MrSensor:
I don't like essays.

DonFebzyBlog:
I have this friend who has a bar and restaurant in Togo. Before he opened the bar he has like a mini supermarket but the supermarket was run dry by the girl he was dating then. The thing is that those French girls take all Nigerians (Igbo like they call all Nigerians) as bag of lajan (money).

After he broke up with the girl, he opened his bar and restaurant and was taking care of it himself as he had no worker yet. Then one day a young girl approached him begging that she really need a job and explained too many stories of what she is passing through as she has no parents. So out of pity this guy accepted her for the job as a sales girl but said he could only pay her 25,000cfa per month. She was excited and accepted the job and even insisted that she was ready to start that very day.

That day she started working at the bar and the next day she worked till late because of much customers. Later that night it rained and because it was late she said she couldn't go home so this guy took her home to eat and pass the night there. Obviously when she got to his house, because he had taken much drink, she seduced him and he fell for it. After sleeping with her, she started telling him her life story and how her parents died. She also told him how she has been suffering to survive and how one of her village person was using her for prostitution and eating the money. She pleaded so much with this guy that she wants to be a changed girl and work to sustain herself. Because they have had sex already she started begging this guy that she doesn't mind being with him knowing that he isn't married and lives in a comfortable house.

This guy saw through her pain and he also needed a woman around him who will take care his home and also his bar. Then he took her in as his girlfriend, went to see her uncles in their village so that everyone knows that he wants to marry her. She told him that since they are now dating and he wants to marry her there was no need for him to be paying her salary again. He accepted and started taking good care of her. Everyone could actually the the cases in her life from when she started working and how she started looking fresher and more beautiful.

But after some months things started getting out of hand. This girl was busy stealing all the money from the bar, cheating on this guy and things became very difficult for this guy. So he decided to find a guy that will manage the bar and he removed the girl from the bar but also took out some money to enrol her in a tailoring school so that she can become a fashion designer and was also planning to buy her a sewing machine that she can use to practice at home. Its like this arrangement didn't go down well with the girl because now she had no means to steal money again. She started creating all sort of problem till one day, he kept money from his rent and when his landlord came to collect the money, he realized the money has been stolen. This girl lies more than the devil and will even swear with her late parents and her life. There was a day she did something wrong and lied confidently about it, swearing and said she will use her blood but after everything she later confessed to it.

To cut the story short, when she stole the rent money, the guy got upset and said he has tried and taken a lot from the girl. He chased her out of the house to either bring the money or not return to the house. Thinking this girl will be sober and apologize even if she has used the money, she did the unthinkable. She ran to police station to get the police paper they call convocation which is an order for you to appear at the police station. When he got to the police station, the lies this girl put on his head was unbelievable. She said they never dated and she was his servant for the 10 months they have been together and he never paid her salary. She even said he use to force her to sleep with her and that her family members are not aware that she was with him.

They have ordered the guy to pay her 250,000cfa for the 10 months which he has agreed to pay and he doesn't want to see her anywhere near his house or bar again. She left since but after a week or so she seem to have realized she can never see such opportunity in her life again and she is begging. I have warned the guy not to even think about accepting her back because I believe she might be planning something bigger that might put this guy in prison for a very long time.

My people, these are some of the things we see outside our country. Many people want to always travel to hustle but they won't understand that the life outside is not always rosy. If your parents are not capable of sponsoring you to go oversea for studies and you say you want to travel out of Nigeria anyhow to go and hustle, please always think twice before you carry your bag and go. There is hardly any help for you except you are very lucky.

MrSensor:
I don't like essays.

Ningen:


“The best way to hide something from Black people is to put it in a book.” — Anonymous.

Ningen:


“The best way to hide something from Black people is to put it in a book.” — Anonymous.

MrSensor:
I have too many things to worry about during this lockdown time such as food and water and how to survive during this trying time. . Not useless essays. Why not shorten it and go straight to the point.

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