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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by safarigirl(f): 12:05am On May 03, 2020 |
sketcherJ:lol...the storyline is basic and has been retold multiple times. I'll think about it, though |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Odion2016(m): 12:06am On May 03, 2020 |
Pity the Dad too...He has invested so much in his daughter..If he does not want you,,please leave his daughter for him..Because you will forever remain an HND holder in his sight no matter the height you attain.. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 12:06am On May 03, 2020 |
ahiboilandgas:He does not need to register any PGD to satisfy a foolish, insensitive man or people....all the op need now is more work experience in his field and an upgrade to his CV to showcase his experience, roles, on the job achievements, and maybe do some certification in his field to enable him get a better paying job in a more stable organization, and from there he can go for PGD and Msc after he must have stabilised his finances and career path. Acquiring degrees without relevant work experience is stupidity in our present world. Experience count more than degrees in the world of engineering which the op belongs 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by afecgivers: 12:07am On May 03, 2020 |
meetme01: My guy, we are living in a country that does not give opportunities or platforms to her citizens. You are advising the young man to upgrade, upgrade to where?...can you move faster than the available system. Except of course you wanted the man to get involved in filty activities. If they can't accept him like that, he should move to a lady that will love him for whom he is and not for what he is. If the family is so rich, let them upgrade him or they forget about their daughters getting married soon. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by enemyofprogress: 12:07am On May 03, 2020 |
Leave her and move on jo. Na the man go regret later in the future. I ate nonsense. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by pasol4real(m): 12:08am On May 03, 2020 |
ihejirika:Bro u said it all 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by enemyofprogress: 12:08am On May 03, 2020 |
afecgivers:no mind that guy 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by whitebeard(m): 12:09am On May 03, 2020 |
Ningen:human |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Nobody: 12:11am On May 03, 2020 |
stevups: The last part of your comment reeks of selfishness. May I never depend on my kids for my future when the time comes. I plan to even have (by God's grace) sufficient enough for two generations to come. Amen Children are not investments. God simply put them in your care. If it wasn't through you it would have been through someone else. Some people stop improving on themselves when they get married and start having kids. This is the genesis of the problem. 5 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Aystarz: 12:11am On May 03, 2020 |
Kobicove: If money is the main imgredient, why then do we bother so much about values and principles in a prospective spouse? Take money out of many a marriages and watch them fall yakata like dominoes. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Euegene100001: 12:11am On May 03, 2020 |
Just try make money poly or bsc nor really matter .Just pray for grace . To those about to enta sch. Don’t attend poly for any reason don’t settle for less ,go all out for the best. landmark86: |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by enemyofprogress: 12:13am On May 03, 2020 |
ihejirika:Please borrow me one of your certificates for me to look for work. I will return it as soon as I find one. Biko nu! |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Damsman10(m): 12:14am On May 03, 2020 |
yungz: Yea this or impregnating the girl... otherwise just quit. Social status discrimination is not new and its not just because you are a poly grad. The man would say the same to a Bsc grad still hustling and ask the boy to check back later.. Bottom line: My Brother Hustle ooo |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by afecgivers: 12:14am On May 03, 2020 |
chubinwa: Please teach him how to make the money sir. I know you are a billionaire...please help him not to lose the love of his life sir. 3 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Senorprinz(m): 12:14am On May 03, 2020 |
Everyone is clamoring for the man to move on without his partner, no one is even bothered about what the lady in question thinks about this. I'd advice the op to discuss it first with his partner, to get her own road map for their relationship based on her dad's stand, before rushing online to ask scared little puppies what to do about his relationship. 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Euegene100001: 12:15am On May 03, 2020 |
best advice yet silento: |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by MansoryMX(m): 12:16am On May 03, 2020 |
silento: 1 Like
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by meetme01: 12:16am On May 03, 2020 |
