Exmay02:


Which other thread Fill me in bro

DexterousOne:
I wont say this thread is rubbish and nonsense

But what I'll say is that I dont agree with this


Dating/Engaging with women (Nigerian/otherwise) is very simple


Be a man
Be considerate
And dont be a jerk

Dasall


All these long story sha

lefulefu:
how sure are u it works? if dat was the case 99 percent of yankee based nigerian men who go to their village to collect wives would have signed prenups with these women

DexterousOne:
I wont say this thread is rubbish and nonsense

But what I'll say is that I dont agree with this


Dating/Engaging with women (Nigerian/otherwise) is very simple


Be a man
Be considerate
And dont be a jerk

Dasall


All these long story sha

Kobojunkie:

Probably because it has not dawned on him that no matter where you keep the woman, and whether you give her a marriage license or not, as long as you do not make yourself available as you ought to and see her as your equal, she is nothing more than a babymama --- in this case a glorified(with marriage and wife title) babymama stuck in Nigeria.

oshaosha2014:
Thank you jare. There are only two opposite ends here. If you want to enjoy your life as a married man, stay put in Nigeria and marry. If you want your wife to wake up one morning, because she’s tired of the marriage, call on the authorities to kick you out of your house, go abroad and marry. The only way you can hold on to your power as a man in the abroad is not the sign the marriage certificate. That’s the only way.

MOnkeyBabe:
I Can't even get mad at him because I always remember how many times we BeG God for meRCy at Mass in iBo. ChineKe GBaGhaRra.
Excuse my funky way typos

RaptorX:
All this one's talking about marrying white women in America to avoid the problems listed here with marrying Nigerian women, you are speaking out of ignorance. Who do you think invented feminism and pushed for women's rights in the US. No matter how bad some claim our women are they are far better to marry than white women that have been conditioned from birth to see herself equal if not even superior to men, easier said than done, you will marry a white woman indeed. Hope you are football or a basketball star or a high flying plastic surgeon not some guy driving uber .or working at walmart.

lefulefu:
haha yes ..the alimony u dey send to her she go dey use am fund her boyfriend ...buying him air jordans,expensive wears and the trips .there many divorced moms in yankee the alimony the husband dey send instead of using it to look after their kids they will be spending everything on their boyfriends

OriOko88:
E be like say op have �een intimidated into posting more updates. His post has gotten more views so he's careful of his words I guess

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
sharrap abeg, you Nigerian men deserve whatever you get.

SIRTee15:


The society should protect the weak and the vulnerable......
The justice system gives voice to victims and the helpless.....
Most domestic violence victims are women, NOT men....no matter how much u try to twist the narrative....

Its hard for single mothers anywhere in the world....Imagine if they are now left without any support.....
African patriarchal culture is evil and retrogressive....it should be challenged.....

emmaodet:


Bro i understand you clearly and let us look at it this way -
If we say the african culture or setting is backward simply because a man has the ability to chase out the woman if she commits then same can be said about the western culture which is the opposite of african culture that it is a backward society that encourages and empower women to chase out men when they commit or Even when they didn't commit.
Atleast, you will agree with me that a woman can just pick up a phone and call the police, inform them that the hubby wants to kill her or molesting her and they will kick his ass out.
Please tell me, is there any difference between a man that can call his family to kick his wife out in nigeria and a wife that can call the police to kick her hubby out abroad? Am just flipping the scenario, same story but different players.
So if you agree nigerian culture is backward because the law is tilted towards men then you need to agree that the western culture is Backward and Archaic for tilting towards women, children and animals before men.
We shouldn't let the hate we have for nigeria becloud us.

Sterope:
Do you realise that once upon a time in the Western world, they used to treat women the same if not worse like we are doing?

Our laws and cultures are abckwards because they do not respect and recognise the autonomy of women.

Western laws do not empower women to chase out men. It empowers women against abusive partners. Unfortunately, sometimes it has led to the abuse of the system by women but still, women are still getting murdered. Until the law finds a way of balancing that, we are still stuck. However it is better than our society that relish in mistreating women all because they have got vaginas

Kingarthur21:
Why should a sane guy given the golden opportunity to travel to the states and meet dope babes over there still date this tasteless dimers?

Ryocaj:
It will end in tears.. Naija women dey misbehave for there.. they bank on d useless law that favors women over there..

Fidelismaria:



if

PATRIARCHY is wrong then MATRIARCHY is no better

they are both the same

two sides of a coin

choose your poison and move on

oshaosha2014:
You are stupid for telling a man to go and marry his mother. I see nothing wrong with the way Nigerian men were brought to be the man and be in control of their relationships. Real men don’t do that 50/50 shit. It is better for a man to just be on his own than deal with any useless lady who thinks she can’t serve a man. Your place as a woman is to serve your man.

Nephilim:
All these are stories for the gods! Marry a Caucasian with humility of heart and you will be asking God why you are this lucky!

Ishilove:

This is very amusing, and a tad exaggerated.

dangoteinlaw:
hahahaha u are very very right. No wonder the likes of diddy and mayweather have lots of kids with diff baby Ms but refused to sign that prison paper called marriage cert, now see how rich rhey all ended up. How many of us can be as lucky as jayZ.

pDudd:


Lol. This shit went more viral than I guessed. I am now being more polite and politically correct in order not to offend anyone.

oshaosha2014:
You are stupid for telling a man to go and marry his mother. I see nothing wrong with the way Nigerian men were brought to be the man and be in control of their relationships. Real men don’t do that 50/50 shit. It is better for a man to just be on his own than deal with any useless lady who thinks she can’t serve a man. Your place as a woman is to serve your man.

Bizibi:
especially Diddy,that man made sure he doesn't fall in love and get married.

Zane2point4:

Thats exactly why many of them hates trump,blc he behaves bossy and acts masculine,they instead love someone like obama for obvious reason.

MenGoingThereWay:
I know some guys who married Latinos and they are having a good time they tell me the Latinos have that naija mentality about family the only difference is that they are Latino. Those guys also tell me that Latinos are ride and die chicks..Good times in bad times she dey with you