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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by machiavelli95: 10:50am On May 08, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Contrary to public perception, Men are the fairer sex by nature. Men are simple and quite direct with thier wants. But women take advantage of that most times. How often do you see a woman do something selflessly for a man (unless the man has recalibrated her brain with good dick!)? And quite frankly women dont have that word "loyalty" in their diction. They rarely reciprocate empathy and altruistic love. It seems the only way to get a woman on your side these days is by manipulation via good dick, psychology or religious constraints. This is also why the bad guys get the girls while the good guy get burnt. This is true for most women. Men are adaptive creatures. So we adapt. The only exceptions are the ones with principle 15 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by josh2297(m): 10:58am On May 08, 2020 |
These talks here in mine opinion does not have a solid legal standing...firat and foremost There are no laws in the USA or in africa(Nigeria) dat sets different standard for men and women anybody can b a victim of any law whether man or woman anywhere let me highlight these few points 1. In d event of a divorce in d USA d spouse who recieves d highest income gets to pay alimony...things tend to get complicated wen children(if still very tender) gets involved then the partner who gets d custody of d children is entitled to a child support which is very fair considering d fact dat a single parent will definitely have to work less hours 2.. Any laws dat are seen to b tilted towards in d USA are in marriage amd unmarried man is free to live his life anyhow he wants and treat women anyhow he wants...u are not being forced to get married to any woman overhere so u can as well get a babymama from diffrent women(dere are free and plenty of sweet punanis here) 3... If u as a man must get married then insist on protecting ur livelihood savings and investment by insisting on aigning a pre-nuptial agreement 4...most of these liberal laws in d states and some other places are just to target the institutuion of marriage and create societal problems...they encourage children to b very stubborn...they tell u dat u dont have to condone anyrin even an agrument in marriage they offer u divorce at ur fingertips and d gullible ones fall into...why not ask y d top people in hierachy most times are always married while those at d lowest cadre of d society are busy divorcing demselves at slight provocation 5....Lastly these shld not b seen as a gender tin...this is clearly agendas...take 4 instance...if u want to b crucified villified and ridiculed as an american(whether man or woman)...then try having a serious legal issue qith a homosexual by dat time u will seriously feel dat u are really a second class citizen.... Real Women in sports today are complaining dat transgender females are beating dem to their games which is unfair they are been told by this same law to go to hell....or d issue of Joe biden which is still an ongoing one....d law, liberals,even so called rights group will work very hard to silence dat lady...so d liberals laws here a actually pointing to sometin that is not very clear yet...but d fact is very soon hetrosexual male and female will b victims of their own circumstance.....I dont blive people change,i blive they get to show their real charcacters wen they get d opportunity 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Bizibi(m): 11:11am On May 08, 2020 |
pocohantas:hmmmm |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Levelzguy(m): 11:31am On May 08, 2020 |
pansophist:kids are the most important in most marriages..They come first |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 11:32am On May 08, 2020 |
Zoie: Yeah, with them it's always about sex & they're very vulgar about it, which I find offputting. Lol, he didn't even have the decency to offer to pay for your travel arrangements if you're going to be his sex slave? ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 11:38am On May 08, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: Asian women love white men though lol. It's like they feel like they've made it in life when they date or marry one. I really don't have a problem with interracial dating, it only disgusts me when people act like it's an achievement marrying someone of a different race. 9 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Lleigh(f): 11:43am On May 08, 2020 |
The problem is in generalisation. Most African men abroad who marry white people treat their wives differently. It's known it's seen. This same man would treat a black wife differently. Why give one reverence and the other a take it or leave it attitude. We all need to do better and communicate. If your wife has gone to do a twelve hour shift and you have been home, is it fair to expect her to come home and start another shift with you claiming rights. The issue in marriages these days seem to be more along the pressures of living. Talk properly and you will find peace at home is not an illusion. We are no longer living in a world where it's only the man bringing food to the table. It's both and it will be hard for anyone doing the same job as their husband to come back home and start while he sits and does nothing. Its been mentioned why other races like Chinese and Indian don't divorce. It's because of family dishonour, a lot of the women in those races are mentally depressed and trapped. They are not happy and the make sure their son's spouse goes through what they went through. Don't let the outside deceive you, they are hiding a lot of suffering women and domestic violence is rife. Let's all just learn to talk more and communicate effectively. Ladies if you are dating a man and he expects you to do everything it will not change when you are working and children come along. We are all afraid of being seen as vulnerable for the person we love. Both parties if you really love each other you will help each other. Stay safe 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Jaqenhghar: 11:44am On May 08, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Hahaha. Iknow right. That reminds me. I was having lunch and 2 of my colleagues, white girls were there gisting. I think they were talking relationships. Then I overheard one tell the other something like. "You know black men cant resist white women...". Out of the corner of my eye I saw the other nudge her and gestured her to keep it down. I did the poker face thing but deep inside I was really angry. But then whose fault is it really we act like coons around them. 4 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ArchAngelos999: 11:46am On May 08, 2020 |
tiptoe1: if I marry for naija court con carry my wife go Yankee you mean say na their laws my marriage go dey under? 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ugolinze123(m): 11:52am On May 08, 2020 |
Eniolakiite:sense will not kee you...the only sensible and reasonable point mad in this thread so far. God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Eniolakiite(f): 11:54am On May 08, 2020 |
Are there no more women to marry in Nigeria ?? Kazeemakeem: |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by afroxyz: 11:55am On May 08, 2020 |
