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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 7:35am On May 08, 2020 |
Daboomb: Gotta love Nairaland. ![]() ![]() Thanks for reading ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 7:38am On May 08, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: Not ironclad but to a large extent still serve as a deterrent from any of the parties from nursing funny idea's that are motivated by greed and malice. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by wany(f): 7:42am On May 08, 2020 |
jaxxy:That is called social class, let men stop marrying down. But marry ladies in their social class and threads like this on nairaland will seize to exist.I can't just get it when enlighten,expose,educated working class brothers end up with broke ladies all in the name of am are hero,so that she can see you as a demi god,it always end in tears.go for your social class. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by golddust6000(m): 7:46am On May 08, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe:it makes you monkey baby 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by hustla(m): 7:48am On May 08, 2020 |
Jim99: He clearly mentioned other accounts that he has ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Glaxxs: 7:50am On May 08, 2020 |
wiseone28:Stupid laws because they favor the women? |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by wiseone28: 7:53am On May 08, 2020 |
Glaxxs:Depends on how you see it |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by InvertedHammer: 7:54am On May 08, 2020 |
/ Be informed that the power women exert in US is a farce. It depends on the man as well. Sue me and I will wear you down with cele prayers, Enugu-Ezike jazz, orisirisi, appeal, ofo na ogu, just to mention a few. But then, prevention is better than cure. Before marrying anyone to bring to US, ensure that your exit strategy is airtight. Know exactly when to pull a stop loss. As inter alia stated, prevention remains the best strategy. When she says "I love you", have fun with her and pay her off. Get your emotions in check. Your Nigerian uncles and aunts pushing you to tie the knot do not understand the risk involved. It is your life. Live it. If you have a lady in Nigeria on a monthly stipend of N200k, you will be better off. But the question is: Why?! Last time I checked Vaseline doesn't cost that much. \ 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by golddust6000(m): 7:54am On May 08, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe:you will be classified as Nigerian because, you can still have that Nigerian mentality, language etc. I came to Germany when I was 18, now I am 34. I still have everything about Nigeria in me. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by lenghtinny(m): 7:55am On May 08, 2020 |
Skmoda360:That dude is right..... Most of the time, Nigerian guys marry these foreigners with ulterior motives or for some street credibility but las las loophole still Dey show. Well Nigerian guys tends to drop the usual naija “ man before woman” mentality due to inferiority complex as they are at a big disadvantage. Guys like you are always on their best behavior when dating foreigner but you rarely show naija women such behaviors yet una go dey vex when they change am for you.... 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Bizibi(m): 7:56am On May 08, 2020 |
dangoteinlaw:Jeff benzos Case was cheating..... |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ednut1(m): 7:57am On May 08, 2020 |
toprealman:same thing i'm talking about. Why wont they turn to wikd beast. He came home to pick them thinking they will not be exposed. Plain stupidity |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by One4me: 8:00am On May 08, 2020 |
Everyone should be happy with the way Technology is helping shape human relations. Women like you want to "subdue" men by all means necessary, hiding under the pretext of "equality and protection", when in actaul fact, what you are aspiring for is "subjugation and oppression" of the men folk! The trend has been on the rise for sometime now, especially in the West. And a lot of people wonder: Why do men go into this arrangement called MARRIAGE, that seeks to emasculate, subjugate and oppress them? The answer is that most Men are created to want "Love/Sex and Children. Most men see Women as THE ONLY MEANS fo realising those two things. What else does a man want froma woman, apart from those two, think about it for a minute? ![]() Your wife will give you regular sexual satisfaction (as much as you would give her too though they like to pretend that it is just for your own benefit!) and then she will be pregnant with your child and bear children for you, to continue your lineage. That is what majority of Men cheirsh in marriage that keeps them falling into the same trap of marriage, despite the very visible dangers it poses to their health and life. But that is changing radically now and l am loving it McDonalds Men is very desperate situation who lose their mind when they cannot take the female oppression of their wife anymore, resort to violence as a counter-measure but l think and see it as an act of weakness in that losing control of yourself will always be a negative, an act weakness over "self". Now, l am certain that in about five years or ten at the most from today, a man will no longer go into marriage solely because he thinks he cant have SEX or CHILDREN, unless he marries or engages a woman in any manner that requires responsiblity ot a woman. This is the best thing that can happen to women, since the invention of The Pill. A man can have unlimited Sex and have his own Children, .....yes, his own children, without the need for the drama and dangers of women! You dont need a WIFE to have sex children and ensure your family name is carried to the next generation. From surrogate Mothers, to outright in-vitro ferterlisation of a donor egg (which we can soon be buying off Amazon or Ebay, in afew years time ![]() Who needs to bother his head with laws that seek to cage men or give his sweat to an ex-wife or make him pay Child support to fund the wayward lifestyle of a bitch? I watched Andersen Cooper on CNN the way he held his baby and there was not single mention of "his Mother"....... and that blew my mind! Women will just have to live in their own lane (Yes, have their own Children and sex, without Men) and Men to will live in their own lane. No more taking advanatge of any law to "protect women" or give them a leg-up. And l also forsee one thing: Very soon, just like the clash of the planet of Apes, we are going to have an open, physical, bloody war between men and Women, and at the end of that war, one gender will be conquered and out in their place. It could be the male or it could be the female gender! ![]() ![]() 12 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by born2begreat(m): 8:08am On May 08, 2020 |
