Solomonwise1:
all your comments just dey make me dey laugh...

bcbones:


At least she'll know where she stands, maybe the guy no get feelings to that extent, it might be painful if rejected o but at least you'll know if the feeling is mutual so you can more on to the real and even better person waiting for you.

Sususy:
I'm feeling that he is deeply inlove with me but he hasn't asked me out!

Have known him for five years,(...Just as friends).
We chat frequently on Facebook, virtually everyday.
He smiles alot to my silly jokes.He likes staring at me alot.
Always in the habit of giving me compliment about my dressess.
Always playing soft and funny towards me, so kind and caring towards me.
But he hasn't told me he loves me,
Or are those not the signs that a guy is Inlove? Cuz I'm sure those are the signs.
Why didn't he ask me out? He is 24! and I'm 20!
I'm very sure is a single virgin guy (churchy guy),cuz he told me.
But why hasn't he confess to me that he loves me?
Is just so annoying! I love him so much,but I just want him to confess his feelings first to me before I confess mine.
I need the reason why he's doing that to me.What could possibly be the reason? Please help. I'm loving to know the reason.

gaius01:





Lol
Aunty I do play like him, not that I want to date the lady just normal play, well he might not be into you, he's just caring and nice

Solomonwise1:
all your comments are just like comedy..they make me laugh a lot...I have been a member on this forum for a year now..I only read comment and topic...it's fun

VicM6:
No be dis same suzuki... or sorry sususy dey preach d kingdom nd salvation of God, repent nd dnt av a bf.... nawa o, inside life... Aye le o

Solomonwise1:
maybe he feels it's not the right time for both of you to start a relationship..he might want to study more...and later end up asking you for marriage

Sususy:


Having feeling for someone is not a sin.
To love is not a sin.
It can't never be a sin
But when you have a raunchy thought about someone you love, have sex with someone you love out of wedlock,it becomes a sin.
To have feelings is naturally. So you're not committing sin if you're Inlove buh when u attach sex to it(when not married yet),it becomes an abomination ,fornication!

I just want to date him without having sex with him until we are married.

Sususy:


Don't say that!
It can't be!
It hurts!

Guys should stop being over nice to ladys if they don't have the intention to date...

But why does he stare at me often,I don't mean my butt or boobs,no! He just likes looking into my eyes often,is that not a obvious sign that he's Inlove with me?

Rickjordan:
He is scared of getting a no from you, we all have been there ...
Let me give you a little secret since you gals aren't brave enough to .... Tell him the same thing you wrote up there and asking him for advice, but switch yourself as your friend and himself with another guy...ask him what he thinks is wrong with the guy for not opening up to your friend, because your friend loves the guy too..... If he failed to open up to you later.. then he never really likes you or he must have swallowed the red pill n his game is working on you

jotfas:
What I'll advice u do is u give him d green light nd wait nd see if he would respond. If not let him be.

Sususy:


Why

gaius01:




Well have you given him green light or clue that you are really interesting in him?

Sususy:


I have done that already!
Why hasn't he responded?

Sususy:
I'm feeling that he is deeply inlove with me but he hasn't asked me out!

Have known him for five years,(...Just as friends).
We chat frequently on Facebook, virtually everyday.
He smiles alot to my silly jokes.He likes staring at me alot.
Always in the habit of giving me compliment about my dressess.
Always playing soft and funny towards me, so kind and caring towards me.
But he hasn't told me he loves me,
Or are those not the signs that a guy is Inlove? Cuz I'm sure those are the signs.
Why didn't he ask me out? He is 24! and I'm 20!
I'm very sure is a single virgin guy (churchy guy),cuz he told me.
But why hasn't he confess to me that he loves me?
Is just so annoying! I love him so much,but I just want him to confess his feelings first to me before I confess mine.
I need the reason why he's doing that to me.What could possibly be the reason? Please help. I'm loving to know the reason.

Ilochukwuka:

You are the reason because you don't know what you want

machiavelli95:


It is simple.
You said he is a churchy guy and a virgin (likely no sex before marriage crew).
He likes you and has feelings for you no doubt, but he is faced with the dilemma of dating you and maintaining his convictions (no sex before marriage). Maybe he knows or thinks that you don't share that same conviction and if you must date a guy, you must likely sleep with that guy (most girls rarely have a strong love connection to someone there are not erotically intimate with) or you might get it elsewhere.
Thus the guy would not want to be heartbroken by dating you and having you collect cookies outside (if he is to maintain his convictions), but at the same time wouldn't just let you go because he feels something strong for you.
So the thing is he definitely has feelings for you, but if you must date, one of you must bend to the others convictions, either you join the no sex before marriage crew, or you begin to knack life out of him, (abeg no come corrupt person annointing o).
I have been in that shoe several times since I reconsecrated myself towards sexual purity, I used to be a campus husband before and knacked sotay I lost weight (an virtue too ), I have quite a number of attractive girls show serious interest in me (some of them over years now and with banging bodies too ). Sometimes they make a move and I will just purposely act dumb just to diffuse tension. I actually love one deeply,but I cannot date her because I don't plan get married in the next 3years, and I cannot date a girl that long without touching her, even if I do manage to,she might not share my convictions and be collecting lamba outside( making me a pathetic fool) or "see finish" might set in.
So what I do is to carry myself in such a way that I earn utmost respect from the girl, her friends and family so that when I am finally ready to settle, I will just swoop in and have no problems.
Its a difficult situation to be in especially when she flashes those succulent mounds of flesh expecting you to make a move.
God will EPP us o

Sususy:

Really But kindly contribute na I'm desperate to know y he hasn't confess his feelings to me

Sususy:


I was thinking it's a huge turn off to men.
I'm too proud to confess my feeling first sef
Na men suppose confess feeling to women first,not the other way around...

Eulalia:
Lol....this reminds me of what one of my secondary school teachers used to say that it is very dangerous to assume. My dear stop assuming. Wait until he pops the question to date you.

Good luck.

zedegit:


It depends on him since he's conservative like she mentioned. Him telling her is a loooooong shot which might not happen in the near future.

So best thing is for her to be checking up on him and them enjoying the moment.

She can call up on him for them to go out, hold his hands and act confident in him.

With time, he will open up.