pansophist:


Oga, how Dominican chick na, send three for me naw, abeg

pDudd:
First tip: Leave that your native brain in Nigeria.

If you're the kind of man that will sit on the sofa and be watching UEFA champions league and be telling a woman that she should go and cook, serve you, bring you water to drink and wash hand, you are in for a rude shock. Nigerian women in US have opened eye now o. They are not going to serve you like master and servant while your stretch your legs on sofa and be watching football.

If your mother did that for your father, please go and marry your mother so she too can come and be serving you like a king. Nigerian women ain't doing that for you.

Before you leave Nigeria, better learn how to cook, clean house, do laundry, go to buy groceries, take care of kids, and learn humility.

Learning humility is of utmost importance because the day you step your feet into America, you are now second to every woman. The American society favors women over men. They placea lot of value over men. So if you didn't respect women in Nigeria, you may need to reconsider that stance. And if you can't see yourself having a woman above you or respecting women, then better stay in Nigeria.

tiptoe1:
Let me chip In a little. If you successfully get your papers and decide that you want to pick a girl from home, please and please you need to open your eyes and be careful cause it's also as deadly as getting married to an akata.

The western law have made husbands completely infim. You don't expect her to stay the same way and knowing laws in the Western world lets her own the house, the children and majority of the things you have. Many Nigerian wives realize their potentials once they get to tge US. Some of them do worse thing to their husband just to prove a point to their husband that they aren't in Nigeria where husbands has upper hands. So once their eyes tear, they over do it and torment their husbands with it.

abbey621:
Y'all ned to chill out with these scare tactics. I've been married to my wife for 5 years now in this America and she still cooks, serves me food and even water to wash hands. It's all about what you have to offer and how well trained your wife is. Any woman abroad or at home that feels such is beneath them can go to hell, yes in the USA women reign supreme but there are ways to be diplomatic yet be in charge. Give a woman access to bank accounts, let her control the shopping in the household, maintain your sexual prowness and continue to bring in good income and I emphatically tell you as a man you can get away with almost anything. Let her think she's driving the ship, for example, give her acces to your bank accounts and credit cards but keep certain accounts private for rainy days. This is America , most people have 4 or more accounts. Get life insurance and investments list her and the children as beneficiaries, this kind thing will sweet her die. Encourage her, build her up, let her have a career. In short let her win the many numerous little battles while you win the war. As time goes on, you'll realize you've gotten her to do exactly what you wanted without force...This is how real men in America operate....BE PREPARED FOR THE WORSE WHILE HOPING FOR THE BEST, SEE IT AS A BUSINESS ARRANGEMENT, EVERYONE MUST DO HIS OR HER PART!

Coolcalmcollect:

I doubt the op knows what the fork he's talking about, any Nigerian guy that does dat and the Nigerian girl isn't a billionaire dota should be shot on sight.

Skmoda360:

Just leave me and my opinion ooo....ok madam

MOnkeyBabe:
came here to school when I was 14. Hadn't reached the age of maturity by the time I moved. Am I as good as a Citizen? How would my growing up be classified? NiGeRiAn or Yankee?

pansophist:


All those female teachers walking freely after caught sexually violating minors, or the wrist-slap women get when they kill their kids? perhaps, the status of women is really strong in the USA, that a man will never be treated the same way the legal system treats women. And even more surprisingly, the women there believe they are oppressed.

pansophist:


E no end there new, even his future salary, he go de pay money monthly to the mgbeke.

In my nextlife, God make me a woman, abeg

lefulefu:
3 dominican chicks ...only u

humilitypays:
The op is writing jargons!! Complete nonsense!!



He should change the topic to:

My Bad Experience Dating Nigerian Women Living in America!!!


Most Nigerian guys living abroad are their own problem, they are the reason Nigerian ladies show them pepper once they land abroad.


These guys will never tell these ladies the truth of what they do and how much they earn.


They will be saving money for months or years and maybe after some years they gather the cash which is hard currency, change it when they land Nigeria and it becomes huge money in Naira and they start to spend it anyhow forming rich guys when they are just nobody in the US but because of exchange rate difference and good environment they stay to snap pictures and post online to deceive these Naija based ladies, these ladies assume them to be rich guys working with US President lol.


On arriving the US after they use money they don't even have much to entice and lure these ladies into marriage, these ladies discover that these guys are like the downtrodden people, the lowest of lowest in the US and you know women, they feel betrayed and start to harbor anger against these guys that brought them to the US and these guys will never tell people the truth of what happened, they will start telling people that the Nigerian girl they married and brought from Nigeria no longer respect them, how can she respect you when u lied to her from the beginning and used fake life and lies to lure her into marriage

LordShiva97:



The place of a woman is to serve a man?

Either you just time-travelled from the stone age to the 21st century or you have been living with a primitive tribe in a deep rain forest. Either way, you'll soon learn.

pansophist:


Ayam polygamous. Abi polygamy na sin again?