afecgivers: My upgrade is what you just described. He should find another lady. We fall in love with the hope of getting married but when things go haywire due to circumstances beyond our control, it's better we become best of friends. It shows destiny made us cross path for a reason. If not marriage, certainly it would be something worthwhile. With the in-laws countenance, it would be difficult to push further. If you do, it will definitely boomerang. For the sake of the love and friendship, it's better they path ways. We never can tell, she could be his guardian angel. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 12:16am On May 03, 2020 |
afecgivers:don't mind them. Upgrade his qualification because he wants to marry one Babcock abi Covenant University graduate, who is she When did Bsc and Msc in Nigeria became a catalyst or tool for securing a better job or having a better life The man should wait, PhD holders lecturing at some schools and earning 250k per month will come marry his daughter soonest. It was never about the guy's HND, if the guy was working in a well established company that pay well and he appeared in a swagalicious manner with his wheels, the man will be asking him to also help his daughter secure a job in his company. Most PhD holders in Nigeria earn around 250k - 300k, that's the most fortunate ones who were lucky enough to secure better lecturing job, whereas some HND holders working in some firms earn 600k above monthly, that man is probably an educated illiterate 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by noble2faith(m): 12:16am On May 03, 2020 |
It is very pitiable, at the same shocking, that most of those that re lambasting the OP are male. This same set of people will be the one to castigate any girl on this platform that says she doesn't want to end up with a broke guy. The quote below is the best comment I have read in this thread. Mr. Humilitypays, may the Lord Almighty, the Lord over all things, increase you in all ramifications. And for OP: take heed to this advice (the quoted) and you shall be blessed! humilitypays: 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by horpigee1(m): 12:17am On May 03, 2020 |
stuffs4me:hmm 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by humilitypays(m): 12:18am On May 03, 2020 |
Senorprinz:If the lady is not flowing with her father, the op wouldn't be bothered to open this thread. You should know that 98% or more of Nigerian ladies will even reject the op on this same reason without even involving their parents 7 Likes |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by afuntolulopeseun(m): 12:19am On May 03, 2020 |
Hmmmmmm, dis is a serious mata, wen d fada is saying no My advice, ur gel shuld do work buy gvn her parent reason dey shuld allow u to marry her N if it is d will of God 4 u to marry her, it wil surely work out den 4get prayers, it works |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Sedonxavi: 12:20am On May 03, 2020 |
You finished ur NYSC in 2015 right? Assuming things went well you should be married by now or about to married. I don't know ur age but both of u do not have time by your side anymore. Setting out now for PGD and Master will take sometime especially in a country like Nigeria if is public uni. The girl may not have intention to wait till u complete those programmes. Ppl keep talking about hussling as if is a joke. Set goals and let this lady know about it by trying to further ur education and u can also learn some legit businesses while running ur academic program. Her father problem is u being a factory worker. However, the lady should keep convincing her parents by letting them know ur moves. Keep praying about it if u r destined to be couple with time they will change their mind. Only few people with muddy background will understand but u will be there. |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by OriOko88(m): 12:21am On May 03, 2020 |
RedBororo: Your last sentence is senseless 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Evergreen114: 12:22am On May 03, 2020 |
DontBullshitMe:���� |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by afuntolulopeseun(m): 12:24am On May 03, 2020 |
Na advice b dat, d gentle man nid advice |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by openmine(m): 12:26am On May 03, 2020 |
Kweensavvy:Thumbs Up jare! 1 Like
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Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by VEE2010(m): 12:26am On May 03, 2020 |
Just focus on your dreams and aspirations, it doesn't matter your qualifications. The future is always pregnant for those who aspires. However, I see pride, lack of exposure on the part of the father. He should refer to Bishop David Oyedepo, Senator Amosun, Rauf Aregbesola, etc. Aforementioned personalities are products of Polytechnics. It's not by institutions we attended most times but our driving force and opportunities utilized makes the difference 1 Like |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by danlamimuhammed: 12:28am On May 03, 2020 |
o boy cool down and relax ur mind she's ur wife she will surely come back to u whether her parent like it or not because love is love |
Re: Her Parents Rejected Me Because I Am A Polytechnic Graduate by Laeroy(f): 12:28am On May 03, 2020 |
What |
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