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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Poorboy: 10:49pm On May 02, 2020 |
Let's be realistic op you can not afford even the marriage expenses that will be handed over to you. It's better for a man to be wise than to put himself in unnecessary pressure. Take a bow, some parents would have arrested you and thrown into jail. You want to steal their precious daughter by tricks, take your love elsewhere. It's a sad reality, sorry. Even you as the parents won't agree. 19 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by boyjo: 10:49pm On May 02, 2020 |
Peace081: Hahaha Peace you dey vex o. Try come in Peace small naw lol 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by GreenDee(f): 10:51pm On May 02, 2020 |
[color=#000000][/color] Yoighaman:Exactly!! nice advice. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:51pm On May 02, 2020 |
silento: You want your child to grow up calling another man daddy abi..... plant in another man farm and see |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Akindele2490(m): 10:51pm On May 02, 2020 |
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OasisT: 10:52pm On May 02, 2020 |
AmazingELixir: What were you doing when the lady was developing herself ? I expect you to have made a step that will give tne man hope or you expect the man to accept another liability in the name of love ? REO and Juliet are dead 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by jaxxy(m): 10:52pm On May 02, 2020 |
Ybaby: Ure are very smart and I like her dad, he knows what he wants for his daughter and protecting her intrest bt the guy needs to sit up. He's too relaxed bt then he needs to be given a chance to prove himself. He might not be lazy bt lack of opportunities. Ur last statement was harsh. He loves this gal and she loves him. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by lyricalz: 10:53pm On May 02, 2020 |
chilet4cici: why? most people get married without the support of one of the parent, but still got a blissful marriage at the end. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by kareemkamil(m): 10:53pm On May 02, 2020 |
There are mad 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by pasol4real(m): 10:53pm On May 02, 2020 |
bamidelee:So its your level of certification that guarantees happiness in marriage right? For ur info money goes a long way in determining a happy union 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by openmine(m): 10:53pm On May 02, 2020 |
Ybaby:Did you read the part where he was rejected by his gf's dad simply because he was not a university graduate? As for the finance that you wrongfully inserted,Did the OP say he ain't working or financially stable? Smh |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by mechanics(m): 10:54pm On May 02, 2020 |
Ybaby:Remember, he needs to work to go for further studies, to me certificate don't matter when it comes to the issue of marriage, her dad is really making a big mistake, if he's not careful, he will make his daughter to marry the wrong choice and nothing good will come of the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by ATMCARD2(m): 10:54pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86:Join 'D'billionaires market on Facebook and thank me later.Its purely a Biz arena where buyers meet sellers & sellers meet buyers 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 10:55pm On May 02, 2020 |
Olayetan: God bless you. They did NYSC together she went for Masters and you are still saying tomorrow which tomorrow again.... 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by fotadmowmend(m): 10:56pm On May 02, 2020 |
RTSC:I know what I am saying..... That is poverty mentality. It affects us a lot in Africa. We are always conscious and afraid of being poor again due to our previous experiences. I wouldn't even think twice to move on if I were the op. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 10:57pm On May 02, 2020 |
Ybaby: There are more wealthy men on this planet whose major trigger to becoming greater version of themselves were decisions to get better in order to enable them get the love of pretty women. Women are triggers, but the fools who get cheap women freely end up having nothing. Why would a man work when he can lay the best women for free? Wonder why huge men end up as bouncers? And handsome boys end up being broke? 12 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by boyjo: 10:57pm On May 02, 2020 |
Adegunle4: Lol |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Melchizzedek: 10:58pm On May 02, 2020 |
Midex88:What are you saying? are polytechnics graduates not employed by the likes of BAT, Nestle, KC,P&G, Dangote, etc, especially those that studied stem related courses? Go and make proper findings man 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Amdoyin(m): 10:58pm On May 02, 2020 |
silento:Mad advice, But honest truth. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OsuIgboIpob: 10:58pm On May 02, 2020 |
stuffs4me:If only you know who your sisters dey follow, you'll bury yourself in shame... 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 10:59pm On May 02, 2020 |
crap! father and daughter offering you Bobo juice, she's part of it, don't think her father did that without her consent , the invitation is just to see you as to recognize you if you go funny, that girl is getting married this year , same girl has brought other guys and they are weighing their options my own told me it was arranged marriage by her papa to a family friend , I later got to know it was all lies. OP, you were expecting her to quit her job in VI and move from Lekki to Oshogbo? when sharp guys dey Lagos close marking her, ordering her pizza online and holiday Dubai. OP, you get international passport? 16 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Slimsly100(f): 11:01pm On May 02, 2020 |
meetme01: Àna burúkú kò seé ní rárá!! Very true!! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 02, 2020 |
The man is playing his role You are a bad market (to him) Don't force him to reason otherwise. Don't make any attempt to impress him. Don't pressurise the girl either; not at all. If she chose to fight it, let it be her decision. If she chose to respect her father, move on with understanding. What if the man is an angel in disguise? You can't be too sure, y'know. No situation in life is ALL negative. How you see yourself is most important. Think less about the certificate bullshit. The land is wide and fertile. I pity the girl though, especially if she's the type that dare not confront her father. 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by hotspec(m): 11:02pm On May 02, 2020 |
stewpid parent with archaic mentality. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OsuIgboIpob: 11:02pm On May 02, 2020 |
ghettochild4u:Who are white people? Snowman? |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by bluefilm: 11:04pm On May 02, 2020 |
Well, I believe that's just half of the story. The other part must have something to do with the fact that you are still struggling to survive financially. But alright, it's okay, let's just blame the parents for being so certificately-biased! 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by pasol4real(m): 11:04pm On May 02, 2020 |
jaxxy:What do u mean by he is too relaxed, or is it now a competition ? So because she has an msc the guy should kill himself to get one too right?. What if the guy becomes very successful tomorrow n employs her with her masters degree in his company, what would you then say? N for your info the fact that she has an msc does not necessarily mean she would be more educated than the guy. Education is way beyond paper certificates. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Ybaby: 11:06pm On May 02, 2020 |
jaxxy: They started dating in 2015.... 5 years ago. Who will give him the opportunity ? The girls father? Should help him get a job in a big organisation? Poster come and be selling real estate Landwey etc ..... hustle!!!! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Babisha10(m): 11:07pm On May 02, 2020 |
silento:Guy sense won't kill u.... I concur with this ur idea |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by frozen70(f): 11:09pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86: Love doesn't come easy Since you both love yourself You have the option of getting an admission in the university of you can afford now and read a relevant course Or you let her go and find another one if you don't mind Most parents places premium on their daughters especially if she attends expensive school |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by gabicon: 11:09pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86: Guy you were not rejected for having an HND, you need to understand how people with means think, the lady in question has been educated to a postgraduate level, this implies that there are more opportunities available to her than you. Secondly you are in osogbo she is in Lagos, she has more opportunities than you to grow in career and financial. Should you guys get married are you going to take her to osogbo? When you do what happens to all the investment made on her and opportunities open to her? I don't need to ask I can guess she earns 3x what you do. If you are serious about this relationship you need to step up your game, you don't necessarily need to get a PhD to gain their respect, you need to look like somebody going somewhere, someone they can take a chance on. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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