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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Unemadu: 6:23am On May 08, 2020 |
emmaodet: Nigerians are smart and exposed like you rightly said but tradition and culture keeps most marriages in check. Now the west gives women the freedom to do as they like unlike in Nigeria where stigma is attached to a divorcee and single mama. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by larryking540: 6:23am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite: And one thing I have noticed about things we copy from oyibo is that we tend to over do ......... Just watch the moment 9ja govt gives women power ,every day on the news u will hear of how a 9ja woman gun down the husband for cheating |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by larryking540: 6:25am On May 08, 2020 |
Unemadu:Exactly .....na culture still day pin down many 9ja ladies for marriage else ,na more of single parenting go day more |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kobojunkie: 6:25am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:No copying necessary as far as Nigeria is concerned. Nigeria has always had babymamas/Babydaddy situations from even before I was born, right there in your Nigeria. Nigerian men free to abandon their marriages after some years to pursue other interests, leaving their women (glorified babymamas since they have marriage certificates) to raise the kids alone on next to nothing. Don't you think if the men were held more accountable by the law and culture in there Nigerian marriages, the situation would be much better for the millions of Nigerian mothers(many of them married) but forced to raise their children all by themselves? 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 6:28am On May 08, 2020 |
Yea right but on the woman part, not many women were okay with being baby mamas in Nigeria. They saw it as a shame not having like a husband but now most women no longer care here in Nigeria. The number of women ready and willing to just be baby mamas has increased unlike years ago where that marriage was do or die for women. Kobojunkie: |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kobojunkie: 6:35am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:Obviously many of our women still want children, but they don't want to be burdened with the issue of a man abandoning them after taking x many years of their best lives. Many of these women have seen their own fathers abandon their mothers. Some have witnessed it happen to their mother's mother. So Why should they be ashamed on taking their destiny into their own hands? Is it their fault that the men do this to them? Since most of them still want children anyways, why can't they then get the children and refuse the man before he refuses them ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 6:36am On May 08, 2020 |
Yea if the laws were better in Nigeria, most men would be more responsible. Its sad that in Africa, an irresponsible man can still get to take away all the children even after years of the woman caring for them alone. The African culture and laws don’t favor women at all. Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 6:39am On May 08, 2020 |
No one should ever be ashamed of putting their happiness first. Women in Africa sacrifice their life goals and dreams every time in the name of marriage and child bearing and sometimes the marriage leaves them in hot tears. So African women nowadays don’t want that and are changing to being okay with baby mama and solo living. Kobojunkie: 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kobojunkie: 6:41am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:Better laws don't make better people. What the law can do is provide protection for those who are vulnerable. Yes, Nigerian culture does not in anyway consider women to be equal members of society, let alone equal partners in their marriages and that ought to end, hopefully in this generation. There will always be men who abandon their marriages, no matter where you go, but with a cultural revolution and better laws in place ,at least their will be consequences that deter men from even entering marriages/relationships they are not ready for to begin with. That is what is available out in the west and I don't see how any sane individual who has respect for his fellow human would not want the same in place in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Ladiesdoctor(m): 6:43am On May 08, 2020 |
Answer this kwaishon first. What is special in dating a Nigerian girl that lives in America. They stinks |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 6:44am On May 08, 2020 |
The law protecting the vulnerable is better law and it will ensure consequences for those who break it like in the west. Many people won’t want the ways of the west to be practiced in Africa because of selfish interests and also some people will abuse it just like everywhere in the world. Overall marriage can be a happy place. Meeting the right person is bliss. Kobojunkie: 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kingarthur21: 6:48am On May 08, 2020 |
Sterope:oh please stop using the you-have-mothers-and-sisters card for me. I can't marry someone like my sister,the honest truth. Just like how you ladies want to marry as woke women who is equal to men but you want your sons to marry traditional women. I will love someone else to marry my sister but not myself(if I were not her brother) 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by enemyofprogress: 6:51am On May 08, 2020 |
Unemadu:the main reason why a lot of people are dying in silence all in the name of marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Roon9(m): 6:52am On May 08, 2020 |
AfroKnight: Jeez!!! This is disturbing |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kobojunkie: 6:52am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:I still don't know what you mean when you state that "some people will abuse it", since we all have differing tolerance limits for all things. What one person can accept is not what another will be willing to allow, so we should stay clear of trying to pretend all men/women are somehow able to tolerate similar things. It is not the case. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by greenskittles: 6:55am On May 08, 2020 |
