Stats: 3,189,618 members, 7,937,790 topics. Date: Monday, 02 September 2024 at 12:05 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Some Men Need To Think (46925 Views)
You Men Need To Stop Doing This! (pic) / Men Need To Realise That Having Money Doesn't Make Them A Catch. / Lady Says – Women Need Men More Than Men Need Them (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (23) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Some Men Need To Think by DeHill(m): 7:46am On May 05, 2020 |
[quote author=Liliantalks post=89194813] u think I am going to deny anything or be defensive? See I am entitled to my mans money !! Yes I said it [/quote is your man also entitled to your money? |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Tozic: 7:49am On May 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2:FRUSTRATED SLUT, WETIN NA? ![]() NO WORK AGAIN? ABI DEY NO DEY PATRONIZE YOUR SLUTY BUSINESS? TAKE HEART DEAR, EVERYTHING WILL BE OVER. FIRST_CLASS ODE. 9 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by DeHill(m): 7:50am On May 05, 2020 |
Justbehave:she has nothing to offer other than SEX. Oloshoism in a different form. 5 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Emekaossai(m): 7:50am On May 05, 2020 |
Liliantalks: If that's the only point of getting married, I rather die single. Your mentality is so wrong. 15 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Justbehave(m): 7:57am On May 05, 2020 |
DeHill:Thats why I can't give in to their manipulations.All she said here is just to coerce simps into spending money on them. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by angelfallz(m): 7:58am On May 05, 2020 |
Liliantalks:it depends on the relationship. are you in a transactional relationship? ie a relationship where the woman is offering sex and man is offering money. If that is the kind of relationship you are in then you have a point. If you are in serious relationship ie a relationship that both the man and woman is hoping would lead to marriage, then you have no point. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by DeHill(m): 7:58am On May 05, 2020 |
Liliantalks:pls, go and start OLOSHO work. Even if a man spends all his money on you, you will still dump him for a richer GUY. Entitlement mentality is a very serious mental illness. Liliantalks: I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me , and u are trying to checkmate me , want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time , Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman , her hair and toiletries. Ofcourse I am doing it myself , but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me . If u broke n do nothing for ur babe give her some space . She knows u don’t hv n trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up , especially now when u hv nothing to offer . Ps: if u r stingy as a man, u are not a man , u hv no value . I didn’t say broke I said stingy . If u can’t do in little u won’t in much. pls, go and start OLOSHO work. Even if a man spends all his money on you, you will still dump him for a richer GUY. Entitlement mentality is a very serious mental illness. Liliantalks:pls, go and start OLOSHO work. Even if a man spends all his money on you, you will still dump him for a richer GUY. Entitlement mentality is a very serious mental illness. 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Solearr: 8:04am On May 05, 2020 |
In a NORMAL healthy relationship, both the male and female go out to work a d bring in the bread, taking care of them selves with THEIR OWN money equitably, everybody contributing equally where needed and both of them making viable long term plans for their futures But in this country what is the norm is for a broken lady with nothing of note to contribute latching on to a man that will take care of her needs ant the needs of her wretched village Nigerian men this is wrong Get yourself a strong capable woman so that your own daughter will not log on nairaland to display the way these ladies living wretched lives do 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by dukeprince50: 8:08am On May 05, 2020 |
Liliantalks:well said OP, as a guy this ur talk pain me but it's the sad truth |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Newyam: 8:17am On May 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2: wot i no undastand z why sexylassie2, an old wuman wey dey beg 2 b a babymama dey call pipu broke 11 Likes 1 Share
|
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Newyam: 8:18am On May 05, 2020 |
pesin wey a low bujet sweetcunt97 wit all ha 97 bodi counts dey giv advise. dame sexylassie2 dey call pipu broke
|
Re: Some Men Need To Think by uboma(m): 8:28am On May 05, 2020 |
Liliantalks: According to you, who is a stingy man? I will like to read your views.... 3 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by uboma(m): 8:36am On May 05, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Not true. Our mothers were more decent than most ladies we have around today. Poverty, lack of purpose in life and laziness are some of the factors that has made some women to develop the entitlement mentality. 2 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by MedicH: 8:52am On May 05, 2020 |
A woman I'm dating dare not ask me for money for hair. Truly money is not my problem at all, I grow it everyday like grass aside my monthly pay slip thanks to the internet but I am a man of principle. I don't do anything with small girls and I guess this OP is a poorly brought up small girl that knows nothing about life apart from her stupid hair on her empty head but someone like me will always pass and least I can do is to peep from my side mirror when I have passsed if and only if you set and that's all. As a matter of principle, my own principle is that my woman's hair is her responsibility just as my hair is my responsibility and this sticks. Now one Lady I was talking with asked if I don't give her money for hair as my gf will I give her as a wife? I didn't give a straight answer. The last thing I can do is to put myself on a pedestal where I become a cash cow to some worthless girl looking for where to cash out. Having said this I do not expect things to always be rosy. As a matter fact I have nothing to gain from a woman that doesn't know how many satoshi makes one bitcoin but just sex and so I make them understand that in everything I do with you I invest zero of my emotions and so walking away is as easy as ABC. Men need to just grow a thick skin. I see a lot of guys come here and say they have to put up with a lot of things because they love her and I ask what nonsense love. 26 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by sexylassie2(f): 8:59am On May 05, 2020 |
