Ladyhippolyta88:
Una too dey complain for woman matter.
If she nor ask una go say she dey form Ms.Independent or another guy for outside dey give her money.
You guys complain a lot.It is the same guys that will want to toast a girl by impressing her with money if she obliges una go dey complain.

I blame you guys for any entitlement mentality some females may show in a relationship na una go wan impress girls say una too get money. 70 % of you only bring money to relationships without it some of you are empty in almost everything that is why some relationships today are based on sex and money.So stop complaining after all the societies believes that men should be providers and women liabilities. so be a man afterall you guys contribute to the entitlement mentality

Plead:


Exactly. Guys are the one encouraging the entitlement mentality.

Ekakamba:

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Guys if you wanna avoid them, then tryna date good ladies who ain't poor (not broke) or from poor background first and see.

But before you date that well-to-do lady/from a well-to-do family, make sure you're also well-to-do or your family gallant too.

I have come across an entitled lady just once in my lifetime (around June last year). Walahi I have reformed her, the person that will marry her will definitely look for me and thank me for an awesome job well done.

iyke926:
Not bad parenting. They believe their pussy is gold...even the ones with smelly pussy. May God epp men.

Oluromantic:
It's part of it... especially those raised with poor self worth. Illiteracy as well as poverty are also major contributors. Mind you there are educated illiterates.

If you take a very good survey on girls/ladies, it's those who are poor or have very limited income source or those with inferiority complex that have such mentality, it's the same group of girls that have ferocious needs to the level of going into prostitution to meet those needs cus asking for money and gifts in exchange for romance or attention is prostitution already..call it whatever. Some even expect their bf to raise tuition fee for them thru out sch. And they're ready to hop from guys to guys just for money and gifts.

Girls who come from well-to-do homes or have a great sense of worth would not do such, she would take gifts if given (all girls love being appreciated) but not like her life, well-being, loyalty, future, fate, opportunity and all her entirely relies on it. She may not even be rich or have all her needs met, but would just be romantic naturally. If gifts come, it's a plus. And out of her token, she will share with you.

HeavenlyCherub:


Not true

Lamanii22:
Poor parenting is one of the factors... There are some bad moms in my area eehn... All their female daughters are suffering from it now. They can't do anything independently, a guy has to do it for them.... One's upbringing matters..

Danielphatboy:
Hello NL FAM, after going through this post early today on NL https://www.nairaland.com/5836147/some-men-need-think/ and the post below on Twitter, I couldn't help but wonder if poor parenting is the cause of this financial entitlement mentality ladies have and what do you think could be the solution to this problem because many women have become prostitutes without knowing

FiringSquad:
It is not bad parenting at all. It is our society, and the cravings men have for sex.
Men are literally begging for sex, tell me, if you were a female with a pussy, wouldn't you feel entitled?
Yeah, that's it

Danielphatboy:
Hello NL FAM, after going through this post early today on NL https://www.nairaland.com/5836147/some-men-need-think/ and the post below on Twitter, I couldn't help but wonder if poor parenting is the cause of this financial entitlement mentality ladies have and what do you think could be the solution to this problem because many women have become prostitutes without knowing

Ladyhippolyta88:
Una too dey complain for woman matter.
If she nor ask una go say she dey form Ms.Independent or another guy for outside dey give her money.
You guys complain a lot.It is the same guys that will want to toast a girl by impressing her with money if she obliges una go dey complain.

I blame you guys for any entitlement mentality some females may show in a relationship na una go wan impress girls say una too get money. 70 % of you only bring money to relationships without it some of you are empty in almost everything that is why some relationships today are based on sex and money.So stop complaining after all the societies believes that men should be providers and women liabilities. so be a man afterall you guys contribute to the entitlement mentality

Ladyhippolyta88:

I have been saying this same thing since thank God say na SIMP agree with me so.

Elder I hail oo

Oluromantic:

Prove your point

HeavenlyCherub:


I can only use my self as example. My family is well off. I’m successful in my career and I still don’t want to be with a man without money. They will bring you to an early grave. I have dated 2 men in the past for love and they were not financially secure. All these men did was say I’m controlling, blamed me for their misfortune and always wanted me to solve their problems. A man doesn’t have to be a millionaire to make a woman happy. He just needs to take care of his responsibility. No matter how much money a woman will make. She will still want the man to provide as the head of the house. How do you want a woman to submit if you can’t take care of your responsibility? Men want submission, respect and a woman who takes care of the home. That woman can’t do this if her needs are not met. I’m not saying give her all you have but be responsible to take care of your woman and child. Just like you men want your needs met in certain ways. Women just don’t want to suffer.