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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by bennyflipy(m): 1:32pm On May 05, 2020 |
Nice thread, I need advice here. there's this girl I met online recently and we got talking chats and calls (I like her). We talk almost on a daily basis for long periods, I've not asked her out because I always feel reluctant doing that(Not my thing, at times I usually think if I have a problem there). fast forward to yesterday she wake me up with a call at about 7:20am we talked for a while, we then chatted in the afternoon, towards evening around 5:06pm she called we spoke for some few minutes, she ended the call to attend to something (because they buried a child in their house yesterday). Some few minutes later she called but I didn't answer (something told me not to pick up the call) 30minutes later she called again, I didn't pick up. I waited for like 1 hour before I called back but she switched off her phone, few minutes later I called again and she answered the call and starting ranting I didn't answer her call bla bla, I told her I was not close to the phone, that's a lie that just choose to ignore her calls. I then told her she misses me alot that's why, I told her i will make it up to her, she said I want to bribe her that she doesn't accept bribe, but I should promise not to do that again, I said okay. in the middle of the call I told her I visited my family home and my mum wants to have a word with me, if I'm done with Mumsy I'll call her back. Which I didn't, but she later called later that night. N.B: She always calls me big head and the most stubborn person she has ever met. Please what is it that is wrong I'm doing 1 Like |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by JhayJoe: 2:59pm On May 05, 2020 |
Please i need advice
How do you further the relationship with a girl from being friends ?? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 5:02pm On May 05, 2020 |
bennyflipy:Keep the job going, she's in love... Never be easy till u have... 2 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 5:09pm On May 05, 2020 |
JhayJoe:Start calling her sweet names n see if she reciprocate |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by JhayJoe: 6:55pm On May 05, 2020 |
majormofor:I've been doing that and she also calls me "Love" "Sugar" "Honey" but my fear is that she calls everybody that |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by pastie(m): 7:34pm On May 05, 2020 |
Good day my elders in the game, there was a lady close to my area who I later know to be my sister friend, we have been chatting like lovers for the past week.. Actually I was the one always initiating the chat, she couldn't start a convo even for once.. I requested to see her after much pressure she finally agreed for me to visit her... Note... She's the indoor type which I discovered from my sister. Right I have decided to shun her for the pass four days but I noticed her missing me through her status.. She even ask of me from my sister.. I'm thinking of the right step to take now Pls excuse my grammar Cc: harddon, zabiboy,trailblazer93, majormofor etc |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 11:37pm On May 05, 2020 |
JhayJoe:Start going naughty with her while playing hard to get.... Eg u see this ur big Ikebe, if i slap it ehnnn see how its tempting me, remember I am expensive for that.. 3 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by SaintHilary(m): 12:26am On May 06, 2020 |
majormofor: 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by noCAP(m): 2:28am On May 06, 2020 |
majormofor:lol, the fucck is this bruh? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 7:16am On May 06, 2020 |
noCAP:Na so I see am o |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by brandon180(m): 8:54am On May 06, 2020 |
Guys pls rate this chat.. She hasn't replied since yesterday.. However I feel I should have played d mystery card a little bit longer.. What do you think? And another problem I have is I can come up with a perfect opener..and then after she replies usually in a positive manner..I usually don't know how to continue.. Like questions to ask et al.
