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| I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by zaksman1960(m): 7:15am On May 05, 2020 |
Please guys don't mind any mistake I will make .am not So good in writing Have been married for two years now ,meet my wife through a friend .we got along and did married say one year after we meet.during our courtship I never for once had any reason to doubt her loyalty as everything was nearly perfect.as she told about her past life and relationship though not so good but not too bad either. Before I forget to mention she was done with her OND at the time I meet her .and was eager to complete her HND this was not a problem for me as i was ready and capable of assisting her to complete the program.she have birth to our first child during her final year though not easy for her combining education with baby .but she was able to complete the program though with an extra semester. To cut the story short my people she was mobilized for NYSC for batch A 2020,though she could not complete the 3 weeks camp due to the Corona virus pandemic.as their camp was cut short . before I forget I do have access to her phone as I know the password to it ..am not that kind of guy who possess trust issue beside I trusted her wholeheartedly so I had no reason to suspect her. most times I just check news on her phone and atymes play game .. So I was push one day to check her whatapp .I observe a chat with a guy,her fellow corper the guy asking her how she copes with lockdown .how she is enjoying my di...k and if she does enjoy it ..I was shocked. For her to be chatting with a guy asking her such question .I didn't ask her about it I just ignore it. I began to follow up with her chat with this guy , I observe she does delete all her chat with this guy but as a fast guy atymes I manage to read her chat before she deletes them ..after that scene she was chatting the guy complaining that she does not see his calls ..the guy replied that it's because he knows am around because of lockdown that why he doesn't call. Then just yesterday night the guy was asking when she is coming over. though she slept off thats why she could not reply him .this morning I observed as usual the chat was deleted. I need ur advice my people .sorry for the long write up. I have not confronted her yet cause am not sure if she is really cheating or about to.and also I think I don't have enough evidence too. Why does she deletes her chat if nothing is fishing 2 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by SeverusSnape(m): 7:18am On May 05, 2020 |
For her to be deleting chats and for the guy to say he can't call because you're around, Then she's definitely cheating, I'm sorry but that's just the truth. Most corps members cheat, Whether married or just dating. I'm gamophobic, I fear marriage. 66 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by Babagboju(m): 7:20am On May 05, 2020 |
Let wait for elders to comment 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by emkz: 7:22am On May 05, 2020 |
She is cheating albeit emotionally which is a precursor to physical cheating. You cannot act based on the scanty information you currently have. Take her phone, dowload whatsapp web on your computer, scan her phone on it and monitor her chats in real time or back up her chats in dropbox every 30 seconds. Alternatively, pretend you are not suspecting her and live normally with her until the day she would be off her guard (like forgetting to delete the chat or introducing new unconventional sexual positions like reverse cowboy, reverse doggy, reverse well digger, head-over-heels, ladder, squat-and-kiss-while-bonking, etc). Before a man can discuss phallus matters with a woman including that of her husband, he must have become too comfortable with her, either having been intimate with her or he has bonked her. If you are suspecting she's cheating, she probably already is. Goodluck. 40 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by SeverusSnape(m): 7:25am On May 05, 2020 |
emkz:For now, If not for the lock down, She would have cheated physically. Read where he asked her when she's coming over. I tire for women... 6 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by Shelumiel: 7:26am On May 05, 2020 |
It is best you catch her in the act. That way you are justified |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by phorget(m): 7:26am On May 05, 2020 |
Hmmmmm! I won't say a word.  |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by madridguy(m): 7:29am On May 05, 2020 |
So you need nairalanders to confirm to you what your wife is doing? So she's too big for you to confront?   You better go and do DNA of your first born before you continue to train someone else child.17 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by 912(m): 7:30am On May 05, 2020 |