These broke men want to always have sex without obligations. You cant have your cake and eat it too. |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by sexylassie2(f): 9:02am On May 05, 2020 |
MedicH: But you want free sex? You want where she will open her legs for you without no issue. To drain life out of her but then when she ask for ordinary hair money, you say No But when she starts rejecting you from having sex, you start complaining and forming attitudes. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Justbehave(m): 9:03am On May 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2:You and sex. How much will I pay to to have sex with you? 13 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Oluromantic: 9:04am On May 05, 2020 |
Descortes:Yeah |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Tozic: 9:09am On May 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Tah.... negodu Ashawo 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Theundertaker(m): 9:11am On May 05, 2020 |
when I was a guest I see threads like this and just laugh , men boosting up and down , ladies arguing! What’s money for hair ? If I am going to shoprite to get stuffs we go together, almost every month. It’s nothing to me , if her hair is messy I know , she doesn’t need to ask , I know she would make her hair twice a month , we share sub , we share Netflix. I don’t even regard it as money , I won’t spend more than 20k a month or 30k if there is any special need , and I hv her Pusey any day any time , u get a runs babe and pay her 10k a night, lol Na wah for Una argument o 3 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by StrongandMighty: 9:19am On May 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Broke Ashawo 1 Like |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Theundertaker(m): 9:22am On May 05, 2020 |
Maybe it’s because i am an Igbo guy , I can’t even be among my friends n debate this nonsense debate, the insults u will get, lol ![]() Right from the beginning of my life , I always Dey help women, some I Bleep , some I won’t , some cm around ones a while , tell me ur problem n I help out except I don’t hv or I am pissed with the babe . I no Dey reason all those things at all. People don’t know the meaning of the word MONEY IS NOT MY PROBLEM, spew it around n then again start arguing about giving women money !! Who I suppose give money b4? Man? ![]() Just say u no get , or u find woman wey no get big eye , wey ur small money go fit maintain . I like independent women but woman money no Dey sweet me. I will still do what I hv to do as a man . 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by StrongandMighty: 9:22am On May 05, 2020 |
Dande55: Not every lady is a broke ass girl like you ... the more reason guys should runaway from a brokelyn like you 3 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by MedicH: 9:23am On May 05, 2020 |
sexylassie2: Free sex?? See I've had my fair share and I do not date for sex. I pride myself as one man that can stick with a no sex till marriage relationship and there's a NL member here that can attest. Thing is how can we be useful to ourselves aside the obvious. How exactly? 11 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Dande55: 9:24am On May 05, 2020 |
StrongandMighty:Oga, I'm not broke but God forbid I date someone I pay his bills. May your sisters take up the responsibility of the man in the house. May she shoulder the house hold bills and take responsibility all by herself. Useless lazy man. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Goddys(m): 9:26am On May 05, 2020 |
MedicH: Bro any tip on how to earn side income online? I don't suffer myself to date an entitled girl. Sadly, even the so called educated ladies earning big have same mentality. 6 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Tozic: 9:28am On May 05, 2020 |
Dande55: typical ideology of a Muslim... 4 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Justbehave(m): 9:28am On May 05, 2020 |
Theundertaker:You are right. Simps are known to always reason like you. So carry on. You are a real man. 12 Likes |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Theundertaker(m): 9:29am On May 05, 2020 |
Why should a man care if a woman is broke or not ? Weyti concern u with woman money, u like the body n u feel comfortable around her , that’s all that really matters . I rest my case |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by StrongandMighty: 9:33am On May 05, 2020 |
Dande55: STFU... you're a brokeass girl and that's the reason why you feel so comfortable attacking anyone that refuses to spend his money on a lady or anyone that says his gf spends on him.. go and make money then change your mentality being broke has ruined your normal sense of reasoning 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by Dande55: 9:36am On May 05, 2020 |
StrongandMighty:Yea, I'm broke very broke. But that wouldn't change my stance. I can never date a lazy broke idiot like you. Call it whatever, I will never take take responsibility of any man. It's called standard. Go and hustle and stop being a lazy entitled emasculated id1ot. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Some Men Need To Think by freethinker420(m): 9:37am On May 05, 2020 |
You see what many of us seem not to Understand is that...Women are incapable of loving Men the way Men want to be Loved...it's always something for something...theres no such thing as unconditional Love with women...the only woman who can love you unconditionally is your Mother 8 Likes 1 Share |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (23) (Reply)
Girlfriend Flew From The UK To Surprise Boyfriend On Valentine's Day / Man Proposes Marriage With The Help Of Nigeria Police (Photos) / Chiamaka Obuekwe 'Social Prefect' Dumps Husband, Aniefiok Ntai 10 Weeks After
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 87 |