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by JhayJoe: 9:52am On May 06, 2020 |
majormofor:Thanks bruv,I'll remember that but as for the hard to get part, i've been doing social distancing with her. Like i don't call again, we chat and when the chat is going great, i end it abruptly. I'm giving her hot and cold attitude |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Zabiboy: 10:04am On May 06, 2020 |
pastie:[b] 1) this was the first red flag....if i get chatting with someone ( male or female) and the person cant initiate a convo. once in a while, then i'm done with d person....Anyways, all the chats you initiated, was she responding well( trying to keep the convo. going)??....This should have been your first observation.. 2) Three things here.....a) How many days/weeks( after u first met) did it take before you started requesting??...b) Who does she stay with??.....c) Have you both talked outside( face to face),...you should know that before visiting a girl or asking her to visit you, you have to make her comfortable around you first to remove the ASD( Anti Slut Defense).. 3) If she's really an introvert, then i suggest you try talking to her more physically ( face to face) to make her comfortable around you....BUT if you notice she's not interested, Bro, just shun am..Dont try too hard to convince her,if not she'll feel insecure.... 4) Give us examples of the status she posted. 5) That is nothing man....dont read too much meaning.... 6) Try out number 2C and 3....if theres no change, Move on.. Note: She might form tough and hard bcz your she's a friend to your sister and she doesn't want complications...but if your game is tight, you'll run your package Well... GL .... [/b] |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Zabiboy: 10:18am On May 06, 2020 |
brandon180: [b]... Nah...... You had the perfect opportunity to build the curiosity... Now, you'v introduced yourself, she wont reply fast as before bcz she now knows that you collected her number from someone else not her....and she doesnt know you... Anyways, it should be a learning.... Build the curiosity till the point she'll call your number to try and recognize the voice... Trust me it works 80% of the time.... There's a sample chat Harddon posted here about this....he used the ex-boyfriend route( When she asks who's this, you say something like " So bcz i broke your heart, u decided to delete my number"...).....Then tease her profile pic nd her current bf( be cocky, sassy and funny)...let it not look like an insult... Sit back and expect a call anytime soon.... Note: There are so many ways to kill a rat...This is one way, you can use another route... The main is that, you should have built more curiosity....so that when u finally reveal yourself, she's already comfortable with you ... GL ... [/b] 4 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by pastie(m): 6:44pm On May 06, 2020 |
Zabiboy thanks for your input, Background check : I found out that she stays with her uncle since her childhood, they are the one training her, her movement is kind of restricted (someone in high institution o) We only meet once during this lockdown, despite the fact of me always starting the convo our chat is smooth and lively... When I stopped chatting her, she resort to updating stuff like I have been ignored but I'm cool with it, she even tag me on one of her female friend birthday.. Right now I'm thinking of the right step to take, I wanted calling her but my ego is playing me |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by EronzRichie(m): 4:16am On May 07, 2020 |
HARDDON: update:So I have been following up on The advises of Hardin and honourable members of this thread. But something strange came up. i noticed that she changed all of a sudden. Started to give me one word answers and all. I ignored it and was Also Chatting lightly. then we where Discussing and I called her a name that I always call her for the past 3weeks and then she told me I shouldn't call her that name that she does not feel comfortable with it that she was not comfortable at first but she would just like to tell me now. she said 'She Wants our Relationship to b healthy' not insulting. This is a Girl that would laugh at that name ND even abuse my name we would just laugh. I hv not asked her out, So I am thinking weda she is no longer feeling me. when she means Relationship to be healthy, I was wondering maybe she sees me what? cause we talk everyday, If I don't talk, She Would always drop a message. Now This. Is she getting uncomfortable with me or She is trying to make sure she tells me what she doesn't like? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by MOnkeyBabe(f): 5:00am On May 07, 2020 |
lilnovak:hi. ARe you EaSteRn European? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by yetunsbay(m): 9:33pm On May 07, 2020 |
majormofor:bro, ve spent on this lady. Is this not a loss |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by majormofor(m): 6:28am On May 08, 2020 |
yetunsbay:Reason why It will be hard for you to move on.... But you have to... Luckily sheay say oya come n collect... |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:22pm On May 09, 2020 |
yetunsbay: That is all you really came for, isnt it? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:27pm On May 09, 2020 |
brandon180: simply go to pdfdrive dot com , search for the names and download away. Whether you are a student, career person or entrepreneur, that site is a massive resource... Rich Regards Don 5 Likes |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 4:34pm On May 09, 2020 |
yetunsbay: I knew it. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by yetunsbay(m): 5:52pm On May 09, 2020 |
HARDDON:we all aware every man deserve this. How can you help by offering advice pls |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by HARDDON: 9:59pm On May 09, 2020 |
