Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

She stood by you when you had nothing just now that you've made the head way out in life you want to abandon her You're wicked It's obvious you used and dumped her

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

Never date a lady that is not working class cos they don't appreciate all it takes to make money. They are just there to squander your money

Victoronah1:
so she left you cause you aim 45k, do you know how much she earns now? Why are you comparing yourself to another person? She is a woman and you are a man. You don't have to open thread for this. But me and you know, it's just for fun, yeah I do it sometimes.

Mechonu, earn than him via what.. Selling of pussy for money sef can't make her earn than him when many ashawo plenty for market

Millenniumlady:
She stood by you when you had nothing just now that you've made the head way out in life you want to abandon her You're wicked It's obvious you used and dumped her

Did u read?

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.
I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us.I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God,I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do. She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me, I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...
PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

Bros, God is good and why do you have to bring his family into this equation? The fvck is that for?....don't lemme think you are still hanging around for her come back so that you can teach her some lesson....

2cul2care:
As for me, if u no hustle with me when things are tough, u do not deserve to ride with me when things are good. PERIOD

But who you end up with wasn't at the start of the journey.
You'll just get untested babe when you've already made it.
That's y i can't keep one babe, 2 main chicks and back up to them

Kingrexyl:
It's obvious this broke girl can never have sense, read you can't read, smh for you.

I guess that wasn't meant for me right ?

Michelle55:
She no try jare but talking about it seems like you ain't over her yet..

That you fine a scar on the skin doesnt mean it as not heal. we as humans hardly 4get people we almost gave our life 4.

Sixfeetbelle:


Thank you to putting down a thought that crossed my mind this evening.

Once a lady leaves a man, an average Nigerian guy only has two reasons why.
1) He's broke
2) His gbola is short

Asides, he can never be too egotistical, or narcissistic or controlling or arrogant or any of the other vices that actual people have. Nope, he's an angel and she's a greedy hoe

Is it that you gurls are un-intentionally blind or deliberately blind .... the only reason Op draw such conclusion was because she started misbehaving rite from the day she saw his pay slip .. mayb if she had started misbehaving before that day or 3 month after, the conclusion could av been different

Sixfeetbelle:


Thank you to putting down a thought that crossed my mind this evening.

Once a lady leaves a man, an average Nigerian guy only has two reasons why.
1) He's broke
2) His gbola is short

Asides, he can never be too egotistical, or narcissistic or controlling or arrogant or any of the other vices that actual people have. Nope, he's an angel and she's a greedy hoe

I'm disappointed in you

Wait something is very strange about this story. You were working another job on top of your regular work to pay her bills!

What was she doing with her life? She didn't have a job or her own side hustle, did her family abandon her?

You should be very grateful that you were able to get rid of the parasite before she sucked you dry.

helinues:


Funniest part, the guy might be a chronic cheater

You should consider athletics the way you jump to conclusions.

femi4:
Never date a lady that is not working class cos they don't appreciate all it takes to make money. They are just there to squander your money

it's not about her being in the working class, it's her mental state that matters, where she's coming from too, most live above their means, some don't understand what it means to share .

Seen a lady who earns 120k but every month saves only 5k, but she doesn't pay rent, always in different hotels , spends and borrows , doesn't miss any aso-ebi and always broke and in debt cos she is always paying one debt or the other for frivolities and still incur more. A year savings doesn't amount to 20k still.

Avoid ladies who are mentally broke and the ones that constantly remind you that they are broke cos they want something from you.

xendra:
and do not forget that the person is insulting me too..... he also has no immunity. Since both of you are a crew of misogynist on this forum

is that the reason you should insult his mum when he didn't insult yours?
Go ask your fellow girls (e.g Ladylite Nmezor) how they've learnt to be civil in their comments after being placed on lengthy bans cos they talk and insult anyhow.
For now sit back and enjoy your ban as you'll be gagged for a while and I trust when the ban expires you might have learnt how to be civil.
Mynd44 Lalasticlala Dominique Seun.
Thanks

I LOVE THIS

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills
I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

You knew she was a money monger ,yet you continued. God saved you the day she saw your payment voucher ..if not that your 360k won't have even been enough for upkeep in the house. I dont still understand why you guys kill yourself just to impress someone. Is it inferiority complex or what?

It took the lady leaving for the scales in your eyes to fall off. It's well with you.. Bragging about spending or should I say wasting money on someone just to be her 'slave'.

Farki:
Wait something is very strange about this story. You were working another job on top of your regular work to pay her bills!

What was she doing with her life? She didn't have a job or her own side hustle, did her family abandon her?

You should be very grateful that you were able to get rid of the parasite before she sucked you dry.

Why blame the girl? Blame Op that was ready to be her SLAVE.

Evercurious:


Why blame the girl? Blame Op that was ready to be her SLAVE.

I used to think like him though, that real men support their women regardless of what they bring to the table. It could be down to lack of experience and Nigerian culture of being a male provider.

After hearing some women around me brag about using men's affection to their advantage my mind completely changed.

It's a good thing he has learnt his lesson on time.

Dantepet3000:
First and foremost most girls don't realize that most men spend more than they earn. All in a bid to enhance affection towards them.

I dated her for two years until that faithful day she found my salary voucher on my bed. Tho I do other side hustlE that enabled me pay her bills.

I've always known that when she discovers the amount I earn in my company, she will be scared of the future between us. I remember the days in shoprite that I was only able to afford bread. Oh my God, I don suffer. Anyway I had plans for us despite my 45k salary of an MSC holder. There is no financial hole I did not help her block. Infact I did what guys who earn more than me couldn't do.

She started misbehaving towards me ever since she saw that pay cheque. What she didn't know was that I did not use my other professional qualification in the company and when she left me.

I decided to forward other qualification to our management. Like play like play my salary rose to 75k after 3months 100k after 6 months 120k, now I am a site manager and I earn 360k. I believe the whole graduates in her family don't earn what I now earn combined. I am not proud or beefing anyone. Am just reminiscing. By the special grace of God I will even go higher...

PS. Now I am spending my money on my mum and family. I thank God for another chance. Bless

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Kingrexyl:
It's obvious this broke girl can never have sense, read you can't read, smh for you.

that millenniumlady aka corporate beggar.
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anslem04:




Is it that you gurls are un-intentionally blind or deliberately blind .... the only reason Op draw such conclusion was because she started misbehaving rite from the day she saw his pay slip .. mayb if she had started misbehaving before that day or 3 month after, the conclusion could av been different

Tell me honestly, is my analysis wrong?


Op might not fall in this category but most men do and that's the fact. I remember vividly a post where a married man came to complain about his wife by listing their marital problems only for most of the response to end up pointing out he was being selfish and arrogant. He ended up deleting that account. If he wasn't married, he would have written the story from his version and the general response would have been she's a greedy hoe. Time and time again, it repeats itself.