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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by eguarojeona: 4:17pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
He didn't ask for your number yenyenyen.Cant you ask for his number? Nigerian women sha and their localness
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Antibettings: 4:17pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Simple truth is that, if you go into a relationship with him. You will cry later .

He is just a player and your hmmm has been activated ..

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Nobody: 4:17pm On May 07, 2020
Mod please move this thread to kiddies section.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Kingarthur21: 4:23pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
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It will end in tears..

Your dad sent you to school,instead of reading you are doing looking contest with the guy.

I hope we will not hear " I am a single mom looking for love.." in years to come as a result of this.


My dear move on from him and read your books. When a man truly loves you no sooth saying has to say it,he will chase you like your shadow

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Filomena: 4:24pm On May 07, 2020
Mimiey:
Wish you would listen dear....

He may like you but trust me not enough to go into a relationship or get serious with you. Is that what you want as this may never change?

Also, he seems calm, responsible and collected; this, this guy most likely has a girl he is madly in love with. He seems like a deep lover too and is not really into the cheating thing.

If you push further, you will get friend zoned and you may never leave that zone.

Men are hunters, if he wants to love you or even sleep, he will get your number that first day, if not the first day, then the 2nd day but sis u guys met about 3 times or more and he never bothered.

He doesn't want to start anything or raise your hope and u end up getting hurt.

He is saving you, save yourself sis.... Let go

okay thanks.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Geesaintagape: 4:25pm On May 07, 2020
Collect his number simple n spice things up.
My wife collected my number first at cyber café during nysc registration today we are happily married.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by chima4UK(m): 4:25pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...
Lol...end-time prophet of doom....
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by lovingyouhun: 4:27pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.


Leave somebodys Boyfriend alone!!! He told you he saw a friend off who came to cook for him, plz connect the Dot ok...you want him to ask you out by all means. Try and stop thinking about him, he obviously doesn't want you too close you already know. By the time you force your way into his heart he will turn you to shawama leftover. Be wise, keep praying your Mr Right will come besides you need to focus on your books for now hmmmmmm SMH children of these generation
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:28pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
ASK HIM FIR THE # AHGODD!! you too DeyDull lipsrsealed
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by BadBradley: 4:28pm On May 07, 2020
How did this brainless, childish immature rubbish make front page?

Do we have a new sentimental, teenage mod here?

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by LegacyB: 4:41pm On May 07, 2020
Randy91:



You will not Goan read ur bookz...Fuvk don dey hungry u!


It will surely end in bed!
u no well ooo������ even though na u talk true pass.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by ogunladeabiodu(m): 4:42pm On May 07, 2020
kiddkash:

women have the propensity to insinuate rape or sexual assault at any given turn
so I believe he is trying not to be caught in that web because he doesn't really know you

he does like you and he doesn't know how to approach you so as not to be rejected
he feels you are just being nice
I love ur good analysis, she needs to exercise care
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by McCarthy100: 4:56pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...
Lwkmd
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by frisky008(m): 4:57pm On May 07, 2020
Why can't you just ask for his number if you fancy him?
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Kingkamba(m): 4:59pm On May 07, 2020
Why not Bleep him and go. He does not give a hoot about you, so why waste your time with him. It might end up in tears if you submit yourself as a play toy for him. cool cool cool cool cool cool
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Eniwaju: 5:07pm On May 07, 2020
1.. If he keeps starring, that means you are beautiful enough for his type. 2..if he's a one woman type of guy, then he has a serious relationship that's why he's trying to curb himself. He likes you but he seems to be in a relationship. Move on girl, man like man yapa!
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Worksunlimited: 5:09pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.

Better be wise and let that sucker go.

You like him more than he does.. he'll use you to kpa..

Disclaimer - I know the crush, love, konji or mumu in you will not allow you hear word but don't come ere again after this to tell us stories that doesn't concern us after your heart is vanished by the guy
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by larryking540: 5:11pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...

Yeah it will ,,,,,
It's just a pity
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Merrymen1(m): 5:25pm On May 07, 2020
This is least of our problems now, allow us to battle with the COVID-19 pandemic pls.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by janejive(f): 5:25pm On May 07, 2020
emae009:
it'll end in tears...

