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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 11:27pm On May 02, 2020 |
Bleep her good and let her be. I still don’t understand how some men retain any emotion for a girl once they’ve bleeped her. But maybe I’m just a different kinda person. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by baralatie(m): 11:29pm On May 02, 2020 |
igbowoman:You graduated from UK,USA or Western university 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Alaganature(m): 11:29pm On May 02, 2020 |
It's a pity to see our parents of this generation polluting ones mind never to get married to someone his daughter loves..but it's up to the girl to take action if truly she loves you so much.. My parents can't tell me who to marry and who is not as long as I'm old enough to know what's right for me.. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by safarigirl(f): 11:29pm On May 02, 2020 |
You are clearly looking at the world with rose-colored glasses. Life is not a Nollywood movie, where Michael, a hustling Polytechnic graduate will meet wealthy Chelsea, by chance, at NYSC, then after a few protests, her wealthy parents will eventually accept him and welcome him to the family, then offer him some high-paying job with which he can care for their daughter You are clearly starstruck by this girl, who must be an embodiment of the kind of girl you should have never stood a chance with. You don't have a uniting factor, aside this love you think you share. The babe probably likes you because you have her time and treat her better than Lagos boys. Lagos boys don't worship her because there are a ton of her in Lagos, however, there aren't a ton of her in Osun, so, you are understandably smitten It will end in tears Even if you both, somehow, armtwist her parents to agree to your union, one day, your wife will meet her ideal guy in that big company she works at. He will be a graduate of Babcock or Covenant or one University in the abroad, he will be suave and smooth, he will wine and dine her with all the money you don't make as a factory supervisor. That is when you will know how much you FVCKED YOURSELF OVER, but it may be too late for you Better save yourself while you can. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Jokerman(m): 11:30pm On May 02, 2020 |
Imustsurvive: Lol... See the OP 3 Likes
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OriOko88(m): 11:30pm On May 02, 2020 |
tidalstorm: That's it. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:31pm On May 02, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe: Do they benefit anything from there |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by pasol4real(m): 11:32pm On May 02, 2020 |
jaxxy:So u think because she went for msc it simply means she is hungry n the guy isn’t, chai some of you could really be funny. N what is this Nollywood crap you’re taliking about. Isn’t it a common phenomenon in our society that even an ssce holder is an employer to a bsc n msc holder. Hell av even seen an ssce holder employ a PhD holder. As for his plans you are not in his mind to know what n what not he intends to do. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stephenisaac948(m): 11:32pm On May 02, 2020 |
Even in marriage they are still segregating between HND and degree |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by 12345baba(m): 11:32pm On May 02, 2020 |
Shey u love her? Just go back to school and get a bsc nah. All for love nwanne. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by 4gunners(m): 11:32pm On May 02, 2020 |
Ybaby:lol...this is funny. You must be very free with your son to know this. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OriOko88(m): 11:33pm On May 02, 2020 |
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by stanliwise(m): 11:33pm On May 02, 2020 |
stuffs4me:Your first paragraph is just accusations based on syllogism rather than concrete fact. So because he went for a university graduate now means he has forsaken his poly girlfriend abi? Why you wan just find chance build mountains on top mole hills 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Acuna91: 11:34pm On May 02, 2020 |
silento:Very correct sir |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by PinkStarsFallIn: 11:34pm On May 02, 2020 |
BadLuckonmyGame:Dnt be stupid, is only u dat will see poor writing skills, asif dats what the talk is about. Cheap efforts at gaining attention 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by pasol4real(m): 11:34pm On May 02, 2020 |
Okuda:I don’t get your point oga Even some ssce holders are more educated n sound than some bsc holders . So whats your point? 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by foreshore(m): 11:35pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86: That's a wrong medium of assessment by the girl's father. It's going to be difficult for you if you stick to getting married to her because there will be all sorts of barriers and also the girl may give in along the way to get parent's wish. So it's a difficult decision to take because you can only be sure of yourself and not the girl. Secondly, you can try and upgrade yourself if truly you want the girl in question and that will be determined by many factors too. My advice is you let the girl be if her dad is adamant because he may eventually control your marriage. The signs are not good coming from her father. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by chinedi7(m): 11:35pm On May 02, 2020 |
if i were the father, I wouldn't allow my daughter to marry you, it's not that I'm wicked 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Alaganature(m): 11:35pm On May 02, 2020 |
OasisT: Boss you don't need to attack him..from the looks of things..she is from a wealthy home so there is tendency that her parents can pay any bills just to give her child the best education.. someone who went to Ire might just be an opportunities for him to even get the degree..abeg no just conclude like that instead advice him. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by PapyT1212(m): 11:35pm On May 02, 2020 |
