When some women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality. They become bolder, more rebellious,more religious, more focused, more opinionated, and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.Most especially when she had given birth to three or four children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to question like is sex food?, some of your instructions and even the way you behave. She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind. Even if care is not taking ,you will be doing dry cleaning yourself. At times you will prepare food for yourself to eat because she might take her more time before responding to your request.



There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid a total breakdown of Peace and Harmony is to become fair, objective and reasonable in your approach to issues at home or at work.

Bear in mind that at this age, she also harbours a lot of regrets about the decisions she has made in life so far … you may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a man using very different parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their wives/partners/bosses/subordinates. What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her, and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married.

https://www.akelicious.net/men-prepare-yourself-to-handle-women-when-they-turn-40/

Then her father's house beckons. No time for nonsense.

fulaniHERDSman:
Then her father's house beckons. No time for nonsense.

At that stage? Please!
Moving Olumo rock to Oyo state would be easier.
She owns you at that point.

Mariangeles:


At that stage? Please!
Moving Olumo rock to Oyo state would be easier

Then I leave house for her ... But something must shift. Learnt never to waste 1sec around unhealthy situations.

Nobody owns me ... Not even my children. Make bad behaviour a habit ... then I show you the door.

Why are Nigerian men obsessed with submission?

fulaniHERDSman:

Then I leave house for her ... But something must shift. Learnt never to waste 1sec around unhealthy situations.

Nobody owns me ... Not even my children. Make bad behaviour a habit ... then I show you the door.

It took a long time for me to adopt this approach in a tricky inlaw situation . When I eventually did, I had so much peace of mind. If you want to be stressing my life you either go or I go. Na one life person get.

akelicious:
When some women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality. They become bolder, more rebellious,more religious, more focused, more opinionated, and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.Most especially when she had given birth to three or four children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to question like is sex food?, some of your instructions and even the way you behave. She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind. Even if care is not taking ,you will be doing dry cleaning yourself. At times you will prepare food for yourself to eat because she might take her more time before responding to your request.



There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid a total breakdown of Peace and Harmony is to become fair, objective and reasonable in your approach to issues at home or at work.

Bear in mind that at this age, she also harbours a lot of regrets about the decisions she has made in life so far … you may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a man using very different parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their wives/partners/bosses/subordinates. What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her, and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married.

https://www.akelicious.net/men-prepare-yourself-to-handle-women-when-they-turn-40/

Funny article.

First bold was damn right hilarious!

Second bold answers your article: treat her well pre-fourty.

Mstick:
Why are Nigerian men obsessed with submission?

Because it's their right!

Even the Bible specifically states it in Ephesians 5:22 that wives should submit themselves to their husbands as into the Lord, so, if they're obsessed with submission, it is still within their right.

And you know what, men too have theirs, and it is to love their wives, so, it's also wives' right to be loved by their husbands.

Self-realization is an individual thing, it doesn't abide by the law of duration and it's genderless. Lady A may achieve self-realization at the age of 18, while lady B may achieve her own at 50. Some may not even achieve it until they die, even if they live for 2,000 years on earth.

First of all the "Bible" also said stop committing adultery, love your wife and you people aren't keeping any of this. So don't women also have the right to be loved and respected?!

Oluneutral:




Because it's their right!

Even the Bible specifically states it in Ephesians 5:22 that wives should submit themselves to their husbands as into the Lord, so, if they're obsessed with submission, it is still within their right.

And you know what, men too have theirs, and it is to love their wives, so, it's also wives' right to be loved by their husbands.

LordKO:
Self-realization is an individual thing, it doesn't abide to the law of duration and it's genderless. Lady A may achieve self-realization at the age of 18 while lady B may achieve her own at 50. Some may not even achieve it until they die, even if they live for 2,000 years on earth.

Apparently, for most dudes on this platform, it is a problem to them for a woman come to self-realization.

Mstick:
First of all the "Bible" also said stop committing adultery, love your wife and you people aren't keeping any of this. So don't women also have the right to be loved and respected?!

Didn't you see where it's written in my post that it's the wives'right to be loved?


And you know what? A man who genuinely and truly love his wife will find it difficult to cheat on her.

Oluneutral:



Didn't you see where it's written in my post that it's the wives'right to be loved?


And you know what? A man who genuinely and truly love his wife will find it difficult to cheat on her.

An honourable man would find it difficult to cheat.
For most of you guys,cheating has become a weapon. How cowardly!

LordKO:
Self-realization is an individual thing, it doesn't abide to the law of duration and it's genderless. Lady A may achieve self-realization at the age of 18 while lady B may achieve her own at 50. Some may not even achieve it until they die, even if they live for 2,000 years on earth.

Well the gods of NL has consulted and pegged it to the 40 - 50 range.

bukatyne:


Well the gods of NL has consulted and pegged it to the 40 - 50 range.