Your wife is cheating on you no doubt. First, use her phone to chat with the guy and make him say something that you can use as evidence then send it to your phone. Second, carry your child to one of your family members before showing your wife the messages. Third, do not listen to any begging or explanation, just tell her to go and be with her lover full time. Tell her that now she won't need to delete messages anymore since she will be living with him. A cheating girlfriend is manageable, but a cheating wife and mother cannot be excused 47 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by BabbanBura(m): 7:31am On May 05, 2020 |
zaksman1960: Guy, shit is going down or about to go down. Install watzup tracker on her phone and watch that chat from your phone so you can screen grab evidence before she deletes them. Your wife is in a slippery ground into the mudpid where that guys is, if she is not there yet. Never confront her yet without unarguably evidence as she will deny it and play the trust card on you. Note that I have being there several times, I lost on the previous occasions because I thought it was enough to just confront without evidence but believe me ladies will so turn the table on you if you dont present a concrete prove. The last one did same, you will think that i dey excuse the innocent lass out of wickedness to the extent she was asking me to prove it, she was so vehement that nothing happens, I was bewildered. When I brought out evidences, within seconds the defence turn to cry with heavy tears begging for forgiveness saying she didnt know what came over her. Ofcourse ladies no dey know whst came over them once dem see evidence to prove their infidelities. So get concrete evidence otherwise na u go carry the cross lass lass 32 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by dajoaneke(m): 7:31am On May 05, 2020 |
let me read then update UPDATE: This is a messy situation! my advice for you is to get his full name and information, track his house and when she plans to go out with a flimsy excuse, get to his neighborhood when she's taking her bath and wait for her to enter his house, then you go knock on the door. Meanwhile, please I need subscribers on my my YouTube Channel. I upload the doppest memes! Click HERE to subscribe. Thanks 5 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by piippa(m): 7:32am On May 05, 2020 |
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| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by mrphysics(m): 7:36am On May 05, 2020 |
Anyone that will advise you to wait until you catch her physically cheating is either not matured or a cheat. You are married for Christ sake. The signs are obvious and I wonder what other evidence you need. You should confront her and hear what she will say. You need to be very firm and strict about confronting her otherwise you will get what I may call a bystander effect. Hey, if you have two kids or if she's pregnant, demand both of you must go for a DNA test. Except if you have cheated on her, but if not, this is your marriage and you have to handle it like a Man. But don't handle it in such a way that she will adapt new measures to keep whatever is going on between her and the guy rather, a way that if she's planning on something with the guy would put an end to it. I am not married though but I know cheating or any symptoms of cheating could lead to a break of trust and as such, you have to, at all times, be convinced you are married to your wife for a healthy relationship to exist. Both of you need to be convinced of your honesty. Like I said, I am not married so you have to reevaluate what I said and pick anyone you think is useful for you. 9 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by sapeleboi(m): 7:36am On May 05, 2020 |
call her to order right now we the Nairaland need to question her
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| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by SeverusSnape(m): 7:36am On May 05, 2020 |
BabbanBura:That's girls for you, They are masters in the art of reverse psychology. They will cry, wail and accuse you of not trusting them, But all the time, They are lying. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by ifex370(m): 7:36am On May 05, 2020 |
Before you proceed to do whatever the hell it is you've made up your mind to do. Call her and ask her "if there's anything you're doing wrong, she's free to talk about it. Just so you can be a better husband. Do this for the sake of your child" If she says nothing, that she's fine with you being the way you are. Make sure you ask her if she's very sure. If she says yes, then my brother. Proceed with your grand plan to catch the cheating LovePeddler redhanded. Nothing is as disgraceful and embarrassing as infidelity in marriages. It's the one reason God stamps as having a leeway to proceed in divorcing your spouse because even God knows how painful it is. It is also a sin both unbelievers and sinners still frown at. To show how terrible it is. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by NNEWIsuper: 7:37am On May 05, 2020 |
For the guy to ask her whether you're dickingg her well shows they're so close..either she's about to cheat or she has already 4 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by Olalan(m): 7:40am On May 05, 2020 |