The Way of the Superior Men ( In absolute control of Jrod) .... Reduced her to a piece of pork without as much as moving a fine muscle Read and Extrapolate..... YOUR WIFE IS NOT AS GOOD IN BED AS I AM He was having his evening beverage That's when she joined him. "Hi there handsome, you're looking good. So fine I can eat you up" she said sitting down. "I thought we agreed to keep away from each other? I am a married man" he told her. " Come on. I won't bite. You can't resist me, no man can" she said. "I am a married man" he told her. "Fight all you want, but soon I will have you. I am way better than your wife" she told him. "You are nothing compared to my wife" he told her off. "Really? All this body. All these curves. All these sweetness. I bet your wife is not as good in bed as I am" she told him unbuttoning the top button of her blouse to reveal her cleavage, then lifting up her skirt, just a bit. "If I was a lustful and unfaithful man, all that would move me. But I am too grown to be enticed by what you're showing off. I am a grown man, you think all that consumes my mind is sex? And for your information, my wife is actually great in bed" he told her. "How will you know unless you do me. Try me tonight. Let's drive in your black car to a romantic hotel, I promise you a night you will never forget" she told him. "You know what you are? You are lazy? A lazy woman" he told her, then took a sip of his beverage. "How dare you call me lazy?! I am a high flying educated woman. Any man would give anything to have me" she said. "Fair enough. But would you give anything to make a man?" He asked. "What do you mean?" She questioned. "You look at me and find me attractive. Yet you disrespect the woman behind who I am, you want me to cheat on my wife, the woman behind my attractiveness" said he. He drank a sip and continued, "My wife is responsible for the man in me that you want today. When I had little, my wife believed in me. These suits you see me wearing, are my wife's idea. I ask for her advice on what to wear. My success has come to pass because she prays for me and puts up with my demanding work hours. She corrects me and moulds me and that has moulded my character. The Range Rover you see me outside driving that you fancy, I bought that with my wife. She and I invested to buy our house. I look attractive and pleasant, because she treats me well and gives me peace. And now you want to have the man that she made out of me and dishonour her? You want to have the man that she has built for years? You are lazy." Silence. "I see you turning down the single men who want you and yet you want me, a man that another woman has made? No, it doesn't work like that. Find your own single man, believe in him, pray for him, support him, nurture him and mould him to be the attractive man you want him to be. You women have a nurturing and helping gift. Activate your gift. My wife has been busy building me and I will not leave her for a woman who has nothing to offer, but her sexiness. So if you may excuse me, I need to drive home and take my wife on a date. She deserves the best" he said as he stood up and drank a last sip. He reached in his wallet and placed K200 on the table. "Have yourself a drink as you think about your life and how you'll stop being lazy and find a single man you can build. My generous wife and I have paid for the drink" he said. He walked away as she looked on; her lower jaw dropping in shock, "I thought that this world was void of principled men, I just met one," the diva reasoned as she sobered up, nodding her head. "This guy just schooled me. In 20 minutes this smart guy has taught me the most valuable lesson which I've never found in any one of the three prestigious Universities I've attended. *How to find, invest in and make my own husband*I need to find my own husband" she thought to herself as the gentleman sped off in his waiting Range Rover. *A Recommended Therapy for All married men* � And for those singles who are too self-centered to think beyond themselves and their physical endowments. #YOUR MARRIAGE MUST WORK�!!! *ADVOCATE F #Copied 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by galadima77(m): 3:14pm On May 10, 2020 |
Well put. |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by kalvoken(m): 5:59pm On May 10, 2020 |
brandon180: Hey you displayed the lady's contact on the attachment. You may want to do something about that... |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by kalvoken(m): 6:27pm On May 10, 2020 |
Donhezzy: Guy how do you guys do this story faking of a thing? At the beginning you did mention how you gave out your bag for a friend to look after for you, to avoid stories that touch. Then going down at the middle of your story, you still narrated how she almost fall your same bag while laughing. Una dey try o 6 Likes
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Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Priceless606: 2:13am On May 11, 2020 |
hi @hardon.....how about the Whatsapp group,how can I be part? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by ayomide32: 8:07am On May 11, 2020 |
How do I deactivat the anti slut defense |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by ilemona4u: 1:40pm On May 11, 2020 |
Millennialaku:my G, Abeg wetin b the time range when person fit dey see survey for Prolific. And u know any reliable source of US number since that omwubiko na scam? |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Millennialaku(m): 2:02pm On May 11, 2020 |
ilemona4u: guy here no be dead thread nah i wait for studies from 2pm in the afternoon-1am in the morning- nigerian time i used dingtone, but people here are saying that prolific no longer accept their number |
Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by ilemona4u: 2:39pm On May 11, 2020 |
Millennialaku:ah, no vex o boss. I think say dead thread na thread whr the poster no dey comment on again, Lol. |
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