Lol.Op you are not doing well at all.....las las you go dey alright |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 11:36pm On May 02, 2020 |
Bro learn FOREX |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by tuzle(m): 11:36pm On May 02, 2020 |
Robisky001:it is because of nairalander I went back to school for bsc. With all these advice, most people would be discouraged from going to polytechnic. 4 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by opico24: 11:36pm On May 02, 2020 |
God will provide ur bone of bone for u... Op u said u are working in one private organization in osogbo.. Anytime there is vacancy,please inform me am tired of teaching. study accounting, 09068219678 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by LaIabobo: 11:37pm On May 02, 2020 |
safarigirl: Well said! 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OriOko88(m): 11:37pm On May 02, 2020 |
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Keizzmann(m): 11:37pm On May 02, 2020 |
PureGoldh: I feel you � 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 11:37pm On May 02, 2020 |
landmark86:The reason the man rejected you is not that you are a HND holder, it is how you presented yourself plus how you sold yourself to her father when he asked about your parents and job. Everybody in Nigeria is scared of poverty, including President Buhari that was why he hurriedly married his daughters out to sons of billionaires cos even as a President he was scared of the future of his kids lol I can boldly tell you that most of my close friends are HND holders and they earn far more than most master degree holders, most have built their own houses, some building second houses for rent and driving their dream cars and married to ladies with far greater profile than your girlfriend. For those screaming Masters Degree, what is a masters degree in present day Nigeria and the world when there are no jobs She's only lucky she has a connected father that helped her get a job after her Msc if not, her Msc cert would have expired in her clothing box like thousands of people in Nigeria and even outside Nigeria. In the US for instance, if you like have 2 Msc in all those yeye courses they study in Nigeria like Marketing, Accounting, Microbiology, Biochemistry, Geology, Business Administration, Public Administration, etc, people with ordinary certificate in Nursing, and other STEM courses will earn far more than you and even get employed before you will ever get a job, so what's the fuss about Most IOCS and top FMCGs employ mostly HND graduates; especially the engineering guys and they grow faster than most other graduates and fields. Dangote Refinery, Fertiliser, P&G, Oil Test, Shell, Mobil, NLNG, NBC, etc employ mostly Engineering graduates with HND and most of them earn far more than Bsc and Msc graduates, so op don't let the man's action push you to depression, it is not about your HND certificate, it is about what you are currently earning, about your financial status now; probably you went to the man's house on a taxi, and dressed like an Oshogbo man, just upgrade yourself because the whole world is afraid of poverty that is why everybody is running away from poor people, not that poor people are poisonous. Repackage yourself, there are far better ladies ahead to meet, the girl profile is not even that high to warrant the father talking nonsense, ordinary Babcock and Covenant university, what will he say about those that trained their daughters in ivy League schools in UK, US, etc He couldn't even afford to send her abroad to study where she would have met sons and daughters of Queens and Kings yet he is discriminating, life sha. Op you are a man, man no get bad market when it comes to marriage, a man is always a good market when it comes to marriage, the only problem a man has in life is to get money. Go and get money, you will meet far better ladies with higher profile than the ordinary Babcock graduate of a girl with valueless Msc from Otta farm school....focus on moving to a better company that pays better using your work experience and once you start earning higher and start packaging yourself better, you will meet even foreign ladies with royal family background, for a man, it's all about money and your packaging. The man is only doing his daughter not you. He should visit big organisations in Nigeria and outside Nigeria and see ladies in executive positions with even PhD being used and dumped by Gigolo boys who didn't even finish secondary school....some are begging guys for marriage with all their PhD and wealth, it will soon clear from his eyes, I hate irrational people If the yeye school his daughter attended and the yeye Bsc and Masters was that special, why couldn't his daughter use them to secure a wonderful job on her own with her father helping her to get a job Of what use is her schooling to obtain Bsc and Msc if she couldn't secure a good job on her own without her Father's help Yeye people 23 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by babayaro7: 11:37pm On May 02, 2020 |
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Acuna91: 11:38pm On May 02, 2020 |
Fight for your love man. Give it time, try to convince the dad that you can take care of her daughter. Show him you have a prospect. He is just a protective Dad if I may say who doesn't want her daughter to suffer after investing so much on her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by PinkStarsFallIn: 11:38pm On May 02, 2020 |
Alaganature:What concerns them, if u like marry hairdresser, dey didnt send u to babcock 6 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Passionate1(m): 11:39pm On May 02, 2020 |
igbowoman:Dis na things most women fail to grasp. . Your warnings go only fall on deaf ears. . 2 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by jaxxy(m): 11:41pm On May 02, 2020 |
pasol4real: Bro leave all this format, I know dropouts who employ MSC and PhD bt that doesn't mean every dropout will or can do that. That is why I said prospects. Sm1 cant just come talk anyhow and u eat it up. That is stupidity. U have to ready to show u can walk the talk. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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