Jim99:


I'm sorry to say this but;

You're a slave man. Wake up

You should be in absolute control not the other way round.

But it's your life anyways. So good luck

humilitypays:
The op is writing jargons!! Complete nonsense!!
He should change the topic to:
My Bad Experience Dating Nigerian Women Living in America!!!
Most Nigerian guys living abroad are their own problem, they are the reason Nigerian ladies show them pepper once they land abroad.
These guys will never tell these ladies the truth of what they do and how much they earn.

humilitypays:

They will be saving money for months or years and maybe after some years they gather the cash which is hard currency, change it when they land Nigeria and it becomes huge money in Naira and they start to spend it anyhow forming rich guys when they are just nobody in the US but because of exchange rate difference and good environment they stay to snap pictures and post online to deceive these Naija based ladies, these ladies assume them to be rich guys working with US President lol.
On arriving the US after they use money they don't even have much to entice and lure these ladies into marriage, these ladies discover that these guys are like the downtrodden people, the lowest of lowest in the US and you know women, they feel betrayed and start to harbor anger against these guys that brought them to the US and these guys will never tell people the truth of what happened, they will start telling people that the Nigerian girl they married and brought from Nigeria no longer respect them, how can she respect you when u lied to her from the beginning and used fake life and lies to lure her into marriage

humilitypays:
Lol, you made me laugh so hard

lefulefu:
u cant handle three oo .these girls here are sumptin else

RamessesIV:
You're Nigerian nah,Nigerian american Or do you feel you're american

pansophist:


All those female teachers walking freely after caught sexually violating minors, or the wrist-slap women get when they kill their kids? perhaps, the status of women is really strong in the USA, that a man will never be treated the same way the legal system treats women. And even more surprisingly, the women there believe they are oppressed.

RamessesIV:
You must be dumb did you even read my comment,bro I understand you are useless anf stupid and can't read properly,liberals gave blacks rights how is that hard to comprehend

flam5:

God bless you my bro! Can you blame them? Its some guys that will be begging them for money because of the exchange rate that caused it. They will do their nonsense big boys for 2 weeks once they arrive Nigeria with their cheap tickets on Ethiopian airline or Turkish airline and quickly fade away once they are out of cash.

humilitypays:
says who If you treat your wife like a slave and subhuman, say it......many women married and living in Nigeria with their husbands are living the best life most ladies married in US and UK wish and dream of.

pansophist:


If Adamu for Jigawa state de handle five wives with his 20k salary peacefully, what about only three with my millions?

Bia, take your time o.

emmaodet:


Are you saying our laws enslave our women? is there any part of the law that enslaves women? why are we quick to demonize our country? is there anything nigerian men are doing that the women dont have access to? Most times we talk, open threads on how to travel to abroad etc, some even do thanksgiving in church for getting a visa and somehow look at others as unfortunate for been in nigeria and i wonder where are we getting this mentality from? who told these guys people in nigeria are suffering while the ones in abroad are the fortunate ones?
And that is how some of my friends will come home and be sneaking/hiding from people as if we way they here dey hungry, even with your coming home i will still flex you and host you so what the fvck?
Like what the op said in his first statement that - ''leave that your native brain'' to HELL with him if he thinks he is better off than some here because he thinks like a native fowl too. Leave your yeye bride and bigboyism too etc
I dont know his family or background but i believe he his part of the people who scream ''moti bo - Am free'' when he got his visa at walter carrington in VI

Skmoda360:
Japa things.....I no fit dey yankee make I leave whitey dey follow naija women make dem koba my life....


I will work my ass out and date a white girl capiche.

pansophist:


E no end there new, even his future salary, he go de pay money monthly to the mgbeke.

In my nextlife, God make me a woman, abeg

DexterousOne:

Why would any sensible man want to even do this?
.Complications of life

flam5:

God bless you my bro! Can you blame them? Its some guys that will be begging them for money because of the exchange rate that caused it. They will do their nonsense big boys for 2 weeks once they arrive Nigeria with their cheap tickets on Ethiopian airline or Turkish airline and quickly fade away once they are out of cash.

OloriOfMontreal:


Your signature says "Choose your next words carefully" but here's the irony. Why call people names just to prove a point? Not good. Not good.

ednut1:
in Nigeria a man together with his family can chase out his wife without any consequences, courts are a waste of time as it is 5k to 10m a month they would award the women. Incase the man dies the family can chase the wife ( tho getting rare). Women over here endure so many craps. But abroad if a man cheats, beats or do any crap. She can. Easily divorce him. He will be sent out of his house. Pay alimony and child support. Which has ruined many guys. A case of power has changed hands. In canada i know about 5 Nigerians who just went there that have divorced or having serious issues. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2016/10/horror-nigerian-men-go-rampage-us-kill-wives-divorce-alimony/amp/