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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Ruudy: 12:29am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
think about it , whenu strike a girl n u feel she has nothing to offer you than sex u dump her ,, but let’s be realistic , many men r married to their women cause of sex , and many women r married to their men cause of money , the others is a relevant plus . Sex and money brings both sex together
u sound as iif relationship is a business, just like paying for sex, golddiging. No love

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by KenBen217: 12:33am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
The difference is that she’s fucking only you

See a stingy guy is a stingy guy , a man is supposed to be a giver even to his friends and acquaintances. If a guy is stingy to women dating or not ,, he’s more stingy to his male friends
my dear...i hearby crown you the biggest liar om this planet...and to go further to say that you're a very entitled person. some guys believe that it's better to give a fellow guy than a woman. because you see a woman...nothing will come out of it. chop and go...but your tight man may stick his neck out for you when it's his turn to. you comment fit make person laugh...so a guy is "supposed" to be women Bonanza...ATM machine...I no blame u...it's all dose guys in your life that is making you feel like this...

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by sexylassie2(f): 12:37am On May 05, 2020
leave all these broke men here acting like their mother didnt ask their father for money when they were dating

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Justbehave(m): 12:44am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
yes a woman Pusey is her value , I ain’t gonna cm here denying it ,, as a man can u marry a woman without sex?? I can get a didilo to pleasure myself till enternity, can you do soapy forever?
,Go ahead

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Ruudy: 12:51am On May 05, 2020
sexylassie2:
leave all these broke men here acting like their mother didnt ask their father for money when they were dating
when they have married ba. becuze my mum really hustle with him surpport him, buy gift for them selfs when they have not yet married o still continue till date.. Not only exchange of money and puxxy just like op said

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by meum: 12:56am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.

Seriously guys STOP this! It's a relationship. It's not bondage.

Same goes to the lady, STOP monitoring his pocket/wallet and his level of giving. If he gives you out of benevolence collect it. STOP demanding for money for toiletries and money for your hair. b4 you met him you had a life. Your life didn't stop when you met him. You didn't stop going to work(if you had one). STOP feeling ENTITLED. It's just a relationship not an adoption.

My man! My man! Where and when was he pronounced your man? Who were the witnesses? It's HIS money until you both are married. That's when he becomes your man. Only then can you demand 4 money 4 toiletries from YOUR MAN.

Our mothers weren't this entitled yet they made/make the best homes.

If you are not okay in the relationship discontinue and keep talking to as many guys as you like. When you are tired of talking to as many guys as you like you can sign up for Shiloh.

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by newman0017(m): 12:59am On May 05, 2020
ode wi yu get LOST relationship no be excuse to dey wash pussy cat dey wait who go say hello make him come buy toiletries or do your hair.. Better still go barb your hair use am the carry pure water you go get toiletries money.

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by sirzee1660(m): 12:59am On May 05, 2020
sexylassie2:
leave all these broke men here acting like their mother didnt ask their father for money when they were dating
ur name alone have showed who you are shocked shocked runs girl... stupid fool

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by newman0017(m): 1:24am On May 05, 2020
Anty that matter no get reach 20 yrs to shrink and wrinkle up... Nobody wants a wrinkled pussy cat... Use your Love Machine, make i go babcok come back grin
Liliantalks:
yes a woman Pusey is her value , I ain’t gonna cm here denying it ,, as a man can u marry a woman without sex?? I can get a didilo to pleasure myself till enternity, can you do soapy forever?

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Vivianagoja(m): 1:26am On May 05, 2020
If your father could offer you, those stuffs Why then disturb somebody's son... Rubbish

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by sexylassie2(f): 1:43am On May 05, 2020
sirzee1660:
ur name alone have showed who you are shocked shocked runs girl... stupid fool

runsgirl just like your mother

all these broke boys are quick to call names and get inferiority complex fast

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by kazyhm(m): 1:53am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
yes a woman Pusey is her value , I ain’t gonna cm here denying it ,, as a man can u marry a woman without sex?? I can get a didilo to pleasure myself till enternity, can you do soapy forever?


This is immeasurable and unquantifiable senselessness, retardnesz and foolishness


Highest standard of low-life

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by ChrisLegacy007: 2:19am On May 05, 2020
broke ladies n' entitlement are inseperable.. if your boyfriend is stingy then go get yourself a f*ckin' job

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Dande55: 2:29am On May 05, 2020
Oluromantic:

No dear, low self-esteem makes trash look like truth. Stupid talks breed harsh response. My gf earns more than me at the moment and she does spend more. She doesn't feel entitled as you who have no Kobo in your account
God forbid.

What we have in this generation are not men but sick lazy dogs.

She should be the head of the relationship and be calling the shots.
Tufia, I pity the lady

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by phazotron(m): 2:33am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it


Ure nothing more than a proustite

That's why our guys almost always prefer to stay with white girls especially in America

If u have nothing to contribute positively to ur man's life

Get ready to be bleeped and dumped as easy as ABC

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Oluromantic: 3:07am On May 05, 2020
Dande55:

God forbid.

What we have in this generation are not men but sick lazy dogs.

She should be the head of the relationship and be calling the shots.
Tufia, I pity the lady
What do you know? You have a lot to learn. I have properties where rents await me in large amount bro, almost completed..She's seen the bright future and has nothing to make her not stay but for now, she earns more ...simple. Even without that, earning more than ur guy is not a crime and you don't have to make it look like one, as we all know what the economy is like. It's commitment that matters. Ur girl may earn more than you but there are things she needs to see in you before she trust you, you support each other.. think about that ok. And stop this attitude of just posting anything to get likes. Reality is what's important. You won't be young forever and Nairaland is not in your future

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Nobody: 3:24am On May 05, 2020
phazotron:



Ure nothing more than a proustite

That's why our guys almost always prefer to stay with white girls especially in America

If u have nothing to contribute positively to ur man's life

Get ready to be bleeped and dumped as easy as ABC

Prostitute blah! blah!blah! Boring.
please go to the white girls with our blessings. We all know that you will accept dregs and scraps as long as it is white, light and bright. The arrogance you show here will fade, y'all be simping in the marriage until she divorces you and drains you dry.

