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Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:09pm On May 06, 2020 |
Vloml222: I’ve never brought this issue up before. I’ve never complained about it. I’ve just been patient and understanding waiting for change. I just need the woman I married back again. |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:10pm On May 06, 2020 |
crackkhaus: You’ve nailed it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:11pm On May 06, 2020 |
Mariangeles: Why do I have a feeling you’re in this marriage with me? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by igbowoman: 12:12pm On May 06, 2020 |
This is what happens when a man is old enough for marriage but mentally immature.I have taken time to read his responses and the one he talked about a replacement was the most nauseating. I wonder what advice a supposed married doctor expects to receive from small unemployed boys but let me play along in case the story is true. Go ahead and replace her with the size 2 and 4 girls you're probably sleeping with. Infact get 4 new wives weigh them before marriage and impregnate them all and the one that maintains her weight after childbirth you keep her and send the others packing. Nonsense! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Ginaz(f): 12:14pm On May 06, 2020 |
Hmmmm. O.p take it easy on her eh.. it’s not easy. Keep loving her more cos she might be feeling bad about the whole thing inside too. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:15pm On May 06, 2020 |
Rozz: I’m in the best shape of my life. I’m not sure you read my post completely to understand it. Just wanted to respond and launch an attack and I get it. The internet is a place for everyone, including irrelevant people with dense opinions. Have a filled day 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Vloml222(f): 12:16pm On May 06, 2020 |
@sepsis! If I may ask , how old is your baby? |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:17pm On May 06, 2020 |
Vloml222: 10 months. |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by igbowoman: 12:19pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: Post a picture of you with a hand written sign that shows today's date. Dont show us your face let us be the judge of that shape. Do it right away . Then go and carry a baby and birth it and come back after 10 months to show another picture 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by bukatyne(f): 12:19pm On May 06, 2020 |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:20pm On May 06, 2020 |
Ginaz: You read my post right? I’ve never complained. I’ve never mentioned it. Never brought it up. I support her by helping out at home. I go to the market, cook, run errands, and still work full time as a doctor plus side hussles. I think I am more hardworking and supportive than most Nigerian men are. That isn’t even something we should be talking about. The crux of the matter is there. I wonder why most females responding to this post are conveniently avoiding it. Someone even tried to insult me above but I overlooked it. Are you guys saying that you don’t really get what the problem is? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by BetWinners(m): 12:22pm On May 06, 2020 |
aeion: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Mariangeles(f): 12:24pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: Your concern is valid, but the way you went about it was wrong. Including your choice of words for the woman you claim to love. How can I help my wife lose some weight? would have been more appropriate, then we would have gladly proffered some solutions as much as we are able to. 8 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:25pm On May 06, 2020 |
igbowoman: This is disingenuous. And probably irrelevant. Reeks of cheap blackmail and nothing more. Biological roles are biological roles - they can’t be swapped. However, is it remotely possible that the consequences of those biological roles can be managed ? Or are they untouchables ? Because you’re making it seem like this is an untouchable situation. Like basically I have no choice but to suck up to it. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Mariangeles(f): 12:28pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: The bolded does not help at all. Like I suggested earlier, discuss it with her lovingly and supportively. If she's reasonable and wise, she'd appreciate and love you for it. Lack of communication is the major killer of relationships 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:29pm On May 06, 2020 |
Mariangeles: And what makes you think I haven’t tried? I mean, you just assumed I haven’t made an effort and all I’m doing is whine and whine. |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Vloml222(f): 12:29pm On May 06, 2020 |
