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Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by lilyheaven: 11:05pm On May 02, 2020 |
dingbang:She won't buy them. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Plut01: 11:06pm On May 02, 2020 |
chatinent: You think that wife won't beat the day light out of the niece if she tries that? A wife has already termed her 15 years old niece as competitor. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by lilyheaven: 11:10pm On May 02, 2020 |
dingbang:After shouting at his wife, her niece will suffer the side effects, in fact no food for her for two days, because it was because of her, her loving husband shouted at her. 15 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Plut01: 11:24pm On May 02, 2020 |
lilyheaven: It depends on how you build your house. My wife will not try that shit. Marital sack letter will land on her table. Any reasonable man should never tolerate Emotional indiscipline. 30 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by ekitimanalways(m): 12:48am On May 03, 2020 |
Caringfather:Bro, you did no wrong. You wife's only exhibiting the characteristic of a typical Nigerian woman. Don't let your wife stop you from showing genuine kindness towards her niece. Tomorrow your children will reap what you are sowing today. 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by drmikeadams(m): 1:15am On May 03, 2020 |
[center][/center] . Op married another heartless ,naija , religious ,cold ,bitter woman. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by flyingdutchman(m): 5:43am On May 03, 2020 |
Your wife is wicked. She probably wants her biological children to be masters over her niece. I see this with many african women. Best thing to do is to SEND THE GIRL TO A BOARDING SCHOOL. MAKE SURE SHE LACKS NOTHING. You have a conscience. Yes, I have been married for years too and have children. I would do the same. Send her away from the wickedness. She will thank you later in life. Caringfather: 25 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by flyingdutchman(m): 5:45am On May 03, 2020 |
SEND THE GIRL TO A BOARDING SCHOOL AND SPONSOR HER UNTIL SHE GOES FOR NYSC, THEN SHE IS OFF YOUR HANDS. SHE IS NOT YIUR FAMILY'S HOUSEHELP. IT IS WRONG. By so doing, your children will also learn to be independent and do more things around the house, thereby developing them. DM me if you can. Thanks. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Nobody: 6:05am On May 03, 2020 |
Caringfather:lol but where did you learn how to buy underwear for ladies and knowing their sizes as well? this is funny to me 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by verifiablefacts: 6:51am On May 03, 2020 |
They say,when a man bought an underwear for a woman, one day he will love to see how it fits the woman. Just an old sayings, maybe the wife had that in mind. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Richy4(m): 7:28am On May 03, 2020 |
Op My brother!!... OP My brother!!... OP my brother!! How many times did I call u? If u like, check my post here on family section, I am not a member of Nairaland home wreckers Association... But there are serious issues u took lightly in your home that I felt I should let u know. Your wife indirectly implied that you were a pedophile and u let is slide easily.. Every reasonable proud and innocent man would/should have hit the roof in anger while addressing the issue inside your bedroom where the kids won't hear.. Do u know what that means? Let me spell it to u.. it means that you don't have self control where kids where involved, You can't be trusted alone with a little girl, any female under aged putting on skirts that moves under the planet is OK by u..in fact I can go on and on based on what that implies.. How can your wife have such a big twisted heart? She has a gutter mindset sorry to point it out and u have to address it... even if you give your niece money to buy it herself and she knew about it, her wonderful mind will still think what she was thinking without u addressing this urgently.. I don't know what may have happened in your yrs of marriage but have u ever given her a reason to doubt your fidelity previously? How can her mind work like that? 18 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by keenn: 8:24am On May 03, 2020 |
Caringfather: there are some responses you dont need to reply here sir, the content of some responders message should give you an idea of their maturity and apt at understanding your right up which was very clear and understanding. i wonder why people will be asking how you knew her bra size or why you shouldnt have given your wife the money to buy it...some level of reasonings sha. sir you have done the right thing, she is perhaps not comfortable of a growing lady in her house that is not her child considering she aint bordered about her appearance. so i have also heard how some wifes get jealous and angry of shared attention of affection and love amongs them and their daughters. u might have to let the little lady leave your house, standing your authority can cause am unhealthy frictiom between your mrs and the neice. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by cococandy(f): 10:43am On May 03, 2020 |
If your story is true, the child picked what she wanted and you paid for it. In the presence of your other kids. I don’t see how that’s wrong on any level. How can your wife be accusing you of such grave sexual misconduct and it’s just something flippant you allow to fly? Sorry my skepticism is high these days and little details like that make me doubt all these barrage of stories flooding this forum recently. 13 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by cococandy(f): 10:49am On May 03, 2020 |
Or maybe this is the whole purpose for the thread. But what do I know? dingbang: flyingdutchman: drmikeadams: ekitimanalways: TANTUMERGO007: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Nobody: 10:59am On May 03, 2020 |