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Nobody: 3:27am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer .

Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much.
painful I tell you.@ Last paragraph.

It is well


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Re: Some Men Need To Think by goldcrest5: 3:31am On May 05, 2020
Kai!!! Shame dey catch me on top this ya post...

My sister, this kinda mentality, leave it for runs girls.

Are you a sex object for the highest bidder?

Show yourself some respect...

What does a relationship mean to you? A situation where a man/men pay for your needs in exchange for sex? Is that it?... That's prostitution!


A wise lady will do legit work for her money & not rely on a boyfriend/random men to survive.

Your value & respect in any relationship is in what you have to offer... It shouldn't be pu**y in exchange for money.... That's low.

All a boyfriend can/will do, see it as bonus... Not your entitlement.

Relationship requires mutual commitment & support... Not one way traffic.

No one wants to be in a parasitic relationship...

Pls.... Have respect for yourself & your body...

Have a change of mentality.

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by uboma(m): 4:22am On May 05, 2020
sexylassie2:
leave all these broke men here acting like their mother didnt ask their father for money when they were dating


It is not about being broke but about breaking the entitlement mentally most ladies have today. I am not under obligation to pay for your hairdo and buy toiletries for you. I can do any of these and more when and only when I want to.

It is wrong of you to compare our times with that of our mothers. Our mothers had the decency not to burden a man with their needs all in the name of dating. The ladies with entitlement mentality whom we have today are of a different breed....

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by chigoizie7(m): 4:40am On May 05, 2020
This one is just a mumu somebody

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by femmoy(m): 5:17am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
yes a woman Pusey is her value , I ain’t gonna cm here denying it ,, as a man can u marry a woman without sex?? I can get a didilo to pleasure myself till enternity, can you do soapy forever?

olosho in disguise.

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by dingbang(m): 6:59am On May 05, 2020
If you follow a woman's opinions when she is bored, you will toe the negative path of life. Broke lazy girls would only spew this!

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Liliantalks: 7:11am On May 05, 2020
meum:


Seriously guys STOP this! It's a relationship. It's not bondage.

Same goes to the lady, STOP monitoring his pocket/wallet and his level of giving. If he gives you out of benevolence collect it. STOP demanding for money for toiletries and money for your hair. b4 you met him you had a life. Your life didn't stop when you met him. You didn't stop going to work(if you had one). STOP feeling ENTITLED. It's just a relationship not an adoption.

My man! My man! Where and when was he pronounced your man? Who were the witnesses? It's HIS money until you both are married. That's when he becomes your man. Only then can you demand 4 money 4 toiletries from YOUR MAN.

Our mothers weren't this entitled yet they made/make the best homes.

If you are not okay in the relationship discontinue and keep talking to as many guys as you like. When you are tired of talking to as many guys as you like you can sign up for Shiloh.


so my boyfriend is not my man ?? He’s now my what? Why then r we hving sex? Be realistic Biko ! Many guys out there r responsible and still doing the needful, u don’t need to tell me I will definitely discontinue with a stingy man , dating a stingy man is like being cursed

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Liliantalks: 7:11am On May 05, 2020
femmoy:


olosho in disguise.
that’s the highest u can say .,
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Liliantalks: 7:18am On May 05, 2020
uboma:



It is not about being broke but about breaking the entitlement mentally most ladies have today. I am not under obligation to pay for your hairdo and buy toiletries for you. I can do any of these and more when and only when I want to.

It is wrong of you to compare our times with that of our mothers. Our mothers had the decency not to burden a man with their needs all in the name of dating. The ladies with entitlement mentality whom we have today are of a different breed....
our mothers r more entitled than we are , a million and one times . So we just started being entitled? Who thought us to be entitled, who thought that a man who can’t take care of you should be dumped . Oh ladies just started being entitled out of the blue . U can complain here but reality will remain reality.

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by mrblessed(m): 7:24am On May 05, 2020
I blame both mental and financial poverty as the root of such warped thinking. A lady who is from a well-to-do background will not feel financially entitled to his guy, nor will she become a liability to him under the guise of relationship.

Credit should be given to the bimbo for, at least, accepting that relationship is transactional, and that she is nothing but a huge burden to any man unfortunate to look in her direction. This is something most ladies know and practice but will always deny it. This Op is fearless and bold!

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Nobody: 7:26am On May 05, 2020
Oluromantic:

What do you know? You have a lot to learn. I have properties where rents await me in large amount bro, almost completed..She's seen the bright future and has nothing to make her not stay but for now, she earns more ...simple. Even without that, earning more than ur guy is not a crime and you don't have to make it look like one, as we all know what the economy is like. It's commitment that matters. Ur girl may earn more than you but there are things she needs to see in you before she trust you, you support each other.. think about that ok. And stop this attitude of just posting anything to get likes. Reality is what's important. You won't be young forever and Nairaland is not in your future
that's a lady

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Nobody: 7:34am On May 05, 2020
Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time ,

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space .

So if the man showers u with blocks of money he has the right to checkmate u, close mark u and only then will u be loyal.. Well at least u know what u want. So many damaged people sha cheesy

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:39am On May 05, 2020
A rich guy can control you sha gringrin

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Re: Some Men Need To Think by Theundertaker(m): 7:44am On May 05, 2020
Lol weyti Una Dey argue !! E get person wey like stingy person b4, , even me as a bros , I hate them a lot .

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