@sepsis! I believe your kid is already taking solid in support with breastfeeding.well you just have to encourage her with love .she will definitely work on herself.no lady likes to be called fat ! So just give her time.she will come around ( body size). 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Ginaz(f): 12:30pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: I perfectly understand you and sympathize with you but as it is right now the whole solution boils down to your wife and how you handle the matter. How old is the baby ? Does she have someone who can look after the baby while she works out? You can decide to set up a workout calendar for her and be marking the dates yourself . That’s what I do. I keep tracks of my workout by scoring myself on a note I have drew to keep me motivated. What I’m trying to say is, she might be feeling bad inside too from the weight issue and don’t know how to go about it anymore . Kindly talk to her .. fix her in a gym class .. it may be she’s lazy cos she’s at home , when she goes out and see other people exercising she will be motivated. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by igbowoman: 12:30pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: What do you call disingenious? A supposed married man with a 10 month old coming to badmouth his wife anonymously and even threatening to replace her on social media sounds ok? You dont even have the balls to have a conversation with her but feel better hooded up to talk rubbish about her. 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:31pm On May 06, 2020 |
Mariangeles: She is wired differently. Discussing things with her is akin to making an issue out of that thing. She perceives things differently and I acknowledge and respect it. If I bring it up, it is actually going to become a problem. I need more subtle ways of achieving the same goal without necessarily putting it in her face. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:31pm On May 06, 2020 |
igbowoman: Alright. You’ve made your point. |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by nwaimoroseyaho: 12:34pm On May 06, 2020 |
Oga, your wife is breastfeeding. And for you to do that in a healthy manner, you need a lot of liquid food like tea and milk and other foods. So as she does that, she needs to constantly refill her milk gland, while that is going on, she is getting fat. Mercy Johnson that used to be very hot in those days, is not like that anymore. She can only get back to shape after breastfeeding only if you don't make her pregnant again. Those people you are comparing her with are not new mothers and some of them have stopped giving birth a long time ago. Plz for you to be a father, there are alternatives forgone. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by igbowoman: 12:34pm On May 06, 2020 |
If the story is true,a medical doctor with 6 packs who is a hustler from akwa Ibom .hasn't been married too long with a stay at home fat wife and 10 month old baby who had gone to her folks for omugwo and hasn't taken pictures in 6 months. She may just come across the thread. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Mariangeles(f): 12:35pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: You said so yourself "I've never mentioned it. I've never brought it up." It doesn't help in any way.... 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:35pm On May 06, 2020 |
Ginaz: It’s basically both of us. We don’t have external help which makes some of the recommendations not feasible. Taking care of kids is hard work and I respect her for doing just that alone which is why I don’t feel comfortable adding that pressure to lose weight. But regardless of how understanding I am, this is affecting me. Trying to pretend it doesn’t is hypocritical. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by igbowoman: 12:38pm On May 06, 2020 |
Mariangeles: The story is totally made up and is evolving. Let's just play along 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:40pm On May 06, 2020 |
igbowoman: Well. The things I’ve typed on this thread are not things I can hardly admit in person. I don’t know exactly what I’ve said here that’s a problem. Someone told me she could cheat with a gym instructor (if I don’t do the exercises with her) and I said if it happens then no wahala. Does the feeling of dispensability make you feel less loved? Because they’re apples and oranges and I don’t get what the fuss is. Btw, your background checks are spot on. Have to give you credit for those. You clearly have a lot of time on your hands. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:42pm On May 06, 2020 |
igbowoman: You really want to get on my nerves. Not gonna happen. The only way you’re this bothered about this post is if it touches you personally. You probably can’t stand a man who isn’t attracted to fat woman right? I mean - how could he? Because I don’t get why you’re so bothered. Doesn’t it surprise you how much time you’re giving to this than your personal life? 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by igbowoman: 12:43pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: Hahahahahaha Shifting goals eh From crying about a fat unattractive hippopotamus of a wife to background checks and time on my hands. I can see the reverse psychology u play on the poor woman at home if she even exists Poor fat chic 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:44pm On May 06, 2020 |
igbowoman: She’s my wife. Deal with it 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by Sepsis: 12:45pm On May 06, 2020 |
igbowoman: Lol. You’re now the one insulting her o o o o. This life lmao. E be things 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Is No Longer Attractive Because She’s Gotten Fat by igbowoman: 12:46pm On May 06, 2020 |
Sepsis: Mr fake doctor with fat wife na u bring topic o. Calm down make we answer the WAEC question Allow us to discuss it now. Oya back to topic My fat wife looks like an elephant,discuss 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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