LOL. NL god no de try at all.

Mariangeles:


Apparently, for most dudes on this platform, it is a problem to them for a woman come to self-realization.

Na serious allegation be dis, we go summon you for market square to come and prove it.

EVILFOREST:
We know already.
WOMEN change with WEATHER

Oh, we change with weather not age again?

LordKO:


LOL. NL god no de try at all.

Imagine living till 40 years before self-actualization: why wouldn't the husband be part of the mistakes the woman made?

I find this thread amusing.

bukatyne:


Oh, we change with weather not age again?

AGE is too SLOW..
WEATHER Is faster and Unpredictable

fulaniHERDSman:
Then her father's house beckons. No time for nonsense.

You're a Wise Man Sir

When the children from the marriage become young adults the power dynamics of the family begins to shift. If the husband had been authoritarian, the wife would likely openly challenge him with the confidence of having the children behind her unless she is addicted to the husband's narcissism.

Bear in mind that at this age, she also harbours a lot of regrets about the decisions she has made in life so far … you may be one of them

A natural phenomenon. I call it the reckonings. The decade of empty nest syndrome. Counting the cost period. Have seen it happens severally to others. The sudden self and mental realisation that she has been using the kids as cushion to bear the absurdities of the marriage for so long. At this point, most women has gained slight degree of financial freedom and independence and can decide to leave or show "him or them" pepper.
They begin to realise how unfairly they were treated by the family and in-laws in the early days of the marriage, it is just human nature to either ignore or seek revenge.
Most women marries too early to understand what their goal in life really is. That, makes it more scary as some may go extremely left-wing or extremely right-wing in search of those goals.

All these girls sharing pussy upandan will be married women one day, gosh some men are on the waiting list for men to be pitied in future, I go just dey sideline dey look and laugh while I bang young pussies with my money. Fück marraige

Mariangeles:


An honourable man would find it difficult to cheat.
For most of you guys,cheating has become a weapon. How cowardly!

Of course, it is an honourable man that will find it difficult to cheat on his wife. Any man who find it easy to cheat on his wife does not love her and hence doesn't deserve any submission from his wife. Infact, he deserves any evil that comes his way and life.

So, apparently, we're on the same page.

johnkey:
All these girls sharing pussy upandan will be married women one day, gosh some men are on the waiting list for men to be pitied in future, I go just dey sideline dey look and laugh while I bang young pussies with my money. Fück marraige

Your choice!

Just don't blame your village people when challenges relating to old age beckons.

Mariangeles:


At that stage? Please!
Moving Olumo rock to Oyo state would be easier.
She owns you at that point.

akelicious:
When some women turn 40 or 50 years, something major shifts in their personality. They become bolder, more rebellious,more religious, more focused, more opinionated, and more emphatic about what they want.

Don’t be surprised when a previously obedient and submissive woman on turning 40/50 changes completely.Most especially when she had given birth to three or four children.

At this age, she may not go with the flow anymore, she may begin to question like is sex food?, some of your instructions and even the way you behave. She will also become more outspoken and will not be afraid to speak her mind. Even if care is not taking ,you will be doing dry cleaning yourself. At times you will prepare food for yourself to eat because she might take her more time before responding to your request.



There is something definitely special about turning 40/50 for women.
If she has never challenged or questioned your instructions, get ready to be shocked by her boldness and confrontational attitude.

The only way to avoid a total breakdown of Peace and Harmony is to become fair, objective and reasonable in your approach to issues at home or at work.

Bear in mind that at this age, she also harbours a lot of regrets about the decisions she has made in life so far … you may be one of them!

A woman at this age is a better Judge of character and will evaluate a man using very different parameters.

Men must start on time to prepare for this phase in the lives of their wives/partners/bosses/subordinates. What you put in is what you get!

If you have treated her fairly, then you don’t have anything to worry about. She will begin to appreciate you better if for any reason she didn’t do so in the past. On the contrary if you haven’t been nice to her, fasten your seatbelt, the ride is about to get pretty bumpy.

A Woman doesn’t forget those who hurt her, and by her actions and utterances you will know that she is out to show you that she is no longer that little girl you married.

https://www.akelicious.net/men-prepare-yourself-to-handle-women-when-they-turn-40/

Why should I wait till my 40s to demand better treatment? Why not now?

Mstick:
Why are Nigerian men obsessed with submission?

Because The garden of Eden is located close to Nigeria

Mariangeles:


At that stage? Please!
Moving Olumo rock to Oyo state would be easier.
She owns you at that point.

Nah. HE owns her at that point. At 40 a woman is expired goods!

At that age no man, I repeat, no quality man will willingly house a post-wall hag with a terrible attitude - she's as useful as a jug of spoilt milk.