I ll like to be so brief I jus got a job with one of the bars in Ikeja Lagos as d front desk and the manager indeed made it clear to me to obey n keep to my own business strictly in order to keep my job.
What happen is that the bar see influx of ladies that patronize it but what happen is after the close of work by 8 pm ,some girls always come around to get bleeped in a reserved by my boss and some of his friends and this include married woman the noise from their sexcapades is not wht only annoy me but the fact that my boss always ask me to delay till 10pm and I do serve them beers n liquor n I see their nudes ....do you think I shul quit. He pays me wella but its disturbing scenes to me

If you want to go far in life, you must learn to select the things that would affect ur mind from ur visual stimulus. In other words, learn to mind ur business and face ur work. Unless you have a better offer somewhere else?

Ebonyyy7:
I ll like to be so brief I jus got a job with one of the bars in Ikeja Lagos as d front desk and the manager indeed made it clear to me to obey n keep to my own business strictly in order to keep my job.
What happen is that the bar see influx of ladies that patronize it but what happen is after the close of work by 8 pm ,some girls always come around to get bleeped in a reserved by my boss and some of his friends and this include married woman the noise from their sexcapades is not wht only annoy me but the fact that my boss always ask me to delay till 10pm and I do serve them beers n liquor n I see their nudes ....do you think I shul quit. He pays me wella but its disturbing scenes to me

Is that the only thing bothering you or there's something else.?

He's tryna seduce and lure you into it.

Talk to him calmly with respect, about it. Let him know you're not cool with it.

Be ready for the worse though!




#That job is not good for you

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Is that the only thing bothering you or there's something else.?[/yes]

They allow you to see their nudes at 10pm in the night.
Sooner or later, either your boss or his friends will add you to the menu.

Check out the unemployment rate in the country, you will think twice

Bro as long as you are not forced to join them. Focus on your job. I remember a friend of mine who used to work in a Spa. Mehn the guy quit cos some rich sexy women were asking for massages. Its not easy but if you need the money, just mind your business. Go online to educational websites and start reading stuff to take your mind off such situations.

OP just mind your business.... Just stay focused on your job

OriflameNIG:
Bro as long as you are not forced to join them. Focus on your job. I remember a friend of mine who used to work in a Spa. Mehn the guy quit cos some rich sexy women were asking for massages. Its not easy but if you need the money, just mind your business. Go online to educational websites and start reading stuff to take your mind off such situations.

Abeg where can i find a similar type of spa to submit my resume.

I have got magic hands

kelvinrhs:


Abeg where can i find a similar type of spa to submit my resume.

I have got magic hands

my nigga,i thought i was the only one with that thinking o

Lamanii22:
OP just mind your business.... Just stay focused on your job

How can she mind her business when see is already distracted?? Op if your conscience is disturbing you, then that job is not meant for you. U can always find alternative, your salvation is more important

As long as you work their, you'll probably be a spice to that soup one day.

Life is too short, enjoy the moment while it last.

Ebonyyy7:
I ll like to be so brief I jus got a job with one of the bars in Ikeja Lagos as d front desk and the manager indeed made it clear to me to obey n keep to my own business strictly in order to keep my job.
What happen is that the bar see influx of ladies that patronize it but what happen is after the close of work by 8 pm ,some girls always come around to get bleeped in a reserved by my boss and some of his friends and this include married woman the noise from their sexcapades is not wht only annoy me but the fact that my boss always ask me to delay till 10pm and I do serve them beers n liquor n I see their nudes ....do you think I shul quit. He pays me wella but its disturbing scenes to me

on a gud day he will talk u too into d game nd believe me if u turn him down den u re fired

Ebonyyy7:
I jus got a job with one of the bars

Babe, your boss is a chronic womaniser and if you can't stand it, pls quit for your sanity but abeg leave that one first...
Is there vacancy for a shawarma seller, Asun, or Grills, pls.
Looking for a busy spot.
Regards

is anybody pressing on you at your places of work?or you think you dont trust yourself enough to remain celibate while working there? just mind your business if no one is disturbing you and if you feel like you have another choice and cant handle this one then you quit,self discipline is in the brain not on the skin,dont let your skin dictate to your brain what it thinks is better for you.

run away from there,you will soon be lured.

Op just be careful and be perpared to participate in the nearest future because what ur boss is doing delaying u and making u familiar with the ongoings in the secret chambers only means that u are about to be sucked in... its just a matter of time. If u can't deal with that i suggest u quit now or be ready to join them.
Start looking for another job

Rozz:
run away from there,you will soon be lured.

Nice curves

Ebonyyy7:
I ll like to be so brief I jus got a job with one of the bars in Ikeja Lagos as d front desk and the manager indeed made it clear to me to obey n keep to my own business strictly in order to keep my job.
What happen is that the bar see influx of ladies that patronize it but what happen is after the close of work by 8 pm ,some girls always come around to get bleeped in a reserved by my boss and some of his friends and this include married woman the noise from their sexcapades is not wht only annoy me but the fact that my boss always ask me to delay till 10pm and I do serve them beers n liquor n I see their nudes ....do you think I shul quit. He pays me wella but its disturbing scenes to me

What's the big deal in seeing nudes, do your job and collect your money. Its not your nudes, not your moans.... you shouldnt be affected

OcVoice:
He's tryna seduce and lure you into it.

Talk to him calmly with respect, about it. Let him know you're not cool with it.

Be ready for the worse though!




#That job is not good for you

Talk to him ke?

you think a man like that gives a fvck about what she thinks

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Take it or leave it, soon Your boss will start making sexual advances at You. If the job is against Your moral ethics then I suggest You get something doing 1st (as we all know there's job scarcity in Naija) after which You can quit his job.

You either resign or endure. How come you guys are open for business this lockdown period

It will become an unexpected orgy soon, so you better quit

Ebonyyy7:
I ll like to be so brief I jus got a job with one of the bars in Ikeja Lagos as d front desk and the manager indeed made it clear to me to obey n keep to my own business strictly in order to keep my job.
What happen is that the bar see influx of ladies that patronize it but what happen is after the close of work by 8 pm ,some girls always come around to get bleeped in a reserved by my boss and some of his friends and this include married woman the noise from their sexcapades is not wht only annoy me but the fact that my boss always ask me to delay till 10pm and I do serve them beers n liquor n I see their nudes ....do you think I shul quit. He pays me wella but its disturbing scenes to me

Why not quit once you have secured another job?

Ebonyyy7:
I ll like to be so brief I jus got a job with one of the bars in Ikeja Lagos as d front desk and the manager indeed made it clear to me to obey n keep to my own business strictly in order to keep my job.
What happen is that the bar see influx of ladies that patronize it but what happen is after the close of work by 8 pm ,some girls always come around to get bleeped in a reserved by my boss and some of his friends and this include married woman the noise from their sexcapades is not wht only annoy me but the fact that my boss always ask me to delay till 10pm and I do serve them beers n liquor n I see their nudes ....do you think I shul quit. He pays me wella but its disturbing scenes to me

Ehn ehn. You carry this matter come NL
Well done.. You will meet me in the bar
How many times have I told you to mind your business?

Solsix:

How can she mind her business when see is already distracted?? Op if your conscience is disturbing you, then that job is not meant for you. U can always find alternative, your salvation is more important

OP this advice isn't bad too.

The moment u sign up for hotel job, bar job or beer parlour job, u're bound to see some certain things that u can't stop.mind ur business the only issue i see u have is ur closing time and if u feel cool u can discuss it with ur boss that is if u guys ever have a closing time.