emmaodet: And yet he can't even save $2k monthly and has to work overtime to meet up ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 11:56am On May 08, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Do you mind the guy? Lol. He was looking for black skinned Africana to fvck. But God pass am. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by heniford2: 11:59am On May 08, 2020 |
eduwizard:google it � |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Parisian: 11:59am On May 08, 2020 |
You're right RamessesIV: |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by afroxyz: 12:11pm On May 08, 2020 |
Kobojunkie: Culture that produced Queen Amina, Queen Idia, the women who rioted in 1929 while the men were looking on, Funke Ransome-Kuti (Fela's mom),. Grace alele Williams, Ezekwesili who ran for president. Mr man, if the women in your family did not stand up to be counted, don't blame culture , blame them for having entitlement mentality. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kingarthur21: 12:14pm On May 08, 2020 |
lenghtinny:You are not to decide what life should be for me. You know no shit about me. You don't know if I have a career and/or business I focus my energy on. You don't know what I do when I log out,so hush your bouche. f na whitey Dey share puna up and down, she’s liberal but if na naija or black babe, she’s loose ( you people love to call it ashawo).point out where I have called a girl ashawo on this forum before or called naija girls ashawo before. Else,shut your gob you have no prove for this so kindly shut up 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 12:16pm On May 08, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: Even their men have that kind of a superiority complex & don't take it too well when you don't eagerly throw your panties at them. I also understand why they feel that way though, some people feel honoured when a white person takes interest in them, like they're not another human being full of flaws like everybody else. There's this friend of mine (she's black married to an Indian)...her husband's friend (another Indian) is married to a white lady. So this one time I met this white lady for the 1st time at my friend's place. They had just arrived from india & she was telling us about how "nice" (aka ass kissing) the people over there were to her on that trip. They showered her with gifts & even took photos with her because she's white. I'm talking random villagers who came over to her mother in law's house just to see her, also bearing gifts. She says she felt like a celebrity. LOL! Anyway, the same lady couldn't even make a decent meal & her husband was always complaining about it to friends, but I guess he's only tolerating it because she's a status symbol to him in the eyes of his countrymen. She was also very untidy. My friend says during the week they spent at her house, one evening my friend went to use the bathroom & when she flushed the toilet, the water came out red. She said she wondered why the water was like that & decided to open the water tank thingy, inside she found the lady's bloodied underwear. When she asked her why her underwear was in there, she told her that she was on her period & the sight of blood makes her queasy, so to avoid the mess, she simply stuffs her soiled undies in there...to wash themselves, basically. She even said Kashief (her husband) has no problem with it. It's amazing the kind of things people overlook & tolerate when white people are involved ![]() 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Kingarthur21: 12:19pm On May 08, 2020 |
Sterope:where did the issue of doormat or disrespect come from in our conversation? Its obvious you don't know what a traditional wife is. Men have moved mountains and sacrificed their lives for traditional women. If you can't differentiate between doornar and not a traditional wife then I can't proceed with this conversation. You ladies give masculinity a bad name always,you always omit chivalry from masculinity and define it in terms of oppressing women 8 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ArchAngelos999: 12:22pm On May 08, 2020 |
Dollywood:you are not literally doing that, trust me. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 12:27pm On May 08, 2020 |
Zoie: Would you ever settle for one though? I don't know why I don't find them attractive. Maybe if I didn't have to kiss one I could give it a try. There's just something about the inside of their mouth I find repulsive, every single one ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by MenGoingThereWay: 12:36pm On May 08, 2020 |
MOnkeyBabe:So will you say my friends are right about Latinos |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nobody: 12:39pm On May 08, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Lol. What happened to his mouth? I don't think I'm as attracted to white guys as I am to dark skinned black guys. Though there's some element of attraction, I prefer dark guys. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by ugolinze123(m): 12:45pm On May 08, 2020 |
eduwizard:Akata na african American women also known as AA... 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by RamessesIV(m): 12:51pm On May 08, 2020 |
You can't compare Africans with Indians,indians have an organized culture that cuts across belief,practice and morals and is very old,African is not even an identity just a tag for "black people" in africa,we didn't develop cultures with identities like the rest of the world aside maybe ethiopians and somalians,and also an average nigerian shares a lot with Europeans,from religion to language we have been already ve influenced by western culture before migration hence why we can blend in,if not for our color countries like south africa,angola would be called western countries. Eniolakiite: |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by mablie(m): 12:55pm On May 08, 2020 |
One4me: |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by XhosaNostra(f): 12:56pm On May 08, 2020 |
Zoie: They always seem to have a sticky looking mouth, IDK lol. I do like their sarcastic humour though, minus the tawdry bits. I get you ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Zannix(m): 12:58pm On May 08, 2020 |
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Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Parisian: 1:03pm On May 08, 2020 |
Typical of yall to blame women for your woes, when in actual fact most of the men are not victims. They think because they brought her they can change women like wrapper, keep late nights, boss her around, beat her etc forgetting that they're not in Nigeria where women are beneath them. Lmao. emmaodet: 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by Nephilim: 1:03pm On May 08, 2020 |
Sterope:hahaha..You're right! Sarcasm has no place in me, I only made you wallow in yours ![]() |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by shekauvsbuhari: 1:03pm On May 08, 2020 |
Amazo1:Comot here. Na lie you dey talk. |
Re: Tips For Dating A Nigerian Woman In America by veykey: 1:13pm On May 08, 2020 |
Kingarthur21:I laugh in Spanish. You think so? Please do well to tell us the outcome later. |
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