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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 12:50pm On May 05, 2020 |
Look at the demented fool trying to play "victim",who came under my post with insults,you don't understand something instead of you to clarify you want to form savage,you were even corrected but no stupidity is deep in your blood As i said keep the insults coming is what you were born to do or are you scared!!! IDIOT Ejusni: 13 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 12:52pm On May 05, 2020 |
Lol oh now is about written english Stop trying to gaslight,do what you were born to do I thought you knew how to be stupid you know want to form engagement lol Ejusni: 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Ejusni(m): 1:07pm On May 05, 2020 |
RamessesIV: At this point I take my leave. You aren't worth my insults. Keep that in mind. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by BigDick70inch(m): 3:42pm On May 05, 2020 |
We die here!!!! But..dis one ain't spicy has the previous thread Abi nah because female has upper hand in USA?? ![]() ![]() Tis even better laidis.. TIS NOT EVERYTIME WE WILL BE.. BASHING.. CASTIGATION OUR LADIES ![]() E.T.C FEMALE NAIRALANDERS..cum and bash us too!!!! ![]() ![]() 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by LordKO(m): 5:08pm On May 05, 2020 |
pDudd: It's obvious that your submission isn't from an aristocratic POV regarding serving/setting food. A wife/woman - and vice versa, subject to schedule of the man - serving/setting food for her husband/man and tidying the table when he finishes eating, directly or indirectly, has neither been a sign of slavery nor a Nigerian/African thing alone. It's a simple act of selflessness, part of the little things that matter in a healthy marriage/relationship - it has always been done voluntarily and cheerfully. It has always been obtainable within the aristocratic families in the Western world, North America inclusive and the whole world. The command aspect of it you talked about is what I don't know, maybe that's what's obtainable among small-minded people, since altruism isn't their forte. In fact, it's only the small-minded people who think that jettisoning acts of selflessness and humility as couples when they arrive in the Western world that make them belong. Wannabes. A woman who jettisons acts of selflessness and humility just because she wants to belong, is like a man who won't allow his wife to drive his vehicle at will, or spend his money at will, or save her from doing masculine and stressful things, all because of wokeness and equality. Wokeness and equality don't nullify selflessness and humility as attributes and reciprocation of them between a sane couple - too clever by half attitude doesn't denote wokeness, just as selflessness doesn't denote inequality or slavery. Love is the greatest refreshment in life, it isn't an illusion - well, it's something only two conscientious people who have altruistic interest towards each can experience. 121 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 12:51am On May 06, 2020 |
Sorry I have been quite busy with work and wasn't able to continue with this post. I will try to update as often as I can with my schedule. Now for me to discuss about Nigerian relationships abroad, the Dynamics are wider and more complex. There is a huge difference in the kinds of relationships Nigerian couples have with each other and in each one, there are several factors which come into play and cause such dynamism. Age is one factor, financial status is another, who was abroad first and who filed for the other person to come abroad is a huge determinant. Most of the time, it is often the man who is abroad first and then files for a younger Nigerian lady to come over and join him. I'm majority of cases, these are the types of relationships that have problems and sometimes the man ends up killing the woman for revenge. So with that being said, I am going to delve into the Nigerian woman abroad relationship Dynamics and advice accordingly. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by excanny: 1:36am On May 06, 2020 |
Another beautiful exposé. Good job, OP. Would have been sad finding myself in America without knowing all these. ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 2:30am On May 06, 2020 |
pDudd:those yankee based naija guys who go back to naija to get younger wives such marriages always end in a sad note.Once she steps her foot in the US she grows wings instanta ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 112 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 2:37am On May 06, 2020 |
lefulefu: Hahahahaha. Lefool Lefool, you sabi the runz die ![]() ![]() You too sabi this Yankee things o. Those guys dey always Bleep up. Instead make Dem dey marry their mates, them go dey marry fresh fish wey still wan rock life before she reach 40. Or instead of him to marry a girl that has already opened eye. Because an open eye girl will not suddenly realize herself. She don realize herself tey tey so na just settle she wan settle cos she don already chop life. All these small small girls will eventually open eye and ruin the man's life. I will talk about all that one. 84 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 2:46am On May 06, 2020 |
pDudd:no they will say the small small girls back in naija they want to marry are humble and submissive ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 28 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 8:39am On May 06, 2020 |
In your honest opinion,what do you think is the best option for marriage in america,a usa raised Nigerian??,other africans or just go white pDudd: 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by pansophist(m): 8:18pm On May 06, 2020 |
LordKO: Beautifully written. ![]() 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by pansophist(m): 8:23pm On May 06, 2020 |
AfroKnight: I think its wife before children, otherwise, your post is on point. ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by emmaodet: 4:37am On May 07, 2020 |
ednut1: Are you saying our laws enslave our women? is there any part of the law that enslaves women? why are we quick to demonize our country? is there anything nigerian men are doing that the women dont have access to? Most times we talk, open threads on how to travel to abroad etc, some even do thanksgiving in church for getting a visa and somehow look at others as unfortunate for been in nigeria and i wonder where are we getting this mentality from? who told these guys people in nigeria are suffering while the ones in abroad are the fortunate ones? And that is how some of my friends will come home and be sneaking/hiding from people as if we way they here dey hungry, even with your coming home i will still flex you and host you so what the fvck? Like what the op said in his first statement that - ''leave that your native brain'' to HELL with him if he thinks he is better off than some here because he thinks like a native fowl too. Leave your yeye bride and bigboyism too etc I dont know his family or background but i believe he his part of the people who scream ''moti bo - Am free'' when he got his visa at walter carrington in VI 105 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by emmaodet: 4:55am On May 07, 2020 |