You wicked sha, u didnt even give her soft landing. As for you OP put ur mind in doing other things. What u feel is puppy love. It goes no where. Pele. Or prob u just need d experience

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Germi9: 5:35pm On May 07, 2020
Dshocker:


Try and get him some hints,like green light
pink light nko
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Onlyonebuhari: 5:39pm On May 07, 2020
Giving a guy a hug means you are cheap. Great things are scare.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Rutherford2019: 5:45pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:


okay
but why does he keep staring?
..

If he loves you he would have told you
He's not staring at you per se, he's sizing you, trying to check the size of your breasts, buttocks and shape and one of those days he will just invite you to his house and Bleep you and after that anytime he sees you he will just look away and start avoiding you and you will start saying "men are wicked, men are Bleep" and from there your emotions and conscience are gone. .
He already has someone who is cooking for him and he didn't hide it from you. ..
My advice : Don't ever go near him,stop the staring and hugging and from there you will take the attention of him
Just wait for the right man
And for your information, he has already told those his friends that you are dying for him and that he will Bleep you one day and the day he sleeps with you he will inform them and they will start chasing you and take their turn and Bleep you and run away and they will tell everyone about your moaning and acts and from there you will become campus dump and pity

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by PrimadonnaO(f): 5:47pm On May 07, 2020
Lol. All these kind of love... cheesy
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Junglegeorge(m): 5:47pm On May 07, 2020
Zabiboy:


OP
Would you die if you ask for his number??
Nigerian girls and their mentality sha...


Your father is a man.
Oya 2 bottles for you.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Oselu28(f): 5:47pm On May 07, 2020
[quote author=emae009 post=88959610]it'll end in tears...[/quote

zero joy..
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Belmaritz: 5:50pm On May 07, 2020
Philomena ma'am, he's just whinin u
* In maraji's voice *
come
Come closer * gestures * " iffa tell u 2 4get abt d guy dat will only make u fall 4 him, d truth is boda has seen d ' I like u ' sign radiating 4rm u.
My advice is either u play baba or u force on him n regret l8r or u just wait it(d feelings 2 fade) out bcus sincerely months 4rm now u'll wonder why u liked him enuf 2 think about him
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by toprealman: 5:57pm On May 07, 2020
Filomena:
There's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us. We have gradually become friends. I find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me, I hide my face. I have also observed that he stares at me a lot too and smiles and then says hey to me.

We had a small talk in school too. I didn't know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read, I saw him, like I couldn't believe it because I thought I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike, till it was called off. So I was really shocked and happy when I saw him. Then he hugged me and I hugged him too and held him tight.

So he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes. He told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him. I felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more. So he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day, I told him and he said okay and told me good night. He didnt even ask for my phone number. I wonder why he didnt.

The other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that. So after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasn't really in the mood for that but I still stared back. He then told me hey and passed. He was with his friend and I greeted him too and passed.

So the last day I saw him, I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled. Lo and behold, I saw him coming towards me with some of his friends. He then hugged me and we had a small chat. I was still hoping that he'd collect my number, still he didnt..

I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not since he's yet to ask for my number..

Please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.

Thanks.
Nne just make your studies your priority. Most likely you are a fresher . This is the best time to build your CGPA.
He is playing a post COVID-19 psychology game on you.....dont ask for details OK.
You don't need to bother yourself that much.....focus on your studies.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by Foodforthought: 6:02pm On May 07, 2020
Semperty:
because it's fun. He probably knows you like him and stare at him so he's enjoying the eye contacts and doesn't want to lose your attention.
I'm a guy and I know what I'm saying trust me
If a dude really has feelings for you he wouldn't want to just lose contact completely with you like that even if it's for a while.. he'd take any slight opportunity to ask for your number or something he could use to reach you.
You are thinking like an extrovert. There are also introverts among males.
Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by MrCuteking(m): 6:04pm On May 07, 2020
Zabiboy:


OP
Would you die if you ask for his number??
Nigerian girls and their mentality sha...


Bros if girl ask for man number, the guy go fvck her die.

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Re: I Can't Stop Thinking About Him by babayaro7: 6:07pm On May 07, 2020
Shimzyy:


Big gbola Na the hungry her
Instead of studying her books she's busy studying the guy and wishing to see him always


grin grin grin

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