Guy your wife is already cheating on you..... 6 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by Samakus(m): 7:40am On May 05, 2020 |
Nawa o. To marry dey fear me these days. Because I know my temperament. I can kill an infidel God help me 3 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by ichidodo: 7:41am On May 05, 2020 |
Mr Man, you have become inadvertently a cuckold. A cuckold is that dude whose wife share the goodies and the husband is aware. What a sad moment for you...There are two choices, one is that you can confront but forgive her because of your baby but know it that you have been emotionally scarred forever and things might never be the same again as you play the tape in your mind of somebody pounding the sh**t out your wife's pussy and this is someone you paid bride price for. Two, you just f**k it and send her packing....the choice is yours. 6 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by NNEWIsuper: 7:46am On May 05, 2020 |
zaksman1960:Bros let tell u what to do.. listen carefully. When your wife is sleeping and u know the guy will be online, take the phone and ask the guy(of course pretending to be your wife)..How did you enjoy the last sex we had and the mouth action? and note what the guy will say, save it , that's were u will definitely know,but sure will work Make sure you save the conversation ooo Good luck, I will be waiting for your testimony 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by Franzinni: 7:47am On May 05, 2020 |
guy don't give yourself head ache... if a wife has a mobile phone and it is connected to social media he he.. you can deny it but ...something usually happens in their head once in a while when they get messages from boys and sometimes men ... they get all girly again and get lost in the whirlwind of romance believing that they have it under control till they don't ... in the world of today trust yourself alone you can never be sure of any other person 7 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by ITbomb(m): 7:48am On May 05, 2020 |
I hope you have been snapping the chat with your phone 3 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by Kimzo: 7:54am On May 05, 2020 |
912:You go sabi plan successful Coup oooo.... Oga boss 2 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by spyg1(m): 7:54am On May 05, 2020 |
Confront her and reset her brain with a sound slap. I never knew ladies are cows, the only language they understand is beating until they (ladies) told me. When my friend who is very gentle, his wife was cheating on him. I asked a decent married colleague, What is it that she doesn't behave or cheat like other married? She replied: My man will send me packing without regrets if he finds out. Don't be gentle when it comes to cheating. 7 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by Goddys(m): 7:55am On May 05, 2020 |
Send her to her parents before she contracts HIV and transmits it to you. You are the man. Fvck evidence. She has cheated emotionally already. Whether she has had sex or not with the guy is inconsequential. I didn't need a second thought to send my fiancé back to her mom and turned her to my babymama for 3 years now 9 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by MedicH: 8:03am On May 05, 2020 |
You need to get a concrete evidence on her first because if you confront her with nothing she can say you're making it up there's no such thing and stand her ground I've seen it happen then she will call on other people and play the victim role and gain public sympathy. Pls install clone all messenger on ur phone, scan her WhatsApp web barcode and voila! You can see her messages as she type and you can take screenshots. You need to act fast, don't let her give u HIV you will only end up a sorry as of a man. That guy is probably her ex boyfriend I think and he can always have her way with her that's why marrying a non virgin woman is and will always be a disaster. 8 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by 3verblazing(m): 8:04am On May 05, 2020 |
I hope ur not been delusional... and the person u are assuming to be a guy is one of her girlfriends... 1 Like |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by zaksman1960(m): 8:10am On May 05, 2020 |
Have been moddy since the discovery...thanks for ur advice my people..I just keep thinking where I have gotten it wrong .note she still like the normal caring and loving wife I married that's why am scared the more ,her behavior still the same except this chat stuff I found out.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by zaksman1960(m): 8:14am On May 05, 2020 |
I am not delusional.its a guy I confirmed it from one of their chat ....asking him about his daughter .seems the guy has a daughter out of wedlock...I also I read of of his audio msg telling her how she can come over to island during this Corona lock down 2 Likes |
| Re: I Think My Wife Is Cheating On Me. by SweetCunt97(f): 8:19am On May 05, 2020 |
SeverusSnape:Supu! Gamophobic. Lolzz. Why scared? It's a normal thing people do so why are you scared? 1 Like |
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