Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

I’m I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

ikh777:


wow.... pls help us define the LIMITS...

if you are dating for marriage, what and what should the guy NOT PAY FOR YET till after wedding

If you are dating for sex and fun.... AND he has to take care of those things that you would have naturally taken care of by yourself without a man.... THEN WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND A CALL/RUNS GIRL?


See, all these things you said actually goes both ways. IF IT IS TRUE LOVE.... both parties are equals and should spend on each other according to their heart. RELATIONSHIP is not ADOPTION.

FACT 101[code]: CORRECT Guys will always spend more on a lady who has more to offer beyond sex and gist.

Swtbabyvee:
well said . A stingy man is a disgusting man

lenghtinny:
Here comes the entitlement mentality

Oluromantic:
So in your mind now. There's wisdom in what you said. Lol you shd be ashamed of yourself. If your father cannot help your financial desires, then zip up the burden. Romance is not trade by barter. Get some understanding before going public biko. You won't be young forever.

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

Liliantalks:
The difference is that she’s fucking only you

See a stingy guy is a stingy guy , a man is supposed to be a giver even to his friends and acquaintances. If a guy is stingy to women dating or not ,, he’s more stingy to his male friends

Swtbabyvee:
well said . A stingy man is a disgusting man

Justbehave:
Everything you said here would have been right if only you can offer any other thing apart from your kpekus.

Liliantalks:
sorry to disappoint you but it’s a trade by barter , u take care of me and I take care of you . But in different ways

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

I hope he’s entitled to yours too.....

My man You sound possessive.

ikh777:


oh WOW, you have a strong point when it comes to stingy guys... you are right.

My point was guys and girls generally should give each other, IT IS CALLED LOVE... both parties are to GIVE equally in everything. 50-50

Oluromantic:

No. You think it is doesn't make it so. It is not a trade at all..it's far beyond it. If you need a trade, get a registered room in a brothel and advertise your trade with Bonanza for customers.

And stop feeling yourself like you are saying the right thing. You're spitting trash.

Liliantalks:
u are not wrong , but u know a man is a man , u hv to be generous enough to make a woman return the gesture

Liliantalks:
the truth is normally bitter . Relationship is a give and take , I know u r not hearing this for the first time

lefulefu:
only a jobless man does such .who get time to dey monitor a woman and the men she talks to.anyman who does such is very jobless.

Oluromantic:

No dear, low self-esteem makes trash look like truth. Stupid talks breed harsh response. My gf earns more than me at the moment and she does spend more. She doesn't feel entitled as you who have no Kobo in your account

ikh777:


You are right. MEN MUST TAKE THE LEAD.

I think you should write on that, MANY OF US WAIT FOR WOMEN TO SHOW THEIR NICE NATURE BEFORE STEPPING UP.... all in the name of playing safe, in case she is after money

Liliantalks:
I said what I said . So am I suppose to envy a woman who spends on a man .. desperation is all I see and u r exploiting it .

Ruudy:
sitting there an be eating is money when u offer nothing.. U cant advise him, u cant build up with him, u cant assist him, u cant help him in is bussiness. Only what u can offer is ur overrated puzzy an u want to put ur burden on him.. Sistar recieve sense na

Swtbabyvee:
well said . A stingy man is a disgusting man

Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it

Liliantalks:
sorry to disappoint you but it’s a trade by barter , u take care of me and I take care of you . But in different ways

Liliantalks:
I said what I said . So am I suppose to envy a woman who spends on a man .. desperation is all I see and u r exploiting it .