Nice write up brother... I have read lots and even know someone in neighbourhood who experienced this too. All you have mentioned are nothing but truth though only few men has met angels in human form when it comes to women compare to the number of men who ended up with devil women. These things happens here in Nigeria too i just pray single guy like us who are yet to married prays to God to provide a better woman for us either here in Nigeria or abroad. The fear of marriage linger in my heart not because of anything but the fear of ending up with bad woman. Already late to marry i still don`t want to marry and marrying wrong woman and leaving me regret and leave the hole in my heart for the rest of my life. Marriage is risk and no matter how bad or good it is, i will marry and i`m very optimistic that i will end up marrying a GOOD and well deserved woman. Thank you for this write up brother... 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by lenghtinny(m): 8:11am On May 08, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:That sh*t irks me a lot... I’ve seen a couple of guys end up with white women they won’t even look at twice if she was black...... They worship the ground these white girls walk on and then want black girls to lick the sole of their feet in return. Look at them bashing black girls abroad forgetting that it’s the white girls culture that gave women such rights. 5 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by pocohantas(f): 8:12am On May 08, 2020 |
Alfa males done use tears full this thread. Sorry, you guys can’t change nothing. ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 8:14am On May 08, 2020 |
lenghtinny: Yeah well, other races will never stop undermining & looking down on us because we don't even appreciate or celebrate our own. It's disheartening. 6 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kennedyiheme02: 8:18am On May 08, 2020 |
I wonder how peoole hustle and leave nigeria only to gi there and start looking for naija women to marry... god forbid.. the one wey i do for naija never do... so i go leave latina, whity con go dey find naija woman... any man that does that has some psychological problem for real 6 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Teespice(f): 8:22am On May 08, 2020 |
op, is your observation based on hearsay which you heard over the years or have you actually dated a Nigerian lady in America to come to this conclusion? |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Felicity0001: 8:24am On May 08, 2020 |
emmaodet:Its not the travel, educational, industrial or life exposure he's talking about bro. He's talking about the right women have in marriage and in the society as a whole which our women here don't have back here at home. The truth be told women has more right especially when they are married than the men in the home but over here in Nigeria the men and his family has the greater right than the wife of the house. You've travelled out of the shores of this country for trainings, work or tourism doesnt mean you have a better understanding than someone who has spent over 20years and married like 2 to 3times. So understand that fact. In my own honest opinion, if you must have a wife overseas] in what so ever country you deem it fit don't get married to her instead you guys should rather be on a cohibating relationship. The reason our women misbehave when they get over there is because we lack good upbringing, we lack respect for our tradition and lack good morals. And also because they know the moment a man who is doing well over there marries them and the woman has a child for him she automatically owns virtually everything the man has worked for and since our women don't have the aforementioned qualities stated above and they believe women have been under slavery for years back in Africa and now they've a society that support the female gender then they file for divorce for any slight misunderstanding btw them and the man all because of what they stand to gain. And in the end they stand to gain everything even in old age. So we men should wise up and stop this court marriages, let them be baby mamas. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Abdulquadrimuha(m): 8:26am On May 08, 2020 |
Ent3rpreneur: Bros, abeg send me the link to the other thread. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:26am On May 08, 2020 |
This is one reason I'm not freaked with travelling to USA or any part of the West, neither will I ever marry an American based or someone that shares the mentality. Useless and worthless matriarchal society! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ugolinze123(m): 8:28am On May 08, 2020 |
abbey621:Bros why waste your energy explaining to a kid who doesn't know anything about life. you get time ooh ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by jaxxy(m): 8:33am On May 08, 2020 |
wany: I disagree. There can be people not in ur social class who are amazing people. There can also be people in ur social class who can be terrible humanbeings. Marrying ur social class only spares ur the financial burden mosttimes and frees u of any disappointments in wrong judgements in that regard bt there are other issues that can come up. It's quite possible to pick a wrong person from ur own social class trust me. Marrying a good and the right person irrespective of class is always the best. Also when investing in sm1 that's a love intrest there are dos and dont's I feel must be observed so u don't make a wreck of it. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by heniford2: 8:34am On May 08, 2020 |
hmm am scared of marriage talk more of this thanks op for bring this topic up i have learned alot na baby mama sure pass 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by lenghtinny(m): 8:36am On May 08, 2020 |
abbey621:This is the origin of the problem.... It’s evil to hold on to a fellow human’s freedom. They come to naija to marry the so called naive village girl not because they are looking for a wife. They are looking for a robot without a mind of their own they can tame, control and turn into a money making machine if possible. They will often bring a naive village girl to America to work as a nurse while they suddenly become leeches. Then they want to control the money she makes simply because they bore the expenses that brought her to God’s own country which isn’t much different from the modus operandi those Italian based madams use for naive edo girls (no apologies) Most of the blame lies at the man’s doorstep. Why not develop yourself instead of looking someone you will treat like a lab rat ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by OlawaleBammie: 8:39am On May 08, 2020 |
wiseone28: Any guy wey u see dey sing lov songs all the tym na simp, mumu, imbecil.e, Ode 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:40am On May 08, 2020 |
pDudd:Who told you the emboldened is slave-master relationship? You prefer a man serving the woman instead while the law gives her his legitimate earnings and assets? You are simply sounding like a victim of neocolonialism. Rubbish [s]If your mother did that for your father, please go and marry your mother so she too can come and be serving you like a king. Nigerian women ain't doing that for you.[/s] 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Ayomidexj8(f): 8:41am On May 08, 2020 |
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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Liposure: 8:41am On May 08, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme02:my brother, its beta 2 marry your sister than marry a stranger 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:44am On May 08, 2020 |
[s] wany:[/s] Arrant nonsense! Every man has prerogative of the girl he wants irrespective of class. I am sure you aren't a man so you can never understood! Stop trying hard! 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by humilitypays(m): 8:55am On May 08, 2020 |
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