboy. At the long run, a hit or foul language on the lady will end the marriage. Please, yoruba would say, ile ola niyonu. Another says, iyawo burku se fe, ano buruku o se ni (You can mange a bad wife but the in-law should not be harboured). If you like yourself, make her your best friend and remain best of friends. She would love it that way and any request for support or assistance, she would be glad. Marriage is not only about love o. [/quote U have spoken well, It's not easy to secure a job with Diploma whether Higher or Ordinary. I'm in the same boat with op, we are now separated |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ayomilezz(m): 10:47pm On May 02, 2020 |
Honestly i'm of words, but if truely the girl love's you claim she does, then should b able to withstand the storm with you.. The future is always bright when you've got the right person on your side... Stay strong buddy![b]Honestly i'm of words, but if truely the girl love's you claim she does, then should b able to withstand the storm with you.. The future is always bright when you've got the right person on your side... Stay strong buddy![/b]Honestly i'm of words, but if truely the girl love's you claim she does, then should b able to withstand the storm with you.. The future is always bright when you've got the right person on your side... Stay strong buddy! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OasisT: 10:48pm On May 02, 2020 |
The issue is not the certificate but the father of the lady was frustrated because nothing to build faith on . The lady has a better job with masters while you a factory supervisor in osun state and you want the man to open hands to welcome you? My Advise Put on hold your marriage, Go for PGD and Masters of your level Work harder and After the 3 years , if you still love the lady , go back to the man . He will not only welcome you but will kill goat to welcome you . Instead of looking for sympathy that is not there, get down to work and prove the man wrong also make him apologise through your achievement 6 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:48pm On May 02, 2020 |
openmine: Finance is a prerequisite for a happy home. Kids are expensive 14 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by atrix4g(m): 10:49pm On May 02, 2020 |
Hustle oo, make you no dey post did kind story for advise. Go and hustle. Simple. 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by mechanics(m): 10:49pm On May 02, 2020 |
I don't know why her dad should be talking like that, does it mean that a Polytechnic graduate won't make it in life, am surprised her dad is thinking that way, if her dad keep insisting, then no need wasting time on her. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:49pm On May 02, 2020 |
OasisT: Best advise! 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Jokerman(m): 10:49pm On May 02, 2020 |
AmazingELixir: Lol... No joy ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Abagworo(m): 10:49pm On May 02, 2020 |
Guy it's about the family background not necessarily money or HND. It seems your parents are not well off and in today's society the rich only want to marry the rich. Rich in this context refers to parents status in society. 7 Likes |
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