LordKO:I am very very happy you wrote this. It's wonderful. I'll probably refer to it whenever I feel hopeless on issues like marriage and the likes. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Fucsheetup(f): 7:00am On May 08, 2020 |
Ejusni:Yes. Black were subhumans and now they are humans. He never called anyone ‘subhuman’. You are the one throwing the word about like a crazy person. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 7:01am On May 08, 2020 |
Oh What I actually mean by abuse is in the case where the woman just wants to use the system to destroy the man who in this case has done NOTHING wrong. It happens. But of course using the system accordingly is okay when you can no longer tolerate the BS. Kobojunkie: 4 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by lenghtinny(m): 7:03am On May 08, 2020 |
Ejusni:You need to calm the Fvck down... You need to being overly emotional ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by wany(f): 7:05am On May 08, 2020 |
[quote author=RamessesIV post=89306416]Yeah that's one thing I love Latin women,they are family oriented more than African American and they take good care of themselves[/quotes How many Latinos have you seen in 9ja,in case you decide to come back home,corona virus is an eye opener.guys just woke on your person and you be alright.leave the African man mentality behind. ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by dyoungkarlmarx(m): 7:06am On May 08, 2020 |
Tajbol4splend:Exactly bro. Na now you know say almost every Nigerian girl na fake? |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Daboomb: 7:09am On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd: I dont want to quote all you wrote, even when what l want to point out can be found in almost every two lines of text you wrote! I am appalled at how guys like you MAKE EXCUSES for what a woman does wrong, in a deft manner at justifying it and absolving her of responsibility! Probably you crave the approval/acceptance of women who will read your post...probably. It is either the man want to control her, the man wants to control her money, she is snapping because of children pressure, or because of her family in Nigeria or because she is doing double job or Nursing job or because the husband has 'African mentality' of because the husband cant cook or wash her panties and all manner of nauseating EXCUSES. The irony is that you wussy men dont make the same EXCUSES for the Man! If you must make excuses for bad and intollerable behaviour, please make it for both spouses, at least be fair to both of them. This sort 'partiality' that permits and excuses crazy behaviour in marriage, is perhaps the biggest reason why marriages are breaking up at an alarming rate and the next generation dont think marriage is important, especially now that a gay guy like Anderson Cooper of CNN is showing the world (using CNN platform), that you dont need a wife to be a father and have Children! ![]() I tell you, we are very close to the time when the two things that INFORM and SUSTAIN most marriages (SEX and CHILDREN), with be unnecessary to come from a woman and l hope women are ready to live by the rules, when that happens. ![]() ![]() No beat me, No beat me, na somewhere e dey end o. ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by greenskittles: 7:10am On May 08, 2020 |
pansophist:Interesting! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Slimranky(m): 7:15am On May 08, 2020 |
I need tips to date an original American woman In her 40s, I'm currently talking to one with my real face. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kazeemakeem(m): 7:17am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite: Hook me with a friend for marriage,i stay in nigeria |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nephilim: 7:17am On May 08, 2020 |
Sterope:you right! Caucasian all the way ![]() ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ogene70: 7:24am On May 08, 2020 |
You are well informed, I have seen this myself, the guy even brought the white lady to naija, kept her in the hotel and was going to see his naija wife at his family home ...but I kept wondering what happened to the guys conscience. lefulefu: 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by toprealman: 7:24am On May 08, 2020 |
ednut1:The insult is not necessary at all if you took time to understand his point. He is referring to Naija girls that turn to wild beast when they are picked and brought to Yankee by a Nigerian brother. Let's not be quick to throw punches on certain issues...... 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by wany(f): 7:25am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:Loud it. ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by lenghtinny(m): 7:27am On May 08, 2020 |
SIRTee15:You must be living in a cave if you still think women belong to the weak and vulnerable in 2020..... Only Children fits into that category.... Women these days are fiery and scary like a lioness. The ones that appear weak and helpless just don’t have the opportunity to show themselves yet ( which is what the topic is about). If African patriarchal culture is evil, then western matriarchal culture isn’t any better because both doesn’t preach equality. It just depends on which side of the coin one finds him or herself. 4 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Havemercylord: 7:31am On May 08, 2020 |
Most peaceful thing is to remain single...adopt or have a stray girl who doesn't need a baby give birth for you. It's as simple as that. To me if one is not favored to have a good wife or good husband, stay single and be happy. If you feel Hot, you know what to do. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 7:32am On May 08, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: You have said it all |
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