Lol. If I have a daughter that is up to 15 years old, I do not think I will be the one to buy underwear for her. Either my wife does it or better still, she buys it herself. If I won't do it for a daughter of that age then I will not for a niece. I am not saying it is a bad practice when your mind is clean but it is just odd to me. I think a 15-year-old can buy those things herself. I sympathise with your wife though, probably she is thinking how you knew her niece needed underwears Anyways, since she does not like it then let the young girl buy her underwear herself. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Richy4(m): 11:23am On May 03, 2020 |
darknez: Did u read the part where he gave her money to buy stuffs like that for the niece and she didn't? 16 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Nobody: 11:42am On May 03, 2020 |
Richy4: ...and when did the wife become "the young girl"? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Bigblessed: 12:10pm On May 03, 2020 |
Two wives/broken home don dey hungry you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by vital123: 12:27pm On May 03, 2020 |
Ishilove:Does kind of women will still suspect the husband. She will claim he is enticing or settling the girl with money. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Billionsclub: 12:30pm On May 03, 2020 |
The right thing done in the wrong way is wrong. U did the right thing in a wrong way. U could have taken both your wife,kids and niece together to buy the things. When you get there , tell everyone to pick, you don't have to give your wife the money. After they pick, you pay directly. Next time please do this. Just apologise to her. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by bukatyne(f): 12:45pm On May 03, 2020 |
Plut01: Marital sack letter 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Richy4(m): 1:05pm On May 03, 2020 |
Billionsclub: Just apologise to her? ? For implying that he was a pedophile? Lord please give me strength.... I can't read this kind of thing anymore... 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Richy4(m): 1:21pm On May 03, 2020 |
darknez: You stressed that u were sympathetic toward the wife.. u felt the lady was thinking on how the husband gets to know when the niece needed an underwear.. so I was trying to make u understand that the man buys for his kids and also use that opportunity to give money to the wife to do the same for the girl which didn't happen But of course u misunderstood the whole thing and was ready for war.. as if someone provoked you.. a classless attitude that shouldn't happen while online 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Graxie(f): 1:25pm On May 03, 2020 |
Billionsclub:Didnt you read where he said he took them for shoping and asked them to pick? Please op, send that girl home. Please. Your wife will see to it that she is frustrated, I am very sure she might even seize those things you bought. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Omotakins(m): 2:20pm On May 03, 2020 |
Your wife's niece came into your family through her aunt. If your efforts to make the girl look presentable like your children are being twisted by your wife and you can't afford to keep seeing her somewhat tattered, tell ur wife to send her back to her parents. It is as simple as that. That's what I would do if it were me. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:52pm On May 03, 2020 |
Ishilove: Haha, now he's dropping cash for his underage mistress... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Nekky5(f): 3:09pm On May 03, 2020 |
Ishilove:its OK too but since the woman has started saying things and suspecting her husband,she might be the type that would go to check her bag always to know who buys things for her niece. If all these would bring issues in your home,I suggest let someone else in the extended family accommodate the girl if there is any while you assist. If you should continue giving her money to buy the things she needs, this might lead to an emotional attachment towards both of you. You know what it means! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by trendyprettygir: 3:10pm On May 03, 2020 |
I wonder why your wife has refused to take care of her wardrobe despite providing her cash to do this. I don't understand why women are this wicked. How does she feel when you all go out together and she wears tattered clothes. I really don't understand women. I see this sometimes, families go to church one person looking tattered, families going to fast food points, one person looking isolated and a loner. Next time you want to buy them clothes and underwear, everyone should tag along including your wife and then you can buy them what you want. So there wont be fight. The store person can even help select underwear for your niece. Please don't give your wife or your niece money directly. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Playstation1: 4:39pm On May 03, 2020 |
Caringfather:I wish I be mod, I for delete this your post then ban this ur account for life... But as I nor be mod, I go tell u say u be simp. If my wife try such stupid accusations against me of sleeping with someone (a child) because of some present I gave her________________ Only God knows what I didn't write in that blank space above. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Oyiboman69: 4:50pm On May 03, 2020 |
NextD18:you no well aswear...laugh wan kil me dai..nairaland and yeye people lol 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by GboyegaD(m): 4:55pm On May 03, 2020 |
I would suggest you send the girl back to her parents as your wife sees no use for the girl other than house chores. If she can treat her relatives this way, permit me to say she is not fair and that translates to her reasoning on this issue as well. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by Oyiboman69: 5:00pm On May 03, 2020 |
Caringfather:who pays the child school fees,feeding and accommodation?, if you are the one ,then kindly send the child away cos she is her niece...you have nothing to loose. I believe you people went and bring the child to support you in taking care of your children when they were little. That accusation is a big one and if its me ,I won't take it easy. Tell her to take the child to her parents or wherever you people brought her from...bring in your brother or nephew. She is an ingrate...your wife. 7 Likes |
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