lefulefu: Common broda, are you saying the ladies at home are small small girls who neva open eye? why do we think by default anybody at home is unexposed and local? things are not like before you know? some industries back at home opened up people like oil and gas, maritime, IT, a lot of places you can work and earn decent incomes that will warrant you to live a good life and take vacations. A lot of people are doing fine at home bro. I think it is kind of unfair to think by been abroad you are automatically more exposed than the people in nigeria. okay, what about guys going to that abroad for vacations, courses and then come back home. Can we categorise them as still unexposed? Have travelled to so many countries through company and personally yet am at home and someone in abroad cant boast they are more exposed than me, i wont agree with them. On my own, have been to Napoli in italy, UAE and india while with company many more. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ednut1(m): 7:14am On May 07, 2020 |
emmaodet:in Nigeria a man together with his family can chase out his wife without any consequences, courts are a waste of time as it is 5k to 10m a month they would award the women. Incase the man dies the family can chase the wife ( tho getting rare). Women over here endure so many craps. But abroad if a man cheats, beats or do any crap. She can. Easily divorce him. He will be sent out of his house. Pay alimony and child support. Which has ruined many guys. A case of power has changed hands. In canada i know about 5 Nigerians who just went there that have divorced or having serious issues. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/horror-nigerian-men-go-rampage-us-kill-wives-divorce-alimony/amp/ 31 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by emmaodet: 7:45am On May 07, 2020 |
ednut1: Bro i understand you clearly and let us look at it this way - If we say the african culture or setting is backward simply because a man has the ability to chase out the woman if she commits then same can be said about the western culture which is the opposite of african culture that it is a backward society that encourages and empower women to chase out men when they commit or Even when they didn't commit. Atleast, you will agree with me that a woman can just pick up a phone and call the police, inform them that the hubby wants to kill her or molesting her and they will kick his ass out. Please tell me, is there any difference between a man that can call his family to kick his wife out in nigeria and a wife that can call the police to kick her hubby out abroad? Am just flipping the scenario, same story but different players. So if you agree nigerian culture is backward because the law is tilted towards men then you need to agree that the western culture is Backward and Archaic for tilting towards women, children and animals before men. We shouldn't let the hate we have for nigeria becloud us. 232 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ednut1(m): 7:49am On May 07, 2020 |
emmaodet:yes both are backward. But over there many have turned to baby mama or singleness. Over here many ladies are still desperate for that same marriage. The matter tire person 11 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by LordKO(m): 7:53am On May 07, 2020 |
pansophist: Thanks. It is my earnest wish for you and your loved ones to stay safe from the coronavirus pandemic, and it's also my earnest wish for the entire world to overcome it soonest. 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by emmaodet: 8:08am On May 07, 2020 |
ednut1: Hahahaha It's well ooo 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 8:14am On May 07, 2020 |
ednut1: The richer spouse is the one who pays alimony. 17 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Dollywood(m): 8:16am On May 07, 2020 |
lefulefu: Hahahahaha, I'm literally laughing my ass out � 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Omar09(m): 9:46am On May 07, 2020 |
emmaodet: Bro it's not about local or exposure, I mean he was wrong using that analogy for the home-based women and abroad women. But the thing is, as a man who is based abroad, marrying a Nigerian who lives or have lived in Nigeria for the most part of her life is very dangerous to the wellbeing of that man. 5 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by pansophist(m): 11:18am On May 07, 2020 |
LordKO: Amen. Thank you for your wishes. And I wish you the same. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by gowonmaharajah(m): 11:25am On May 07, 2020 |
we are here again.
oya,fun wa je ni rush rush.(give it to us back to back).
keep up the good work,Pdudd. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Ent3rpreneur(m): 11:42am On May 07, 2020 |
I'm here, I Don land. I never read all the pages for the other thread, I still dey like page 25.. I go fit finish am today or tomorrow. PDudd, lefulefu, fire on ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by emmaodet: 11:48am On May 07, 2020 |
Omar09: Of course that i agree of and have always been saying that. May God direct our foot paths 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by smadav(m): 12:00pm On May 07, 2020 |
Space booked, oya now pdudd, kee ife na eme nwanne, we the wait oh 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 1:07pm On May 07, 2020 |
emmaodet:no no no u seem not to get what i am saying ![]() ![]() ![]() 27 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by emmaodet: 1:43pm On May 07, 2020 |
lefulefu: Lol. Ok i get you now. I also believe they are getting wiser now not to come home and pick a woman. There was a time people in Lagos too do go back to their villages or hometown to pick women with the excuse that cities girls are bad but now such is no more again 16 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by scopusng(m): 3:38pm On May 07, 2020 |
emmaodet: Don't say such is no more but not too common. 10 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Amazo1: 4:06pm On May 07, 2020 |
emmaodet:a story is told of a man who wanted to marry, I will never marry any of this city girls, they are too wayward he would say.he contacted his mother who quickly found him a bride. Bride price was paid all marriage arrangements concluded. The new bride moved to Lagos to live with her husband. Night came and the husband was expecting to unveil his virgin bride. pre-intimacy started, the husband casually touch his pubic hair, he noticed a large growth,why not think of shaving it one of this days ask the husband. No no no I will not touch it , that's why I am called afro baby by all the village boys 81 Likes 4 Shares |
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